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Eileen Carson

1948 - 2020

Eileen Carson obituary, 1948-2020, Middletown, NY

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1948

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2020

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Eileen Carson Obituary

Eileen Carson
June 30, 1948 - October 9, 2020
Middletown, NY
Eileen Carson of Middletown N.Y., entered into eternal rest at home surrounded by her husband and children on Friday, October 9th. She was 72 years old.
Eileen was born to William and Mildred Ebner in Philadelphia, PA on June 30, 1948. Eileen attended Hallahan Girls Catholic High School. She later met her husband, Mark, while working at JCPenney.
Eileen was a parishioner at St. Paul's in Bullville, NY for over 30 years. A devout Catholic, she was involved in several ministries including Life in the Spirit Seminars, Renew, Cursillo, Kairos Prison Ministry, where she served as State Chairperson, Tres Dias, Religious Education and Adult Faith Formation. She earned her certificate in Advanced Scripture Study through the Archdiocese of NY and later became a Spiritual Director. Eileen volunteered as a Eucharistic Minister and served as a guardian over the adoration chapel at St. Joseph's in Middletown.
Eileen's love for God and call to draw others close to Him was illuminated in each of these ministries.
Eileen was a devoted wife and mother of six children. When her children were grown she felt called to become a house cleaner in order to serve others. She saw this not only as a profession, but also as a ministry. Eileen would often pray over each room that she cleaned.
Eileen loved to crochet, knit and sew. She enjoyed hiking, camping and being outdoors. She particularly loved camping in Maine with her family and friends. Eileen loved music, she loved to sing and dance. Eileen's greatest love was for her family, particularly her grandchildren.
Eileen is survived by her loving husband of over 40 years, Mark Carson; three sons: Robert Cunningham & wife, Candice of Holly Springs, NC, Bryan Cunningham & wife, Amy of Gettysburg, PA, Mark Carson & wife, Brianne of Putnam Valley, NY; three daughters: Bonnie Platek & husband, James of Chatham, NJ, Amanda Lopez & and husband, Marc of Warwick, NY, Katie Carson-Decker & husband, Matthew of Pine Bush, NY; brothers: William and Charles Ebner; sister, Roberta Zielinski, and several nieces and nephews. She was loved, adored and will be greatly missed by her 18 grandchildren: Lydia, James, Timothy, Elyn, William, Alex, Anderson, Ryan, Patrick, Evelyn, Charissa, Maddin, Caleb, Nora, Anna, Elora, Penelope, and Willow.
As you prepare to attend services, please be aware that FACIAL COVERINGS and SOCIAL DISTANCING are required at the funeral home as well as the Church. Please be aware that due to NYSDOH guidelines with occupancy requirements you may have a delay in entering the building. Thank you for your patience.
Visitation hours will be held on Wednesday, October 14, 2020 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at the Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc., 72 West Main St., Middletown, NY.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, October 15, 2020 at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 90 Euclid Ave., Middletown, NY.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Eileen's name to The Rare Cancer Research Foundation, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or The Middletown Humane Society.
Arrangements by Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc. 343-6023 or www.ocfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Times Herald-Record from Oct. 12 to Oct. 13, 2020.

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brother bill

October 6, 2022

Eileen was always a joy to be with no matter her life cercumstances she always shared jot. She was a true Blessing.

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Fallyn Daniel

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Lourdes

October 15, 2020

Eileen it was a privilege to know you and call you friend. Your love of Christ always caused me to be better, do better. I will miss your light . You now are safely in the arms of our Lord. Till we meet again.

Tutor Time

October 15, 2020

May you rest in eternal peace and watch over your beautiful family.

Julie laurenzi

October 14, 2020

Eileen and I first met through our local prayer group and then discovered many other connections through our backgrounds in Philly. My husband and she shared simultaneous journeys with cancer. They now rest in the arms of the Lord.
I will miss her

Warm Embrace Arrangement

Stephen Bianchi

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Theresa Cooper

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Genevie Guerin

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Patricia McFadden

October 13, 2020

Amanda and the entire Carson family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of your mom. My prayers are with your family. Rest in Peace.

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Andrea Lopez

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Bill Ebner

October 12, 2020

The best sister a brother could ask for you will not be for you will be missed, see you later

Jimmy and Joanne Quicksell

October 12, 2020

We are so sorry we cannot be there to say goodbye to such a beautiful woman. Our hearts are broken at her passing. May God bless her soul, Mark, and all of her beautiful children and grandchildren.

Maria Torres

October 12, 2020

Eileen thank you for entering into my life and for God bringing us on team together in Cursillo. Your smile and your heart always touched me. I pray for your family and know that our Lord has already welcomed you home.

Jenn O’Boyle

October 12, 2020

Eileen sponsored me on Cursillo in 1993, and it changed the trajectory of my life. She was the most beautiful soul I have ever known. I feel so blessed that she came through my life!

Moniysha Maldonado aka Miss Moe

October 12, 2020

Mrs. Eileen, I knew you from Caleb taking about you when I would watch him. Your smile will forever be with me ❤

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Oct

14

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc. - Middletown

72 West Main Street, Middletown, NY 10940

Oct

14

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc. - Middletown

72 West Main Street, Middletown, NY 10940

Oct

15

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church

90 Euclid Ave., Middletown, NY

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Ralston-Lippincott-Hasbrouck-Ingrassia Funeral Home, Inc. - Middletown

72 West Main Street, Middletown, NY 10940

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