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Jay Colangelo Obituary


COLANGELO, Jay
Born on July 17, 1953 in Las Vegas, Nevada. He grew up in Orange County, California spending countless summer days body-surfing at Huntington Beach. A USC alumni, he attended Hastings Law School where he met his future wife, Lynn. He viewed the law as a powerful means to ensure that the rights of everyone in our society are protected, particularly the downtrodden and despised, and the practice of criminal law was his passion as well as his career. A relentless opponent of the death penalty, he spent the last 15 years as a deputy state public defender representing clients on death row. Jay's other passion was his family; he loved watching and coaching each of his four children in their chosen sports and ran the St. John's Soccer Club for many years. He was an honorable and kind and decent man who touched everyone he met. He is survived by his wife, Lynn; his four children, Carye, Joey, David and Brie; his sisters, Sue and Joy (his twin); his brother, Jim; his mother, Shirley; his mother-in-law, Martha; and sister and brothers-in-law, Gayle, Mark, Ralph, Brian and Britt; and many nieces and nephews and cousins and friends. We know of no one more courageous than Jay, who chose to live a life of meaning, filled with love and laughter and music in the face of his 19-year battle with cancer. Memorial services will be held on Wed., February 25, at 11am at Lind Brothers Mortuary, 4221 Manzanita Avenue, Carmichael, CA 95608. For those wishing to remember Jay, the family requests that in lieu of flowers, a donation be made to the Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma Organization International, P.O. Box 15482, San Diego, CA 92175-6482.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Feb. 24, 2009.

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Kimberli Marks

March 17, 2009

I worked with Jay for about 5 years at OSPD several years ago. He gave me the nicest card when I left that read "I'm not saying goodbye because I expect to see you again." Jay made me promise to call him when I got settled at my new job and we would go to lunch. I never saw Jay again. I emailed him over the years just to touch base, see how he was, and to say hello, but I'll always regret not taking the time to stop by, say hello in person, or making that lunch date. Lesson learned - not to wait or put things off because tomorrow may never come. Jay was one of very few people in my life who truly meant something to me, and who touched my life in a very positive way. He was my mentor and my friend, a very awesome guy to have known and one of the saddest days of my life in losing him. My sincere condolences to his family, I wish that I had gotten to know all of you as well, you are an extraordinary family. I can only imagine the loss you feel, and I'm truly very sorry.

Kate Novoa

March 9, 2009

I am saddened to hear of Jay's passing and my heart goes out to his family. Jay was a generous caring professional who helped me more than once. I got to "know" him through CPDA and CADC, professional organizations of which we were both members. His wit, his intelligence, and his compassion will be missed.

Carl, Angela, Justin, Jessica, CJ & Jenna Reed

February 25, 2009

Dear Lynn, Carye, Joey, David and Brie:
It is with heartfelt sorrow for your family as we say goodbye to your cherished husband and father. Jay was an incredible man, who was the embodiment of the strength of the human spirit. In the face of his illness, he did so much for others and always with humor, kindness, and gentleness. He's always been an inspiration to all those around him and you all must be so proud of him. I will treasure my days on the St. John School board because I served with Jay and other really amazing people. Jay amazed all of us with his intelligence and his logic. We will all miss him. His passing is a great loss for our community. Our family will keep you and your family in our prayers.

February 24, 2009

Dear Lynn,Carye, Joey, David and Brie,
Jay was an amazing lawyer and a wonderful friend. His absence will leave a huge void in the lives of his friends and colleagues at OSPD, but his
spirit will live on and continue to inspire us. I will always treasure his friendship. Love, Jessica

February 24, 2009

Jay was a kind and gentle man and it was always a joy to see him. I will miss him and think of him with a smile. My condolences to his loved family and friends.

February 24, 2009

Jay truly was a remarkable man. He has worked for years in trying to clear my brother and I feel that all his hard work will make it easier for someone else to step in and continue the fight. My prayers are with you.

February 24, 2009

Dear Lynn, Carye,Joey, David, and Brie,
We are so sorry to hear about Jay's death. The three of us have so many fond memories,of all the fun times we had together at St. John's when Joey and Chris played all those sports.Dave and Jay on the school board together and so many more happy times. Our prayers are with you today and always and Jay will always be remembered in our hearts.
Love, Dave, Gloria, and Chris Galligan

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