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STEINER, Bret J.
Age 29, died tragically in a motorcycle accident, July 28, 2007, close to Stumpy Meadows. He was born in Sacramento, CA and lived here most of his life. He graduated from Folsom High School. He was a loving husband to Pilar Steiner of 4 years and a doting father to Elayna (Ellie) Steiner, age 3 1/2. He was the son of Carol and Jim Watt, Don and Mary Steiner, and son-in-law to Bob and Christine Lamma. He is survived by brother, Bryon Steiner; sister, Ashley Steiner; Grandparents George and Patricia Steiner, and Wilma Smith; in-laws Erin and George Lopez and Caleb Lamma. He is also survived by several aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends who loved him dearly. Bret's most precious possessions were his wife, Pilar, and daughter Ellie. He loved to go to Bodega Bay with them and sit in an old cemetery or play on the beach with sand and kites. Bret loved life and people. He often said there wasn't anyone he couldn't strike a conversation with. Family friends would rave about his humor and politeness. He loved theatre, snow boarding, mountain biking, an avid movie go-er, and X-Box gamer. Memorial services are Friday, August 3, at 10:00 AM, at Oak Hills Church, 1100 Blue Ravine Rd, Folsom, CA. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been set up for Ellie: Bret J. Steiner Memorial Fund, account # 867603, c/o Golden 1 CU, 1117 E. Bidwell St., Folsom, CA 95630. Internment will be at a later date. In view of Bret's love of life and so many gathering for him, please feel free to dress casually for the services. Bret would have wanted that. Arrangements were made by Green Valley Mortuary, Cameron Park, CA.
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Memories and Condolences
for Bret Steiner
Chris Harder
November 16, 2008
To Bret’s dear family...My heart goes out to you for your loss. Bret was certainly a wonderful young man and dedicated husband and father. Two years ago, our 22 year old son died in an accidental drowning, so we know the pain you are dealing with in losing a son. We have an amazing support network for grieving families in our area, especially for moms. We’ve come to realize that we just can’t make it alone and we are so very thankful for the support. If you would like to have more information, or if you would just like to talk to a mom who understands, I hope you will contact me. I enjoyed meeting Bryon at a gathering in Auburn yesterday. I was introduced to Bret through the memorial on Bryon’s website.
Carol
September 6, 2008
Dear Bret,
Today is one of those days I have to struggle with and realize you're not here. I miss you so.
mom
Dee Ayers
July 21, 2008
Happy Birthday Bret. Not a minute goes by with you in our thoughts. Please keep your angel wings wraped tightly around your sister and family. They love you so much.
stephanie bradford
July 19, 2008
Happy Birthday Bret, we miss you and always thinking about you!
Ashley Steiner
May 29, 2008
Miss you lots, Bret. I think about you everday, and how badly I just want to talk with you and ask for your advice. I never said it while you were alive, but I love you. So much.
-Your little sister.
May 18, 2008
Dear Bret,
there are times I miss you so much. I wish you were here to be that person I could talk to, get an an opinion from, even when I didn't ask for it, and laugh with.
My heart breaks for you and even though your gone, that special cord that binds a mother to her child, is still there, attachd to my heart. I will love you always.
Mom
Dee Ayers
January 2, 2008
Bret....wishing you a Happy New Year in Heaven. Keep your family close. Love Dee
Dee Ayers
October 21, 2007
Bret....keep your sister in your angel wings....Rest in peace Bret...Love Dee
bill miller
August 14, 2007
I met you as Pilar's boyfriend but you were a really good friend in your own right, and in rare company. I will treasure my memories of you and your antics. I will miss sharing so many things with you that the years have not yet brought, that phone call that you made me promise to make to you, hanging out with Ellie, Pilar and you, wheeling and some many other things. I can try but I can't say how I feel better than, I miss you Bret.
Carol
August 13, 2007
Dear Bret,
we all struggle with the loss of your smile, humor, and love. From a pink and wrinkely baby to a young man full of laughter, you were always full of surprises. It is hard to believe you have gone ahead of us.
In the quiet time, when no one sees, I miss you the most. I hear your request and am doing my best to fulfill it. Be at peace, my son. Mom
Jenny Allert (Villarin)
August 12, 2007
I too knew Bret in HS. Amazing the flood of good memories. I am sorry for your loss...my prayers are with you and your family.
Gloria Barrett
August 10, 2007
To Pilar - I just heard today that you have lost your husband Bret. I am saddened and shocked. Please know that you have plenty of family and friends who love you and your little Ellie. We got to know each other pretty well after 4 1/2 months of jury duty and became fast friends. Some people are just attracted to each other and I am glad we became friends. We shared many stories both good and bad and I fell lucky to know you. Yor are truly a beautiful soul. Though I did not meet Bret he was blessed with many who loved him. I know you will stay strong and find peace. I will see you soon little buddy. Lots of love, Gloria
Bret at The Briarpatch Co-op
Barclay Neumann
August 9, 2007
Hey Bret,
They must have needed some good laughs in Heaven, or maybe just some really good help organizing their shelves. You are the best.
I appreciated your easy going not-so-serious approach to even serious things. Here is a photo from the Briarpatch set , that shows you as you are, full of light, making someone laugh,and trying not to look as serious as everyone else. You will be sorely missed. My thoughts are with your family .
Theresa
August 7, 2007
To the family of Bret:
Two years ago my 23 yr. old son, Justin, died on his motorcycle going to fast in Auburn. I can only say I'm so sorry for your loss--the pain is just too much somedays. Too many wonderful young men are dying way to young because they love to go fast. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jason Hall
August 7, 2007
Dear Bret,
I met you on a Saturday, and our friendship grew from that day forward. We roller skated together (as grown men)...we didn't hold hands though during the couple skate. :) You helped me with my annual Christmas Card, your humor was in each of those cards that I sent out. You were the only person I told about my ideas for the card. You were the funniest person I knew, and I wished that maybe one day you and I could've gone on stage and done a routine together. You were there the first night I did comedy. You were always there to support me. Thank you for all the laughs, all the stories, and the ability to look at you and envy the life you had created. Your brother has been so stong during this time, you would be so proud of him. You and I spoke about going camping on my birthday, you were going to look into getting the time off. Instead I was at your funeral that day. I still went up to Tahoe, I sat up on a rock overlooking all of Lake Tahoe, stared at the stars and thought about all the good times we had together. I'm going to miss you at my wedding (when they allow gay marriage) lol, I'm going to miss you when I see something funny and I can't share it with you in person, and I'm going to miss you on days that end in "Y". You know that I will be there for your family, and share my stories with Pilar and Ellie. We will see you soon...I probably won't be in Heaven because of my Christmas cards...but you can text whenever you like.
Love ya man
Ferg
Natalie Faria (Sisneroz)
August 6, 2007
I have read through everyones wonderful thoughts and messages. I think it has all been said. Great, loyal friend. One of the funniest guys there is! I haven't seen Bret in many years but I know, even in heaven, he is same guy! He will be missed by many. Loved by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with his close friends and family. God bless.
Dee Ayers
August 6, 2007
What can we say, except this is just a tragic loss. Our world will never shine as bright without Bret. My love goes out to entire family. I know my daughter Ashley is lost without her brother joking with her thru her tex messaging. Bryon is suffering without his best friend, Don without the fun times a father and son share. My heart breaks just to see their faces. Bret you keep shining brightly and wrap your wings around your loved ones.
Joanna Hartwell
August 6, 2007
I didn't personally know Bret but I knew a few people that did, and he seemed like he was so vibrant and a joy to be around. As a fellow rider, it is always so sad to hear when someone has left us here, and the same goes with Bret. Even though I didn't know him, my heart is still saddened by his early departure from this world. I wish his family and friends comfort and healing during this very hard time, and just know that he will always be there to guide you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care and God Bless.
You were the best brother a guy could have.
Bryon Steiner
August 5, 2007
We will miss you badly, brother. You were a great man, and you were my closest friend. I'll always love you, Bret. Always.
Barbara Vencer (Lobland)
August 5, 2007
Bret~
I have known you since high school, and although we only saw each other at local places and friends get togethers, your face always lit up as if no time had passed. You always managed to make me laugh even if we only spoke for a moment. This world will not be the same without your wit and humor.
Pilar~
We only met once or twice, but I know if Bret loved you, you must be wonderful. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know Bret's memory will stay alive through you and your beautiful daughter. God Bless...
Lydia Viduya
August 5, 2007
My words cannot describe my sorrow. Bret, you gave your smile to everyone you met, and I am blessed to have gotten to know you - even if it was for just a brief time.
I can tell you that Bret loved and spoke of his beautiful wife and daughter all the time. I met Bret because we were in a show together (Gypsy) and while we were backstage he showed me pictures of his daughter which he had stored in his cellphone. He talked about his wife's dance background and her plans to become a teacher. Because of him, I got to meet Pilar too.
My heart goes out to Pilar and Ellie, his family, close friends, and people like me - who got to share a little bit of space and time with him. God Bless you Bret.
Erin Lopez (Lamma)
August 5, 2007
Bret,
You will be missed terribly. Just know that Pilar and Elayna have many people watching over them. Rest in peace
E-Lo
Laura Cates (Reed)
August 5, 2007
To the Steiner family,
I knew Bret in highschool, and for those short few years, he left a lasting impression on me of a wonderful caring soul who wanted more than anything to make people laugh and be happy. I pray the Lord is giving you peace and know that Bret is waiting in heaven for you.
Jenny Mitchell
August 5, 2007
I will miss you very much Bret. You always made me laugh. You will be remembered forever. You are such an inspiration to me to live my life to the fullest. I will be forever grateful for you teaching me this. My prayers go out to Pillar and Ellie.
LaToya Wong
August 4, 2007
Bret,
I know I we only met a few times, but when I think of you I always see your happy eyes..
Sean Hetherington
August 4, 2007
We are still shocked and saddened by the loss of Bret; the world is not as funny, silly, smart, or caring. I will miss Bret for being a real man because he was hysterical and honest, charismatic and vulnerable, forgiving and self-assured. He was just a great friend.
Sharon Robertson
August 3, 2007
I first met Bret when we were both working for Tree of Life about 10 years ago. Bret was such a vibrant, happy, talented, loving man that was taken away from his life and young family much too soon. Bret and I did not talk often in the last few years, but he always spoke of Pilar and Ellie with pride and devotion. It was clear he loved them deeply. He was always upbeat, funny and just a delightful person. I am so sad and will miss his brightness. My heart's deepest sympathies to all Bret's family and friends that are grieving, now. God Bless.
Adam Terpstra
August 3, 2007
I have many memories of Bret growing up as he was always hanging with the Pellegrini clan. His personality and sense of humor kept me laughing every time I was around him. He will be missed greatly.
Katy Storm
August 3, 2007
Bret had this amazing ability to put a smile on anyone's face. He was always in good spirits, no matter what the occasion. He had a great sense of humor and a positive outlook on life. He was also very kind and took interest in other people's family life. He was very supportive during my divorce, and was always sweet to my little daughter. He loved sharing photos of Ellie, and talked about her all the time.
I enjoyed working with Bret and will miss him dearly.
My sincere condolences to his family.
Chris Robinson
August 3, 2007
I only met Bret one time. I have known Pilar for nearly 20 years and I met Bret when he came with Pilar to our 10 year High School reunion. It took Bret and I about 5 seconds to start tossing jokes back and forth and making each other gut laugh. I wish I could have known him better.
Joshua Oram
August 3, 2007
Bret is my "Aliens" buddy. We loved that movie so much in High School. Comic books, figurines (which he still has in his office!), drawings, video games. We had plans to see "AVP2" together this December - Aliens fans reunited after a long time apart.
We were close friends in High School. Lived close together in Folsom - how many times did I make that short bike ride over to your house? Took drama, starred in a play together - we were portraying two kids hung over after a party, and niether of us even knew what a hangover was! After High School we went our separate ways - glad we could reconnect through MySpace. Two weeks ago my family visited your house, met your fam, your beloved Pilar and Ellie, who you had talked so much about. Kelly and I really enjoyed that visit - our kids got along well. I'm so glad we could hang out one more time...
You will be missed, Bret. We once again go our separate ways. But there will come a time when we all will be reunited yet again - you with your family, me with mine, and all of us together as a big family, 'to go no more out'. Until then, though, we're all stuck here with a little less laughter.
Come December, I'm still going to see "AVP2" in the theatre, and I'm leaving the seat next to me open...
Rachel Hobbs Gunn
August 3, 2007
I wish I could be at the funeral--I only just found out about this. I'm so shocked and sad. Bret was always so nice and funny, I always looked forward to seeing him. Even after all these years that I haven't seen him, I've never forgotten about him and I never will.
Deb & Mike Enders
August 3, 2007
We just saw Bret, Pilar & Ellie on the 4th of July...had a great visit and hugs around, marveling at how much Ellie has grown, celebrating our 1st grandchild, Ian's, arrival. Bret & Pilar are a part of our family to us, as several of Michael & Jenn's friends are. Their wedding was such a wonderful day, watching two young people marry who were so obviously soul mates, and such a joyful & beautiful child they created, Ellie. Bret has left such a lasting impression on all of us.
We know that God will be with Pilar, Ellie, their family & friends as they move forward, and we will keep you all in our prayers.
Dean Davis
August 3, 2007
Bret will be missed in person but remain in out hearts. I loved working with Bret at Eyefinity and loved his full life approach.
janessa stewart
August 3, 2007
Dear Bret,
I was just talking to you a little over a week ago- last wednesday I believe- we ran into each other and talked so long, I missed the buyer I needed to talk to! But that was great- you always were so helpful and interested in how I was doing w/ the job, if I needed any help, and how my pregnancy was coming along- all filled w/ that special wit and humor that made me laugh so hard so many times- I will never forget the day we were both working in roseville setting the new nugget- you made it so much fun- and made me feel so comfortable in an environment I was thrown into w/out much training. I will miss you and my heart breaks for your precious little girl and wife- I know you loved them more then anything else... peace to you and yours
Mandy Baskett-Stinebaugh
August 3, 2007
I knew Bret in high school and I can't think of anyone that was nicer. He was nice to everyone no matter what. He was so funny he could always make you laugh. I am very sorry to his family for your loss and I know he would want you to be strong and remember all the good times. My heart and prayers are with you thru this tragic times.
Jennifer Rapada
August 3, 2007
Bret,
I'm glad I got to re-connect with Pilar and finally meet you when I moved back to California. I hadn't known you long, but you always made me feel comfortable in your home, and were so generous and helpful to me. You definitely had a ton of personality and more than enough to go around. It's sad that you had to leave us so soon-I was just getting to know you! Ellie was really lucky to have such a loving father-the time you had together. Rest in peace knowing that Ellie and Pilar have a lot of people looking after them. I know you'll always watch over them. I'll never forget you, your genuine heart, your friendship, and your awesome personality and sense of humor.
If I could give you a hug goodbye,
Jennifer
Megan Meier (D'Arcy)
August 2, 2007
Bret was a good friend of mine in high school. We went to homecoming together freshman yr, he taught me how to drive stick, and was always there for me. He was like another brother to me back then. Even though we haven't seen each other for a few years, it was nice to chat with him on myspace every once in a while.
I will miss you bret, I will always have those fun memories in my heart. rest in peace my friend....
Torry Wix
August 2, 2007
Although it has been since high school that i've seen Bret, my memories of him will always be ones of him smiling, joking, and entertaining others. A truly nice guy and he will be terribly missed. My condolences go out to his family.
Josie Garcia
August 2, 2007
Dear Pilar,
I am deeply saddened to hear about your husband. My heart truly aches for you and Ellie. In reading all of the entries about Bret, it's really a tremendous testament what a wonderful man, husband, and father he was. I'm so sorry I didn't get to meet him. You, Ellie, and your family are in my prayers. May you feel God's loving arms carrying you during this most difficult time. I hope your memories will be a source of comfort for you. Always know that Bret will forever be with you and Ellie as your guardian angel. Take care of yourself and your beautiful Ellie. May God bless you and keep you in His most special care... Josie
Scott Buchanan
August 2, 2007
I knew Bret in High school and was a classmate and good friend of his brother. He was a great guy. He could always get a laugh out of you. I wish all his friends and family the best at this difficult time.
Jerry & Mary-Alice Cecere-Gower
August 2, 2007
Bret could only be described as gifted, witty and atypical, ever since we met him about ten years ago when he was still in high school. He was never shy about interacting with adults and easily drifted into the group, often entertaining us with his humorous perspective on life. More than anything, it seemed to us, Bret was interested in becoming a parent and family man and we are glad he managed to do that. It was clear how much he loved his Pilar and Ellie whenever we saw them together. The world is not the same without Bret in our midst, but he'll always be in our hearts and minds, having left a generous piece of himself with all who got to know him. It's rare in life to meet someone as truly memorable as Bret Steiner.
Marlena Avila
August 2, 2007
Bret,
I will never forget the immense laughter and silly, crazy, fun you brought every time I saw you! I will treasure the times we had and will miss you very much. I wish you peace through the next journey and many condolences and prayers for your family. Love, Mars
Christine Versichele
August 2, 2007
Bret, Pilar, Ellie and all of Bret's family, I have cried for days and have talked to all of our friends that knew Bret. They cry too. Mia and Jack Jones, Jean and Bob from Michigan, Larry and Christine, Julie and Dana, Elizabeth Clark, Kristin, MJ, and Liz Davis, Denise and Pete Macrostie, Mary Alice Gower and Jerry and Damian Cecere. Leah and Lacy Collum. Carole and Bill Walsh. You Bret, were a light in a world that can be at times so dark. You made everyone feel special and your memory will never leave our minds or our souls.
I love you and miss you, Christine
Karen Meyers
August 2, 2007
Bret,
It was an absolute joy to have you a part of my life!
Love Karen
Jordan Scott
August 2, 2007
It's probably been about 10 years since I last saw Bret, back in the high school days. But you had touched so many lives by that time, I can only imagine how many more your positive and caring spirit has affected in the years since. The memories of you have endured since Folsom High so long ago, and they will never cease in myself and all those who were blessed enough to have known you since. God bless you and your family. May you truly rest in peace.
Chrissy D.
August 2, 2007
So sorry for your loss, I didn't know Bret, but I was at Stumpy Meadows the day of his accident, my prayers are with his family and friends.
Ian Watts
August 2, 2007
Bret, you will be so greatly missed. You were truly one-of-a-kind and I am thankful for all the days I was able to spend with you. I'll never forget all the great times or the things I learned from you.
Margareta Sherman Mohammar
August 2, 2007
In memory of Bret,
To his loved ones whom he always shared joy,
Bret - You are such a funny guy, I worked with you as a fella' Broker. It was always an invigoring day when you were on a set... We laughed and got more work done having such a great time! I will never forget the Tahoe show when you put on my "pink angora" cap and danced around the parking lot by your truck like a "soul star"... Thats what you are, in your own way. You touched so many souls and lived like a star with a glow that will shine on forever.
Bless you, and I feel honored to have been in your light. You will be missed but I will learn to live in light and humor more from knowing you. I pray that your love and light will guide your family in their days with you watching over them.
Now go to the great fire circle like a warriors arrow, and join your ancestors where they wait for you.
Peace be with you, Sherm
Shay Sill
August 2, 2007
Bret,
I still can't believe you are gone. I am grateful that I got the chance to meet you. It was an honor to be onstage with you. You always knew how to make everyone laugh. I hope to meet up with you again someday. Love, Shay
Ryan Rosales
August 2, 2007
It has been some time since I have run into Bret in Folsom. Every time, no matter how long in between, Bret made you feel as though he saw you yesterday and treated you with fervent respect. His smile was infectious, his personality warm and caring. It was always a great pleasure to talk with him. In a cynical world, Bret was one of the truly genuine people. Blessed be to his family and friends.
Jenny and Jason Keen
August 2, 2007
Pilar and Ellie, I am truely sorry for your loss. The few times I had been around Bret he made me laugh. He had a way of making everyone around him laugh!
In times like this there are no words to comfort you only people, you and Ellie are surrounded by amazing people! Take comfort in them and in you beautiful daughter. You both are in my thoughts.
Zenda Medeiros
August 2, 2007
I worked with Bret at Eyefinity and remembered what a great personality he was. He was well liked by everyone and I remember how proud he was of his family. I am happy to have met Bret for he has touched my life. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and beautiful daughter and also to his loving family and friends. God Bless you all.
My family and the Steiners at the pumpkin patch
Aaron Ralls
August 2, 2007
Quite a few people have come into my life through the years. Most I refer to as buddies. Bret I refer to as a FRIEND. A good man with great values and integrity. Guys like him are hard to come by. I was honored to know him. He has made me a better man. He would have wanted everyone to be happy and not sad because he is with God now. Bret had a deep faith in God as we had talked about many times. He is in paradise and I for one look forward to seeing him up there. Rest in Peace my friend.
Jesse Cason, Jr.
August 1, 2007
Bret and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always have fond memories growing up with Bret and his brother Bryon on Rogue River Dr. It seems so recent ago we were kids causing trouble.
God Bless,
What cute little animals!
August 1, 2007
Jenn Revell (Enders)
August 1, 2007
Bret,
I can't believe you are gone... We were all just hanging out on the 4th blowing up fireworks. I feel truly blessed to have been able to call you a friend. You helped me through so much over the years and we had so many fun times. "Who the heck invited the mormons?!?!" I will never forget you. I look forward to the day when God calls me home and you are there to greet me with a "how u doin" in true Joey Tribiani style. Until then, rest in peace my friend. Much love.
Richard Hiraga
August 1, 2007
We have all been blessed to have Bret in our lives. Bright, funny and a loving father he had so much more to give if only we still had him in our lives. My words cannot convey the sadness in my heart for Pilar and Ellie most of all the sadness that I feel when I think of Bret not being able to hold his precious little girl.
God Bless you Bret and may you watch over all of us.
Love,
David Collum
August 1, 2007
If you could fly far enough away, and do it fast enough...and look back with a powerful telescope, then you would see Bret in his mud-covered truck, or on a snowboard, or diving into a pool or eating doughnuts and laughing with that big wide laugh. And you would see Bret with Pilar and Ellie. And it would all be truly happening while you watched. It still is. You just have to look in the right place.
Bret in 80's gear
Megan Isenogle
August 1, 2007
Bret,
My heart is weary from crying. I will miss you terribly.
Love,
Megan
Mandy and Bret Cross
August 1, 2007
Bret was such a light in this world. We loved his wonderful sense of humor and his genuine kindness. Words cannot express how sad we are for Pilar,Ellie, and his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Charlene Lampron
August 1, 2007
Bret,
I never had the chance to meet you personally, so I only know you thru my husband as he was on that ride Saturday. I am not sure why the Lord chose to take you home now, but I am sure he is keeping you safe in his loving arms. He will take care of your family and all of us here who will continue to grieve and miss you. Hopefully we will get a chance to meet when I make it into the gates of Heaven.
Corey Walker
August 1, 2007
I worked with Bret at Eyefinity and he was always a bright spot in my day. He kept me laughing with funny stories and wisecracks. I don't know anyone who could ever dislike Bret. What a wonderful, kind guy, and I am so sad to hear of his passing. My thoughts are with his family who I know miss this incredible person desperately.
Ben Reid
August 1, 2007
I only met Bret a couple years ago, but we got along as though we'd known each other for years. He's a real, genuine cool person and it showed on his face and in his personality. Miss you dude!
Messing around
August 1, 2007
Jamie Albain
August 1, 2007
To Bret's Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Bret and I went to the same Highschool and I remember him being a really nice guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. We all will miss him. My heart goes out to you all.
Trudy Mazer
August 1, 2007
Dear Carol,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have only known you a short time, but I felt we really connected. I am deeply sorry and can't even adequately express my feelings. I am sure your son was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.
Trudy Mazer
Debbie Kenney
August 1, 2007
Pilar we were so happy that Bret came into your life. Although he will be missed so greatly he left you with a part of him- Ellie. Bret showed you humor in so many ways. Thinking of him makes me smile.The two of you balanced each other out. Although it is hard to understand now why God took him at such a young age, he gave everyone especially you Pilar so much.Our prayers are with you Pilar and little Ellie. We love you- Jim and Debbie
Emily Shotwell
August 1, 2007
Bret was a wonderful and funny guy. He is a party of my high school memory. He was always so upbeat, funny and sweet. I will miss you Bret.
A fun day at the pumpkin patch taking a hay ride
August 1, 2007
Brian Isenogle
August 1, 2007
Bret,
I am truly blessed to have had you as a friend. Your humor and wit always made my days better. You were a great friend, gamer, biking partner, and house sitter. Godspeed.
Stephanie Bradford
August 1, 2007
I have known Bret since I was little. He was such a wonderful person and he was definetly a part of our family. My thoughts and prayers are with all the Steiner family. We love and will miss you Bret.
Jean Burke
August 1, 2007
Bret has been and will always be one of my most dear friends. He entered my life 10 years ago at 19 while I interviewed him for a job. I looked at him and knew he would become an inspiration to me and anyone he came into contact with. I wouldn't be where I am today without him. ALL on my memories of Bret are of sincerity, unconditional love, complete integrity, an unstoppable sense of humor and joy. He strived every minute of every day to be the best husband, father, son, brother, friend, co-worker and man possible. I will carry him and his memory in my heart always. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Adam Ralls
August 1, 2007
Love you Brother!
Bret & Ellie
August 1, 2007
Laura Ralls
August 1, 2007
Our hearts and prayers are with you. We will miss Bret dearly but are happy to have shared such great times and memories with him and his family.
Shauna Scott
August 1, 2007
Bret was always such a nice guy. I remember once that I had a really bad day in high school and didn't want to talk to anyone because I was afraid I'd start crying. I ran into Bret near the school office and he could see that I was upset. He didn't say anything at first. He just sat down next to me and when I finally made eye contact he just smiled and started telling funny stories.
After a while I forgot why I was so upset and actually went away smiling.
That's the kind of guy Bret was and I'm so sorry he's gone.
Cathy Guilherme
August 1, 2007
I worked with Bret at Eyefinity and can't think of a more genuine, fun loving person. His sense of humor was huge and often put a smile on my face. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Michelle Polli
August 1, 2007
I worked with Bret for a short time but I will always remember the silly faces he used to make and his light and happy personality. He was a joy to be around and will always leave a mark in my memory book of great people I've met.
Kristine Baniak
August 1, 2007
I have known Bret since high school. He has been there through a lot with me, living across the street from me and all. I will always remember the day Bryon was chasing Bret around with his hair in pig tails. Bret will surely be missed and I thank him for all his kind words over the past year of drama I have had. Kylie will miss the play time with you and Ellie.
Al and Debbie Ralls
August 1, 2007
We have know Bret for many years and attended Bret and Pilar's wonderful wedding. He was one of our son's best friends. He was a good boy and a very nice man. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ellie and Pilar as well as his extended family.
Carol Watt
August 1, 2007
My dear Bret,
you are loved and will be missed tremendously.
Mom.
Melissa Ellison
August 1, 2007
I have known Bret since elementary school. After reconnecting through MySpace, the last time I saw Bret was at FHS's all-year reunion in August 2006. He was the same ole Bret. A little older, a little wiser, but the same Bret. He talked so proudly about his daughter Ellie. And how he adored being a father. All will miss Bret. He will be remembered for having a warm heart and an amazing sense of humor.
To Bret's family:
May all of your memories keep you strong. My prayers are with you.
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