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Donald RAINWATER Obituary
RAINWATER, Donald Lee
Age 75, of Monarch Beach, Calif., and former longtime resident of Sacramento passed away on August 19, 2010, with his loving wife and three devoted daughters by his side. Don is survived by his wife Barbara, her children David (LeAnn) and Krista Kirkwood, his brother Dan Rainwater and his three daughters Kathy Cooper (Jon), Lisa Hall (Bill) and Angie Daft-Joseph (Scott). He was the hero and proud ''Papa'' to Conner (age 21), Sarah (age 20), Lauren (age 19), Nelson (age 19), Will (age 16), and Cameron (age 10). He was preceded in death by his wife of almost 40 years, Marian and his parents Allie and Harrison. A celebration of his life will be held at St. Catherine's Church, 1042 Temple Terrace, Laguna Beach, Calif. 92651, on Saturday, Sept. 4, at 10 a.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Donald RAINWATER
August 19, 2011
Always in my thoughts....
Marge Simondes
March 2, 2011
Don and Marian Rainwater were friends and did play a big part in one of our Christmases by delivering a boat to our driveway on Christmas Eve for the kid's father as a surprise. No greater friendship than this from both of them. Bless them both
Donna (Hema) Simondes
March 2, 2011
Don and Marian were family friends and took care of me and my sibs while my parents were at a conference - when you lived in Del Rosa. I also babysat for Kathy and Lisa..at that time Marian was pregnant with their 3rd. I also like her very much - she was easy going and friendly... My dad Si worked with Don at John Hancock. In my 20's I visited the family in Sacramento. Anyway, Don was such a great guy - full of positive energy and good hearted and a ready smile and laugh. He made a deep impression on me and I remember him with gratitude for having known him. Wish had looked for him before now - he lived a short distance away from my home in Carlsbad CA.
January 5, 2011
I miss you so very much, my friend. Forever in my heart and in my thoughts. Thanks for the memories.
September 3, 2010
To the Rainwater Family,
Wish that we could attend the service for Don. We will be thinking of him as we often do. There are so many words to describe Don, but one of them is PERSONALITY!!! He could light up your life! He made us laugh, he made us happy to see him, and he was a very special person! He will missed by MANY friends.
Gary and Pam Perata
Conner
August 30, 2010
It’s hard to imagine not having Don Rainwater in the world anymore. It still hasn’t hit me in the fullest amount, I doubt it ever will. I can’t think of a better role model than my Papa. Everyone he met surely felt his great personality, charm and honesty. He told the best stories, always had the best advice and never managed to offend anyone. I think it’s best to remember him in the way he wanted to be remembered, as an upbeat and truly fearless man. He wasn’t scared of death; he embraced it as a natural part of life. We all wish he would’ve outlived us all and in a way he will. It’s said over and over, but Papa really made such an impact that he will live on in all of us.
I think most of my favorite childhood memories are with Papa. Whether it was a Holiday or just sitting around watching Jaws, I always had so much fun joking around and having time together. I think you tend to take things for granted until they’re gone, I know I certainly treasure the time I had with such a great person. I think one of the last times I saw Papa was on my Birthday when we shopped for a video camera so I can start to shoot my own projects. I think one of the reasons was because I could see how much he believed in what I was doing. It’s one of the best feelings to know that someone trusts your decisions, it really affected me.
I think Papa certainly rubbed off a lot on me. It’s strange to think of why I have such a love for John Wayne movies, but it must be because someone kept talking him up. Maybe I won’t ever share a love for Tommy Bahama shirts, but it’s more of the subtle things about Papa that I’ve found to be the most lasting. The way he treated his friends, family and even mere acquaintances is a quality everyone should have. He always listened and made you feel special, even if you were talking about something he didn’t particularly have interest in. He also made sure he took care of everyone, always helping out in every way he could.
I think Papa will always be remembered in the best way possible. Everyone was vulnerable to his charisma and honorable ways. I’m sure he made mistakes like everyone else; luckily I didn’t get to see any of those. So he will always be remembered as the near perfect human being I grew up knowing. There are not really any words that I can use to explain how much I loved him. No quote, poem or picture can ever match the impression he has made and continues to make on my life. I will always be thinking of him in some way because he was just such a big part of my life. If I can ever be a fraction of the kind of person he was, I will consider myself lucky.
Bobby Gillie
August 28, 2010
Angie,
I am so sorry to hear of your Father's passing. Please give Kathy and Lisa a real Big Hug for me.
I had many wonderful moments with Don your family. So many fun times were had by all!! He was a very big part of my life and I appreciated every moment.
Your Dad has that great big smile upon you and the entire family. I will miss him dearly.
Love You Don!!!
Heather Campbell
August 28, 2010
Dear Kathy, Lisa and Angie- My prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. I remember your dad from years ago when Angie and I went to elementary school together at Pasadena.
Dad
August 27, 2010
My Dear Conner and Nelson,
Your "Papa", was every kids dream to have as a Grandfather. I remember that on the night you were born,Conner,he left the waiting room and came back with a baseball glove. Nelson,when you were about two years old, I recall him saying to me "That little boy is so cute,he won't need a car to get the girls!" That's always made me smile when I think of it. His words about you were always so filled with admir-
ation and love.
He made the holidays absolutely grand didn't he. He made everything more fun-everything!There was "Pumpkin Patch Time" Thanksgiving, and of course, Christmas, which he enjoyed as much as you did I think..I can just picture him
picking out gifts for you.
Then,there was the BEACH! He always seemed to move into a "higher gear" of happiness when he was there with you.
You were both such a great source of pride for him. You were always perfect for him, just like he was for you. I know with certainty, he will always live in your hearts, and whisper to you
to do great things.
All my love,
Dad
Garry Morris
August 27, 2010
I met Don at his and Marian's wedding reception in the Garrett basement in Sumner washington. I was a close friend to Marian's Brother Don and knew her and the family, He lit up the whole room with his personality. I only saw him a couple of times over the years and stopped and visited he and Marian in Sacremento a couple of times in the late 70's. They were such a great couple and he always welcomed with a big smile, sparkling eyes, a warm handshake and a what'll you have to drink? He is one that will go on living in memory for all of us that knew him.
Richard Pickens
August 27, 2010
Dearest Kathy,Angie,and Lisa,
If your lucky, maybe once or twice in your life,you meet a person who makes a unique and lasting impression upon you.Your Dad,was such a person for me.
At a family gathering(which were the best)or party,he was the only one who had ten people around him. He made everyone feel like they were special and important.I always knew I was going to have fun if I were near him.
He taught me how to fish and how to use tools properly, and to mix and lay cement.He even made "projects",as he used to call them. fun!
I would like to share a favorite poem of mine written by Sara Teasdale. It seems so fitting right now.
The Coin
Into my heart's treasury,
I have slipped a coin.
Which time cannot erase nor thief purloin.
Oh better than the minting of a gold crown king
Is the safe kept memory of a lovely thing.
All my love,
Richard
Jean Holsten
August 27, 2010
Hey Kathy, Lisa and Angie: Oh my what a loss. I have so many fond memories of growing up with you all--both of your parents were so prominent in my life. I can still hear your Dad saying "Well excuuuuusee me" as he mimicked the voice of my youngest sister. I can see him offering drinks by the pool and inviting us for boating trips or creating any excuse for a party. Christmas Eve at your house was one of my favorite traditions. I have such a huge soft, warm spot in my heart as I think about your Dad. I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling. I am sending tons of love, prayers and support. I would be happy to share stories with any of you as your process this loss and the gift of his life. Much love to you.
Brandy Marzucco
August 25, 2010
Kathy and Family,
I only had the priviledge of meeting your dad once, but knowing the kind of person you are, I know he must have been an extrordinary man. I know this is a difficult time, and I know you have wonderful memories that will make you smile through the tears. We love you!
Brandy, Matt, Jason and Paige
Tara Brtek
August 25, 2010
I see you, Kathy, in his eyes and smile. The love in your family is tangible. My heart aches for your loss. Big hugs to all of you!
Artie Carey
August 25, 2010
Kathy, My thought and prayers are with you and your family. With God by your side, He will give you strength. Hold tight to God, your family and friends. Remember those memories and shed the tears! Love you Artie
My favorite picture of Don
Jon Cooper
August 25, 2010
Rainwater Family,
What an honor it was to have Don as a father-in-law. I’m going to miss him dearly even though I was often the butt of his jokes. Don seemed larger than life each and every time I was in his presence. I can only laugh thinking of the stories he is telling St. Peter at this very moment. I especially thank my loving wife for allowing me into the fold of her family. Don Rainwater had a huge impact on my life and I’m eternally grateful for the experience.
With Love,
Jon Cooper
Debbie Cooper
August 25, 2010
Wow, what a great man. I feel so fortunate to have had him in my life for the last ten years. He was always joking or teasing someone, but it was always positive. He was such a joy to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends. I know we are all going to miss such a special person.
Nedra & Rick Langin
August 25, 2010
Kathy
I would have loved your dad because I love you. I am so very sorry for your loss and I am sending you all the strength my heart can muster up.
Melissa Hartsough
August 25, 2010
Kathy, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort. Love you, my friend. All our love, Dan, Melissa, Kaitlyn & Connor
Bettina Madsen
August 25, 2010
Kathy, We're so sorry for the loss!! I think I might have figured out why your such a great person!! Sounds like you might have had great training from your dad :) I wish I could have had the honor & privilege to get to meet him. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!!! God bless!!
Many Hugs!
August 24, 2010
Don Rainwater was one of a kind !He will be missed dearly and remembered by everyone for the joy he brought into our lives!I was blessed to know PaPa Don and he was like a father to me.My love and prayers to all his family.May Peace Be With You
Susan Jill and Jim Moore Coronado
August 24, 2010
Don Rainwater was one of a kind! He will be truly missed and dearly remembered.He was a blessing to me like a father.I know his love will always live on in everyones heart.My Love and Prayers to all his family,may peace be with you. Susan Jill (Feightner) & Jim Moore
lisa hall
August 24, 2010
Dad and papa you will be truly missed in so many ways. love lisa, bill and sarah
Bonnie & Bruce Windsor
August 24, 2010
Lisa, we loved your dad he was a great guy and always made us feel like part of your family, im so glad to have meet him and saw what a great role model he was to you all, i remember what a lite heart and how much fun every visit was with him. Don will be a great addition in heaven and no dought will keep god in stitches. I do not want to be sad because your dad was so much about loving and living. i am so glad he did not suffer he left this world to be in gods hands and who could ask for a better way of saying goodbye
August 24, 2010
Lisa, we loved your dad he was a great guy and always made us feel like part of your family, im so glad to have meet him and saw what a great role model he was to you all, i remember what a lite heart and how much fun every visit was with him. Don will be a great addition in heaven and no dought will keep god in stitches. I do not want to be sad because your dad was so much about loving and living. i am so glad he did not suffer he left this world to be in gods hands and who could ask for a better way of saying goodbye
Nelson Pickens
August 24, 2010
Papa was a great man that always lived life to the fullest. He will always be remembered for his charismatic attitude and loving spirit that was unconditional. Most people dream of being half the man he was.
julia gamick rock
August 24, 2010
Kathy, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. What an incredible, fun, and loving dad he was to you, Lisa and Angela (and to all your friends too). I know he will be greatly missed by many. I wish I could be there for you on the 4th as you were for me, but I'll be thinking of you and your family. Your Dad and my Mom have something in common (august 19th). I love you, Julia Gamick Rock
WILLARD (ANDY) ANDERSON
August 24, 2010
I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. I WORKED FOR DON AT JOHN HANCOCK FROM 1969 TO 1982. I KNOW THAT HE IS NOW WITH GOD IN A BETTER PLACE. ANDY ANDERSON
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