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David S. Acker

1946 - 2018

David Acker Obituary

David S. Acker 1946—2018
David S. Acker passed away March 29 with both his sons by his side, shortly after the Cubs emerged victorious from their season opener. He was 72 years old. David was born February 2, 1946, in Rockford Illinois, the son of Harold and Lorraine Acker. He attended the University of Illinois and later enlisted in the U.S. Army. Upon learning he would be stationed in Ankara, Turkey, he asked his longtime family friend from Rockford and relatively new sweetheart, Jill Kinley, if she would join him on this adventure as his wife. The two were married in 1967. Back home in Illinois, David graduated from Rockford College and later enrolled at Northwestern University, emerging with a law degree and a fervent devotion to Wildcats football. Later, when sons Seth and Andrew arrived, family tailgates became a sort of ritual, from the prescribed menu of steak sandwiches and even the occasional deep-fried Thanksgiving turkey, to the Double Stuff Oreos and milk served only when the team won. David was a raconteur of the finest order, who never passed up a chance to tell a story, even if he knew his audience had already heard it a time or two. He coached his sons' little league, passed along his love of the Cubs, and taught them the best way to grill a steak is always over charcoal. After law school, David worked at Winston and Strawn in downtown Chicago, and later retired to the family's house in Fontana, Wisconsin. He was a member of Big Foot Country Club and taught Sunday school at the Community Church of Fontana for many years. Later in life, he delighted in his grandchildren, especially after Jill passed away in 2016. He is survived by his sons, Seth Acker (Allecia Vermillion) of Seattle and Andrew Acker (Amanda Lossia) of Chicago, grandchildren Silas, Vivian, and Felix Acker, brothers Al and John Acker, and his extended family.
David's requests for the end of his life are a window into who he was: A memorial at the Community Church of Fontana, followed by a rollicking celebration for family and friends on a yet-to-be-determined date this summer. In lieu of flowers, David would appreciate donations to the Community Church of Fontana (http://www.communitychurchoffontana.com/) or to the Jill A. Acker Scholarship Fund at the Latin School of Chicago (https://www.latinschool.org/support-latin/makeagift), where his sons attended and his wife taught for many years. For more information call Toynton Funeral Homes at 262-275-2171.

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Published by Rockford Register Star from Apr. 20 to Apr. 22, 2018.

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David and Jill on that special day ... with Bill Dornbush and Kent Flodin.

Kent Flodin

May 1, 2018

April 25, 2018

Dear Seth and Andrew,

It was clear that your dad loved you both very much. I'm glad you had happy times cooking together, watching the Cubs, tailgating and more. I'm certain he is smiling down on you and your families.

Sharon B.

April 23, 2018

May Almighty God and his son Jesus Christ bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. John 17:3

April 22, 2018

I am sorry for your loss. Please take comfort in Psalms 29:11, knowing that in difficult times like this, God gives peace and strength. DM

Fred G Rich

April 22, 2018

Andrew and Seth please accept our sincere condolences for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you during this difficult time. Matthew 5:4

April 22, 2018

Please accept my sincere condolences for your family's loss. May the words of John 6:40 bring you comfort.

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