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Gary Muther Obituary

Muther, Gary W. October 10, 2014-Age 71. Beloved husband of Suzanne Muther (nee Stoll). Loving father of Jennifer (Richard) Slingluff, Robb and Michael Muther; grandfather of Jesse and Alex Slingluff. Dear brother of Larry (Thelma) and Steve (Colleen) Muther. Our dear brother-in-law, uncle, great-uncle and friend. Services: Visitation 5 to 8 p.m., Tuesday October 14, 2014 at United Methodist Church of Green Trails 14237 Ladue Rd., Chesterfield MO 63017. Memorial Service Wednesday morning 11:00 a.m. at United Methodist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations to the charity of your choice preferred. Interment private Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. The family is being served by O'SULLIVAN MUCKLE MORTUARY.

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Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader on Oct. 12, 2014.

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MARLENE HALEY ANDFAMILY

November 4, 2014

MICHIGAN COUSINS ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS SUZANNE AND FAMILY GARY WAS TRULY YOUR HERO
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October 24, 2014

What a shock to hear this about Gary today. So sad, I will always remember and miss our talks about baseball, Him and the Cards me and the Angels. Gary may you rest in peace. From the Ricoh Family.
Karen Meadows (Accounting)

adam lanson

October 21, 2014

My heart and prayers with you and your family.

October 21, 2014

We are praying that you and your lovely family have strength and peace at this most difficult time. When someone you love becomes a memory, this memory becomes a valued treasure. Many, many fond memories of Gary will certainly be of comfort to you at this time. Gary personified so many magnificent qualities and we all know how much he will be missed. Through faith, God gives us tremendous strength even when life seems so over whelming. We pray that this strength will be with you and your family even when life seems so over whelming. Always remember how much Gary was loved, admired and cherished by so many. He certainly was a FINE GENTELMAN!!!
Mike & Mary Bruns

Donna & George Beestman

October 19, 2014

We were so saddened to learn of Gary's sudden passing. We have fond memories of times shared at Hope Church many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with Suzanne and the family during this difficult time of loss.

Felicia Wilson

October 17, 2014

The world is a better place that Gary Muther iwas here, Growing up in Hope Church in St. Louis MO, Gary was a role model for me in life and in business. In reminiscing about the 4+ decades I knew Gary, I learned from my parents that Gary had called them the day after 9/11 to ask about my safety. I aspire to Gary's kindness. He will be deeply missed.

Tom and Marlene Strutz

October 14, 2014

Gary was one of the warmest and kindest people we have had the pleasure to have known. On or off the court he was always quick with a smile, a warm greeting and expressed a genuine interest in how our family was doing. We will miss him, and send our sincerest sympathies to Suzanne and the entire Muther family.

October 13, 2014

I knew Gary through business and knew he was a good man. My thoughts are with the Muther Family. Andy Geist

The Satterfield Family at American Eagle Companies

October 13, 2014

Gary was truly a fine gentleman. It has been our great pleasure to work with him over the span of many years in business. He always had something uplifting or positive to say even in times of difficulty or problems. All of us send our heartfelt sympathy to the Muther family. Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers in the days and weeks ahead. May you find deep comfort in knowing that Gary made a difference on this earth with his kindness and gentleness. Though he is now absent from the body, he is present with the Lord. We will all miss him greatly.

Jerry Spector

October 13, 2014

I knew Gary through tennis. He was a fine tennis player and a gentleman on the court. He will be missed by all of us who played with Gary through the years. My condolences to his family.

October 12, 2014

It was delightful speaking with Gary at our most recent JBS class reunion. As always, Gary was kind and welcoming with him charming smile.
I send courage and sympathy to his family.

Jeannie Block Bessmer
Annapolis, Maryland

Marilyn Buchholz

October 12, 2014

What a wonderful man!! He had such a pleasant manner. My heart goes out to the family at this time.

Liz Penaranda

October 12, 2014

Gary was one of the nicest and most genuine people I knew back in high school! My sincere condolences to his family.

John Dubinsky

October 12, 2014

I will always remember Gaty fondly. One of my best high school friends. There was never a nicer person. First class all the way

Valerie Watson Hamilton

October 12, 2014

Remembering Gary as a classmate over 50 years ago, he was always courteous, hard working, friendly, and shared with all his gentle humor.

Mary Bosenbecker

October 12, 2014

Do Not Stand By My Grave and Weep
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

Dan and Sue Mullen

October 12, 2014

Our deep sympathy to Suzanne and the exteded family. Gary was a good friend, tennis buddy and tennis promoter for many years. We will miss him...

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Memorial Events
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Oct

14

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

United Methodist Church of Green Trails

14237 Ladue Rd., Chesterfield , MO

Oct

15

Memorial service

11:00 a.m.

United Methodist Church

MO

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13996 Olive Blvd, Chesterfield, MO 63017

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