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Ernest HOLLINGSHEAD Obituary

HOLLINGSHEAD, Ernest S.

''I told you I was sick.''

I was born in a six-bedroom mansion-type house located on a 100-acre Pear Orchard at 3120 Riverside Blvd. on August 1, 1927. I apparently died on May 1, 2010, after living all my life in Sacramento. I attended local schools and married my McClatchy High School sweetheart, Betty Campbell. She preceded me in death after 50 years of marriage. Our youngest daughter Jody Farrow also preceded our deaths. My surviving children are daughters Jan Katsuda (Frank) and Jill Bourque (Jim) and son Jeffery Hollingshead (Cherie). Also survived by granddaughters Jedda Huot, Jade Katsuda, and Jennifer and Jessica Hollingshead, grandsons Jamie Shaw, Zeb and Tyler Farrow, and Jordan Hailey, and great-grandson Jaedon Huot. My surviving siblings are sisters Mae Suhr, Jackie Stanley (Lewis), Evelyn Doud (Charles), Barbara O'Keefe, and Nancy Hollingshead and brother Richard Hollingshead (Julie). A sister, Patty, and brothers Wm. and Robert also preceded my death. Also survived by many nieces and nephews.

I served in the U.S. Navy during World War II and after being discharged I joined the Sacramento Police Department, retiring after 23 years of service. I was a member of Tehama Masonic Lodge, The Scottish Rite Bodies and The Royal Order of Scotland. A charter member of the Motor Escort and Bagpipe Units of the Ben Ali Shrine. A member of the Sacramento Police Officers and The Northern California Peace Officers Associations.

I started hunting when I was 12 years old and have been an avid hunter/fisherman the remainder of my life. I had fond memories of fishing, clamming, crabbing, and abalone diving along the California North Coast. I remember many successful hunting trips with family and friends. I was fortunate to be a member of a large extended family. When I was young it was a weekly event to meet at someone's house for a big potluck dinner. As a family we have continued this tradition and hold many parties and picnics. Some are special occasions and others are just for the hell of it. I think Easter was one of the best and most fun gatherings of the clan. This event was held on my sister's 80 acres, located near Daffodil Hill. I made large paper mache Easter eggs and filled them with goodies for the young ones. They weighed about ten pounds each. The ladies held an Easter Parade to show off the outlandish homemade hats, and the men had a contest to see who could throw a dried cow pancake the furthest. We had scavenger hunts with a long list of items, such as deer and coyote droppings, a nut from a buckeye tree, different colored rocks from abandoned gold mines. We would also have teams that would get a card with a poem on them. The poem would have clues to find the next card and so on. When you found the last clue you had to find a certain object to get your prize. I guess what I am trying to say it was so much fun to belong to this family. All in the family know that nobody had more fun then I did at the gatherings of our clan.

At my insistence there will be no funeral service. I have chosen cremation with a portion of my ashes to be scattered at the spot where my daughter's ashes are located. The remainder of the ashes is to be placed at my wife's gravesite.

As far as any remembrances of me: may I suggest you purchase a bottle of spirits or fine wine and enjoy. May I ask that the next time you lift a pint or drink of your choice, that you raise it high and say, ''This one is for you, Ernie,'' and let it go at that. Ay, I say let it go at that!

I have heard the call of The Grim Piper, I have laid my pipes to rest and I am going home.
- Ernie

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from May 8 to May 9, 2010.

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Joanne Gorbenko

May 27, 2010

We have lived next door to "grandpa" for 21 years. I also like many cannot begin to express how great he was. Even though we were not related, "grandpa" always treated us like family. He would take my younger brother on fishing trips and always invited me over for family gathering at his house. I remember the days when I would come over the house to play with "JJ" he would make us popcorn and always cracked jokes about us. My fondest moment of "grandpa" was when my mother and I would make him dinner and bring it over, he would ALWAYS say "bacahaya, your gonna make me fat!" Since he has gone, the street is so quiet now :( sad not to hear "tulie" barking and "grandpa" listening to his tv on full blast! We send our sincere condolences to the family, "grandpa" will be truly missed! With love, your neighbors Joanne & the Gorbenko family

Jennifer Hollingshead

May 23, 2010

I cannot even begin to explain in words how much this family will miss such a wonderful man. He was my papa but, in so many ways he was much more than that. He was always having fun or doing something silly... one time we played an april fool's joke on my Dad; we wrapped my whole arm up like it was broken and i of course using my acting skills played the whole thing out beautifully. We always has a speacial relationship as he would babysit me when i was young and we would go to the duck club "a favorite passtime" to get duck or pheashut and i was the "retevier" back then, or just some good ole "monkey buisness" as papa would put it. His presence will be sorely missed as he always made the gathering...boyy he taught us all how to have fun and party! Papa and Grandma Betty are together again for the everlasting party where your drink is never empty. We will all join that party someday! So untill then here's to you.. Papa!..... and let it go at that!
love always your Jenny

Kim Snyder

May 17, 2010

I didn't know Ernie, I wish I had. This obit was a wonderful, loving farewell from a man who truly appears to have loved his family and his life. My deepest sympathy to his family, I can tell you will miss him. May Ernie always be an inspiration each of you will carry forward.

Abner & Beth Lovato

May 12, 2010

Dale,Zeb,Tyler,Jan,Jill,Jeff & Family
We have wonderful memories of so many happy and fun times.
Wishing you all peace to bring you comfort,Courage to face the days ahead and, Loving memories to hold forever in your hearts.
In Deepest sympathy
Love Abner and Beth Lovato

Anita Russell

May 10, 2010

The opening line caught my eye; I clipped this obituary out, and also shared with friends. My father just passed away on April 20th, and he would have LOVED to have left an obituary just like that one. It has inspired me in so many ways. Look at all of the people, including myself, who have signed his guest book! It inspired my son so much, that when he wrote me a letter for Mother's Day, he ended it with "and let it go at that".. Here's to you, Ernie!

Bob Gransee

May 10, 2010

To the Family of Mr. Hollingshead. My sincere condolences. I never had the previledge of knowing this great gentlemen. I shared this with many friends over the weekend. I will hoist one in Ernie's honor this evening.

May 10, 2010

I didn't know Mr. Hollingshead, but I wish I did. Fun and amazing as I can see by his writing. RIP Mr. Hollingshead and my sincere sympathy to the family left behind.

Becky Suhr

May 9, 2010

My prayers are with your family. He was great man. Always having a great time at family gatherings as I recall. His obituary is so Ernie. He will be missed. Love to you all.

May 9, 2010

Sympathy to the family. I'll be sure to toast Ernie on high the next alcoholic beverage I have. Never met the man but he sounds way cool.

May 9, 2010

Ernie, I raise my glass of wine in honor of you. Too bad we weren't friends but you left one hell of obituarie. "This one is for you, Ernie".

May 9, 2010

I never met Mr Hollingshead, but i can tell this is a man that "Lived and Died with Honor and Dignity."
This one is for you "Ernie".
God Bless

Anna Stratton

May 8, 2010

Wonderful obituary. My sincere sympathy to your family.
Ann (Peretti) Stratton

T Meyers

May 8, 2010

What a wonderous thing to be able to write what you feel you want the world to know at your time of passing. This one is for you Ernie! Unknown, but not unknowing

Peter Bell

May 8, 2010

May you rest in Peace Brother Hollingshead! The Almighty keeps you in his arms now.

Brother Peter Bell

May 8, 2010

Jan, Jill, Jeff, & Family,
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We were so blessed to have him in our family.
Our favorite memories with your dad are Super Bowl, New Year’s, Crab Feeds, and especially Easter parties with lots of laughs. Your dad loved family gatherings and was the light of every get together.
Uncle Jr, you will be missed
Now it’s time for you to dance again with Auntie Betty
Love to All the Family,
Kirk, Lori, & KR

Joel Goddard

May 8, 2010

Never met this man. Wish I had. His obituary left me in tears.

Susan Collins

May 8, 2010

Dear Jan and family,
Although it has been years since we have seen each other since high school. We offer our sincere condolences in the loss of your father. His obituary shows what an amazing man he was. It is never easy to lose a loved one, especially our fathers. Rememberences comfort us in our loss of our Dad's.
Sincere sympathy,
Susan Collins MacDonald and Mark MacDonald

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