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Shelly Howard Obituary

HOWARD, (Rachelle) Shelly
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Born Jan. 10, 1972 to David and Lorretta Dietz in Roseville, CA. Shelly left her worldly constraints to be with the Lord on Oct. 4, 2009. She is survived by her loving husband and best friend Anthony L. Howard and her adoring children: daughter Taylor, the twins Anthony and Sydney, and daughters Jaden and Shelby. A special thank you to her Aunt Trudy and Uncle Bob for providing a quiet sanctuary in her final days. A family memorial service honoring her life will be held at Russ Monroe's Funeral Chapel, 7960 Winding Way, Fair Oaks CA 95628 on Wed. Oct. 14th at 2:00 pm.

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Published by The Sacramento Bee from Oct. 10 to Oct. 11, 2009.

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Scott Gerlt

November 6, 2023

Dear Shelly, Even after these many years, I remember how much we loved you, Anthony and your dear children. You were so kind to me, Liv, and Lainey. We all so yearned for your healing. I remember trying to plant the vision of you on a porch somewhere with Shelby´s children on your knees. Still, after years and years, my heart aches that vision did not come to pass in this world. We all wanted it so utterly. May there be a world where all your pain is stilled and your family joyously surrounds you. With love for all of you, always. Scott

Kelly (Borg)Thomas

October 8, 2010

I am not sure who will be reading this, I am not sure who I am writing to...a year after her death, I am just finding out that Shelly is gone. I am an old friend from high shcool; we used to be very close and while we haven't seen each other for many years she is someone that I have never forgotten and still think of often. From time to time I have tried to look her up, to no avail, until today when I decided to google her name and found her obituary. I am so shocked and so sad, even after not being in touch for so long. God bless you, her husband, children, parents and friends.

June 24, 2010

rest in peace shelly. love erik

deanna e

November 18, 2009

Anthony and the beautiful children know that Shelly is in God's arms, with only health and happiness in her heart. She will forever be an angel watching over them.

Teena B

October 21, 2009

I remember our days at HP talking about having our babies. I remember our walks in Antelope talking about you being pregnant with the twins. I remember you moving to FL. I missed you then. All our thoughts are with your husband and your kids as they go through this most difficult time. Teena B

Kathie Wolf

October 11, 2009

Loretta - It seems like just yesterday I was getting married and you were pregnant with Shelly....how fast the time has gone. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.

Kathy Desell

October 10, 2009

OMG! I don't even know what to say.... My prayers and thoughts are with you, Anthony and family... It has been soo long since I have seen you and Shelly... I'm so sorry for your loss! I had just been thinking about some fun times way back when.... Again my thoughts and prayers are with you all!

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