Don Benninghoven

1933 - 2023

Don Benninghoven

May 28, 1933 - November 17, 2023

Santa Barbara, California - Don Benninghoven lost his battle to cancer on Nov. 17, 2023, in Santa Barbara, CA. He fought the disease as he dealt with all aspects of his life: with humor, grace, and a positive attitude. He passed peacefully with his family by his side.

Don is survived by his wife of 31 years, Sheri; sister Ann Hammond and Dr. Richard; sister-in-law Anne Benninghoven; three children - Dr. Scott Benninghoven and Pam, Kim Benninghoven and Monte Short, and Jill Keimach and Ron; four grandchildren -- David Benninghoven (Shannon), Alyssa Maruyama (Danny), Stephen Keimach, and Rowen Short; and numerous nieces, a nephew and their children.

Born in Bakersfield in 1933, Don grew up in San Mateo, California, the middle child of Dr. Carl and Hazel Benninghoven. Carl had a successful radiology practice on the Bay Area Peninsula. Hazel was active with numerous charities. They raised three children: Don's older brother, Jim, who died in 1985 and younger sister, Ann.

Some of the traits that were the result of being the middle child proved key to Don's success in life, including being a skilled negotiator, able to resolve conflicts, having tremendous empathy, and able to find common ground.

Don was expected to attend UC Berkeley and eventually attend medical school - a vision made clear by his parents but, as with most children, he eventually found his own path. After two years at Berkeley, he enlisted in the US Army and then returned to UC Berkeley to obtain bachelor's and master's degrees in public administration, a choice based on his serving as mayor in a high school youth-in-government day. He found a passion for city government, leading him to a career with the state association of cities in Sacramento.

Don's remarkable 40-year career with the League of California Cities, the last 26 as Executive Director, saw him work with some of the major figures in Sacramento and Washington, D.C., including seven California governors, from Pat Brown and Ronald Reagan to Jerry Brown and Arnold Schwarzenegger. He also worked with and became friends with several leading mayors, including Tom Bradley and Dianne Feinstein. He found a calling that ensured local government leaders had the flexibility and resources to carry out local goals. He influenced major legislation that continues to impact the lives of all Californians. And while the accomplishments were major, he felt his career was a great one because of the dedicated people with which he worked.

Don and Sheri married after several years of working together, knowing each had found in the other a true love and someone with whom to have fun, enjoy life, and spend their remaining years.

Don and Sheri moved to Santa Barbara in 2000. They found a church home at All Saints-by-the-Sea Episcopal Church. They enjoyed activities where they could be together, whether at church, fly fishing throughout the western US, playing golf, tennis, and lawn bowling, or traveling. Theirs was a special relationship forged in love and respect.

A memorial service will take place on March 16 at 1 p.m. at All Saints-by-the-Sea, 83 Eucalyptus Lane, Santa Barbara CA 93108. Donations may be made to All Saints Outreach or to the Institute for Local Government, Sacramento.