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Gary Berwick Obituary
Gary A. Berwick of New Windsor, NY, entered into eternal rest on Thursday, May 15, 2008. He was 48 years old.
He was born in Englewood, NJ on June 19, 1959 to his parents Madeleine Dupuis Berwick and the late John O. Berwick.
Gary retired as a Staff Inspector for the New York State Police. He was married to his beloved wife, Marguerite McClean Berwick.
"Gary was a person of faith, integrity and upstanding moral character. He took great pride in watching his daughters grow into wonderful people and spending time with his wife, family and many friends. What Gary enjoyed most in life was going to his family cabin in Maine, sailing, golfing, playing guitar, and being his daughters' number one fan. He will be deeply missed and will always be in our hearts."
He is survived by his beloved wife, Maggie; his mother, Madeleine; three loving daughters, Christina, Lyndsey and Rachel Berwick; brothers, John and his partner, Martha Newcomb, Jim and David Berwick; his sister, Denise Velsor and her husband, David; mother-in-law, Olimpia Graham and her husband, Jim; father-in-law, Michael McClean and his wife, Celia; sisters-in-law, Maria Callery and husband, Frank, Angela Kukelka and her husband, Bill and brother-in-law, John McClean and his wife, Denise; along with several nieces and nephews.
The family will be present to receive friends and family on Monday, May 19, from 2-5 and 7-9 p.m. at the Coloni Funeral Homes, 3001 Rt. 9W New Windsor, NY 12553.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Tuesday, May 20, at 10 a.m. in St. Francis of Assisi Church, 145 Benkard Ave., Newburgh, NY. Fr. John J. Vondras will officiate.
Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN 38105.
We invite you to visit www.Mem.com to leave messages and personal condolences for the family. Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Craig A. Duke, director of the Coloni Funeral Home; 845-561-0238.
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for Gary Berwick
Russell Hunchar
May 12, 2024
Gary, my friend and teammate. Rest in peace.
Rich S.
June 11, 2021
My friend Gary. I am so sad and sorry just finding out 2 days ago. Only God knows your heart rest in peace my friend. NWPD summer of 78. Rich Sanguinetti
philip carlin
May 12, 2021
Gary was a great caring and loving person, and will always be one of best friends. He loved his family and I'm sure he is looking over them everyday!
God Bless you Gary, will miss you!
Phil
Tracy Conklin
May 12, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
philip carlin
May 12, 2020
Maggie and ladies....you continue to be in our prayers!
Every year during the National Police Week it brings tears to my eyes! Growing up with Gary and continuing our friendship and seeing his beautiful family every few years was a blessing that I will always remember.
God Bless Gary and family!
Phil
DEBORA WYKER
June 6, 2008
DEAR MAGGIE AND GIRLS....I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS...I KNEW GARY ONLY GOING TO GL, A GREAT GUY...DON'T KNOW YOUR PAIN AND DON'T WANT TO...BUT YOU ALL DO HAVE AN ANGEL WATCHING OVER YOU...DEBORA (DAWSON) WYKER
Jack Mattera
June 3, 2008
Dear Maggie and Girls,
I knew your husband and father many years ago when we both started our law enforcement careers in North Wildwood, New Jersey. Gary moved on to the New York State Police and I moved on to the federal government. We kept in contact for a while but as life woud have it we drifted apart. I regret this very much. Gary was a person of the highest integrity. His good looks and easy manner made him the all-american guy. While we should mourn our loss we should rejoice in the time we had Gary in our lives. Gary touched so many people and I am certain we all benifited from having Gary in our lives. May God bless all of you and may Gary rest in peace.
Edward Berberian
May 23, 2008
Hi John,
This is Ned....We hung out at Gov. Livingston, and smashed up a motorcycle together. I'm living in NYC now. When I saw the name of your brother, I connected the dots; and was saddened for you....I'm extremely sorry for you and Martha....I'm leaving my e-mail address if you want to contact me I'd love to hear from you; and if you don't I understand
I hope you're doing well...
Russell Hunchar
May 23, 2008
Maggie and Family,
I grew up with Gary in BH. We played hockey together and enjoyed the same group of friends. Although I only saw Gary 6 to 10 times since high school, the comonality and familiarity between us was instant. On the night of our 30th reunion, Gary and I were the last in the hallway of the hotel sharing pictures and stories of our kids and wives. He was very proud of you and the girls and I was geniunely happy for him as well as myself. For whatever sorrows Gary felt, I know that you and the girls were the best thing in his life. As all of us who grew up with Gary will tell you, he was a friend, a competitor, and a good and moral man. We will all miss him. I am blessed to have known him.
Richard Day
May 23, 2008
John,
This is Richard Day from your days at Governor Livingston High School. You should remember our days as the four Musketeers. Steve, Ed, you and I were the best of friends in those days. We have tried to locate you and now we have learned of your tragic loss. You can reach us on my e-mail address. Hopefully you can find peace in knowing your brother lived a rich and full life. Our thoughts and heart felt wishes are with you.
Barbara ZILLIG BEQUETTE
May 22, 2008
Maggie, my heartfelt sympathy on the unexpected passing of your beloved and best friend, Gary. You have a wonderful life that produced three beautiful girls..thank God for each and every day and for Gary being in your life..be strong for your girls and you will never be without love as God will watch over all of you.
Always in my thoughts and prayers,
Barbara Zillig Bequette (Cornwall, NY)
Lisa (Czaplinski) Maradits
May 21, 2008
I knew Gary as a young trooper at the Monroe State Police barracks. He was a good friend to me when I was going through a difficult time. My mother called me from NY with the news of his death and I wept. The world has lost an honorable, decent man. My deepest condolences to Gary's family and to all those who were blessed and touched by Gary's kindness and friendship.
Vicki (Stichter) Skill
May 21, 2008
It's difficult to imagine the pain your family is experiencing. Even though it's been almost 30 years since Gary worked at NWPD, his passing has hit all of us hard. We remember him as the "All American boy" with that ready smile and laugh that was infectious. It is truly telling of Gary's personality that after all these years, he made that lasting impression upon so many of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Please know that we will always remember Gary.
peggy wolfe
May 21, 2008
Dear Maggie, Christina, Lyndsay and Rachel,
We are all so very sorry for your loss, but we know what kind of man, father and husband he was. He was always there at the games rooting EVERYONE on not just his own. We will never forget his smiling face walking away from San G with his guitar in hand.
Please, I know at this point you are all overwhelmed, but don't forget to reach out to your softball family in the weeks to come when you need someone to comfort you.
All our love,
Peggy, Randy, Gretchen and Kristen
xoxo
Joe, Janet, Karen, Lori, Lisa & Joseph Buttafuoco
May 20, 2008
Dear Marguerite,
We want you to know how sorry we are for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Lisa, Rick & Michelle Burdick
May 20, 2008
Maggie,
Who would have thought those many years ago as we all sat on my parents' screened porch smoking and laughing that being a grown up could bring so much pain? All of your friends are grieving with you and we will all be there when you need us. Please do not hesitate to call us for anything.
Don and Connie Powles
May 20, 2008
Dear Maggie and family,
May God give you strength in this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy Marley
May 20, 2008
Dear Maggie and girls,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
With Love and Sympathy, Kathy Marley
Patricia Zillig
May 20, 2008
Maggie and Children,
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Patricia Zillig
Nancy Guzman
May 20, 2008
Dear Maggie and family,
Words cannot express our sincere sympathy for your loss. May god comfort you during this most difficult time. With our deepest sympathy,
Dominick, Nancy & Alyssa Guzman
Michael Forte
May 20, 2008
Maggie & family, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. You have my deepest sympathy.
Veronica, Oscar Zillig
May 19, 2008
Maggie and Family,
We are sadden to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most troubling time. God bless.
Rich, Rich Jr., Chris Zillig
May 19, 2008
Maggie and Girls,
My deepest condolences and sorrow for your loss. May God bless you in this time of pain. My prayers are with you.
Sgt. Michael Lederer
May 19, 2008
The memory of Gary will be forever and always with me and in my heart; even though it was all so long ago.
Staff from The Governors Mansion
May 19, 2008
Mrs. Berwick & girls,
We just wanted to say how sorry we all are for your loss.. We had the pleasure of working with Gary at The Governors Mansion. May God Bless all of you and may Gary rest in peace..
Barbara Trouillot
May 19, 2008
Marguerite (my dear friend),
Christina, Lindsey and sweet Rachel,
My heart is broken in sorrow for you. If only my pain could alleviate some of yours... I would be greatful...
You, as his most immediate family, truly know how deep and fine a human being he truly was.
He lived his his life here on earth protecting and upholding human values and integrity, because that was who he was. He did an outstanding job! Remember that and be proud of him! You should seek great solace in this and in the knowledge that all of us, whom Gary has touched, feel the same.
For what ever reason he has had to leave - you must seek comfort in the fact that he is in a far more better and capable place in which to watch over his beloved earthly family, who he adored.
We are all better for having known such a fine human being as Gary Berwick.
God speed Gary.
With much love and respect,
Your friend,
Barbara
Brian Skelton
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and Family:
Gary and I grew up together in Berkeley Heights from grade school through high school. He was a great friend and I admired him for all that he stood for. I had the pleasure of seeing him at the reunion and spending some quality time catching up on family and life since we last saw each other. I will always remember him for his smile, his wit, and his integrity. I am so sorry for your loss, god bless you and your family. Gary has touched so many lives with his kindness over the years, he will truly make heaven a better place i am sure. So sorry for your loss. My sincere sympathies.
Phil Carlin
May 19, 2008
What a tragic loss! My prayers and love go out to Maggie, Christina, Lyndsey and Rachel.
Gary has been my friend for over 38 years; we grew up together, played hard in our teens, watch each other develop for kids to loving husbands and dads. I can say that I have been blessed that I was able to continue my friendship with Gary and for a short 38 years!
I always look forward to calling “bird” and scheduling time to meet for dinner and drinks; always reflecting on our great years that we had as teenage friends. Our conversation always turned to what great loving families we have been blessed with!
They say in life that you can count your true and best friends on one hand, Gary and his family will ALWAYS be in my heart!
Good bye for now my loving friend!
God bless you and your family!
Phil Carlin
James and Nydia Nee
May 19, 2008
Dear Christina,
I know that your loss is difficult. Please know that we are praying for you and your family. Please do not hesitate to call on us in this time of need. Thinking of you.
Theresa Travis
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and girls,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss,but know how Gary has touched so many lives,just by being the person he is.Maggie,take strength in his love and in his courage,and know he will always be by your side. God Bless all of you.
Stephen & Barbara Weinheim
May 19, 2008
I wanted to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family, you are in our thoughts and prayers
Stephen & Barbara Weinheim
May 19, 2008
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our thoughts & prayers
Stephen & Barbara Weinheim
May 19, 2008
I Wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family.. You are in our thoughts and prayers
Linda & Joe Riccio
May 19, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sheryl and Zanne Papageorgantis
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and Girls,
Our love and prayers are with you now and always. xoxoxoxoxox
Love, Sheryl and Zanne Papageorgantis & Matt Sotland
Nancy Spreer
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. With the deepest of sympathy from Dan, Nancy and Courtney Spreer
Dominick & Mary Ann Lucera
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and Girls,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss,please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers now and alyways.
John Graham
May 19, 2008
Our deepest condolences on your terrible loss. We will paray for you and Gary's soul.
John,Roseann,amd Margaret Ann Graham,Pine Island,N.Y.
Randy Compher
May 19, 2008
I have good thoughts of Gary.As very young boys growing up in Berkekley Heights we played street hockey alot, as the goalie i could never stop his shot. He would laugh at me and then just smile.
Neil Clarino
May 19, 2008
Our hearts go out to you! Gary was a good man and a great father. We will miss him dearly at the softball and soccer games. If you guys need anything, please give us a call! - The Clarino Family
Karen Foster
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie and Girls,
Please know our prayers are with you at this very sad time. We will always remember Gary sitting on the softball field or sitting by the pool with Bob at Continental Manor. He was a good man.
Sincerely,
Karen and Briana Foster
Brion Travis
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie,
Losing one's husband and best friend can cause a lonliness unlike any other,but having Christina, Lyndsey and Rachael near will help ease the difficulty of the days ahead.
With your strength and courage I am sure you will adjust to your new situation. I know you are grateful for the many happy years you shared with Gary.
Gary was an honest, respectful, moral and deeply dedicated police officer. Everyone who knew Gary or worked with him liked him and trusted him.
With great personal sorrow, I ask to share your loss and to extend my heartfelt sympathy.
I feel very fortunate to have known Gary.
My prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Brion Travis
Peter Carlin
May 19, 2008
Maggie, Christina, Lyndsey and Rachel:
Gary was a good man, and friend. I will miss him.
Bob Cuddihy
May 19, 2008
May God lavish his love on Gary and his familly and friends in this time of great need.
Maria Fleming
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. Gary was a wonderful person and friend and will be sadly missed. With our deepest sympathy.
Maria & Rich Fleming
Patti Wolfrum
May 19, 2008
Maggie-
Words cannot convey how truly sorry I am for you and your girls loss. I am thinking and praying for all of you. Please find solice in your memories and know in your heart what is really true.
Connie Christian
May 19, 2008
Maggie and Girls,
Our thoughts and Prayers will be with you always.
With Love Connie and Natalie
Christian
May 19, 2008
Maggie, you and the girls will be in our prayers. Our deepest sympathy in this most trying time.
Ray and Barbara Ketcham
Calabash, NC
Joe and Gigi Trance
May 19, 2008
Maggie and girls...there are no words to express how sorry we were to hear of your loss. May the memories you have of your life together help comfort you through this difficult time. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless
tracy conklin
May 19, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
The Staff of Coloni Funeral Home
May 19, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
MICHAEL LONG
May 19, 2008
BERWICK FAMILY
MY CONDOLENCES. I WILL PRAY FOR GARY
MICHAEL D LONG NYSP RETIRED
May 19, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers, today and always.
The Demshick Family, New Windsor
Vicki Linderman
May 19, 2008
Maggie & Family, Our sincere sympathy to all of you at this time. May your memories make it easier as time goes by. The Monroe SRS.
Sara Farrell
May 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Berwick family.
Jodi Gaudioso
May 19, 2008
Dear Maggie, Christina,Lynds, and Rach,
I can't begin to express my sorrow for your loss... I'm sure we could never really know, but only hope to help you all in some small way. I associate your family with our 'softball family' and have so many fond memories of you all in Myrtle Beach, and around softball fields. I see Gary with his all consuming smile, cigar in hand, and legs sprawled out in front of him... proud of his girls, and wife. Happy and content. I know how devastating this has been for us, so I can only keep you in thought and prayer in hopes we will be able to lift even the smallest amount of your grief in knowing how much you are all loved, and how much he will be missed.
Please don't hesitate to call if there is anything we can do...
much love,
xo Jodi and Coach G
Rich & Mary Oliveri
May 18, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Jodi Messina
May 18, 2008
Lyndsey,
My deepest condolences goes out to you and your family. If you ever need anything please don't hestitate to ask.
Love, Jodi
Ceil Cirillo
May 18, 2008
Maggie:
Can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I will always remember what a handsome couple you were and the good times we had in Florida NY. God Bless and keep you. Love, Ceil Cirillo
Fred Williams
May 18, 2008
Maggie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of grief. In the complexities of life, I believe there are events that are not to be comprehended or understood. God bless you.
Vincent Herbst
May 18, 2008
I will always remember that "big smile " which spoke volumes to those that new you.Remembering the days /nights at the beach in Wildwood.NJ. Both of us working the summers,you "To Protect and Serve" and me " workin Skill World"on the " Boards"!!
I thank God to have seen you at R-30 Love Ya!!!
Gary French
May 18, 2008
Maggie, I am very sorry for your loss, I went to GL with Gary and played football with him he was a good friend and teammate. Gary will be in my thoughts and heart.
Gary French
Claudia Oppmann
May 18, 2008
Maggie,
There are really no words to express how very sorry I am. I hope that you will find comfort in your memories.
DeeDee Oppmann
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