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Andrew Ingrassia Obituary
Andrew Paul Ingrassia was born September 24, 1924 in the Town of Wallkill to the late Joseph and Mary Ingrassia. He passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 4, 2009.
A graduate of Middletown High School, he immediately enlisted in the U.S. Army, serving four years during World War II, including almost three years in India and Burma. Upon his return to civilian life, Andy worked at Lloyd's Shopping Center for 30 years, then at ShopRite for an additional ten years.
Andy was a 50+ year member of the Wallkill Engine Co. #6 of the Middletown Fire Dept. He served as Captain and President of the company, and also served 20 years on the Orange County Fire Advisory Board. He was a member of the American Legion for 50 years, and the Middletown Elks Lodge #1097 for 35 years, as well as a member of the Orange County Veteran Fireman's Assn.
Andy is survived by his wife of 63 years, Rose; his two sons, Joseph and his wife, Bonnie of Cuddebackville and Thomas and his wife, Barbara of Massachusetts. He leaves behind five grandchildren: Christopher and his wife, Laura of Salisbury Mills, Darryl of Otisville, Richard of Idaho, Michael and his wife, Kathi of Westtown, and Victoria of Cuddebackville; five great-grandchildren: Amanda, Mackenzie, Troy, and Jason of Westtown, and Kelsey of Kentucky; two brothers, Anthony of Virginia and Joseph and his wife, Dorothy of Scotchtown; a sister, Marion and her husband, Roger of Colorado; many nieces and nephews, as well as many friends, especially Joe and Gerri Walsh, their children and grandchildren, whom Andy cherished as part of his family. Andy was predeceased by his brother, Angelo, and two sisters, Grace and Nancy.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, November 8, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. at the Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc., 72 W. Main St., Middletown.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, November 9, at 11 a.m. at St. Joseph's R.C. Church in Middletown. Burial will follow at St. Joseph's Cemetery in Middletown.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Andy's name be made to the American Cancer Society or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.
Arrangements by Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc.; 845-343-6023.
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Memories and Condolences
for Andrew Ingrassia
Steve & Dayla Ahrens & family
November 16, 2009
Dear Aunt Rose,
We were very sorry to hear about Uncle Andy's passing. He was a wonderful man who put his heart into all that he did. We have many fond memories of family reunions or visits to Middletown and spending time together - we were always better off after our visits. May God grant him eternal peace in heaven.
WAYNE WALTON
November 11, 2009
DEAR AUNT ROSE AND FAMILY,
A GREAT FIREMAN,A GREAT PERSON AND FRIEND... RIP UNCLE ANDY...YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS.
Paul Miller
November 10, 2009
Der Rose and family,All the Men in the Waakills called him uncle Andy, and thats what he was to most of the guys who knew him over the years! a great friend, fireman, and coach of the softball team for years,always there in time of need! god bless him,I never will forget him as a Gentleman. Amen.
Alyssa Loiodice Garcia
November 9, 2009
Dear Rosie -
I was so sorry to hear about Andy's passing. I will always have wonderful memories of spending my childhood with you guys. I loved it at your house. I remember the closet full of toys, the yummy treats from the cellar, all of your owls, Andy's fire memorabilia, and monitoring the fire alarms. My dad used to call me "Alyssa Andy" and I am sure that was due to his relationship with your husband. You and Andy have shared so many wonderful years and memories together. May God grant you peace during this very difficult time. My love to you and your family.
Your Goddaughter,
Alyssa
Joe & Jayne Maloney
November 9, 2009
My deepest sympathy and condolences on your lose. Andy was a true gentleman, friend and dedicated fireman. Although i haven't seen him in many years i will cherish fond memories.
Leo & Kimberly Knapp
November 9, 2009
Rose and family,
Andy will be missed by all who knew him.He was a great man and an incredible fireman he was the most dedicated fireman I ever knew.Noone will ever be able to fill those shoes.We where all blessed to have known him.We will miss him very much !!Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
November 9, 2009
Dear Tom and Family:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Sheila Soloperto (Worcester, MA)
Dave Robinson
November 8, 2009
Dear Tom and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing, I remember him at Lloyds when we used to go down there. I can't believe that was over 30 years ago! Time will ease the pain but the good memories will linger.
Lou Ingrassia Jr.
November 8, 2009
Aunt Rose and Family,
My memories of Uncle Andy are too numerous to paraphrase here. All I can say that he was a great cousin to my Dad, and an asset to his family and community. He was a mentor to me in the Fire Service, either on the scene in Middletown or at a standby in Howells. I loved to talk Middletown Fire "Politics" with him. Like all Firefighters, he will missed but never forgotten. May he rest in Peace in the house of the "Eternal Chief".
God Bless.
Tiffany Lee
November 8, 2009
Aunt Rose,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Uncle Andy was a great man, great firefighter, and wonderful mentor.He was the spirit of E-6. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Alan & Mary Lou Leidy
November 8, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Mike McDowell
November 8, 2009
Rose and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear that Andy had passed away.He was such a special person and meant so much to many.He always treated our family as his family.We will cherish every memory we have of him.
Our Love & Sympathy
Mike,Mary,Mike & Matt
raymond lucca
November 8, 2009
my condolence to the ingrassi family.i've known andy for many years as we worked together at lloyds. he was a good manager and friend and we always got along well. he'll surely be missed.
C Loiodice
November 7, 2009
Uncle Mike, Aunt Kath and entire Family,
Our deepest sympathies in Grandpa Andy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time and continue to be in the road ahead. Much Love, The Loiodices
Len & Arlene Napolitano
November 7, 2009
Dear Rose, Lenny and I was sorry to read of Andy's passing.
He was always a good friend, and such a good
a caring loving man. He'll be greatly missed by
all who knew him.
Please accept our condolences.
Steve Ingrassia
November 7, 2009
Dear Aunt Rose,
I was so sorry to hear of Uncle Andy's passing, and wish you the very best during this difficult time. I remember my Dad's stories of his older brother, their time on the farm and in school. He was a good man who loved family, friends, community, and country, and showed his love through his service.
My thoughts, prayers and love go to you and the rest of the family.
George Gregory
November 7, 2009
Work in LLoyd's 1968-69. Knew him throught fire co. I was Minisink H&L CO 1. sorry for your lose.
Michael Roche
November 7, 2009
November 07, 2009
Dear Rose and Family,
Our thoughts amd prayers are with you in your time of grief. Andy was a true gentelman and will be missed.One of the great things about joining E-6 was the opportunity to meet Andy. He was a good friend. The Turfler Tourny and all the other E-6 functions will not be the same without him.Love, Mike,Lisa and family
Maria Ingrassia
November 7, 2009
Dear Aunt Rose and family ,
My deepest sympathies, love and prayers go out to you during this difficult time, Andy was a wonderful,
kind , giving man and a great cousin to my dad, I always treasure the stories of their days growing up on the farm on Ingrassia Road and how they made do with so little ! His service to his country and community will be remembered by many. I am so sorry I cannot be there , but I will be home before thanksgiving and will see you than. Love, Maria Ingrassia
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