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Shane McCarthy Obituary
Greenfield, MA - Shane Michael McCarthy, 21, passed away on November 30th 2023 due to complications from Bacterial Meningitis in Boston, Massachusetts.
Shane was born in Greenfield, Massachusetts on June 27th 2002 the son of Michael McCarthy and Angela (Shaw) McCarthy.
Shane attended Greenfield Public school from kindergarten through 6th grade. He then went to The Eaglebrook School in Deerfield graduating in 2018 and Deerfield Academy graduating in 2021. At the time of his death he was in his junior year as a business management major at Northeastern University in Boston, MA.
Besides his parents Shane is survived by his brother Colin whom he shared a special bond with that is impossible to put into words. He leaves his paternal grandmother Lena McCarthy and maternal grandfather Benjamin Shaw. Aunts and Uncles Cindy and Jim Isles, Jon Shaw (Kristen Cameron), Jeff Shaw (Brenda Lyon), Glenn McCarthy and Georgian Falzon, Julie McCarthy and Lori Caples. He leaves his cousins Chelsea Deputy (Jay), Zoe McCarthy and Kyle Nartowicz (Stephanie). Shane also leaves behind his special buddy second cousin Liam Deputy. He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather James McCarthy and maternal grandmother Martha- Jane Shaw.
Shane loved to play ultimate frisbee or simply throw the disc in his backyard or on the beaches of the cape. He enjoyed playing squash and pick up games of basketball with his cape friends. Shane was an expert skier and shared many trips with his father and had a couple amazing trips to Steamboat with friends that were highlights in his short life.
Shane loved to travel and was able to visit California, Texas, the Bahamas, South Korea and China.
We like to say that Shane was part land and part sea. Growing up he loved spending time with his grandfather and his uncles learning to garden, attend to farm animals, assist with yardwork or visit his uncle on construction sites. His first trip to Cape Cod was when he was only a couple months old and spent time there every summer of his life. The last five summers he spent living in Mashpee with his grandmother and working at the Popponesset Inn and New Seabury Country Club. The Cape is a special place for his family and he made many great memories and friends during his time there.
Shane was an amazing young man with a bright future who was taken from us way too soon.
Calling hours will be held Wednesday December 6th from 4-7pm at Kidder Funeral Home in Northfield.
Funeral service will be Thursday December 7th at 11am at The United Church of Bernardston followed by burial at Center Cemetery.
The family will be establishing "A Brother's Bond" scholarship fund in Shane's memory that will also honor his love for his brother Colin.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shane McCarthy
shelby Smith
December 1, 2024
As we hung up our Christmas decorations we came across a couple of ornaments that Samantha and Shane made together when they were younger. It made us smile and shed a tear as well which I'm sure will happen every year. Thinking of you guys always!! Love, the Smiths.
Zoe McCarthy
March 14, 2024
Mike and Colleen Carroll
December 17, 2023
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. We hope that the love and support of your family and friends will help to carry you through.
Lisa K Kehoe
December 11, 2023
I have a special memory of enjoying a "Home Night" meal lovingly prepared and hosted by Michael and Angela at their home in Greenfield.
Aysen Tanyeri
December 7, 2023
I had the pleasure of having Shane as a student in my class this semester. I am deeply saddened by his loss. He was a promising young man with lots of plans for the future. My thoughts are with the family in these most difficult days. May you find comfort and peace in your memories with Shane.
Natasha & Andy Meyer
December 7, 2023
Julie and family, we did not know Shane personally but feel like we do a bit now from the beautiful pictures, obituary and tributes. Sending you lots of love from San Diego.
Cathy Edwards (Julie San Diego friend)
December 7, 2023
I didn´t have the pleasure of meeting Shane, but I know his Auntie Julie adored him and always looked forward to their summer times together on the Cape. There aren´t enough words to express the sorrow I know you are all feeling. Shane was certainly loved.
Andrew Hennessey
December 7, 2023
Michael and the entire McCarthy family I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. May Shane RIP
Cynthia Marshall
December 7, 2023
I am very sorry for your loss of Shane. May happy memories fill the empty pain in your hearts.
Cindy Marshall
Mary Costa
December 6, 2023
Rest In Paradise Shane
Emily Pajak
December 6, 2023
To the McCarthy family,
Shane and I became friends our senior year at Deerfield, and we went to prom together. He was the sweetest, most genuine person and I am so grateful for the memories we got to share, tossing around frisbees and being in Greek class together. Around campus, Shane was always a kind face to see, and had a great sense of humor that never failed to make me laugh. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Lavin
December 6, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sharon and ExRC team & family
December 6, 2023
Dear Julie and Family,
We are so sorry for your the loss of your nephew Shane. We loved hearing from you about his visits to you in sunny southern California. All of us have you in our thoughts and prayers.
Julie C McCarthy
December 6, 2023
Julie C McCarthy
December 6, 2023
Julie C McCarthy
December 6, 2023
Julie C McCarthy
December 6, 2023
Shane and Auntie Julie in San Diego at a festival and also at Universal Studios.
Kimberly Eddleston
December 6, 2023
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. This is such a tragic lost!
Prof. Eddleston, Entrepreneurship & Innovation Group, D´Amore-McKim School of Business, Northeastern University
Eric and Meera
December 6, 2023
Mike and all the McCarthys, we are so sad in your behalf, and just so very, very sorry. Please know how much you are in our thoughts, as we will always remember those times we had together, Eric and Meera
Zoe McCarthy
December 6, 2023
Christy
December 5, 2023
"I love you, you love me, we´re a happy family...."
I will always remember the excitement when he first saw Barney on stage
Mike, Angie, Colin and the whole McCarthy/Shaw family, you are forever in my heart. You are what family is about and to watch the love and support you have given each other during this most difficult time, has been amazing. I´ve watched the love of this family for 18 years so it was no surprise that you all came together to support each other. He was an amazing kid, who adored his family and he will be missed incredibly, by so many!
Jill and Tim Schaffer
December 5, 2023
Mike and family, our hearts go out to you in this time when there are no words. Hold close to each other and the time you have. So much love from the Schaffers
Grace Dow
December 5, 2023
Angie, Mike, and Colin
I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Shane was a wonderful young man. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of Shane.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Grace Dow
Zoe McCarthy
December 5, 2023
Zoe McCarthy
December 5, 2023
Martha Parker
December 5, 2023
It was with great sadness that I read Shane´s obituary. I know we haven´t spoken for many years but Shane (and Colin, but we´re talking about Shane here!) left a lasting impression on everyone, I mean me. I remember as soon as he could crawl he was "borrowing" toys from my supplies when I was visiting Colin! Angie dutifully returned them the next visit. I remember his robust curiosity and stamina. Don't let the rabid bobcat forget that! I know losing him on this earth will leave a big hole in your family and hearts, especially at this time of year. I will be thinking of you all, as I always do, as this next year passes. Blessings to you all. Martha Parker, the REACH lady.
Tim Swaller
December 5, 2023
Dear Julie,
Sending our deepest sympathies for the loss of your nephew Shane. We hope you can find some peace as your family gathers during this time.
the San Diego Leadership Team
Paula Bell
December 5, 2023
melissa ashlock
December 5, 2023
While I did not know Shane, I do know his super aunt, Julie, whom he visits in Southern California. Shane seemed to shine brightly to all he met but especially his family and friend. You were so lucky to have had him with you even if for a brief time. May he rest in peace and all of those touched by him find some comfort from having known him.
Amy Lewis
December 5, 2023
I was deeply saddened to hear about your son Shayne. Words cannot express the sorrow and sympathy felt for you and Colin and your extended family during this incredibly tough time.
Please accept my deepest condolences. Losing a loved one, especially a child, is an unimaginable pain, and I want you to know that my heart goes out to you. Your grief is shared by many, and we are here to offer any support and comfort you may need.
May the memories of Shayne bring you comfort, and may you find strength in the love and support of those around you. Wishing you peace and healing as you navigate through this challenging period.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Amy Lewis
Louise Carella
December 5, 2023
Dear Mike, Angie and Colin - As I read over the many beautiful condolences that people wrote on behalf of Shane, I can hear from each one of them how much he was loved. He was a special son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend to many. His light will not go out but will shine on in the lives he touched. May our Blessed Lord console you during this very unbelievable difficult time. Love, "Auntie" Louise
Yuan-Hsiu Lien
December 5, 2023
Yuan-Hsiu Lien
December 5, 2023
Yuan-Hsiu Lien
December 5, 2023
Dear Angie, Mike & Colin,
Our family was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. The memories of traveling with Shane brought us immense joy, and I fondly recall the pride we felt when we bid him farewell on his journey to London. Please accept our heartfelt condolences, along with warm hugs and love during this difficult time.
Mark & Lori Ott
December 5, 2023
Mike, Angie and Colin
Words cannot express the deep sorrow our entire family feels at Shane's unexpected passing. He was such a kind, funny, generous young man and we had the pleasure of watching him grow alongside our daughters. Anne, especially, will miss her Ultimate Frisbee team captain and friend. Our deepest condolences and most heartfelt prayers are with your entire family.
Paula Bell
December 5, 2023
Terri Jamieson, RN
December 4, 2023
Angie, Mike & Colin,
Words cannot begin to express how deeply I feel for you during this time of unimaginable and unexpected loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you honor Shane's life. May his love rest eternally in your hearts, and light shine for years to come through the legacy of 'A Brother's Bond' scholarship. Sending you all hugs, and strength.
Terri
Sue Mills
December 4, 2023
Angie, Mike and Colin,
My deepest condolences to all of you. Shane's bright light will shine on through Colin.
Thinking of all of you.
Sue Mills (NEHSA)
Gwyn Aras
December 4, 2023
Angie, Michael and Colin:
I did not know Shane, but he sounds like a remarkable young man. Many loving posts in his honor. I know this sorrow will be like no other, as I too, lost my youngest son this year. The light, Shane , taken from his journey in life to soon. My deepest heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Linda Shedd
December 4, 2023
Angie and family, We can't even begin to fathom your excruciating pain...please know we are thinking of you all and keeping you in our prayers. Our very deepest sympathies. Linda and Dub
Crystal and Pete Nilsson
December 4, 2023
Mike and Angela, our hearts are broken to hear this news. We are sending you both so much love in such a devastating time. Our deepest condolences and gentle hugs.
Crystal and Pete Nilsson
Claudia Lyons and David Dickinson
December 4, 2023
Michael and Angela, We can't begin to fathom your pain...so, we send you prayers for strength.
Thomas Pullen
December 4, 2023
Angie and Michael....my family wants to express our deepest condolences in the terrible time for you and your family, our faithful prayers and wishes are with you and your entire family for this shocking loss....
Darcy Donovan
December 3, 2023
Angie and family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My deepest condolences to you all.
Eileen Gingras
December 3, 2023
There are no words to express the shock. Please know my thoughts are with your family., God bless you all and give you strength in the days ahead.. Shane was such a joy as a preschooler, I always remember his love for animals and 4H.
My deepest sympathies.
sarah winters
December 3, 2023
Shane was someone that I got closer with over the past few years during our summers on Cape Cod. There are no words powerful enough to encapsulate Shane and his beautiful soul. My favorite and most cherished moments with Shane were when all of our friends from work would get together and to have fun and catch up. There was not a single time where seeing him didn't instantly make me smile and brighten my mood. He was the most genuine, kind, funny and easy-going friend anyone could have asked for. He had the most amazing and positive impact on every person he knew. Shane is someone that I will be forever grateful for. He was a blessing to this Earth. I send all of my prayers and love to the McCarthy family. Rest easy Shane, we are forever sending you love.
Susan & David Lewandoski
December 3, 2023
Mike, Angie & Colin ,
We are so devastated for your family. Losing Shane is unfathomable. He was such a nice, kind and bright young man that we have enjoyed seeing on the beach throughout our years here. Our hearts are broken for you. May he rest in the sweetest peace.
Susan & David Lewandoski (Alma Rd)
Barbara Nichols (formerly Zaccheo)
December 3, 2023
There are no words to describe what an unfathomable loss this is. I have many fond soccer, Scout, and DA memories of talented, funny, and handsome Shane. My heart breaks for Mike, Angie, Colin, and their many loved ones.
Shane and Hans Jr
Hans, Sarah, and Hans Jr Brings
December 3, 2023
Shane graced our lives with his infectious laughter and fun loving spirit. Like a second son to our family, he shared countless seasons with us, skiing through winters and summering under the sun. He will forever be missed, but his joyous memories will live on in our hearts forever. We love you Shane ❤
Hans Brings
December 3, 2023
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