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Melinda Ramos Obituary


RAMOS, Melinda Janet
Born March 8, 1989 in Sacramento, was taken from us on January 21, 2006 at the age of 16. Beloved daughter of Danny and Patty Ramos. Survived by brother Danny Jr. and sisters Marissa and Lisa. Forever remembered by grandparents Janet Gagliardi, Tony Ramos Sr., Ben Espinosa, and Pat Rodriguez, uncles Tony Jr., Carlos, George Ramos and Vincent Espinosa, godparents Mario Mendoza and Kim Baird, and a host of loving nephews, nieces, cousins, family and friends. You will always be in our hearts. Love, Dad and Mom. A viewing will be held Thursday, January 26, 2006 at East Lawn Andrews & Greilich Funeral Home, 3939 Fruitridge Rd. from 11am - 8pm, with the Rosary beginning at 6pm. Funeral Services will be held at St. Rose's Church, 5961 Franklin Blvd. on Friday, January 27, 2006 at 10am. Interment at St. Mary's Cemetery.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Jan. 25 to Jan. 27, 2006.

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Mom

January 24, 2023

Mom

January 24, 2023

Mom

January 24, 2023

I still can´t believe that you have been gone for 17 years. You are truly missed not a day goes by that I don´t think of you. I love you Mija,. Forever in my heart until we meet again.

Mom

July 9, 2021

I miss you my baby girl. My Nani Nani, I love you. Forever in my heart.

Sabrina Ramos

January 9, 2014

Miss you sweetie! I've been thinking of you so much lately. Love you girl... Xoxo

Danette Shipley

March 8, 2013

Your special star lights up the heavens - especially tonight on your 24th birthday. You are truly missed, but you will never be forgotten. Shine bright Angel.

Maria Chavez

March 8, 2013

My dearest Melinda today is your 24th Birthday and from the bottom of my heart I want to wish a Happy Bithday miss you so much kisses & hugs luv always auntie Maria

Christina Trujillo

March 8, 2013

Happy 24th birthday, Melinda! You are truly missed. Hard to believe that today you would have been 24. I could just hear it now, if you saw me at a bar or club you would probably be whispering to your friends..."there's my cousin, she's hecka old. What is she doing here"? ;) and then you would probably make me buy you a drink. Cheers cousin!!!love you.

Cousin Alina Ramos

December 21, 2012

I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I miss you so much. Christmas is around the corner and the holidays have never been the same since you've been gone. You may not physically be here with us but I know you will ALWAYS be around in spirit. Merry Christmas. I love you Melinda.

cereena miranda

September 13, 2012

Skinny Minny,
Its been along time since i last got to talk too you, i know at times its harder for me now in days now that you arent a call away....but i still feel you around and miss you more then you know. i been thinking about you alot lately its hard for me to come on here and write to you...it reassures me the reality of you being gone, but ima take a deep breath and tell you love you and miss you so much.! (smile) and i promise ill write more.
-cereena miranda

Alina Ramos

April 25, 2012

Dear Melinda,
I have been thinking about you a lot lately. Deep down inside I feel so lost without you here. You were my cousin but you were also like a sister and a best friend. I knew I could tell you anything and you would be there to listen to me. I just wish I could do something to bring you back because my life's not the same without you.. a part of me is missing. All of your friends write me on facebook and tell me how much you would mention me to them and it was nothing but good things. I hope your proud of me attending college and I hope your constantly watching over me. I love you Melinda.

-Love your cousin Alina

January 21, 2012

Six years ago today our Melinda became an Angel. It was the saddest day of our lives. Melinda we love you and miss you so much. I have We Belong Together as my ring tone and some day we will be together again. I love to think of all the crazy things you did and how you would light up a room with your smile. Rest in peace my Angel and you will forever be in our hearts. Love Mom

Ray

June 18, 2010

I did not know Melinda but I used to live half a block away from where she was in the accident. I had been driving on 65th street about 30 minutes before the crash and remember hearing the sirens and going to see the people gathering on the road. I found out the next day that this beautiful girl had died and it broke my heart. Much too young but it looks like she will not be forgotten by her great friends and family. Rest in paradise.

Christine McHurd

January 25, 2010

Melinda,
Its hard to believe its been this long. I always think of you when I pass your resting place but mostly think of your mom and how strong she is...i know you are around here and looking out for her and your family....Nani cupcakes...such a cute name....Jenna turned 21 today and I will take her to El Novillero since we haven't been there such she was little, and we will say a blessing for you and your family.

Mom & Daddy

January 21, 2010

Melinda, my little Nani Nani, my Nani cupcakes, it’s hard to believe that you were taken from us 4 years ago today. We all love and miss you so very much. All our love and forever in our hearts, Mom, Daddy & Lil Danny.

mARIA Chavez

December 24, 2008

Melinda the Holiday's are here again and I'm thinking of you more now then ever. I'm looking at a picture of us that we took at your house two Christmas ago, evertime I get sad I loiok at this picture of us and it makes me smile and happy it brings back all the good memories and the good times we would have at your house. I miss you so much Melinda there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. I miss all the little things we use talk about most of all I miss your pretty smile. MERRY CHRISTMAS MELINDA

LOVE YOU ALL ALWAYS
YOUR AUNTE MARIA
DECEMBER 24, 2008

alicia

April 2, 2008

oye mamás pequeñas. pena ..i nosotros no parlante después de que colegio. ..but que fuera tan feliz cuando yo visto usted en mi funeral de daniel de primo.. yo remeber yo me paraba allí lloraba y sentía alguien entrega en el hombro y yo dí la vuelta y usted tuvo una sonrisa GRANDE en su cara y usted me dio un abrazo GRANDE y nosotros dijeron "te quiero"!! usted estuvo como un GRANDE ¡Allí para mí cuando necesité alguien.. yo le pierdo chica. ..and yo sé mi cereena de primo y el puerto deportivo le pierde mucho!! todos hacen.. pero no fueron un adiós fue un le ve posterior!!

adore siempre, alicia pequeño (hermana de alejandro)

April 2, 2008

hey lil mamas..im sorry fur not being close wit yhu after middle sku!!buh i was sooo happy dat i seen yhu at my cuzin daniel's funeral..i member i was standin der cryin nd i felt sumone put der hand on my shoulder..nd i turned nd yhu had a BIG smile on yhur face nd yhu gave me a BIG hug nd we sed "i luv yhu"..i miss yhu sister sooo much!!i memeber all our memories we shared!!buh now yhur wit daniel watchin over all of us..away frm all de pain nd drama!!luv yhu nd miss yhu mija

luv always, lil alicia(alejandros sista)

Dawn Lamb

March 14, 2008

Happy Belated '18th' Birthday Melinda,

I often think of your cute little smile and 2 ponytails, knocking on my door to play with Jolissa. Bruce still goes by your grave and pounds his chest twice and throws the peace sign, he visits you and his brother at the same resting place. Rest in peace sweety and you will always be a part of our life. Continued prays for your family.

Your Cousin, Wendy Gavia

March 12, 2008

Melinda, We went to visit you again on your birthday and it's so hard to even begin to imagine how much your mom, dad, brother, and sisters must miss you. I really hope you are able to look down and see the effect that your life had on people. I thank you and your mom for making a difference is Marissa's life she came to realize a lot after talking to your mom and looks at you as a true inspiration. You really are an angel...

Marissa - Wendy Gavia's Daughter

March 12, 2007

Hey Melinda i was thinking about you a lot the other day because it was your birthday HAPPY BELATED BiRTHDAY by the way..it sucks that i didnt get the chance to meet you but on your one year anniversary i went to the grave and talked to your mom she made me realize that even things that seem like they would never happen to you can happen at any moment..i felt bad when i heard about your accident but then to know it was my cousin made me feel even worse it sucks that it was you if only god gave us the chance to meet and hang out but things happen for a reason i guess..Well i just wanted to show some love on here and let you know that even though we didnt get a chance to meet you will always be in my heart..i LOVE YOU..Rest in Paradise Melinda you will always be remembered and loved...You are an insperation to my life & you & your family are in my thoughts and prayers..
YOUR LiL COUSiN MARiSSA

Brandi

March 8, 2007

Happy 18th b-day melinda I was on my way to work today and heard your mom on the radio... it was very sad hearing her and knowing your not here today to celebrate your 18th b-day..I miss u and think about you often..

The Gavia Family

March 8, 2007

Happy Birthday 18th Melinda, Your life has touched so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family today and always.

With Love, Your Cousins, Willie Florence, Wendy, Monte, Maria, Marina, Marissa, Alex and Monte Jr.

DEJIA JERRY

January 21, 2007

HEY GURLIE ITS BEEN A YEAR SINCE YOU LEFT US AND GUESS WHAT YOUR STILL BEIN MISSED EVERY DAY WERE NEVER GOING TO STOP LOVIN YOU I WILL NEVER FORGET THEM DAYS IN BIOLOGY I KNOW YOU LAUGHING RITE NOW BUT YOU KNOW WHAT IM TALKIN BOUT...
LOVE YOU JUGGA BOO

Brandi p

January 19, 2007

Well a year will be here come sunday and i cant believe you are gone.. It very sad without you around... Your smile, your laugh etc no longer here.. I miss u melinda and just know you will never be forgot about....

brandi

January 2, 2007

I am thinking of u today i cant believe its going to be a year since you were tragically taken away from all of us..

brandi p

October 31, 2006

Today is halloween and it was a sad day as this evening came your lil bro and father came over to your uncle george's house trick and treating and it was sad not to see you there as i did last year.. you are truly missed and never will be forgotten..

Robert Conrado

October 31, 2006

Melinda my mel mel.
nothing been the same without you around boo. i always remember you and nea nea calling my phone hekka early in the morning to wake me up for the fun of it. wished i could of took you to prom but you where in my mind and heart.. days go by and still think of all the things we went through and laughed together about. i will never forget you boo! love you always!! <3
Robert

JANEE ROBSON

October 27, 2006

MELINDA,
I THOUGHT OF YOU TODAY LIKE MOST DAYS, BUT TODAY YOU'VE BEEN ON MY MIND ALOT. I KNOW YOUR WATCHING ALL OF US AND I'M SURE THERES ONLY SO MUCH 1 ANGEL CAN DO! BUT I TRUELY BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL HELP GEORGE JR COME TO GRASP THAT YOU ARE WITH GOD, I KNOW HE'S SUFFERING MORE THAN HE TELLS ME. I PRAY FOR YOUR PARENTS AND YOUR BROTHER AND SISTERS DAILY. I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE SO VERY MUCH MISSED AND LOVED BY EVERYONE WHO'S LIVES YOU WERE A PART OF. THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. JANEE ROBSON (GEORGE RAMOS JR'S MOM)

Toni Oyao

July 1, 2006

MELINDA,

Not a day passes without thoughts of you and our hearts hurt so deeply. Still don't understand why it had to be you. Your dad said it best when he said, "Shanae will never find another best friend like you!" That is so true. The sparkle in Shanae's eye will never be the same. You touched our lives in an incredible way and we can only be greatful to have been a part of your life. Your friendship and love for Shanae was like no other, I never hear her laugh the way she did with you and acting so goofy as you both did. Oh how I miss the joy you brought into her life. I never told you thank you for being a true friend to my daughter but I can only hope you felt how much you were a part of our hawaiian family. I go and visit you on my way home from work and can't believe that people take the things I bring you but that's not going to stop me, I will continue to visit and bring you little things. My you continue to give your family the strength they need to make it through the days. We love you so deeply that our hearts hurt. Forever your jigga momma

Janee Robson(George Ramos jr's mom)

May 14, 2006

Melinda,

I want you to know that there isnt a day that goes by that you are not thought of. Your cousin George(Ramos Jr) lost a part of him on the day GOD took his arms and opened them to embrass you on your way home with him.There are days that George dosent say much at all but I know what hes thinking,other days he talks about the "remember when" times and he laughs. You have filled his life with so much and I know you will continue doing so.And for that I THANK YOU when he talks about you he always smiles. He tries to be there for little Danny and he always will. When Riley finds a penny he asks me if Melinda sent it down to let us know your watching and I tell him yes.

Danny and Patty, There are no words to ease your pain, but I want you know that My family is praying for you daily. Melinda Janet Ramos "My Angel in Heaven".

brandi

May 3, 2006

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Alina Ramos

May 1, 2006

Dear Melinda,



I Cant Bealieve Your Gone. I Never Even Tought About Loosing Such A Wonderful Cuzin Like You. I Just Ask God Why He Had To Take You And Why Couldnt It Be Someone Else Who Was Doin Bad Thingz Or Sumthing. You Were Doing So Good Before U Left By Raisin Ur Grades N Stuff And Everyone Waz So Pround Of U. Everytime I Think About You It Brings Tears To My Eyes And I Just Cant Help It. I Feel Like A Piece Of Me Is Missing Without You Here Cuz We Were So Close And Would Tell Each Other Everything. I Remember All The Times We've Had Even From When We Were Little. I Remember Thing Such As Our First Giants BaseBall Game, Takin Pix All The Time, Always Wanting To Have Sleepovers, Being Mean To Ur LiL Bro And George, Talkin On The Phone All Niite, You Always Tryin To Hook Me Up W/ Ur Hot Guy Friend's LiL Brothers, You Always Darin Me 2 Do Crazyy Stuff, Us Sitting In Ur Room All The Time Listenin 2 Music, Prank Kallin Gurlz U Didnt Like And A Whole Bunch Of Other Crazy Stuff Like That. Everytime I Was W/ You I Wuld Have Sucha Fun Time..There Was Never One Time Where I Was Bored With You. Like I Said Before I Still Cant Bealieve Ur Gone And I'll NEVER Forget You. You Are Truly A Wonderful Person To Not Only Me But To Ur Whole Family And Friendz. We All Love You And Miss You So Much Gurl...Cant Wait To See You Again In Heaven.



~*ReSt In PeAcE*~

Alina Ramos

May 1, 2006

Dear Melinda,



I Cant Bealieve Your Gone. I Never Even Tought About Loosing Such A Wonderful Cuzin Like You. I Just Ask God Why He Had To Take You And Why Couldnt It Be Someone Else Who Was Doin Bad Thingz Or Sumthing. You Were Doing So Good Before U Left By Raisin Ur Grades N Stuff And Everyone Waz So Pround Of U. Everytime I Think About You It Brings Tears To My Eyes And I Just Cant Help It. I Feel Like A Piece Of Me Is Missing Without You Here Cuz We Were So Close And Would Tell Each Other Everything. I Remember All The Times We've Had Even From When We Were Little. I Remember Thing Such As Our First Giants BaseBall Game, Takin Pix All The Time, Always Wanting To Have Sleepovers, Being Mean To Ur LiL Bro And George, Talkin On The Phone All Niite, You Always Tryin To Hook Me Up W/ Ur Hot Guy Friend's LiL Brothers, You Always Darin Me 2 Do Crazyy Stuff, Us Sitting In Ur Room All The Time Listenin 2 Music, Prank Kallin Gurlz U Didnt Like And A Whole Bunch Of Other Crazy Stuff Like That. Everytime I Was W/ You I Wuld Have Sucha Fun Time..There Was Never One Time Where I Was Bored With You. Like I Said Before I Still Cant Bealieve Ur Gone And I'll NEVER Forget You. You Are Truly A Wonderful Person To Not Only Me But To Ur Whole Family And Friendz. We All Love You And Miss You So Much Gurl...Cant Wait To See You Again In Heaven.



~*ReSt In PeAcE*~

Brandi Pittman

April 16, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ramos..

man did you guys raise a great daughter..she was such a great person..and for that she will never be forgotten..and i would do anything for you guys..you dont have to ask twice..and dont forget that you have 3 new daughters..erin shanae and I..i love you guys so much..i look at you guys as a second family..i would like to thank you for everything you have done for me and the girls..



To Lisa Marissa and Lil Danny..

Not a day went by that i didnt hear something about one of you guys..melinda truely loved you guys with all her heart..n i love you guys also..i feel like you guys are my very own sisters n brother..i want to thank you guys for everything also..and i will also do anything for you guys.. love you!!

Brandi Pittman

April 16, 2006

MELINDA..WOW I NEVER THOUGHT THAT SOMETHING SO HORRIBLE COULD HAPPEN TO SOMEONE AS GREAT AS YOURSELF..I STILL CANT BELIEVE THIS HAPPEN..ITS LIKE THIS IS THE NEVER ENDING NIGHTMARE..N I WOULD DIE TO WAKE UP BECAUSE ITS CAUSING ME SO MUCH PAIN..TO REALIZE THAT I CANT CALL YOUR PHONE NO MORE OR COME TO SEE YOU..OR CALL YOUR HOUSE PHONE AND HAVE LIL DANNY SAY..NO MELINDA'S IN TROUBLE..SHE CANT TALK NOW..MELINDA YOU REALLY HAD AN IMPACT ON ME..YOU WERE ALWAYS SO POSITIVE AND TRUTHFUL..AND I CANT EVEN COUNT THE GOOD MEMORIES THAT WE HAD IN THE PAST..ALL THE WAY FROM.. THE BLACK CAT.. MILKSHAKE..ITS RAINING..3LW..WHEN YOU LOST YOUR SHOE AT THE HAUNTED HOUSE..OUR SONG(DILEMMA)..OUR TALKS BOUT ANY AND EVERY THING..THE LESBIAN THAT KEPT CALLING YOUR PHONE..OUR TRIP TO SUNSPLASH..AND THE BASKETBALL GAME..AND BOY CAN I GO ON..AND ALSO HOW WE USED TO GO TO YOUR LIL BRO'S AND DADS BASEBALL GAMES AND PRACTICES..I ALWAYS HAD SO MUCH FUN WITH YOU MEL..JIGGA I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HAVE YOU BACK..ITS LIKE A BIG CHUNK OF MY LIFE IS MISSING..AND I HATE THAT FEELING..THE PAIN I FEEL EVERY DAY IS SOON TO GO AWAY..BECAUSE I JUS KEEP TELLING MYSELF THAT YOU ARE IN A WAY BETTER PLACE..A BETTER PLACE THAN I AM..AWAY FROM HARM N FEARS..AND YOU ARE UP THERE WATCHING DOWN ON ALL OF US..I NO YOU ARE..AND I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING MELINDA..YOU ALWAYS MADE ME FEEL LIKE SUCH A GREAT PERSON..YOU NEVER PUT ME DOWN..BUT YOU SURELY ALWAYS TRIED TO BRING ME UP WHEN I WASNT FEELING TO GOOD..MAN MEL THE LAST TIME I SEEN YOU WAS WHEN WE WENT TO SHELDONS BASKETBALL GAME..THAT WAS SO FUN..THEN AFTER ME YOU ERIN N JAY WENT BACK TO YOUR HOUSE AND YOU GUYS TAUGHT HIM HOW TO PLAY POOL..WHILE I WAS SITTING THERE SNAPPING PICTURES OF EVERYTHING..MAN I CAN NEVER FORGET ABOUT ANYTHING WE HAVE DONE TOGETHER..BECAUSE IT ALL WAS GREAT..MELINDA JANET RAMOS I MISS YOU SO MUCH..AND EACH DAY IT HITS ME HARDER AND HARDER THAT I WONT BE ABLE TO SEE MY JIGGA AGAIN..AND THAT MAKES ME SO SAD..MELINDA I HAVEN'T LAUGHED THE SAME SINCE..BECAUSE YOU WERE ALWAYS THE ONE TO MAKE ME LAUGH UNTIL MY CHEEK BONES HURT..NO ONE CAN OR WILL EVER TAKE YOUR PLACE IN MY HEART..BECAUSE DEAD OR ALIVE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY BESTFRIEND..:-)

Tommy Ortiz

March 23, 2006

Hey Melinda, I miss you! You treated everyone with respect and i will always remember your smile and the times we had at Vintage Park. You made me happy when I was sad. You will be missed so much and I haven't stoped thinking about you since you past. Your were a good friend and i will always remember you Melinda. R.I.P Melinda Ramos.

Love

Tommy Ortiz

Lisa Sanchez

March 21, 2006

Melinda,

I miss you more and more everyday, I think about you all the time. Life seems like it's draging without you here. I'm glad that I got to see you that night and we joked around like always. I just wish I got to hold you tight and told you how much I love you sister. I hate doing simple task like going to the store by myself because usually you would be with me. I miss you answering the phone when I call the house and me mistaking Lil Danny for you. I miss you spending the night at my house when Lawrence is gone and you telling my "what I'm I going to do to protect you". Just you being there with me made me feel safe and now that you are gone it hurts so bad. I miss you joking with me and telling me how old and uncool I am and that I have no friends. I used to get so annoyed when you use to say that but now I would give anything to hear it again. I miss your funny stories you would tell me. I just MISS YOU! I try to stay strong and some days I can't help myself from crying and getting angry. I do think of all the memories we shared and it makes me smile, but it saddens me to think of all the NEW memories we will be missing out on. I love you sister so much and can't wait for the day that we will be together again. You will always be in my heart and never forgotten. I will make sure my children know who there Auntie Melinda is and what a special person you are.

I love you Melinda.

shanae oyao

March 19, 2006

My mel ~ mel im constantly thinking of you every single day.. i miss you and love you i wish you were here jigga so i can laugh how i use to laugh and i listen to that song everyday "in the arms of the angel" it helps me relax and get through the day and reminds me that im in the arms of an angel because your up there watching me!!! i love you jigga mel

~~ love nae

Kimberlee Martinez

March 17, 2006

Hey Melinda,

I can't believe your gone.i remember we went to Elementary school together and hung out sometimes.Im sorry i never kept in touch with you.I should have talked to you more.It was very hard for me and Mike.He really misses you too and he told me all bout your guys past and it is a very small world.Well we all miss you and you will always be on my mind.

Your Old Friend

Kim

March 9, 2006

Jessica Cardenas

March 8, 2006

HAPPY 17TH BIRTHDAY!!



melinda i just wanted to wish you a happy 17th birthday...the only way i remembered was because ever since we had grown up together mine was febuary 8th and your was march 8th..those were the time girl. i miss you and love you always. keep up the guidence over us all and we shall meet again soon. luv ya!

Stefanie Martinez-Traylor

February 13, 2006

Danny, Patty, Marissa, Lisa & Danny Jr,



Ive knonwn your family for a very long time and I kinda seen melinda grow up over the years. Ive been friends w/ lisa since 8th grade and remember coming over to your house and seeing melinda play softball at parkway . when I seen the accident on the news i couldnt believe it was her.. i was like wow this cant be, because Lisa and I were just talking about her a few weeks before. It really hit close to home for me. i cant imagine what your family is going thru but i just wanted to say she grew up into a beautiful young woman, it really made me sad when i heard it on the news i cried to my husband and i still get up set as i think about it. just know that she is in a better place watching over you guys.. just be strong and keep praying everything will get better just have to take it one day at a time.. your family are in my prayers

June Camacho

February 7, 2006

Dear Ramos Family,



You don't know me but I want you to know that my prayers are with you, I know your pain! I too lost my son on march 19 2005 in a car accident also was a passenger...I am so sorry for your loss...you can write me if you like, God Bless you.



*Rip Melinda Ramos*

June Camacho

February 6, 2006

Dear Mr,Mrs Ramos

I know you don't know me! But I know your pain and I feel for you two..My prayers and thoughts are with you today and always..My Son Cory Camacho was taken from us on March 19 2005 the same way your lovely Daughter was and I very much hurt for you... for me and well there are no words that can express the pain we have in our hearts for our loss.. may God Bless you and your Family..

Leonicia McGriff

February 5, 2006

Dear Patty and Danny,

I know there is not much that I can say to make u guys feel better, but I definitely want you two to know that I am supporting you 100% and I pray for you and your family everyday.Most of the time, we do not understand why God does the things that He does, but as hard as it is sometimes, we must always trust Him, and trust the things that He does. It's not easy to understand His plans sometimes, but continue to have faith in Him, and never give up on God. He took Melinda home for a reason; as unfair as it is. The Bible says that we can not comprehend sometimes why God does the things that He does, but we must believe in Him, and that His plan is in our best intrest. When I heard about this my heart immediately dropped, and I said to myself, no, it cant be the Melinda i used to play softball with. I know the last time we talked was probably around 3 to 4 years ago, and i dont really remember that much, but what i do remember is that you guys were and still are awesome parents. You and your whole family would come out to all the games, and your love for Melinda was evident to all who knew you guys. I remember coming to your house and spending time with you guys. I want you to know that my mother and I were there at the funeral to support u guys, and I cried so hard.I wnated to run up and give u guys a hug, but I knew it wasn't the right time. My mom said to me,"dont worry we will get to see them again." Just know that each day will gradually get better. You guys will be able to help parents who have also losed their child. Know that God's plan is perfect for your lives. Please e-mail me if you can, i would love to talk to you guys and see you again. I love you soooo much.

Love,

Leo (Tanks)

Adriana Lopez

February 5, 2006

To the Ramos family...



I was a friend of Marissa's in high school and met Melinda on a few short occasions. Marissa informed me of what happened and I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for this tragic loss. She had grown into such a beautiful young woman from the pictures I have seen. I want you to know that I am here if anything is ever needed. I will be in contact with Marissa. May God bless you all. My best to your family.



Love Always,

Adriana Lopez

Jessica Cardenas

February 4, 2006

Patty & Danny, im so sorry for the loss of Melinda. No words can bring her back but she will always be in our hearts and prayers.



Melinda, i miss you so much you dont even know.i still cant believe your not here with us but i know that your looking down on all of us and smiling down at all the faces you see. my memories with you will never fade away. like the time when you would come to my grandmas house with lisa and marissa to play with my aunt lisa and me.i'll never forget the hiding place we useed to have (under the pool table). Softball will also never be forgotten. Especially the time i struck you out and the time you caught the ball i hit.Man we had so much fun together....i still cant believe it.i love you and miss you.

ill see you at the top girly..save me a spot.

Jerry & Janice Ray

February 3, 2006

Patty & Danny we are very sorry to here of the loss of your daughter Melinda. We just learned about your tragedy today. If you need anything please feel free to call us. God Bless, Your friends always Jerry & Janice Ray. 684-2196

Jill Brackmann

February 3, 2006

I am sitting here at school utterly devastated about Melinda's death. I only found out five minutes ago - I was off track when it happened and I don't get the newspaper, but Mani Phouaypha's brother Myron stopped by after school and let me know. Melinda was such a sweet, sweet child - one of my favorites in all my years of teaching. Sweet, intelligent, beautiful - I simply can't believe she's gone. I'm also so terribly sorry I didn't know about her funeral or I would have been there. My prayers are with you and everyone (and I know there are many) who are hurting. God bless you and let me know if there's anything I can do.

Ms. Brackmann

Markofer Elementary

Steven Graham

February 2, 2006

Patty, Lisa, and Family

I want you to know that you all are in the prayers of myself and my family. Such a loss, no one should ever endure. Melinda was in one of Katie's classes and when she heard, her one statement to me that maybe sums it all up was, "Dad, she was so sweet!" May God be with all of you!

Lori Anderson

February 1, 2006

Patty (and family)

I am so sorry about your loss. I just wanted you to know that I am thinking and praying for you all everyday. I wish I could do something to take away the pain.

Nwana Carter (Bennett)

February 1, 2006

Although we've never met, I heard so many wonderful things about you from your Mother. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you and your family.

Lia Drake

February 1, 2006

Patty, Lisa & Family,

I can't stop thinking about all of you. No parent should have to deal with such a loss. My heart aches for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Lia

armando guerrero

January 31, 2006

i still cant believe that that ur not with us anymore lil cuzin, i always thought of u more of a sister than a cousin we had a lot of goodtimes growing up and i wish we could have had a lot more. its hard to get over the fact that ur gone im gona miss the times we spent on the phone even though we mostly talked about getting u out of trouble or talkin about the trouble ur gona get into (lol) im also gona miss hangin out with u we always had fun together even when we had nothin to do but stay at the house we still found a way to have a good time. even though we liked different things and had different taste in style we thought the same and were the same at heart not alot of people knew u the way i did, we talked about alot of stuff and i always enjoyed when u would come to me for help or advice it made me feel like ur big brother and it made me feel good when i was able to help u out and put a smile on ur face. i cant help but cry everytime i think about u lil cuz it feels like a part of me went with u in that accident but im gona try and stay strong cuz i know thats wat u would is for me not to grieve but to b strong and not only for me but for the family too so thats wat im gona do. i never said it much when u were here but i want u to know lil cuzin that i love u and i always will and i feel that its unfair that u were the only one that got taken but God needed you for something so he took you and i hope when its my time i get to go with him to. well again i love u lil cuz and you'll always be in my thoughts and heart and im sad still that ur not here but im also happy to know that ur in a better place and i hope u and my grandpa r the first ones their at those gates when its my turn to go up

Sabrina Hudson

January 30, 2006

Words can not express the sorrow I feel for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Heidi Meixner-Robles

January 30, 2006

Dear Ramos Family,



May the memories of your beautiful daughter carry you on. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember you will always have the support of your SMUD family and may GOD lighten the sarrow on your heart as time goes by.

Veda Moore

January 30, 2006

I continue to pray for your family in this difficult time. My heart truly goes out to all of you and I send my deepest condolences and love.

Jolyne Marcelli

January 30, 2006

Danny, Patty and Little Danny, no words can ever express the sadness that I feel for your family at this time. I know there are no words to comfort you now, just know that you have a lot of people that care and are here for you. Melinda was a beautiful girl who touched many lives, I was so touched by the outpouring of love for your family. I pray that God cradles you in his arms and gets you through the hard road ahead. Just know your little angel is with Him. God Bless you Ramos Family. With heartfelt sympathy, Jolyne.

jolissa Lamb

January 29, 2006

Melinda,it was so hard to here that u u were gone but then i realized u were in a better place then here. REST IN PEACE MELINDA. HEAVENS GOT A NEW ANGEL HER NAME IS MELINDA!!!

Mesja Weinberger

January 29, 2006

I am so sorry to hear of your loss and my heart just aches for you. I lost my younger brother 5 years ago in an accident also, so my empathy for you and what you are going through is boundless. I know we will see our loved ones again. Until then, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.



Mesja Weinberger

Dorothy / Louie Aguilar

January 29, 2006

Dear Danny and Family,

Louie and I were visiting for the weekend when we heard of your loss. We are so sorry for the loss that your heart is feeling. Danny we know your childern mean the world to you. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family and if there is anything you need please let us know.

Rachele Lizarraga

January 28, 2006

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

kela pierce

January 28, 2006

i am so sorry to here about melinda. i was at school when i found out about this and couldn't believe it when i did. i went to middle school and high school with melinda, and that was my girl. all i can do now is think of all of the memories we had together. i am so sorry that this had to happen to my friend and let alone your beautiful daughter. ever since the accident i think of her everyday. i just don't know why god had to take her so young. i will keep you in my prayers forever and always. r.i.p melinda. god bless mr. and mrs. ramos

Veronica Purdue

January 28, 2006

I am so sorry to hear that Melinda had passed away. i was a very close friend of hers.i know she will be missed and loved by all...she was truly an angel to a lot of people.

Laura Garcia

January 28, 2006

Patty,

I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter Melinda. Our most sincere condolences to you and your family.

God keep you in his care,

Laura(Flores)Garcia

NaTaLiE AndRadE

January 27, 2006

melinda,

im sorry this had to happen to you! we all miss and love ya lil mamas!!!you are forever missed!! RIP MelInDa

Tracey DuBray

January 27, 2006

I am so very shocked and hurt to hear about the loss of your daughter. I can't even imagine the pain you must feel in your hearts. Please find comfort in your memories of her. You will all be in my heart and prayers.

LIZ MONTOYA

January 27, 2006

My Deepest Condolences to the Family, I don't know you personally, but I too lost my Brother last year in a Tragedy, My Prayers go out to you.

Stephanie Lemmond

January 27, 2006

Patty and Family,



My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I know GOD will strengthen your hearts everyday. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.

Stephy

Linda Gavia-Scherr

January 27, 2006

Dear Patty Ann, Danny and family,

May the memories of Melinda become your strength to get you through these difficult times. May God bless your family. Love, your cousin Linda and family.

Robin Parks

January 27, 2006

To the Ramos Family,



Our deepest sympathy to your entire family. I was sorry to hear about your precious daughter. Remember all the wonderful memories you have of her.

Robin Parks

[email protected]

Sabrina Perea

January 27, 2006

Melinda,

You'll be very missed and loved. I'll remember all the memories we had with each other. Especially our inside jokes! Than all those times we had to play Extra hard when our dads coach us in softball! I'll Always Remember your smile and your laugh. Lovez ya Bunches xoxo

Leti Jimenez

January 27, 2006

Danny & Patty

Im sorry to hear about your loss,I don't know melinda, My cousin and melinda's cousin christina has talked about her. My heart and thought are with you and your family.

Sharonda / Dana Rollins & Jerome Davis

January 27, 2006

To: Melinda's parents, family and friends,



We pray for God's strength and peace that surpasses all understanding during difficult time.



I didn't have the opportunity to know her, but my son Dana and Richard Perez are the best of friends and he had the pleasure of meeting her. He was very devastated when he heard about this.



May God Bless You All.

Tom Romero and Family

January 27, 2006

Dear Ramos Family

Our Heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you.

jeanelle carrasco

January 27, 2006

Ramos Family,

I was so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your daughter Melinda. My heart goes out to all of you and I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Crystal Presley-Willis

January 27, 2006

To the Ramos family:



My heart and prayers goes out to each of you at a time like this. I did not know Melinda or anyone in the family but, I heard the story on the news and it touched my heart. I will continue to pray for each of you that god will give you peace and comfort. I can tell that Melinda was a very special girl and well like by many. God bless you all and my prayers are with you.

Amy Perez

January 27, 2006

Patty,

I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful daughter Melinda. My heart and thoughts are with you and your family.



Siempre,

Amy

JANIE RANGEL

January 27, 2006

MR AND MRS RAMOS



MY CONDOLENCES ON YOUR LOSS.



"THE ONES WE LOVE ARE NEVER GONE, THEY LIVE WITHIN OUR HEARTS".



MAY THE LORD EMBRACE YOU IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW AND GIVE YOU PEACE.

Luci Martinez

January 27, 2006

Ramos Family,

There are no words that can console your family. My son knew Melinda and he is in disbelief that this could happen to a friend. As a parent, my heart goes out to your family. May all of our prayers guide her to the "light" and your angel always watch over your family and all of her friends.

"Seek God and he will give you peace."



Luci Martinez (Sacramento, CA)

Richard Cervantes

January 27, 2006

Danny and Patty,

My prayers and sympathy go to you and your family in this time of great lost. May the Lord bring you comfort and healing with every passing day.

Sandy Brewer

January 27, 2006

Ramos Family,



I am truly sorry for your loss. The last time I saw Melinda she was blossoming into a beautiful young lady. I know she has touched many lives and the impact of her beauty and smile will remain with those she touched forever.



There is no way to feel the depth of your loss but please know that my heart and thoughts are with each and every one of you.



I pray that God's peace and comfort will fall upon your family during this time.



Carlos, thank you for allowing me the opportunity to know Melinda.

Portia Eiland

January 26, 2006

Dear Patty & Family,



My heart goes out to you and your family on the loss of your beautiful baby girl. May GOD continue to be with you and your family and keep his loving arms around you during this difficult time. Love Portia.

Anthony Jordan

January 26, 2006

To the Ramos Family: I am deeply sorry for your loss of Melinda. I will keep you in my thoughts. Sincerely, Anthony D. Jordan

Sandy ,Guy, Amber & Nicki Lopes

January 26, 2006

Patty and Danny,

Our hearts are with you in your time of sorrow. It seems like only yesterday that Melinda was spending the night at our home with Amber and playing Barbies with Nicki. She was a special young lady and will forever be remembered and missed.

May God be with you.

Marissa Estes

January 26, 2006

My beautiful baby sister Mel,

My heart is broken. I know that you are with our Lord and I have found peace in that. But it doesn't stop my heartache.Who will make fun of Mom and Lisa with me, and go to the mall with me? And now I have to face the scary Taco bell lady alone. Although we were different I could see so much of myself in you. I am so proud of everything that you have accomplished, because you worked so hard last year. Life is going to be so hard without you here. I will especially miss our late night talks about what ever was on your mind, when you spent the night. My love for you will never end. And I will see you again on the day the Lord calls me home. Never Goodbye, but until we meet again. I love you Mel!

With all of my love,

Marissa

Jeremy, Lauren, Lucas Estes

January 26, 2006

Auntie winda,

We will miss you so much. We know that you are with God and watching over us. You will always be in our hearts and we will talk to you in our prayers. We love you so much Auntie Winda!

With all of our love,

Jeremy, Lauren and Luke

Tatiana Rhines-Lopez

January 26, 2006

Dear Danny,



I don't know how you feel because I've never lost someone so close. I want you to know that my family and I will always be here for you.

from,Tatiana

The Lopez family

Krista edwards

January 26, 2006

Melinda!!

i didnt want to belive it when i heard it! your a wonderful girl and will be missed!! i love you girl!! and wished we could have talked before it happend.. i love you!

Ray & Angela(Gonzales) Martinez

January 26, 2006

To the Ramos family, we send our deepest condolences. We were sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you all. May God ease the pain that you all feel in your hearts right now. There is no understanding to why a love one is taken so young. May you always remember the love that I know you all have for her and she had for you.



God Promise - God didn’t promise days without pain,

Laughter without sorrow or sun without rain...

But God did promise strength for the day,

Comfort for the tears, and a light for the way.......



From Ray, Angela, Vincente, Leticia, Maggie, and Christina Martinez.

Ishmael Rasul

January 26, 2006

Dearest Cousins Danny and Patty,

We are so sorry to hear about the lost of your beautiful, caring daughter. Our prayers are with you.

Love,

Gloria, Rosemary, David, Melinda, David Gulam, Nena, Veronica Rasul

Carlos Ramos

January 26, 2006

Melinda you will be missed very much!But i will always have you here in my heart & thoughts.



Love Always

Youre Uncle Carlos

Maria Chavez

January 26, 2006

My sweet Melinda, even though youre not with us youre in my thoughts Heart And Soul always.I am going to miss youre smile and youre laughter very much. I will always have good memoreies of us. Love Always who you always called Aunt Maria.

Rick Flores

January 26, 2006

To the Ramos family, I met your daughter a few times that I'd been to your home, she was very polite and respectful, and beautiful, I'm so sorry to hear about this tragedy. Danny if there is anything I can do let me know I'm here for you, always. Your Friend

Susanna Gomez

January 26, 2006

Ramos Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. When I first heard the story of the acceident it just touched my heart in a special way. I dont know you are your family. But i know God is in control and he desires to comfort you in this time of mourning the bible says Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be conforted. God is in the midst of all your pain turn to him in this time of need. I go to Victory Outreach South Sacramento Church if you are your family needs anything please feel free to call our church office we will be blessed to help (916)670-1470. God Bless you and you are in my prayers!!



With sincere care

Susanna Gomez

leigha orozco

January 26, 2006

Hey girl,

I wish i could have said goodbye to you . You will never be forgotten i swear you will always be in my heart and thoughts. LUCKY CHARMS haha member are inside joke. no body knows it but me and you. Im going to miss you. You always made me laugh and smile telling me im pretty and stuff. I cant believe your gone and i will see you at the gates. LOVE YOU ... always and forever leigha ...... LUCKY CHARMS...

Sister Bridgett

January 26, 2006

Dear Ramos Family,



May God give you peace in your heart. I know right now you can't understand why your baby had to be taken at such a young age. I pray to the Father in Heaven that He will keep you in perfect peace. Your daughter has went to her new home in Heaven and she will be comforted by the Father. I pray for you and your family and friends in their time of need. May GOD heal your hearts in Jesus Name.

Kathy Zelnik

January 26, 2006

Patty and Danny and Family,

My deepest sympathy at the loss of your beautiful little girl - Melinda. I haven't talked to you in a long time, but I'll never forget Melinda's smiling face in my living room, helping me with Elaina and Danny Jr.'s religion class as she listened to the kids read bible stories. I pray for you and your family, that the Lord will strengthen you during this most difficult time and find comfort that Melinda is with Him in his loving arms watching over all of you.

Love, Kathy Zelnik and family.

Cheryl Garcia

January 26, 2006

Dear Janet and Familiy:

We are all very sorry for your loss. Our hearts hurts knowing that your going through this traggic time.May God guide you all through this difficult walk. We love you Janet and we are praying for you and your family. Love Always: Stella Villalobos, Cheryl Garcia, Lydia Cavazos, Karla Lopez, Andrea Rodriguez, and Andrea Murti.

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