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Brittany Elaine Bender

1986 - 2017

Brittany Elaine Bender obituary, 1986-2017, Lodi, CA

BORN

1986

DIED

2017

Brittany Bender Obituary

Brittany Elaine Bender, 31, was born 9/27/1986, in Lodi, CA, passed away suddenly from LUPUS complications. She is preceded in death by her father, Dennis I Bender. She is survived by her mother Elaine Brown, Step-father Dennis Brown, Sister Carla Morris, Brother Isaac Adams, and numerous Uncles, Aunts, and Cousins. Cremation is private. A celebration of Life will take place at 6192 E Acampo Rd, in Acampo CA on Sunday, 11/26/17, from 1-3 PM.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Nov. 17, 2017.

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Jenny

November 10, 2024

Hi Brittany. I looked you up after looking through my 5th grade yearbook. I remember you as the pretty girl who was always getting in trouble but I also remember how nice you always were to me when no one else was. I´m so sorry you lived such a hard life. I hope your next one will treat you better. RIP.

Cindy p

November 11, 2022

You're missed so much
The hole in my heart I don't think it will ever heal
Save me a spot up there all be seeing you some day

Cindy p. AkA; mama

November 11, 2022

My goodness you girls have left a hole so big not sure if it will ever heal.
The Lord need one more of you girls Trisha was called home about 6 months ago. All 3 of you girls up above that's why the weather is wacked (Hahaha) just joking.
Love you Brittany miss you guys more and more every day

cindy pichardo

November 11, 2021

Sure do miss you so much can't find words to express how much have been missed in my life.
I hope you and Natasha are sitting up there together she left this old world Nov.2020 . Hug's and Kiss's my sweet Brittany girl

Mama

November 12, 2020

Hi my precious. I'll be seeing you sooner than later. Dr gave me two years. I have good days and bad. I see you often in my dreams. I know you'll be there to greet me. I love and miss you.

cindy pichardo

November 11, 2020

Sure miss you can't believe that it has been that long you have been gone. Seam's like yesterday we was doing are laundry at bubbles and eating tamales that you bought me.

Marilynn Archuleta

December 25, 2017

I will miss walking my dog...N running into you N saying Hello...REST IN PEACE BEAUTIFUL..

Kelie, Uncle B, Pat, Rhonda, Manny, Jesse, Jennifer, Suzie, Michelle

December 24, 2017

From us here at the Era, R.I.P Brittney... Forever we'll miss you but we will never forget you♡

Marilynn Archuleta

December 5, 2017

You are a beautiful and caring young lady...I will miss you...

Cindy Pichardo

November 26, 2017

We will meet again you will be missed but never forgotten, you're smile I will remember it will make the hard days w/out you easier in time.
Cindy p.( mama )

Dee

November 22, 2017

Brittany's loss is deeply felt. May you be consoled by the memories he leaves and God's loving promise of seeing our love ones again.

Dianna Hiles

November 18, 2017

Brittany, have always loved you and always will. You will be greatly missed. Give your Dad a hug and tell him hello from me.

Elaina and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you as grieve your loss. I am so very sorry.

Trish Contreras

November 18, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the family. Brittany was such a beautiful person, inside and out.

Trish Contreras

November 18, 2017

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Elaine Brown

November 17, 2017

I love you and miss you every day. You were a wonderful daughter and I know you rest with Dad now but knowing I'll see you again keeps me going. Until we hg again, your last words, I love you Mama, will be with me forever.

Carla Morris

November 17, 2017

My sweet beautiful sister. Words cannot explain how much I miss you. I think of you everyday. I know we will see each other again but that seems so far away. I miss your sense of humor. I love you so much. Rest In Peace my love until we meet again. Give grandma a huge hug from me.

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1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

6192 E Acampo Road, Acampo, CA

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