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Reita Wheeler Obituary

Reita G. Wheeler

Colrain, MA - Reita G. (Sell) Wheeler, 77, of East Colrain Rd., passed away on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 at Baystate Franklin Medical Center in Greenfield.

Reita was born in Westfield, MA on November 25, 1946 the daughter of Gustave and Ruth (Sarty) Sell. She graduated from Pioneer Valley Regional High School in Northfield.

Reita was a talented musician and in her younger years, she played both the piano and organ for a local band. She would travel with the band as they played throughout the Pioneer Valley at various venues.

At home on the farm she raised Morgan horses and showed them at fairs and shows in New England and beyond for over 30 years. She had a special connection with one of her favorites whose name was "Red". She spent countless hours in the barn training, brushing and feeding Red and all the others over the years.

Away from the farm Reita enjoyed gardening, going to the beach, and boating on lakes in the area with her children and husband "Spike".

Reita's loving family includes her son Ken Payne of Bradenton, FL, her daughter Charleen Payne of Colrain, her grandson Jaden, her sister Judy Flynn of Greenfield, nieces, nephews and friends. An avid animal lover, she also leaves her beloved dog Gatsby.

Reita was predeceased by her husband Clarence "Spike" Wheeler.

Services will be private for the family.

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Published by The Recorder on Apr. 26, 2024.

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Charleen Payne

February 19, 2025

Mom, I miss you so much. It´s hard to move forward without you. I have no one to call anymore. I would call you randomly and you would listen. You were the constant in my life I lost. I´m heartbroken

Charleen Payne

December 18, 2024

Mom, Christmas won´t be the same without you. I know it was your favorite time of year. I hope you like the flowers I got for you and put next to you along with your Christmas and the one Ken sent you last year. I miss you every day Mom. I´m lost without you. Please continue to look over me and the boys. I feel your presence sometimes and it gives me comfort. Always loved forever missed

Ken payne

April 27, 2024

Mom. You were such a special mother. I love you so much. Life without you will not be the same. I will think about you every day like I always have. Good bye mom. Your son.

Terri Cairns

April 27, 2024

Sorry for your loss to your family. I will miss her coming to see me for her hair.may she fly high with her husband spike.she is your guardian angel now charlyne

Bette Drish

April 26, 2024

Thinking of you with love and sympathy. Aunt Bette

Myssie

April 26, 2024

May Reita and Spike be dancing in the clouds! they were both special people and I enjoyed taking care of them when I did. Peace be with her family

Charleen Payne

April 25, 2024

Mom...I hope I did ok with this. My life will Never be the same without you. I am truly heartbroken. I love you, your daughter

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