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Stephen Crosby Obituary

Mar. 19, 1976 - Sept. 25, 2017
Beloved husband, father, brother, son, uncle, and devoted public servant, Stephen Crosby left all those who loved him on September 25, 2017. Stephen was an avid sportsman and a huge history buff. He loved music, and was an accomplished guitarist. Stephen's love of travel ranged from his travels overseas in the military, to family trips around the country.
During his travels, Stephen managed to visit 38 of the 50 United States.
Stephen was born in Stockton, California on March 19, 1976.
Stephen graduated from Tokay High School, where he played varsity football. Stephen was a Boy Scout, and achieved the rank of Eagle Scout. After High School, Stephen served in the United States Navy for four years. During his military service, he travelled to Japan, China, Australia, England and Greece, receiving numerous citations, including the National Defense Service Medal, the Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Navy Good Conduct Award, the Navy Unit Commendation, and Sea Service Deployment Ribbons.
After his military service, Stephen worked two jobs while attending Sacramento State University. He graduated from Sacramento State with a Bachelor of Science degree in Criminal Justice in 2006, while working at Sacramento County Probation.
On June 27, 2005, Stephen met the love of his life, Jennifer. They were kindered spirits from the beginning, and they married on September 09, 2006, in Lodi, California. In September 2007, Stephen and Jennifer, welcomed their first child, Nicholas Alexander Crosby. Stephen and Jennifer returned to San Joaquin County to be close to family, and bought their first house for their new family. Stephen began his career with the San Joaquin County Sheriff's Office in 2007, and was a devoted public servant. In November 2013, Stephen and Jennifer welcomed their twin girls, Hannah Elizabeth and Isabella Grace. The girls were always the apple of their father's eye. In April 2015, Stephen was promoted to Correctional Sergeant. He demonstrated his devotion to the Sheriffs Office and the community by attending Leadership Stockton, and serving on the Sheriffs Office Honor Guard. Stephen was selected for promotion to Correctional Lieutenant, to be effective October 02, 2017, which sadly, he did not get to realize with his untimely passing.
Stephen is survived by his wife, Jennifer Crosby, and their children Nicholas, Hannah, and Isabella, as well as his parents Stephen and Kimberly Crosby, brother Kevin Crosby, sisters-in- law Monica Serros, Angie Malcolm, Christina Ryder, brother-in-law Sam Malcolm, aunts Victoria Crosby, Bernice Crosby, Genie Lombardo, uncle Jeff Crosby, and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. Stephen was preceded in death by his uncle Chris Crosby, his mother-in- law Betty Keville, and his father-in-law Fred Keville and his grandparents. Stephen was a devoted family man, who would do anything for his children. He loved nothing more than hosting a barbeque for family in his back yard, or taking his family on one of their excursions. His presence will be sorely missed by his family who love him dearly. Funeral Services will be held Wednesday, October 4, 2017 at 11:00 am at Cherokee Memorial Park in Lodi, CA at the Vineyard Chapel.

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Published by The Record on Oct. 1, 2017.

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October 6, 2017

Jennifer, Nick and the girls....I have just heard the terrible news and I am heart broken for your family. Stephen loved his family very much. He was devtoed to them by working for them, mowing the lawn, taking Nick to school, completing a project that was part of Jennifer plan...and more. Sending our love to you--Your friends at Julia Morgan School. Mrs. Anne Swehla Garcia

Amy Curry

October 4, 2017

Jennifer and Family, Deepest sympathy, may you find comfort in precious memories. HUGS......

Cindy and Jeff Angeli

October 4, 2017

Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers! We will always have our memories of the relationships we had. Hugs to all of you!

Marcus Omlin

October 2, 2017

Stephen, I remember when you and your mom came to the fire station to visit your dad in the 8o's. I was a young firefighter working under your Dad a Captain. He was always so proud of you and the many accomplishments at that time. Although, I didn't know you in your adult life you sound like a wonderful family man a son a dad and mom could be proud of. You will be missed. Rest In
Peace.

Bob Bragg

October 2, 2017

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Monica Serros

October 1, 2017

Stephen, I always knew how much you loved Jennifer, and I am honored to have you in our family. We were all blessed to have you. You were always dedicated to your family, and we knew you would do anything for your children and wife. Our family will never be the same, and we will always remember you and love you.

Vicki & Tony Ramirez

October 1, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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