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Dean Edward Abbott

1927 - 2019

Dean Edward Abbott obituary, 1927-2019, Eugene, OR

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1927

DIED

2019

Dean Abbott Obituary





Dean Edward Abbott
1927 - 2019

Dean Abbott passed away peacefully and painlessly at Sacred Heart Hospital in Eugene on May 7th, surrounded by his four children. He lived a long and happy life to the ripe old age of 91… whistling every day.

Dean was born July 10th, 1927, to Julian and Alice (Fenwick) Abbott in Klamath Falls, Oregon. He grew up during the Great Depression, working hard on his family's dairy farm, always with dreams of one day flying aeroplanes! After graduating from Sacred Heart Academy, he enlisted to fly in the Navy in May of 1945, but WWII soon came to an end and he was discharged.

In 1950, while attending the University of Portland pursuing a degree in music, he was called up for service in the Korean conflict. He entered the brand new US Air Force and graduated from pilot training in 1952. He was sent to Korea where he flew F-86 fighter jets in combat, earning a Distinguished Flying Cross for his performance in several aerial victories on the wing of Capt Joe McConnell, the top-scoring US jet ace.

He continued his Air Force career flying F-86, F-104, C-47, F-100, O-1, AT-33, and A-7 aircraft. In 1966-67 he flew as a Forward Air Controller in the Vietnam conflict, and survived 285 combat sorties in that deadly dangerous role. He earned the Silver Star and the Bronze Star for valor. He retired from the Air Force in 1971 as a Lieutenant Colonel, with over 4,000 flight hours, mostly in jet fighters. His childhood dream had come true.

In 1957, while finishing a Bachelor's degree at the University of Oregon, young Captain Abbott met and married his first wife, Patricia Ann Condon, a nurse from Portland. They had four children together and moved frequently during his Air Force career, including another tour in Oregon, 1962-66, where Dean was an ROTC instructor at Willamette University in Salem. Following retirement, they settled in Eugene in 1972 where Dean's second career as a realtor/broker took off. Dean and Pat were divorced in 1978.

In 1979 Dean married Wanda Copeland and together they opened Town & Country Realty, selling homes in Eugene/Springfield, and cabins at Odell and Crescent Lakes, for the next 20 years. They bought an Odell cabin and enjoyed countless weekends improving it and clearing trails around the lake. Dean served as president of the Odell Lake Homeowners Association for 20 years.

After closing their realty business in 1998, Dean and Wanda were active volunteering in the community, especially at the Oregon Air & Space Museum where Dean served on the board of directors. They enjoyed traveling the world, spending time with family, and mostly, their cabin. Dean lost Wanda in 2006 to disease that had slowly taken her from him. "Yet and all," he kept whistling and making others happy to know him, the rest of his long life. His favorite expression? "Wheeee!"

Dean is survived by his three sons Joe (& Dana) Abbott, Tom Abbott, and Steven Abbott, his daughter Courtney (& Russell) Davie, his grandchildren Tyler and Katie Davie and Patrick Abbott, his first wife Pat Abbott, his stepdaughters Vicky (& Jerry) Grimes and Diana (& Ron) Black, and numerous step-grandchildren and step-great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his stepson Ronald Copeland Jr., his second wife, Wanda (Moore) Abbott, and his sister, Elaine Abbott Heup.

A reception to celebrate his life will be held at the family home in Eugene at 1:00 p.m. on Sunday, June 30th. All who knew Dean are welcome to attend. Call Joe at 520-981-0123 for details.

Please sign the guest book at www.registerguard.com/legacy

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Eugene Register-Guard on Jun. 23, 2019.

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Doug & Mary Robinson

December 6, 2019

12-06-19 We just learned of Dean's passing. He was one of the greatest people we have ever been so privileged to know. We had the resort on the West end of Odell Lake and they had their cabin there. After we sold the resort Dean and Wanda handled two different real estate sales for us and we became fairly good friends. Later we moved to California and lost frequent contact. On a couple trips back to Oregon we were able to spend some time with Dean and he was the same great gracious person he had always been. What a jewel of a man!

Vark Norris

June 29, 2019

A lot of life to celebrate! Cher and I are thinking of you guys and hoping you all smile a lot tomorrow, and maybe whistle a bit too.
Vark

June 25, 2019

A great reflection of a man are his children. A wonderful group of uniquely strong and independent thinkers, who are gifted in many ways. Fantastic man, great contributor to the world being better. We are lucky to have known him. Kurt and Karen Thomet

Alan Rose

June 25, 2019

A true gentleman, (and not by an act of Congress)! Becky and I are honored to have known Dean! GAR

Sally Morgan

June 23, 2019

Dean and I spent many years on the OFHA Board of Directors. He help me through the good times and the bad. We had so much fun. Dean had a heart of gold and with his support and laughter we made it through. Dean was truly a wonderful man.

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