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Carin Van Vooren-Fratis Obituary

VAN VOOREN-FRATIS, Carin Jean
Passed away on Wednesday, August 16, 2006, after a long, courageous battle with cancer. Although Carin was a native of Burbank, Calif., her favorite childhood memories are of the pioneer-like existence on the north Auburn family ranch she moved to when only four. Carin attended both Grass Valley and Auburn area schools, graduating firm Placer High school in 1967 with an extensive resume that included choir, drama and journalism. Her quest for music and writing expanded to Sierra College and later, Trinity College. Carin was very passionate about music. She was an accomplished pianist and guitarist Her angelic voice could be beard in numerous choirs, and music groups. Her love for the classics took her from the old, broken down player piano in the family living room to the massive pump organ in the local church that was a long, arduous bus ride from the family ranch. So accomplished was Carin that at thirteen years old she became the church organist. Always giving, Carin shared her gift of music and literature by later teaching children in several schools from Roseville to Idaho. Carin's poems, short stories, musical scores and newspaper columns have been published, played and cherished by many. Her career in music paralleled a successful endeavor in the real estate industry. Carin was a champion of the California Senior Veterans as her volunteer work helped improve their benefits and quality of life. Carin believed in the "serendipity things," those things that are not coincidences at all. She was a very spiritual person believing that the "great spirit" and the spirit of love that unites us all will eventually reunite all of us.

In Carin's own words... "We will be together again. And we will dance and sing and laugh and hug. I once read that there are other worlds to sing in. That's where I'll be waiting for you."

Carin was predeceased by her father Harold Van Vooren and by her former husband Brian McDonald. She is survived by her loving husband Anthony "Tony" Fratis of Folsom, her son Justin Denton and wife Mary Pat of Wheatland and her grandchildren Kali Medina Denton, and Chance, Wyatt, and Casey Denton, all of Wheatland, Calif. Carin is also survived by mother Myra Chapman, stepfather Robert Chapman of Lincoln, brothers Charles Van Vooren and wife Linda of Twin Falls, Idaho, Gregory Van Vooren and wife Jeri of Hughson, Calif., and Harlan Van Vooren and wife Janina of Auburn, and her sister Myrna Van Vooren and David Jansen of Auburn and North Hollywood. She is also survived by stepbrothers Michael Chapman and wife Paula of Cool, Patrick Chapman and wife Rebecca of Lincoln, Calif., Mark Chapman and wife Coy of Yreka, Calif., and Tony Armstrong and wife Laurie of Plummer, Idaho. Surviving stepsisters include Natalie Sessions and husband Glenn of Loomis and Linda Cox and husband Allen of Yreka. She is also survived by in-laws Norman and Rita Fratis, and Kathy Brand and Renee Fratis of Roseville, Calif., Dana Cecil and husband Joe of Citrus Heights, Lynette Hogue and Robin Matthews of Pittsburgh, Calif., and Frank and Beverly and Greg and Aileen Hogue of San Francisco, and by many nieces, nephews and dear friends.

Services will be held at MOUNT VERNON MEMORIAL PARK at 8201 Greenback Lane, Fair Oaks, Calif., on Friday, August 25, at 11:00 AM.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Aug. 23 to Aug. 24, 2006.

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Amber Nutter

November 15, 2024

I will forever feel so honored and privileged to have gotten the opportunity to be near her amazing presence but even more be godly grateful to have gotten to know such an amazing strong courageous gentle kind glowing in godly glimmer and angelic choir inspiring glow. I truly look forward to seeing you again. Missed but never forgotten. I've always adored the story she once shared with me while traveling to Auburn to visit her brother/sister in-law & her sister, we drove past the old catholic church off the highway in downtown Auburn she starts reminiscing about being a young girl when she and mom temporarily resided in that churches Parrish she attended school there I think she said about 1st or 2nd grade she knew on Tuesdays from 11a-1230 nobody was in the sanctuary so she'd skip out of her cadicism class and climb on a large rock outside of one of the side windows so she could play the full organ without interruption, I could just imagine her in her catholic schoolgirl dress climbing through the window with her ruffle bottom tights showing to all that passed on the highway adjacent, probably multiple pastor's keeping quiet guard for the tiny hookey playing organist.
I was her caregiver prior to passing, I truly love & adore her soul.
Sincerely
Amber Nutter

Chrisy Van Vooren-Garcia

August 20, 2007

So many things have happened in the past year that I have wanted to share with you but I know there have been times when you were with me laughing, crying and comforting me. Your message on my computer will still pop up once in a while and that is such a delight when it does! You are still an influence in my life and I am still your biggest fan. As time goes on, I hope that you will always be by my side to provide strength, laughter and love. Serindipity.

Megan Ham

September 20, 2006

Aunt Carin - Today was another day for goodbye but the conversations won't ever end. Lengthy, humorous, heart warming and meaningful - all they were before now only in my dreams. Soul to soul. I carry your heart...I carry it in my heart.

Tom Gasperlin

September 11, 2006

carin,

My condolences to your family and friends. I wish I could have met you in person. I will miss our emails about the Schable family. Your were so much help to me in my search on family genealogy. I will forever be grateful to you.

Bye for now... 'til we meet...

Ann Perkins Cray

September 7, 2006

My Dearest Cousin Carin,



We had not heard from you in quite some time, and Kris and I were so worried. He found this website by happenstance. We are so grateful to have news of you, though it is such sad news, to be sure. Not having ever met you in person, we gleaned that you were very ill and could only guess at the pain you were experiencing. We are relieved to know that your tremendous suffering has ended. During our brief acquaintance, you brought both Kris and me so much joy and were so kind and generous in sharing a wealth of information about our grandmothers, who were Schable sisters. Your gift will be cherished by us forever, not the least of which has been your friendship, even though keeping it up must have been difficult considering your long ordeal. Long have Kris and I prayed for you and for your family and friends, which we will continue to do. Rest In Peace, Carin. In the words of Kahlil Gibran, taken from his essay on Friendship, in "The Prophet," we will remember you in this way, "When you part from your friend, you grieve not; / For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to he climber is clearer from the plain."

With much love always,

Ann Perkins Cray

September 7, 2006

My Dearest Cousin Carin,



We had not heard from you in quite osme time, and Kris and I were so wrried. He found this website by happenstance. We are so grateful to have news of you, though it is such sad news, to be sure. Not having ever met you in person, we gleaned that you were very ill and could only guess at the pain you were experiencing. We are relieved to know that your tremendous suffering has ended. During our brief acquaintnace, you brought both Kris and me so much joy and were so kind and generous in sharing a wealth of information about our grandmothers, who were Schable sisters. Your gift will be cherished by us forever, not the least of which has been your friendship, even though keeping it up must have been difficult considering your long ordeal. Long have Kris and I prayed for you and for your family and friends, which we will continue to do. Rest In Peace, Carin. In the words of Kahlil Gibran, taken from his essay on Friendship, in "The Prophet, we will remember you in this way, "When you part form your friend, you grieve not; / For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to he climber is clearer from the plain."

With much love always, Ann M. Perkins Cray, Saxtons River, VT

Kris Perkins

September 7, 2006

Dear Carin,



Though I only knew you through a brief e-mail correspondence, you touched my heart so very deeply. You are a major inspiration to me, and I am so blessed to have met you. I will never forget your kind, loving manner and I regret that we never had the opportunity to meet each other on earth, but as you once expressed in an e-mail to me, we will make our acquaintance in the next world. I sure hope we do. Carin, there are not enough words in the English language to describe how special you are to me. Please know that you are and will, be greatly missed. I will continue to pray for you and for your family, as always. God bless you, and may all the angels and saints in heaven along with our Blessed Lady transport you on angels' wings safely and swiftly to your new home.



Love,



Your Cousin and Friend,



Kris

Garry & Dianne Wolff

September 3, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at the loss of Carin. Even though we only met her on a couple of occassions, she touched both of us in a very special way.

Gayle Cox

September 2, 2006

Dear Carin~ Even though we only knew eachother through email, and because of Ed anad Tonya, I still felt like I had known you forever~I am grateful that you are free from all pain, and in the arms of Jesus~ I know the angels celebrated your arrival in heaven~ I so look forward to meeting you in heaven and to give you the hugs I have wanted to give you for a long time~

Tell Jesus hello for me, and save me a cloud~ Till we meet~

love, hugs and *smiles* from my heart to yours~

Gayle, Charles and Brittany

Melanie

August 31, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of your lost. I cannot begin to imagine how you must be feeling at this time. May God continue to be with you.-Isaiah 51:12

Tracy Romani-Orrick

August 30, 2006

Our thoughts our with you. We are so sorry to hear of this great loss. God bless..

Robin Matthews

August 27, 2006

Carin, What an impact you have had on my life! You're absolutely right - it IS all about family. Thanks for being such an important part in all of our lives. Your pain is over now, and although you're not here physically, I know you'll never be far away - we just have to look and listen. Love you always. Robin

Tonya & Ed Grensky

August 25, 2006

Dear Cousin, As we are saddened to have lost you here on earth, we take comfort in knowing you are painfree and with Our Lord. We have been so blessed by you finding us and by our getting to know you and Tony. So until we meet up with you in Heaven someday, we will hold you in our hearts. We Love you, Your cousins Ed and Tonya

Traci Bacchetti

August 25, 2006

Carin and family,

I will miss the brightness of your light and the kindness of your sweet smile. May you rest in eternal peace and bliss,

Connie Burdick

August 24, 2006

My sincere sympathy to Tony and family. Carin taught me so much, and shared so much of herself. I had the pleasure of learning about the lending industry while working with her at Pacific Real Estate. My time with her was brief, but my memories of her are as bright and beautiful as if it were today. Carin had a cat that had surpased any age I'd ever known - some 21 years I think. She loved her husband and family very much and spoke of them often. I'm glad I had the pleasure of knowing her. The benefit was truly all mine.

Aileen Hogue

August 24, 2006

My dearest Carin,

You brought joy and love into our lives. I love you.



Aileen

Bob Schultz

August 24, 2006

Carin thank you for being you. I have never known a more thoughtful caring person. Thank you for being such a positive influence in my life, both as a young man trying to deal with lifes challenges you showed love and kindness and now as an adult you showed what it means to be a real fighter. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.

Frank Hogue

August 24, 2006

Carin, thank you so much for coming into our lives and setting the family straight!Family is the most important thing in our lives and you have created a big one! I will miss WTS and all of our reunions. I don't think we can have those up there, but We all look forward to our next family reunion with you! Until we meet again my sweet sister in-law!



Frank, Bev & family

Lynette Hogue

August 23, 2006

Carin, You have been such a gift to so many people. You will always live on in our lives, and we will be forever better people for having the opportuniy to be blessed with you in our lives. I will be looking for those signs! We'll see you on the other side! Your love and friendship has meant the world to me. Always, your Lilsisnlaw

Linda Cox

August 23, 2006

I hadn't seen my stepsister Carin for such a long time, but I will always remember that she took the time to take me places when I was little. I remember baking and decorating cookies with her. I loved spending time with her, Justin and her dog "beggar". I'll never forget her smile and her sweet spirit.

Dianne Medaris

August 23, 2006

Carin was a brave and insightful person. She always put everyone she met at ease with her sense of humor and her ability to relate to them immediately. I wish her God Speed on her next journey.

Mary Pat Denton

August 23, 2006

Hi Mom,

Wow,your legacy lives on in cyberspace! How appropriate since your knowledge on a variety of different topics guided Justin & I through lifes' many trials. My believe is that you can see this all and I can only say that I'm glad you don't hurt any more. No more chemo treatments! We love you and miss you so much. Thank you for all the years of support and love you extended towards me and our family. You made me feel welcomed from the beginning! I love you and I hate that I lost you but you are right, "we will see each other again"! Love always, Mary Pat, Justin, Kalli, Wyatt, Chance, and Casey Your loving & grateful daughter-in-law, Mary Pat

Chrisy Van Vooren-Garcia

August 23, 2006

My favorite Aunt. I cannot express in such a short space how important you are to me and what an influence you have been in my life. You always said that we were "soul-sisters", so I know that you will still be with me and that we will meet again. Until then, I hope be as strong as you were during your battle to ease the pain of your loss that I so deeply feel. You cannot be replaced. You cannot be loved more. You cannot be forgoten. I love you. Chrisy.

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