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Jean Ford Bates, 85, of Midlothian, Va., died on Thursday, January 14, 2010, after a brief illness. She was born Mary Jean Ford on March 7, 1924, to Clara Mae Thompson Ford and Charles William Ford in Richmond, Va. She was raised in Buchanan, Va. She graduated in the class of 1944 from Mary Washington College and married Paul Bassett Bates in 1946. Her professional career included legal secretary for Hunton & Williams law firm in Richmond, administrative assistant to the head of the Civil Engineering department at Virginia Tech and a 15-year career with DuPont/Spruance including roles as research librarian, executive assistant to the plant manager and personnel supervisor. Most of all, Jean loved life, her family, friends and caring for her home. In addition to her sweetheart husband, she is survived by daughters, Marilyn B. Headley (Dennis), of Midlothian, Va., Nancy B. Allen (Barry), of Rougemont, N.C., and Peggy B. Kunnen (Jim), of Richmond, Va.; six grandchildren, Neil Scott Headley, Catherine Jean VanDyke (Peter), David Ryan Kunnen (Renee), Lisa Ann Kunnen, Dorothy Jean Allen and Peter Woodward Allen; and two great-grandchildren, Carter Paul VanDyke and Alyssa Jean VanDyke. A memorial service will be held on 3 p.m. on Saturday, January 16, 2010, at Salisbury Presbyterian Church with a reception to follow. A private burial will take place at Fairview Cemetery, Buchanan, Va. For their exceptional care, the family wishes to thank the staff of Chippenham Hospital, Hospice of Virginia, Dr. W. Philip Morrissette III and his nurse, Kim. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations in Jean's name to Salisbury Presbyterian Church, 13621 West Salisbury Road, Midlothian, Va. 23113 or to a charity of your choice. Bliley's-Chippenham is handling arrangements for the family.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Jan. 16, 2010.

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Joan Osmalov

May 28, 2010

We were young neighbors of Jean and Paul, in Martinsville, Va., in the late 50's. Our children played together, living right next door. Jean was a wonderful mother and wife. I remember her teaching me how to use the exact amount of Thyme for my beef stew. We moved away and lost contact.
I was Joan Irwin Yeager, in those days.
Widowed, now, Joan Irwin Osmalov, living here in Midlothian.

God Has a New Angel

With Love, Bonnie & Mike Burger

February 18, 2010

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

January 20, 2010

Nancy, I was so saddened to hear about the passing of your mother. I will certainly keep you in my thoughts as you get thru this. You are a very dear friend to me, and I can feel your hurt. Please let me know if there is anything I can do or help you with.

Fondly, Jean Senter

Jacqueline Looney

January 15, 2010

Nancy,
Jordan and I will keep you and your family in our prayers during this very sad time. Please let me know how I can help you.

Steve Nowicki

January 15, 2010

Our thoughts are with you, Nancy and Berry. Susan and I will hold you and yours in the light.

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