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Jovian Wilson Obituary
JEFFERSONVILLE - Jovian Neshobe Wilson, 31, died suddenly on the evening of Thursday, November 12, 2009, from complications related to asthma. His adoring wife, Jessica, tried desperately to save him.
Jovian was born at home on August 24, 1978, in Goshen, Vt., the son of Michael and Melody (Jones) Wilson. He was a graduate of Otter Valley Union High School Class of 1996 and attended Franklin Pierce College. On May 29, 2004, Jovian married his teenage sweetheart, Jessica Ellen Conti.
Jovian is survived by his heartbroken and adoring wife, Jessica Ellen Conti Wilson of Jeffersonville; his two baby daughters, Hayden Ellen Wilson, 2 years old, and Devin Caroline Wilson, 4 months old; his parents, Michael and Melody Wilson of Goshen; his brother, Caber Wilson of Goshen; his brother, Peter McLaughlin of Myrtle Beach, S.C.; his paternal grandparents, Leonard and Helen Wilson of Tucson, Ariz.; his parents-in-law, Earl and Penny Conti of Woodbridge, Conn.; his sister-in-law, Christina Conti Wethington, her husband William, and their children Matthew and Tyler Wethington, of Cincinnati, Ohio; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. Jovian was predeceased by his best friend, Tad Goldberg, and his maternal grandparents, Elmer and Betty Jones.
Jovian was a loyal employee of Stowe Mountain Resort where he worked at Spruce Peak Golf Course and groomed the gorgeous Stowe trails.
All who knew and loved Jovian will remember his excited eyes and smile, his love of his wife and babies, Jessica, Hayden and Devin, and his love of music, particularly Phish.
"Home is where I want to be, But I guess I'm already there, I come home, she lifted up her wings, Guess that this must be the place, I can't tell one from another, Did I find you, or you find me? There was a time before we were born, if someone asks, this is where I'll be, where I'll be." David Byrne.
A funeral service celebrating Jovian's life will be held at 2:00 pm on Tuesday, November 17, 2009, at St. Paul's Episcopal Cathedral, 2 Cherry St., Burlington, Vt., with burial to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations in Jovian's memory may be sent to the "Education Fund for Hayden and Devin Wilson," in care of TD Bank, 111 Main St., Burlington, VT 05401. Arrangements are in the care of the Ready Funeral Services.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jovian Wilson
Julie
December 15, 2009
Hi Jessica, We've just met this morning at the shop. Your strong and I see in your eyes that you will bravely continue for children and for you to. Never give up. I can see a beautiful soul in your eyes. Hug those babies for me. J. vt tat
peter McLaughlin
December 14, 2009
Jessica, all my hopes ,thoughts and prayers are with both you and the chilren every day.
Jessica Wilson
December 3, 2009
oh,jovian...it has been 3 weeks since that night...11.12.09. oh please come home to us. it has to stop. i need you to come back. i would hold you for forever and protect you. i love you and miss you desperately. YOU KNOW.
Peter McLaughlin
November 23, 2009
I am here for but a moment;but then I'm gone.The wind blows and we know it's there.When it stops we know not where it goes.But in our hearts,our memories of you will always glow.Fly free with the wind My Brother.
November 23, 2009
oh, jovian...i miss you so much and the babies and i love you so much. i will never stop loving you. my heart is so broken. you know.
jessica, hayden, and devin
Dot Maynard
November 19, 2009
My prayers are with you all.
Roberts Family
November 18, 2009
Eli is devastated and so are we. A terrible loss for us all. Our hearts and minds go out to all who knew and loved Jovian.
Chris and Patty McIlvaine
November 18, 2009
My husband and I worked with Jovian at Killington. We are so stunned and saddened by the news of his death. To Jovian's family, we send our love and prayers- Jovian will be sorely missed - he was smart, hilariously funny, sweet - just a good, good person - we were lucky to know him as our friend.
November 17, 2009
Love and Prayers,
SK, TCAC
Brianna sliwa
November 17, 2009
Jovian was one of my brother Eric's very close friends. I am so sorry to his loved ones for this loss.
Mike McCain
November 17, 2009
Jovian was literally the funniest person I've ever met. So many great memories. VT powder days, nighttime groomers, Montreal ect... Your personality and ability to enjoy life was contagious. I will miss you dearly!
Much love to Wilson Family,
~Mike McCain
josh martin
November 17, 2009
Jovian always had a miscievious smile, and a twinkle in his eyes. Fond memories of riding around backroads getting into trouble, and laughing a lot. My condolances to his family and his beautiful wife and children.
Jennifer Bailey
November 17, 2009
Thinking of you in this time of sorrow, you are in our thoughts and prayers. With our deepest sympathy.
The Bailey Family
Elmer
November 17, 2009
To Jovians Family,Our world stopped when we heard the news about Jovian. Remembering all the good times helps to ease the pain our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mom and Dad will be wating with open arms to greet him.
Rebecca May
November 16, 2009
Aunt Melody and Uncle Mike,
I am so sorry. My thoughts and heart are with you. You all are loved so much.
Love,
Charles Foster
November 16, 2009
I remember a really neat, fun-loving kid who used to come to my office with his brother and father. I really enjoyed him then. Also remember him at Neshobe golf course. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife, kids, parents and brother.
November 16, 2009
Jessica- I am so sorry for your loss. My memories of Jovian are all associated with good times at UVM. You and your girls are in my thoughts and prayers. Love.
- Cathy (Frongillo) Strattner
Jason Schroeder
November 16, 2009
I worked at Stowe Mountain Resort with Jovian. He was a sweet, positive and energetic guy in every interaction we had together. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Carole Stoneking
November 16, 2009
Jessica - We were together in the baby room at Playcare for a short period of time. My heart is so full right now for you and the girls. Please let me know what I can do, if anything and hold those precious little ones close to you.
Heidi Thresher
November 16, 2009
Jessica,
You're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. The following passage is one of my favorites and over time, it will become a bit easier. Remember all the wonderful memories the two of you had and more so after the birth of your two daughters. Don't hesitate to contact me if you need anything.
Psalm 23
1The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.
Neil Albert
November 16, 2009
I met Jovian in the winter of 03 at Pico. I have great memories of secretly riding up in his cat to ski by moonlight. We would listen to Phish all the way up. Though I only saw him a few times in the last few years, we always remained friends. He will be remembered tonight during the Monday Nite Phish show on 89.1 KHOL Jackson Hole, WY. We will listen to the same old shows we used to play in the cat, buddy.
Sarah Kaminski
November 16, 2009
To the family in Vermont,
We are sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Kaminski Family
Originally of Brandon, VT
November 16, 2009
Jessica,Ben and I are very sorry for your loss. please let us know if we can help. With sympathy, Ben and Harriet King
Kevin B. D'Arcy
November 16, 2009
Jessica - Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. It broke my heart when I heard about Jovian's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Peace & love
November 16, 2009
Dear Mike, Mel, Caber, Peter and Jessica,
Our family is so sad to hear the news of Jovian. There is nothing we can say to ease the sorrow of losing a loved one...especially in the prime of his life. We were just recently looking at camp 'theme' parties and laughing over our costumes..... Remember Jovian with his hula outfit? Great memories....deeply sad time. We pray you can find comfort from each other and those beautiful little girls....
Love,
Mad, Roy & Families
"Aunt Kaye"
November 16, 2009
Jessica - We were in a Con Law class together - I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. God Bless. Lisa Leontiev
Laurie Christie
November 16, 2009
Mom and Dad, Wife and children, siblings, relatives. I also experienced a similar loss years ago, and have some small idea of what you are experiencing. The community surrounds you with love and aid, even in those hours when you feel nothing. In Love and sympathy, Laurie Christie, Rutland/Castleton
November 16, 2009
To all the family in Vt.,
Always no words to truly express the feelings of loss; when I heard, all I remember are the great memories of "the boys" growing up together,so many close friends;as they all kept in touch through the years. My heart hurts. Miah & I will be there for the memorial. Love, Sissy
November 16, 2009
Jessica: So sorry about Jovian. Ross and Lagretta
November 16, 2009
Mike and Melody, Becky, E.J. and I want you to know how sad we are for you and you are in our thoughts and prayers Christine Petty
Jay Williams
November 16, 2009
Aunt Mel, Uncle Mike, Peter and Caber,
I was so shocked to hear of Jovian's passing and am so very sorry for your loss. Robin and I were just watching the Christmas video we made Grandma Jones back in about '87. I was sad to see my Uncle Larry in that video after his passing but happy to remember the good times. I am sure next time we take a trip down memory lane and watch the video again I will feel the same way about Jovian. I will never forget all the good laughs we had at the Jones family Christmas parties and family reunions at Aunt Kaye's camp. I hope those memories will help you through these difficult times.
Kim Albro
November 16, 2009
Dear Jessica, Hayden, Devin, Penny and Earl,
Please know how sorry I am for your loss. My sympathy goes out to you and your family, and if there is anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Kim
November 16, 2009
Melody and family -
My thoughts are with you
Rhonda Phillips (Sumner)
November 16, 2009
Hi Mike and Melody: So sorry to hear about Jovian. My condolences, peace and love to you and yours. Steve Little.
Pat & Kathy O'Donnell
November 16, 2009
Mike, Mel, Jessica and girls~our hearts are breaking for your loss. Call us any time of day or night if we can help by listening or doing something for you.
November 16, 2009
Melody and Michael,
I am so sorry to hear about Jovians passing. You and his family will be in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Ivy Dixon
November 16, 2009
Dear Mike and Melody,
I didn't know your son Jovian, but I wish to express my deepest condolences for your loss of him to you and your family and to his family also. May God give you the strength to go on and if there is anything I can do to help you, I am here. God Bless,
A friend,
Sandy Cummings,
Brandon, Vt.
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