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Chris Ebert
October 18, 2005
Jay,
As I remember you, aviation only serves a backdrop. Yes, you were a conscientious, gifted pilot. It was fun to fly with you, and I (almost) always learned something new (well; you have to remember who you were working with). But more importantly; you were a conscientious, gifted, caring person. You always seemed to have time for people -- a soft word, a quick smile, and some new adventure story to share. There was an impressive strength in your humility and gentleness that I’m not sure everyone noticed. I noticed. You helped me be a better pilot, Jay. But more importantly, you helped me be a better person.
I miss you, friend.
John O'Connor
October 10, 2005
Dear Art/Bart/Jay,
I'll never be able to pick up a green pen without thinking of you. And you didn't even ask me to proof read your obit! Gee, I wonder why!!
I'll miss you my friend. But you'll always be with me in spirit, because you made a difference in my life. You helped me discover who I was; you made me a better person. I'll always remember...ALWAYS!
Thank you, my friend. Enjoy your cloud! God Bless!
Ivan Foglesong
October 1, 2005
Jay was always a friend -- he'll always be missed.
Pete Marchewka
September 30, 2005
Although Jay and I were both Air Force pilots, I first met Jay at World Airways MD-11 initial training in Long Beach, CA in 1993.
My first impression of Jay was a person who was genuine and caring. He seemed to always have a positive and optimistic outlook on life. I remember a few years later when we were on a layover in Honolulu and Jay and I went out and enjoyed a delicious fish dinner in Waikiki. Jay had just recently finished Captain upgrade training and I was in the middle of training. Jay's words of encouragement and helpful hints about how to get through my IOE(Initial Operating Experience)meant a lot to me and gave me a confidence boost. Jay was good at putting things into perspective and making people feel good about themselves. I had the pleasure and privilege of attending Jay's memorial service on Sep 24th. His family and friends were there and spoke from their hearts on what Jay meant in their lives. He will surely be missed by all, but the world is definitely a better place because of Jay Barker's short, but memorable life on this earth. This may sound trite, but "Thanks for the memories," Jay. Rest in eternal peace.
Richard Osborne
September 27, 2005
I am saddened by learning of Jay's "going west" on his last solo flight. I am glad he was able to be with his famaily during those final hours,and visited by his friends. I am also thankful for the opportunity he had to continue flying as long as possible- to enjoy as a gift,every additional moment of being part of the heavens-above the earth-and part of the elements;that special bond with the rest of us who remain-and who have gone before.
To those that accompanied him on those last flights, thank you for supporting him.
I fully realize the significance of having to say goodby to this incredible opportunity we have had to fly these big silver birds- I was faced with that probable loss twice before- and again, in a few months- when I leave that wonderful seat forever.
I met Jay- when we were both in initial training at World-Suffice to say that those were very difficult times for new hires-
A short story- He had already completed a B-747 training course ( yes-still rumors of 74's) when World Management stepped back and decided to remain with the DC-10 operation only. So! Here were a couple of gentlemen, hired based upon substantial experience flying heavy jets-had completed transition to the "74" and then found themselves with an instructor who decided they didn't meet his "muster"! Indeed tough times for a new hire. Fortunatly,Jay survived to be a Captain at World Airways. Anyone who has attained that seat at World Airways-can truely be proud.
Jay was an impressive guy then, and throughout his career. Always a gentleman.
I think he added much to our profession by his pressence.
Jay- I can only wish you the blue skies-and-perpetual tailwinds you have earned-and when I block in from my final flight I hope to see you there with a smile and a cold one.
You are missed.
Dick Osborne
Brian Barber
September 26, 2005
Jay,
I'll be listening for your voice in a gospel quartet singing loud and singing proud when we meet again. Was nice to have a chance to get to know you a little and even nicer flying with you. Happy contrails.
Ken Rash
September 23, 2005
It has been a long time since we met as "kids" in 1969 at Williams AFB for Pilot Training. Art was the symbol of love, humor, and decency back then, and, throughout the 36 years between, it has been a pleasure to watch him stay just the same. If ever I needed a friend, he was always just a phone call away. It hurts to think of a world without Bart Farkel; but, oh, the memories are sweet! Condolences to Art's "family;" I share your grief.
Ken Rash, Captain, Northwest Airlines
Paul Ducharme
September 22, 2005
I was priveledged to cross paths with Jay on several occaisions, but I think we actually flew together only once or twice. A gentleman, class act, a professional. Always a good word, incapable of running around with his hair on fire, both figuratively and literally. After flying in from Europe, he passed the plane on to me on a 35 degree below zero January morning in Bangor Maine (fastest walkaround I ever did). He stayed on the plane as I took it to Riverside, and I considered it a priviledge to help him make his way home. Though I am very saddened by his passing, the lasting impression that will remain with me is a life well lived...and you can't do better than that.
Robert Stuart
September 21, 2005
Jay was a big man with a big smile and an appetite to match. He was a pleasure to be around whether in the cockpit or socializing after a flight. My deepest sympathy to his family and partner.
Rod Paul Andres
September 21, 2005
Although I've not been in communication with Jay in many years, the news of his passing was none the less of a blow to my heart. Jay was my mentor, my friend, my father figure. He taught me about compassion, laughter, love, sadness... and to stand proud. Without his guiding influence I'd undoubtedly be a different person. Jay seemed invincible and managed to rise through diversity and hardship with his head held high. My sadness goes to his family, who so lovingly accepted me into their lives. Thank you Jay, I am the man I am today, because of you. PEACE
Richard Guatelli
September 21, 2005
Jay,
The first time that I flew with you we were both First Officers enroute to Tel Aviv, Israel. My impression was that you were a class act, an example of how it [the job] should be done in all aspects. The last time that I flew with you, you were the Captain enroute from Melbourne, Australia, to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Again my impression was that you were a class act, an example of how is should be done as a Captain. I am sure that everyone who has flown with you and spent time conversing with you over an adult beverage in some hole in the wall on the other side of the Earth, would agree that you were, simply put, a true gentleman in and out of the flightdeck We’ll all miss you Jay. Rest In Peace
James "Dirt" Keadle
September 21, 2005
Jay,
We will surely miss your smiling face in the cockpit of your MD11. You'll always be one of my "favorite people" and your family will be in my prayers. One day I too will join you with our Lord Jesus and we'll have lots of catching up to do. Farewell for now my friend.
Donn Hile
September 21, 2005
You will be missed my friend, but not forgotten.
Thad Osburn
September 21, 2005
It was a real pleasure flying with Jay. You will be missed! God Bless.
Mark DeBolt
September 21, 2005
Jay, they forgot to say you loved working for World so much that you worked as a flight attendant during a tough period for World. Thanks for the good flights and good times. Fly with you again someday.
Ed Cunha
September 20, 2005
One of the first times that I ever saw Jay was in March 1993 when I went to the LA Fitness in Long Beach. There Jay was lifting weights. I wasn't about to lift with him for fear that he would show me up. We were both going through MD11 initial training at the time. Unfortunately, I didn't get to fly with him very often, but I appreciated that he almost always had a smile on his face. I'll never forget the time that I took the aircraft from him and his then FO, Charlie Mowat. With Charlie standing there Captain Barker said to me, "The aircraft is in good shape and I have Charlie here to thank for keeping us out of trouble during the flight".
Charlie Mowat
September 20, 2005
Jay, I think we flew together more than any other crew. Whenever I saw the pairing for the upcoming trip and saw your name listed as my captain, I knew it was going to be a great trip. I never once heard you complain about anything. You are the poster for a positive attitude. We will never forget you.
Greg Unterseher
September 20, 2005
My sincere condolences on the untimely loss of Jay, an unassuming yet strong leader, he was always a pleasure to fly with.
Tailwinds,
Eric Ross
September 20, 2005
Jay you were a wonderful person. After spending 12 hours in the aircraft together a number of times I can say I never had an unhappy flight with you although you did eat too many crew meals. I still tell my friends some of your stories and tales that you would tell me on long flights out in the middle of nowhere.My condolences to friends and family.Rest in peace my friend. E.
Mike Mangan
September 20, 2005
God got another one too early.
Darryl Epps
September 20, 2005
God Speed Jay
Kevin Brown
September 20, 2005
It was a shock to hear of Jay being seriously ill and then of his passing a few days later. Yet it brought back only good memories of having flown with him even though it's been some years for me. I will never forget the flight with Jay when we were enroute to Jeddah and we had to roust him from the bunk due to smoke in the cockpit. He handled it like the pro he was. He was a pleasure to fly with, one of the good guys. Rest in peace Jay.
Kevin
David Mauldin
September 20, 2005
Jay, I am sorry we never had the chance to fly together, that is my loss. From the very nice things being said it is also the world's loss. You have had a profound impact on many lives, I can only hope to leave such a rich and positive legacy. May the sun never be in your eyes and the wind always at your back. God Bless
Jay Barr
September 20, 2005
I've known Jay since he took pity on me and a bunch of other ROTC cadets at our summer camp in 1971. He was a brand new EC-135 copilot. Little was I to know that only 4 years later I would be right back there and he would be my aircraft commander. In those days he went by Art or "Fat Farkle". Throughout my military career, Jay and I continued to bump into each other. So it was only fitting that we both end up at World together. I only wish I could tell you the number of times that Scheduling call me with an alert for "Jay" Barker. He recieved the same. We always laughed about it and if the trip was good, we'd each try to take it away from the other. Jay was an excellent military officer,airline captain, instructor and airman. God-speed Jay, we'll miss you. Until we meet again.
Chris McQuillen
September 20, 2005
Jay, You truly were a loving guy who cared much about the people you worked and lived with. Your smile warmed a room and your laughfter lit it up. Heaven is a better place today.
Chris McQuillen
Michael Farano
September 20, 2005
Jay,
I made my first 2 man trip with you and really put me at ease. You were very good at that. We flew together many times after that and it was always the same...realaxed and enjoyable. I'll miss you.....
Mike Farano
Varrin Swearingen
September 19, 2005
Enjoyed flying with you... hope to do it again some time ;) V-
Ron Easterling
September 19, 2005
I remember having dinner with Jay one night at the Don Shula Steakhouse. I finished my 12 oz. and he finished his 16 oz.steak. I commented "That was so good I could almost eat another" to which Jay replied " I will if you will". A challenge that could not be refused. We then summoned the waiter and ordered another round of steaks. I will always remember that night. Thanks to a great guy, it's been a pleasure knowing you. Ron
Vincent Estornell
September 19, 2005
Jay, you inspired this wet-behind-the-ears first officer when we first flew together a couple of years ago. I noted your contagious humour, your keen interest in your crewmembers, and your flying skill. Because of this, I'd smile when I'd see you around the world in hotels or jetways. I'll miss you in this world, and I have faith you're smiling back at us from out there. Thank you for the course correction you made in my life.
Pete Hubik
September 19, 2005
We will all miss you Captain Jay Barker. Rest in peace.
Pete Hubik
SO Ron Young
September 19, 2005
We'll meet again my friend; Rest in Peace.
Kevin McGill
September 19, 2005
Jay always seemed to be one of the happiest and smilingest people I ever had the privilege to meet. I can not think of a single time of hearing him complain.
His untimely death comes as a shock. May he rest in peace.
Mark Ohlau
September 19, 2005
The crewmembers of World Airways will miss the joy, and laughter that surrounded Jay, and was always present on his flight deck.
My wife was a Flight Attendant for World Airways and she was always happy to fly with Jay.
Les Gumula
September 19, 2005
I flew with Jay in the simulator in June 2005.He did a great job. He and I flew a lot in SE Asia when he first got hired at World. I always tried to out eat him at the buffet table, but he always won.He was a great guy.He will be missed.
Bob Pirog
September 19, 2005
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