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Frank Aquistapace Obituary
Frank was born May 26, 1930, in West Rutland, VT, the son of Massimo and Giovanna (Tiraboschi) Aquistapace.
He was raised and lived his life in Rutland, VT. He attended Mount St. Joseph Academy, Class of 1948. He served his country honorably as a member of the United States Air Force. Frank was carpenter who left a legacy of beautiful homes, shared by numerous families, throughout the city.
Frank was a self-made man of strong faith and a lifelong member of Christ the King Parish. He belonged to many social communities, including the Elks, the American Legion and the Proctor-Pittsford Country Club. He enjoyed golfing, gardening and an occasional trip to the casino.
Frank was predeceased by his wife of 58 years, Catherine (2009); his youngest son, Paul Robert (1976); his brother, Peter (1993); and his son-in-law, Dean Durkee (2010).
He was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather who was the center of his family.
He is survived by his children daughter Janet Marie Durkee, daughter Patricia Mae Trapeni, son Dr. Frank Robert Aquistapace Jr. and wife Suzanne, all of Rutland, VT, and daughter Mary Catherine Smoolca and husband Joseph, of Windsor, CT.
The joys of his life were his 10 grandchildren Sarah Durkee, Devon Durkee-Bettolo and husband Joe, Ethan Durkee and wife Kristen, Joya Trapeni and significant-other Jesse, Brian Mc Dermott and wife Megan, Kyle McDermott, Zachary Aquistapace and fiancée Andrea, Jordan Aquistapace, Christian Smoolca and Matthew Smoolca; and six great-grandchildren Noah Durkee, Alexa and Eva Bettolo, Luci Breitigan, and Liam and Lea McDermott.
He leaves many people who loved and will miss him dearly, including his sisters and brothers-in-law Laura Aquistapace, Julie and Fred Boudreau and Regina and Larry Sears, as well as numerous nieces and nephews.
Arrangements are under the direction of Clifford Funeral Home. Calling hours will be held for family and friends on Wednesday, May 30, from 4-7 p.m.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, May 31, 11 a.m. at Christ the King Church in Rutland, VT. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery.
Those wishing to honor Frank's memory may make a donation in his name to Rutland Area Visiting Nurse and Hospice.
A reception to celebrate Frank's life will follow his services on Thursday.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Frank Aquistapace
May 30, 2018
To my family. I regret that I cannot be with you for the services but I am with you in spirit. Uncle Frank, actually my first cousin, was a wonderful, dignified, gentleman who always referred to me as "Kiki". I wish you all strength and remember "Memories are made of many things and when we need them the most they come back to us to keep us strong". May it be so with all of you. Love, Kathy Tiraboschi
May 30, 2018
Laura, Regina and Julie, I am so sorry for your loss. May friends and family see you through this difficult time. Thinking of you all, Betty Mumford
Paul and Daisy Lasky
May 30, 2018
Frank and Suzanne, we are so sorry for your family's loss. Our prayers are with you.
Regina (Aquistapace) Finney
May 30, 2018
So sorry for your loss ...maybe he and dad can get in a good game of golf. Uncle Frank was always such a caring and talented man. So many summers spent on Jackson Ave and Lake Bomeseen , the July 4th family picnics ... many fond memories ..he was a wonderful father, husband, brother, uncle
May 30, 2018
Dear Janet:
We are sorry to hear of Frank's passing. Please accept our most sincere sympathy.
Gary & Chris Gregorio
Judy Hulsebus
May 29, 2018
Dear Janet and Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences with the "Going Home" of your Dad. You all are an extension of him. Prayers for comfort and peace to you all. Love you, Janet. Extra hugs to you my friend. I'm here for you. God bless you all.
Love,
Judy
Carol pinney
May 29, 2018
Patti and family so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers
Ed Seager
May 29, 2018
Aquistapace family,
Sorry about the loss of Frank. He was
truly a nice guy.
Mary Ellen & Peter Shaw
May 29, 2018
Laura, Regina and Family,
Please accept our condolences for the loss of Frank.
May the happy memories you have help you through this difficult time.
Fred Boudreau
May 29, 2018
Rest In Peace Uncle Frankie
May 29, 2018
To the Aquistapace family. I was so sad to read of the passing of Frank. A true gentleman who loved his family especially Kitty that he so lovingly cared for. I will keep all of you in my prayers. I know he left some beautiful memories.Sincerely Carol Randall
Jennifer Whalen
May 29, 2018
Dr Aquistapace,
I'm sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. Prayers for you and your family.
Linda Adams
May 29, 2018
Janet and Ethan, My sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.
Stan & Michelle Jagodzinski
May 29, 2018
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lucy Notte
May 29, 2018
To Frank's family:
Those we hold most dear never truly leave us. They live on in the kindness they showed, the comfort they shared and the love they brought into our lives.
Heaven has gained another Angel. Frank is no longer suffering and is at peace with his beloved Kitty and son Paul. I feel very honored and privileged to be able to say Frank was a friend. RIP Frank. I will be having a biscotti and cannoli is your honor.
Sympathy and prayers to the family. You kids were great with your Dad.
Jack Healey
May 29, 2018
My deepest sympathies go out to Frank's family.
Linda (Abar) Nowak
May 29, 2018
Patty, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .
Lori Towne
May 29, 2018
Dear Frank & Family:
Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your father. May your memories of him give you comfort.
Daniel, Lori & Olivia Towne
johnny petrone
May 29, 2018
arreverderci to a great guy---always enjoyed conversations with him--god speed frankie
Jim Pickett
May 29, 2018
Ethan: I am so sorry for the loss of your grandfather. May he rest in eternal peace.
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