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Michael Heberling Obituary

July 20, 1924 - February 6, 2015 Michael J. Heberling was born on July 20, 1924 to Michael and Magdelena (Toth) Heberling in Dayton, Ohio. He attended vocational school and entered the Navy in 1943 to serve his country during World War II. He served aboard the USS Stingray SS 186 and the USS Sea Poacher. He married Mary Virginia "Ginny" Miller in 1948 and began his life as a family man, raising seven children. Mike began his career as a plumber in Dayton , Ohio and served in Sacramento Local 447 Plumbers and Pipefitters Union in various assignments as lead foreman. He ended his working career at University of California, Davis Medical Center as a Plumbing supervisor. He retired in 1986 and moved with Ginny to Sequim, WA in 1992 to enjoy retirement. As his children were growing he was very active in his parish church. During his retirement he enjoyed sailing around Washington in the wooden sailboat he built in his backyard, Double Dolphin II completed in 1999 Ginny said that sewing the sails was an "act of love". Mike and Ginny talked frequently of the good times with family and their many friends. In addition to sailing, Mike was an avid crabber, fisherman, clammer and traveler. He and Ginny took many trips around the country visiting relatives. He was preceded in death by his parents and his siblings, his wife Mary Virginia, her parents and her siblings and many friends. He is survived by all 7 of his children, Michele Helms, Debbi (Albert) Beyer, Gregg (Teresita) Heberling, Dave (Patti) Heberling, Jim Heberling, Barbara (Jim) Arnold, Christine (Matt) Elam, 20 grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, two sisters-in-law and a cousin. His legacy of hard work, integrity, honesty, and love of Jesus had kept him afloat in the sea of life and given his family a firm foundation by which to live. He will be truly missed. A celebration of Life will be held in May in Sacramento. A memorial mass will be held at St. Joseph's Parish, Sequim, February 24 at 8:30a. Donations may be made to Wounded Warriors, St. Jude's Hospital or Volunteer Hospice.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee on Feb. 23, 2015.

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March 2, 2015

I loved Ginny and Mike - they were true friends. I'm glad you mentioned Mike's little boat - it was a work of art. Mike had so many talents and enjoyed life. They both lived a good life and their children can be sure that they are happily watching over them now.

Sheila Stetson
Pismo Beach, CA

Mark McDonald

February 27, 2015

Mike will be missed, what a great guy. He lived his life to the fullest and was willing to share his passions with his friends. I have many great memories growing up. Mr and Mrs Heberling were extended family to us and helped form the life we now lead.
I wish all kids had the opportunity to grow up in tight nit groups like we did. It sure added many fond memories to my life. Church, School, Swim Teams, Home Projects, Weekend day trips it was like our families were one for many years growing up. How do you Thank a man for being that open with his heart and time. Your Parents will be remembered fondly. I hope the many great memories bring comfort and smiles as you deal with your great loss.

Kevin McKenna

February 25, 2015

Another member of people I admired while growing up

Mari Lucchesini-Lewis

February 25, 2015

Christine, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. He will always be in your heart. My prayers are with you and your family.

Tina Caravello-Freeman

February 25, 2015

Barbara and family, my heart goes out to you and I pray that you find comfort and faith that your father rests in peace and you will see him again someday. Barbara, you and I attended All Hallows Grade School in the 70's.

Pam Kurowski Davis

February 23, 2015

What a wonderful tribute on a life well lived! I spent many memorable hours during high school at the Heberling house in a large group of Debbi's girlfriends, playing guitars and singing folksongs. My condolences to the Heberling family. The memories will live forever in your hearts.

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