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Thomas Vetell Obituary
Monroe, NY
Thomas Edward Vetell, "TV", a 41-year resident of Monroe and formerly of Union Street, Brooklyn, died suddenly on Tuesday, April 20, 2010.
Son of the late Horace and Catherine Koehane Vetell, Thomas was born January 25, 1942 in Brooklyn.
Thomas served his country with honor and pride for four years in the U.S. Navy. He served in the Cuban Missile Crisis, Bay of Pigs. Thomas went on to proudly serve the City of New York as a Police Officer for 20 years before his retirement from the 20th Precinct. He was a wonderful husband, devoted father, and loving grandfather. He was respected and loved by all who knew him.
Thomas was a member of Lakeside Fire Co. for 41 years, and served as member of the Executive Board. He was also proud to be a member of American Legion Post #488 of Monroe, V.F.W. Post #8858 of Harriman, FOP Jason Conklin Memorial Lodge #957, Monroe, and Knights of Columbus Monroe Council #2079.
Thomas is survived by his devoted wife of 46 years, Arlene C. Barry Vetell. Together the two had 3 children who survive him: two daughters, Mary Agnes and her husband, Tommy Antonopoulos, and Kathleen and her husband, Mark Szynkowski, and their son, Thomas and his wife, Alissa Vetell, all of Monroe. He had four adoring granddaughters: Lauren, Shannon, Kathryna, and Katy. Thomas is also survived by his sister, Kathleen Menz and two brothers, Jerome and Daniel Vetell. He was predeceased by his older brother, William.
Visitation was held from 7 to 9 p.m., Thursday, April 22, with V.F.W. and American Legion services at 7:30 p.m. Second visitation will be held from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m., today, Friday, April 23, at Smith, Seaman & Quackenbush, Inc. Funeral Home, 117 Maple Ave., Monroe.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m., Saturday, April 24, at Sacred Heart Church, 26 Still Rd., Monroe. Interment will follow in Orange County Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 111 Craigville Rd., Goshen.
Arrangements by Smith, Seaman & Quackenbush, Inc. Funeral Home; 845-782-8185 or www.ssqfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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christine/mimi tochard
April 25, 2010
Dear Arlene&mary&tom&kathy&mark&tommy&alissaand 4 grandaughters. there was not a party or event that your family was not there always,you were like family to me. im so sorry that I did not know till last nite. my heart is crying today for your beautiful family, I would have been there no matter what the differnces between my son are I will pray for all the days ahead that you will have comfort and peace, HE was a great man and a doting grandfather.to mine as well. I will miss his big smile and always a hug from him... and Arlene your the best!! you are caring for so many and always a great mom, my prayers are with you all.
Kathy Boyle
April 24, 2010
Arlene, I was so very sorry to learn of Tommy's death. Please know that I will keep both of you in my thoughts and prayers. With sincere sorrow.
Kathy Boyle (Genovese from Warwick)
Richard Fritz
April 23, 2010
To the Vetell Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
George and Vicki Linderman
April 23, 2010
Arlene and Family,So sorry for you're loss. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
April 23, 2010
Dear MAVA, Tommy and Kat,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers for you and the entire family.
Love and Hugs,
Manja
Mark and Tracy Amundsen
April 23, 2010
We are praying for Mr. Vetell, and of course for strength and comfort for all of you. Best wishes,
Mary Cheslo
April 22, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. So sorry we cannot be there for the services. Love, Andy, Mare, Alyssa and Lucas
John & Sheila Charleston
April 22, 2010
The Vetell Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers and thoughts. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you all through this. All our love
April 22, 2010
Dear Vetell family, We are very sorry for your loss and wish to offer our sincere condolences. May the lord give you strength at this difficult time. And may Thomas rest in eternal peace. With love, Steve and Isabelle Katz and family
Dorothy Smith-Mowris
April 22, 2010
Arlene and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was a good man and Dad and Grandfather.He will be sadley missed by all just think of the good memories and you will always have a smile..
Kristen and Joe Villani
April 22, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss
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