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Teresa Boron Irwin
September 16, 2015
Miss you dear friend..so so much..you had the best aurua surrounding you. Love you.
SKG
March 5, 2015
Winning the lottery of birthplace prompted her to give to the less fortunate. People just don't say things like that in passing. Sadly, I never met you, second letter, or Carl, third letter, of the Maziarz alphabet, but I have come to know and love Denise, the fourth letter. You'll not be far from my thoughts on 07MAR15 and all I ask is that you help those you left behind, adjust as they celebrate your birthday the only way possible, with real, deliberate love.
Linda Warfield
October 6, 2014
I met Ralph and Barbara through their business, "If It Sings to You". Well, their beautiful polish dishes and jewelry did sing to me. I began visiting their home - it was fun shopping but more so it was fun visiting with both of them and listening to stories of travel and family. I am so sorry for your loss, Ralph. Barbara is a very special lady and I will miss her very much. Linda Warfield.
September 30, 2014
Dear Ralph – what a flood of memories were released when I read of Barb's passing: two hippies (you and Barb) in a campground in Skopje with an enviable jar of peanut butter on a table in front of the van and another set of hippies (us) trying to figure out how to approach with bread and honey in hand. An authentic traveling bond was formed and the wonderful European experiences just kept piling up. The loss you must be feeling is doubtlessly enormous. Be assured that in memory, Barb stands as a wonderful, intelligent, and above all, hysterically funny woman – in her presence I was constantly entertained. Although years and space have separated us, it's difficult not to smile when I think of Barb, vodka, and a certain trip through Poland. Archie, Mary, Alex and I share our offering of condolences to you and Barb's extended family. With much love, Penny
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Linda Egebrecht
September 23, 2014
I did not know Barbara personally—I only knew her through Denise and her accounts of their time together. Her devotion to family and friends, her kindness and her caring nature were so apparent through Denise's stories about her wonderful sister (and her wonderful brother-in-law). I am truly sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Dennis & Chris Zarembka
September 23, 2014
Dear Ralph
So Sorry for your great loss. She was a very special woman.
Dee Benbow
September 22, 2014
Dear Ralph and Denise …
Please accept my deepest and most profound sympathy. Barbara was an extraordinary person: thoughtful, caring, smart; and she shared the most fascinating stories, especially about family and many exciting travels.
Barbara was an incredibly supportive friend, too. I'll never forget her many kindnesses, sage advice and words of encouragement. She was truly special and I know that I'm just one of many who count themselves lucky and blessed to have known her. I will cherish my memories of Barbara forever.
Ralph and Denise … you are in my thoughts.
Barb Nelson IBVM
September 22, 2014
Barbara was one of our Barbaras from Loretto. Ralph, I know you will miss her so. I have so many good memories of her at our Barbara parties.
With love and sympathy,
Barb Nelson IBVM
Debra Cornez
September 22, 2014
Barbara was a good friend. You couldn't ask for a better friend than Barbara. A heart of gold and the sweetest personality. I will miss her very much. My heart goes out to Ralph and Denise.
Alissa Morotti Koeth
September 21, 2014
Mr. Eckard,
Sending you love, thoughts, and prayers during this difficult time. LHS '04
September 21, 2014
Witty, intelligent and engaging are the first personal thoughts that come to mind when I think of Barbara. Humble, and loyal to the point of not knowing how quantify it into words is my quandary now. Barbara's brother Carl was my best friend since 2nd grade. When Carl faced terminal cancer, Barbara and Ralph left their wonderful home in Roseville to live in Chicago for a year, nursing Carl until his last day. What a sister? What a brother Ralph is. And always there in voice and spirit Denise. The loyalty to Barb's Mom Albina was the same. My accolades for Barbara could go on endlessly. What a treasure to have known her. May Ralph and Denise take comfort in knowing how much Barbara impacted others so many years later here in Chicago.
Jean Frye
September 21, 2014
I grieve for you and with you. This is a sad event for Sacramento and especially for the Loretto family. I so enjoyed Barbara. Some of my fondest memories of Loretto are of Barbara and Ralph and looked forward each year for the annual "Ralph and Barbara go to the Prom" pictures. My love and prayers to and for Ralph. May the good memories of Barbara's life with you help you to live through this sorrow. Jean Frye
Teresa Boron Irwin
September 21, 2014
And let the perpetual light shine upon you Dearest Barbara.
Teresa Boron Irwin
September 21, 2014
Dear Ralph, Denise,and family my heart breaks for you, and my family grieves for you. We are so saddened by the loss of Barbara. I am so grateful I had the privilege of knowing your beautiful,funny,brilliant,talented wife and sister. You were the best husband and sister she ever could have had.
Christine Breen
September 21, 2014
She was a gracious, lovely woman. Prayers for your family.
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