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Maxine Anne Woodson Arthur

Maxine Arthur Obituary

Maxine Anne Woodson Arthur, of Roanoke, Va., went home to be with the Lord where she can breathe again freely with no pain and suffering on Monday, December 14, 2009. She was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. Surviving are her husband of 53 years of love and happiness for better, for worse and in sickness and health, Fallon R. Arthur Sr.; children, Ray Arthur and wife, Cami, Jamey T. Arthur, Reginald Wayne Arthur, and Kimberly Wells and husband, Darrell; grandchildren, Travis Arthur and wife, Amy, Brooks Arthur and fiancee, Megan King, Trish Patsel, Jamilee Arthur, Reginald Arthur II and Brittany Craft Wells; five great-grandchildren; and a special friend, Pauline Carter, who loved Maxine like a sister. A Memorial Service will be held 2 p.m. on Wednesday, December 16, 2009, at Oakey's Roanoke Chapel with Chaplain Roger Graves officiating. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested rose bushes or annuals be sent so that they can be planted in her garden. To Those I Love

When I am gone, just release me, Let me go so I can move into my Afterglow. You mustn't tie me down with your tears; let's be happy that we had so many years. I gave you my love, you can only guess how much you gave me in happiness. I thank you for the love you each have shown, but now it's time I traveled on alone. So grieve for me awhile, if grieve you must, then let your grief be comforted with trust. It's only for a while that we must part, so bless the memories within your heart, and then when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home."

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 15 to Dec. 16, 2009.

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June Hash

December 29, 2009

Fallon, Kim and Arthur family,
I just heard about Maxine's passing and want to say how sorry I am. I know the pain of separation you feel is unbearable at times. Memories of her smiling face and sweet nature will always be with me when I hear her name. We were lucky to have her in our lives and we will see her again.
Thinking of you all and praying for God's comforting arms of peace to surround you.
Love,
June Hash and Leigh Barnett

December 17, 2009

We were so very saddened to hear of Maxine's passing. Know that you have many friends and family that are saying prayers for you. We love you and please do not hesitate to let us know if you need anything.
God bless you.

Joe, Kathy, Michelle Bandy and David Robertson

Becky Lambert

December 16, 2009

We were so sorry to hear about Maxine's passing! Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Roy, Becky, Shane & Cody Lambert

Tina Campbell

December 16, 2009

To the Arthur Family
I'm so sorry to hear about Maxine, and to find out about it while I've been out of town. Your in my prayer and thoughts. It was a real pleasure talking to her in the days before she passed. Ray you know how to get in touch with me if there is anything you and your family need.

lisa gibson

December 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Llinda Thomas

December 16, 2009

Dear Fallon and family,

I am so sorry to hear of Maxine's passing. She was a very special lady. Joanne and I will always remember the fun times on the porch. Kris will miss her easy laugh and friendly smile. the lake will never be the same without Maxine and her special cup on the porch. God bless you all . our thoughts with you.

Love linda thomas and joanne ovack

Donna and Bodie Conner

December 15, 2009

To Fallon and the entire Arthur family, I just heard about Maxine tonight. I am so sorry. I had no idea. Please know that you are in our thoughts. God Bless you all.

Linda Barton

December 15, 2009

Fallon,

We were so sorry to hear of Maxine's passing. Our prayers and sympathy are with you and your family. Please be comforted by knowing that she is now walking with GOD and is not in any pain.

If there is anything that any of us can do for you, please give us a call.
We are all listed in the phone book.


We love you all,

Linda Barton
Kenny Arthur
Timmy Arthur
Leon Arthur

Judy Kelly (Willie)

December 15, 2009

Ray,Cami & Family,

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you all at this time.

RALPH RAMSUER

December 15, 2009

Neighbors for many years we will keep you in our prayers and thoughts. With our deepest sympathy. Ralph,Timmy,Ricky and Teri Ramsuer

Jody Speer

December 15, 2009

Kim & Family~
Please know of our sincere sorrow for the loss of your mother! She will also hold a very special place in your heart. Here's hoping that you're able to find comfort in the many happy memories that you hold dear and are able to have more peace and strength with each passing day. You now have a little guardian angel watching over you and she is finally at peace, with no pain.

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with each of you! If you need anything, please do not hesitate to call on us. We love ya'll!

With our deepest sympathy~

Jody & Monica Speer & Lauren Dalton

December 15, 2009

Dear Kim and Family,
Sorry about your loss. We know you have many beautiful memories that will help you get thur the difficult days ahead, along with your faith.
Dottie & J.L. Crush

Susan Easley

December 15, 2009

God Bless you all. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.

Sue & Billy Garland

December 15, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Eddie&Robin Artutis

December 15, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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