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Robert Neary Obituary

Robert Richard Neary, 67, of Rutland, died Sept. 3, 2010, at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center in Lebanon, N.H.

He was born Sept. 17, 1942, in Rutland, the son of Richard and Helen (Hood) Neary, and attended Rutland schools.

He established an auto body mechanical service garage in Rutland and then, for more than 35 years, was employed as a mechanic and did auto body work for Stewart A. Smith Co. and then Smith Buick, Pontiac, GMC until retiring at age 62.

Mr. Neary loved classic cars and was a founding member of Rutland Area Vehicle Enthusiasts (RAVE).

Survivors include a daughter, Donna Wilder, and a son, Chris Wilder; two sisters, Susan Miglorie of Conway, S.C., and Kathy Dahlstrom of Barbersville, Va.; two brothers, David Neary of Hyland Heights, Ky., and Thomas Neary of North Clarendon; his companion of 33 years, Joan Lee of Rutland; grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

There will be no public calling hours or funeral service.

The graveside service is pending for Monday, Sept. 20, in Hillside Cemetery in Castleton.

Memorial contributions may be made to Dodge House, 95 Crescent St., Rutland, VT 05701; or Rutland County Humane Society Inc., 765 Stevens Road, Pittsford, VT 05763.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Aldous Funeral Home.

Private condolences can be made through www.aldousfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rutland Herald from Sep. 4 to Sep. 6, 2010.

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francis mcginnis

August 31, 2020

RIP Bob great person great friend.

September 13, 2010

Rest in peace Daddy, I know you will always be with us.
I love you
Love your Daughter

September 7, 2010

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. love~ hugs~ and deepest sympothy are with you all in this very sad time~ XOXOXOXO~ SHERRI DAVIS

September 7, 2010

Tommy,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Please extend our condolences to the rest of your family. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.

Norm and Cookie

Carole Minard(Shackleford

September 6, 2010

I think I know this man, dated him back in the 50's. really great guy. I'm sure he will be missed by many. sorry for your loss. sincerely Carole (Minard) Shackleford

Edward McLaughlin

September 6, 2010

So sorry to learn of our loss of Bob. HE WAS A GREAT CUSTOMER OF MINE FOR MANY YEARS, LEADING TO A GREAT FRIEND. May God bless you all, and I share deeply in your sorrow

September 6, 2010

My Prays are with you all Bob was a great guy Donna Henne

Ron McGinnis

September 6, 2010

So glad, that I got to see Bob in July at the car show.
RIP Buddie, You will be missed

September 6, 2010

My sympathy to Bob's family.I have known Bob for 50 years or more.He was a good friend and a great guy to everybody.He will surely be missed. Francis McGinnis Rutland Vt

September 6, 2010

Tom and family-So sorry for your loss. Seems like you've had your share of tough times. Jerry and Sandy Hyzer.

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