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Robert Edward "Bobby" Hager

1983 - 2012

Robert Edward "Bobby" Hager obituary, 1983-2012, Reno, NV

BORN

1983

DIED

2012

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Robert Hager Obituary

Robert "Bobby" Edward Hager (1983-2012)

March 10, 1983

September 18, 2012

Our beloved son and brother Bobby Hager passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday September 18 in Reno at the age of 29. He was born to Robert Rene Hager and Laura Lee Quilici in Reno on March 10, 1983. Bobby was a bright, dynamic and good-hearted young man who will be forever missed by his family and friends. Bobby attended Our Lady of the Snows, Brookfield, Swope and Reno and Lowry High Schools. He graduated from UNR with honors, and obtained his law degree from Boyd School of Law at UNLV. He was engaged in the private practice of law in Reno, and became a partner in the law firm of Hager & Hearne the week before his death.

In the first year of his practice Bobby practiced law at an extraordinary level. He attended approximately one hundred foreclosure mediations and appeared in court on dozens of occasions. Bobby assisted in the preparation of a number of Supreme Court appeals and spoke at the Supreme Court regarding proposed amendments to the Foreclosure Mediation Rules. There are many citizens of northern Nevada who remain in their homes because of his efforts. In his short career a consistent theme emerged: litigation on behalf of the oppressed. He fought the good fight, but with a kind and generous heart. He will be missed by judges and colleagues, including those whom he opposed.

From the time he was a child, Bobby met life's challenges with a stout heart. His thirst for understanding about how things worked was matched only by his dedication to justice. Before he started walking at ten months of age, he did everything to try to learn how to walk. As soon as he was able to walk, Bobby became obsessed with trying to talk. He developed outstanding verbal skills, and had the knack for making friends easily with people from all walks of life. Because of his exposure to people with wide-ranging backgrounds and stations in life, Bobby was usually able to quickly determine whether people he met were phony or sincere. His family and friends knew they could always count on Bobby to be there for them.

Bobby spent countless hours mentoring his younger brothers and sister about avoiding life's pitfalls and teaching them life skills. By triumphing over his own personal challenges and demons, Bobby taught his younger brothers and sister what is important is not whether you fall, but whether you get back up. Like his baby sister Chantal, with whom Bobby was extremely close, he was very sensitive and tended to judge himself too harshly. The sudden death of Bobby's little sister last year devastated Bobby and nearly derailed his career and life, but his willingness to work hard to make the changes needed to get his life back on track brought him respect in the legal community. Those who worked with him came to depend on his analytical abilities and sense of humor.

In the week before his death, he achieved long-term professional and personal goals. He achieved the life-long goal of becoming a law partner of his father. Bobby was enthusiastic about being involved in strategy decisions on big national cases with lawyers who started practicing law in the late 1970's. Those without power and privilege have lost an effective advocate.

At the time of his death Bobby was involved in the design of a new water delivery system for surface water to the Hager family ranch in Northern Nevada that has been in the Siard/Hager family since 1900. This year's drought affected the ability of the existing pipeline and ditch system to deliver sufficient water to the orchard, fields and trees, and Bobby and his brother Ian were working together to design a water system that could deliver sufficient water even under drought conditions.

Bobby was predeceased by his grandparents Yvonne Siard Hager and Edward Harold Hager, and his sister Chantal Claire Hager. Bobby is survived by his father Robert Rene Hager, mother Laura Quilici Aboud (Mike), brothers Ian Andre Hager, Ryne Rene Hager, Gavin Quilici and Hunter Quilici, uncles Harold Hager and Buddy Quilici, aunts Nancy Kilpack and Ruth Armstrong, and grandparents Pat Quilici and Jerry Qulici.

Viewings are scheduled for Wednesday, September 26, from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm, Thursday, September 27, from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm and Friday, September 28, from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm at Ross, Burke and Knobel Mortuary, 2155 Kietzke Lane, Reno. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, September 29, 2012 at Mt. View Mortuary, 425 Stoker Ave, Reno, at 11:00 am with interment immediately thereafter at Mt. View Cemetery. The family invites you to leave a message in the "Book of Memories" at www.waltonsfuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Reno Gazette Journal and Lyon County News Leader from Sep. 22 to Sep. 26, 2012.

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B

September 18, 2024

Bobby,
Thank you for all the wonderful wisdom and strength you gave me today. I´ve missed you all these years <3
B

Ann Newlon

September 16, 2023

Life lost too soon...
Ann Newlon

Laura Quilici-Aboud

March 10, 2021

Happy Birthday sun shine. Mom

H

March 2, 2020

Happy Birthday Son, I know you and Axel have been reunited, thanks for the love and joy he brought us. I miss you and I miss him too. I love you forever and always, mom

Mom

March 21, 2018

March 10, 2018 The years keep rolling by like a broken down dam. I miss you more with each passing one

Teresa Sylvia

September 18, 2017

Another year without you! You are still loved and missed dearly!!!

Teresa Sylvia

September 18, 2016

Another anniversary of the "worst day of my life, EVER." You're thought of and missed daily!!!

Laura Quilici-Aboud

July 11, 2016

Miss you more with each passing day. Axel has grown to be a beautiful animal. Good company. Mike and I laugh often as we remember the many wonderful times we shared. I love you always and forever and keep you close In your special place in my heart as does Michael.
Until we meet again..........You are with me always. Mom

Kalli Grady

March 12, 2016

think of u a lot miss u all the tim miss our fun times together don't think with out your advice Jr high would have made it miss u bobby

Teresa Sylvia

March 10, 2016

I think about you often, today especially.....HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Miss you!!!

Teresa Sylvia

September 18, 2015

Hello my friend,
Damn another year! Just wanted to put in words what I was just telling you yesterday...you are loved and missed very, very much!!!

Teresa Sylvia

March 10, 2015

Happy Birthday my friend...miss you!

Evelyn Lombard

November 13, 2014

I didnt know Bobby well.Although the few times he picked me up or gave me a ride home. He always
managed to make me smile- Bobby
had a kindness that touched my
heart-
Bobby, May you rest in peaceMy thoughts and prayers are with the Hager family and friends~
A special prayer for Bob and Ian! My condolences are with you. I truly cant imagine what you must be going threw!
Its truly a tragedy.
Chantal and Bobby Rest in peace. Give your family the strength they need to endure.
God Bless and walk with you all-
Im So Sorry-

September 18, 2014

Hello MY FRIEND
Just wanted to put it in writing vs what I tell you verbally.....WE LOVE YOU and miss you so very, very much!!!!!

Teresa

my brother Bobby, Josh and I

Ian

June 16, 2014

August 28, 2013

Bubba, throughout the years from your first breath till the last day I looked upon your beautiful face and felt the love of your magnificent soul, I have seen the face of God and felt his presence in your light. I have so many beautiful memories of you throughout the 29 short years that were so great because they were with you. I was walking with Axel, who still looks for you whenever someone says your name, no longer a puppy, but a 130 lb boisterous teenager, if you will. I thought of the Boobie trap you made to keep "EB" safe, our Easter Bunny that Ian brought home from Albertson's one year when you were 6 and Ian was 5. Crude as it was, it worked. I remember your bold courage at stomping the mormon crickets that I was so afraid of. You told Ian and I "you guys spot em and I'll stomp them, which went well until they surrounded you by the hundreds, then you yelled "each man for themselves - run!" That was the same summer... Every day with you kids was guaranteed to hold never a dull moment. I read my birthday card you gave me last year, bless your heart. It read "Mom there were days that running away from home seemed like a good idea, but you never did. Then you wrote Mom, Thank you for always being there for us kids no matter what. Thank you for teaching us right from wrong, thank you for being patient, understanding, caring supportive and loving us. I couldn't have been me if you hadn't been you, I couldn't have done it without your love. Thank you son, for being you.

Mom

July 10, 2013

My sweet Bobby, Last July was the best time I've had since you boys grew up, and that was because of you. I miss you more each day. I loved you coming home for dinner after work, I loved sharing your company, your thoughts on the days events. Everyone says it gets easier with time. They are so wrong. I don't even know if it's possible to find a place to put this loss, I miss YOU.....

terry bridgeman

June 18, 2013

Bobby was one of the best friends you could ask for and i will never forget my friend

Amanda Quilici-Shanahan

April 10, 2013

Bobby, you made the sun shine a little brighter. As a little cousin who didn't get to know you that well, I heard of your successes and motives me to be better. Love you cousin you are dearly missed

March 11, 2013

I miss you so much...

February 25, 2013

February 23, 2013

Saturday, February 23, 2013
Bobby, Your Birthday is just a couple weeks away. I miss you with all my heart and soul. You made my life brighter the first time I held you in my arms and every day thereafter. I have many beautiful memories of moments we shared. My life was better because of you. Your positive attitude and sincerity, your open mindedness, your huge heart and your unwavering sense of right from wrong. You were my first born, a great big brother, my confidant and my friend, I was proud to call you "son". My heart would fill when I heard you say “mom”. You are missed by many, but none no one misses you more than I do, you were the glue that made us all stick. I feel your warmth near me often, sometimes I think you'll be home for dinner. Thank you for being you, thank you for caring for others, God Bless you and keep you till we meet again, All my love Always, Mom.

Ann

November 13, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss of Bobby. I am happy he did so well during his short life. My thoughts & prayers are with your family. Sincerely, Ann

forsbach isabelle

October 10, 2012

My Dear Bobby,

I will always love you like a son.I will nerver forget YOU.Isabelle Forsbach from France

Tara Tangaro

October 5, 2012

I cannot believe you're gone! I just spoke with you a few weeks ago, even if it was on Facebook, it was always nice hearing from you! I'll never forget growing up with you & your family. You will forever be missed. RIP Bobby. Love you always!

Jacquie Chandler

October 5, 2012

Our world has lost a very bright light. One that lit a way forward for so many to follow.

I am still in shock on how this could happen. What force takes out our greatest warriors in the heat of the battle when the odds are moving against us? How does removing such an unbounded source of love, solace and inspiration serve the probable survival success of human integrity?

My deepest condolences to his family, as I cannot imagine the level of grief and pain you endure with this loss.

While my encounters were brief, the pain of his loss is a heavy weight on my heart.

There is no getting over a loss like this. Maybe time softens the blow a little bit each day or you find a way for the message this man so graciously brought to us to continue on.

I will kindle the flame Bobby Hager lit in me, to keep it going, in honor of his passionate service to truth and justice.

Thank you Bobby for inspiring me to stand up for what is right and go the distance - for our community, our country, our future, and those still afraid.

Thank you Bobby for being an example of light, love, and determination to shine a way forward with hope for harmony in all things.

You are now a brave heart legend in a culture lost and fallen. No one can replace your gifts, only seek to stand stronger for the battle ahead in your honor. God's speed - Bobby.

Alicia

October 5, 2012

It is such a sad thing to hear. I briefly knew Bobby. I work at the bank and he was always in good spirit. My deepest condolences to the family. His light is like a star- it won't burn out; it will keep shining for time to come.

K S

October 1, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this heartbreaking time. There's nothing I can say that will ease your pain but I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. My deepest condolences.

We are just stardust fallen from the Universe. It is all we ever are and all we will ever be.

Mercedese Witty

October 1, 2012

My deepest sympathy to your family at this time. Bobby was a very bright spirit... funny, smart, high energy. He always made me smile and always gave me hugs when he saw me... The world is a dimmer place without his presence.

September 30, 2012

I had lost my best friend of 34 years in 2010, and when I met Bobby I felt that I had made a friend for years to come. I wish that I could say that I knew Bobby as well as others have known this young man, but in the brief time I did know him he will forever have a positive impact in my life. I thank you Bobby for being you and in such a brief time you made a positive impact in my life. My sincere emotions go to the family and all those whose life Bobby was a major part of. I thank you for giving me the opportunity of meeting such a wonderful person.

Shay Wells

September 28, 2012

I've found it almost impossible to write this and actually acknowledge that Bobby is gone. We just had lunch together a few weeks ago. Bobby was doing the best I had ever seen him. Bobby was a passionate, brilliant young man who was always ready to step into the ring and fight for the little guy. Bobby was one of the most loyal friends I've ever had. It was always nice knowing that he had my back no matter what. Bobby, I am so proud of you and all the things you accomplished in your short time here. You made an impact in my life and the lives of all those who knew you that will last forever. I don't know what happened the day you died -- maybe I'll never know. Regardless, I know you were happy and in a good place. I know on that day the world lost an intelligent, motivated, loyal person, and I lost an incredible friend. Rest in peace buddy.

Harold Hager and family

September 27, 2012

Bobby showed so much spirit during his life – such passion and amazing energy, tremendous intelligence, and a wonderful sense of humor. The family's loss of Bobby, so soon after the loss of his beloved sister Chantal, truly seems too much to bear. Our hearts go out to his parents and step-parents, and to his brothers. Our condolences also to all those who held Bobby dear in their lives.

Friends from New York

September 27, 2012

We're so sorry for your sudden loss of Bobby. Please be assured that God will help you cope with the heavy weight of your loss. Psalm 68:19 Blessed be Almighty God, who daily carries the load for us.

Jonica

September 27, 2012

Well you sure know how to get a girls attention. I'm here Bobby…

There are no words, or emotions, that can describe what or how I am feeling. I never thought your death would be the reason that brought our paths back together. Nevertheless, here we are, only this time… it is my turn to carry the broken heart.
Thank you for reaching out to me when Chantal passed, I know that sounds strange but, you and I knew the importance. Had you not, we may never have had the opportunity to finally answer so many of our unanswered questions. We laughed, we cried, and we forgave.
There is a saying about relationships:
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Some come and go quickly and then there are those who stay awhile and leave footprints on your heart, and we are never ever the same.

We shared a special kind of love Bobby, a love that will never be forgotten.

I will miss you, always.

September 27, 2012

We are so very sorry. Bobby was a great young man with a lot of promise. God bless your family in your sorrow.

With our sincere sympathy, Danny and Judy Lamb

Lisa Peek

September 26, 2012

Bobby,I will miss your funny letters, and your wickedly funny perspective on all subjects. I'll never forget the first time we met and you jumped of the second story railing to catch up with me. The world has lost the chance to see just how much difference you would have made. Strong beliefs that were worth fighting for. I thank God that he gave me the chance to know you. The world is a better place, because you made it that way. Rest peacefully, My dear friend.....Lisa

Linda Potter

September 26, 2012

Do not fear death so much but rather the inadequate life." Bertolt Brecht
In his brief span, Bobby crafted an extraordinary life. He shone so brightly, and we will all miss him. The Potter Family and the staff of Potter Law Offices

David Colley

September 26, 2012

Bobby scared me one day when he was dressed for court and I failed to recognize him in his suit since I had become accustomed to his typical casual demeanor and good nature. I thought to myself, "What a Powerful Man, I would not want to stand in his path". I will always remember him for his forthright communication. What a loss.

Robbie Imbasciani

September 25, 2012

Hey Buddy,
I will never forget how kind you were to my children and i and how you used to seek my insight on things...it was me in turn learning from you and what you can accomplish if you set your mind to it. I will never forget that and always be reminded when i come to a crossroads. I still hear that short cackle of a laugh echoing through my ears.. and people walking by us trying to figure out how we could possibly be understanding each other both talking at the same time and trying to one up each other by getting louder than the other...we knew though. Thank you for being a good pal Bobby, gonna miss you buddy

Brittaney

September 25, 2012

Bobby was such a bright, intelligent man and was headed for the stars. You will be missed greatly..

September 25, 2012

During the all too brief period of time we worked together, I came away from every encounter I had with Bobby both encouraged and energized . . . this was a blessings Bobby unselfishly imparted to others.

Dave Moye

Misty Wells

September 24, 2012

Bobby, I still can't believe you're gone. I remember meeting you for the first time back in college after my husband introduced me to you and I was like 'wow, he's hilarious!' You amazed me with how smart you were and I was thinking this guy should be attending Harvard or something! Your kindness, witty sense of humor and sarcarsm that was always on que, will be greatly missed. Rest in peace with your sister now my friend.

Thomas McAffee

September 24, 2012

Bobby's spirit of enthusiasm for many things will never be forgotten.

Skinny

September 24, 2012

You sir were one of my best friends growing up i miss bro, dont worry i will do my best to look after your family no matter how far the distance. Much love brother.

Ted Sell

September 23, 2012

Went to law school with Bobby and you'd be hard pressed to find anyone who didn't like him. I found him to be thoughtful, friendly, and a pleasure to be around. He will be sorely missed.

Sheryl Serreze

September 23, 2012

Bobby was extremely smart and very dedicated to his clients. He will be deeply missed. My heartfelt condolences to everyone...

Sheryl Serreze

September 23, 2012

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September 23, 2012

You were the most caring man I have ever known. I wish you could do for yourself even just a quarter of what you did for others. You will always be in my heart.

joe grasmick

September 23, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss we will all miss him so verry mutch bobby was the type of person who made you feel good about being you and he was a true friend and some one to liok up too..i knew bobby from school and hanging out with him and his brothers and cousins..bobby you will be missed verry mutch my depest apologys for the hagers kilpacks quilicys and the rest of the family

wayne rogers

September 22, 2012

Few have made an impact on the lives of many, i can honestly attest to have been blessed to know Bob since highschool, although fallen out of touch, you will be greatly missed my friend and always remembered..love ya Bob

Tonja Brown

September 22, 2012

Bobby was a very special man. He cared deeply for others and had a wonderful sense of humor. He will be truly missed. From my family to yours, we send our heartfelt condolences.

Clifton Benton

September 22, 2012

I had the pleasure of meeting Bobby only a few times, and I was always impressed at his positive attitude. He always greeted with a smile and a respect for everyone. I would have to say that Bobby was a friend that I never knew. My condolence to all the people Bobby was close to; I know I will miss him.

Alan, Diane & Danielle Swanson

September 22, 2012

We loved Bobby very much and will miss his sense of humor, laughter and genuine concern for others. Our heartfelt sympathies to his family.

Lansford Levitt

September 22, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family. I always admired Bobby's commitment to his clients.

Cydnie Maiss

September 22, 2012

Bobby will be missed by all who knew him....My deepest condolences to the Hager family..To you Robert....love.

Cort Arlint

September 21, 2012

Bobby was a classmate of mine, a nice, enthusiastic, caring person who would always help anyone in need. He will be missed.

Renee Kadlubek

September 21, 2012

Bobby and I were friends in law school and remained friends after graduation. Bobby was so fun and he always made me laugh. He could turn any mundane activity into an unforgettable time. I miss him now, and always will. My deepest condolences to his friends and family.

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