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Ronald Tognoli Obituary

Stockton, CA

Aug. 19, 1939 - October 5, 2007

Ronald Tognoli, a native of San Francisco and resident of Stockton for the past 28 years, died at home on Friday, October 5, 2007. The son of Elbi (Babe) and Stella Tognoli, he was born on August 19, 1939. He attended St. Ignatius High School, the University of San Francisco and St. Patrick's College. He received his MA in Public Administration from Golden Gate University in 1973. While in San Francisco he held the positions of Director of the first San Francisco Resettlement Program for Southeast Asians, Assistant to the General Director of Catholic Charities and Director of Catholic Social Services of Marin County. In Stockton, Ron was the Executive Director of the Association for Retarded Citizens for 21 years. During his tenure he obtained funding for the building of the Adult Development Center, directed Valley Regional Industries sheltered workshops, expanded programs for developmentally disabled in the community and dedicated his peak energies to the Special Olympics program in San Joaquin County. Ron was an advocate for the quality of life, work and community for developmentally disabled throughout his career. Ron always expressed gratitude and respect for the members of the Board of Directors, his program managers, staff and volunteers who worked so closely with him to carry out the mission of ARC. Upon retiring from ARC in 2000, Ron worked seasonally for Sees Candies Discount Store, enjoying it, as he stated, "What could be more fun than working in a candy store?" Also, after his retirement, he dedicated time to develop his innate skills in dog training and became certified as a, "Canine Good Citizen Evaluator" by the American Kennel Club and as a certified dog trainer for Petco. He became a gratis source of dog training for numerous old and new friends and this became a rewarding part of his life.

Ron is survived by his wife, Barbara; his mother, Stella and his sister, Dawn Tognoli of San Francisco and his good buddy, his black lab, Valiant. Ron expressed gratitude to his sister-in-law, Paula Baxter; his sister, Dawn; dear friends Steve Stange and Sue Dempsey and the hospice care team for their dignified and personal care during his final illness.

Friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass on Saturday, October 13, 2007 at the Church of the Presentation, 6751 Leesburg Pl., Stockton, CA at 12:30 p.m. There will be no visitation. Private Committal. DeYoung Memorial Chapel, 601 N. California St., Stockton, CA in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hospice of San Joaquin, 3888 Pacific Ave., Stockton, CA 95204.


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Published by The Record from Oct. 7 to Oct. 10, 2007.

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Russ Workman

May 28, 2008

I wish to express my condolences to the family and friends of Ron Tognoli. I worked with Ron from 1981 to 1995. He always challenged me to do my best and taught me many things. I know he will be missed.

Gary Phillips

October 13, 2007

I was very sorry to hear of Ron’s passing and my thoughts and prayers go out to Barbara and family. I worked for ARC of San Joaquin’s vocational program from 1995 until the summer of 2000 and greatly appreciated the guidance and professionalism Ron brought to the agency. He was always there if someone had a question or concern. Prior to Ron’s retirement, I requested a letter of recommendation from him, as I would be leaving as well to pursue a career in education. He provided me with an outstanding letter that I utilized in obtaining a teaching position and my current position as a principal.

I greatly appreciate the role Ron played in my life and my career. He was a great leader, advocate, and person. He will be missed by all.

Sincerely,

Honey and Bob Lilienstein

October 12, 2007

Gently may friends ease your pain
Softly may peace replace heartache.

Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you.

Steve & Gloria Stange

October 12, 2007

Dear Barbara & family,

Words really can't express what Ron meant our family. He was a dear and wonderful friend and has left a great legacy for others to emulate.Thanks so much for allowing Gloria & I to share some happier times with both you & Ron.We will always be there for you.

Dorri Marchetti

October 11, 2007

My wish is to offer my deepest condolences to Ron’s family. Ron was a wonderful man. Ron taught me a lot about professionalism and character in the workplace, at both VRI and ARC. I enjoyed working with Ron in the ARC office; he was always a caring man. My prayer is for comfort and peace to Barbara and the rest of the family.
Sincerely,

October 11, 2007

Barbara,
Donna and I offer our condolences to you. We will miss the Service but our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bruce and Donna Barnett

Brenda McBride

October 10, 2007

Barbara--I was so sorry to read of Ron's passing. My prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Paul Ross

October 10, 2007

Dear Barbara, Stella and Dawn,
I am so shocked to hear of Rons passing. I was in Wyoming this past week and out of touch. I often thought about Ron, even though we seldom contacted each other. The memories of our early years together working @ Melody Market,commuting to school together, camping trips, double-dating and even tossing coins against the steps, I will cherish forever. Ron was my best friend and I will never forget him. My deepest condolences to all of you.

John Strain

October 10, 2007

We are sorry for your loss.You and Ron will be in our prayers. I went to SI and USF with Ron, and was a parishoner at ST Isabella's .
John Strain

Inez Wilkerson

October 9, 2007

Barbara,
You will be in my prayers. May God give you strength and comfort as you go through this season of sorrow.
Inez (Angel's aunt)

JAMIE SEVERSON

October 9, 2007

BARBARA AND FAMILY,
I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT RON HAD DIED. I PRAY THAT HIS PASSING WAS COMFORTABLE, AS I AM SURE IT WAS WITH THE YOU AT HIS SIDE.
IF I CAN HELP IN ANY WAY, PLEASE LET ME KNOW. OTHERWISE, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND THOSE OF MY CHILDREN.

October 9, 2007

Barbara:
On behalf of See's Candies Quantity Discount Shop, we offer our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Ron was a great person to work with. I, in particular appreciated his quick wit and intelligence. We had a lot of fun during the holiday season. Ron always knew how to treat a customer, and would go out of his way to make them feel special. We will miss him.

Sincerely,
Robin Carruesco
(See's Candies Account Executive)

alan foster

October 8, 2007

Dear Barbara:

I met you a long time ago at a function-actually several functions. I worked for Ron at VRI for 11years. I was the first job coach he hired for the supported employment program VRI had started. Ron was a wonderful man and I was sorry when I had to leave,but my late wife had been diagnosed with alzheimers and I needed to take care of her.

Ron was one of the most understanding and compassionate people I have ever met.He will be missed and I want to offer my deepest sympathy to you and your family.God bless you all.

Beth Owen

October 8, 2007

Barbara,
We are sorry to hear this news. Ron was such a kind, compassionate man. Our prayers are with you. The Hospice Christmas Tree will have a brighter light shining down from heaven this year.
Phil and Beth Owen, Joey and Megan

Roger Roman

October 8, 2007

My sincere condolences to the fanily of Ron Tognoli, a man who enriched the life of all those he met, in business or on a personal basis.

phil ryan

October 8, 2007

My sincere sympathies at Ron's passing. As a classmate at SI, it touched me that Ron had such a strong social conscience. A conscience that will be missed

Daniel Flynn

October 8, 2007

Dear Ron, I hope you are experiencing complete joy wherever you are. Now you know what it was all about. Pray for us still remaining here. We need all the help we can get. Your friend from those innocent days in the Sea Cliff District and at SI in the 1950s, Dan. Dan Flynn and Kate McNally, Verviers, Belgium

Mary Leonard

October 7, 2007

Barbara, we are so sorry for your pain, Ron was an incredible man. We are better people having known him.

Bob & Mary Leonard

Diane Jarvis

October 7, 2007

Ron was also a fellow volunteer for the Stockton Animal Shelter Friends, lending his expertise in nonprofit management to help homeless pets. The first time I met Ron, we connected as "kindred spirits" in our care and concern for the many animals at the Stockton pound. Although not a "cat" person, Ron and Barbara fostered mom cats and their kittens, nurturing them into happy adoptive homes. They were a great team! I deeply valued Ron's friendship and guidance, and am very sad that he is no longer a part of our earthly existence. God Bless and keep him, and his family, and comfort them.

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