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McGIRR, Stephen William
Steve lost his battle to brain cancer on June 17, 2012 at the age of 43. Steve graduated from Montgomery High School in Santa Rosa and Sacramento State College. He loved the outdoors; especially fishing, camping, rugby and golf. He was always a true friend, never knew a stranger and had a wonderful sense of humor.
Steve is survived by his wife Cindy and their beautiful daughters, Jordan and Peyton. He is also survived by his parents Steve and Pat McGirr; brother Michael McGirr, nephew Tristan, niece Isabella; and in-laws David and Karen Alexander. He is further survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins and will be missed by all.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, July 14 at Lakeside Church, 745 Oak Avenue Parkway in Folsom, CA. Service will begin at 10:30 am and reception immediately following at the Block (next to church). In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the children via the McGirr Family Fund, 2795 E Bidwell Street, Suite 100-380, Folsom, CA 95630.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen McGIRR
Susana Diaz
June 23, 2020
We dont ever forget our loved ones. They will never be forgotten no matter what! We all move on but always remember the ones whom left our side but know they are along side us day by day night by night morning by morning minute by minute second by second. Steve is with us always and forever....
We love you my Viking friend ♥
Donna Smith
July 13, 2012
From SW Penna, just want you to know that you are so very close in heart and prayer from far away, Cindy. Though we have never met, I remember seeing your beautiful face and your Steve's radiant smile when I attended a soccer game at the Sports Complex in Folsom a few months ago. My sweet granddaughter Sydney was playing, as was your sweet girl. When I think of my beautiful Tracey & Chris' Syd and Shay, I just especially lift up your Jordan and Peyton. Isaiah 61 resounds in my heart, as you look toward Steve's celebration service tomorrow.....the Spirit of our Sovereign God is upon you...and on Steve's parents and family. Love in Christ, and I am so very sorry for your loss, dear one.
Tim and Ivette Yoder
July 11, 2012
Dear Cindy, Jordan and Peyton,
We will miss Steve and his gentle smile. Know that our love and support will be here for you. We are sorry that we will not be able to attend the service.
Bill& Joyce Hicks
July 11, 2012
There are no words, but it is God's will, and Stephen is in His hands.
Kerry Neidel
July 11, 2012
I am so truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts have been and will continue to be with you all. May God Bless you and give you peace.
Ronald Keith
July 10, 2012
Your loss is great and I hope these words can offer some consolation. Your friends and family support and love you. Know that love will continue always.
John Gravelle
July 9, 2012
To Cindy, Jordan and Peyton. Know that your husband and daddy is just on the other side, not far, very close... it's just the other side, that is surrounded by pure love and white light. Like a huge big white puffy pillow that surrounds his soul with nothing but pure love and healing. I'm truly sorry you have lost Steve. He was a warm kind soul, and still is. He's just on the other side... not far. Please remember to take a moment to feel his love, when he taps you on the shoulder gently. Trust that it is him. Then smile, and continue your journey of the day. All the best, your neighbors, John, Steph, Johnny and Josh.
Michael McElroy
July 6, 2012
I am genuinely sorry for your loss. I hope that you, your children and his parents can surrender to the love that surrounds you during this most difficult time. Let it comfort and support you.
Michael D. McElroy - Redwood Empire Kiwanis Club - Santa Rosa
July 6, 2012
For Jordan and Peyton and Cindy, sending our thoughts; hanah and rachel whether you are together or apart may your beloved father and husband never be more than a breath away from the center of your heart.
July 6, 2012
Steve, Pat and entire family: So sorry to hear about your son's passing. We will not be able to be there but know you are all in our prayers during this difficult time.
May God Bless,
Jim Dorris
Draper
July 3, 2012
Sorry sorry to hear of Steve's passing. I apologize I am not able to be there, but I live in Utah. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and I will always remember Steve's great smile and personality. With sincere sympathy, Kim Egbert-Draper
Susana Diaz
July 2, 2012
This goes to the McGirr family each and every one of them. My sympathy to you all my heart feels your pain. Rest in peace Steve a dear friend that will be missed dearly! Mrs. McGirr you have our support!
Andrea & Greg Keziah
July 2, 2012
Cindy we are praying for you & the girls. We love you & thank you for being there for Steve. He loved you with all his heart.
Loretta Perez (formerly Mejia)
July 2, 2012
Cindy, I was so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. But I know the loving memories you have and your faith will help you stay strong. He is alive in heaven and an angel looking over you and your girls.
Joan Muzzin/Giordano
July 2, 2012
We were so very saddened to hear about Steve's passing. I have such wonderful memories of Steve growing up with my daughters, Sandy and Suzy Giordano. Just know that we all of thinking of you and holding you close in our hearts.
Derric Sebastiani
July 2, 2012
I was fortunate to go to school and play some years of soccer with Steve. What a wonderful being !! and that smile said it all. To the McGirr family, I am so sorry for your loss !! My prayers from my family to yours !!
Steve Geissinger
July 2, 2012
I went to High School with Steve...sure sorry to hear about his passing.
July 1, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I did not know Steve but this touched me. I lost an son a few years ago and I remember feeling so emptyand wondering why. There was a friend who signed his guest book that told me that without Gabriel living, he would never have known heaven. I hope that brings I some sort of comfort. I know it did for me. I will be praying for you Cindy and you're beautiful girls, his parents and all the people that loved him. He seemed to bring joy to so many. I am so sorry for your loss.
Kings Beach, June 2008
JR and Susie Lacy
July 1, 2012
Words cannot express how sad and so very sorry we are.
Much love,
Michele Scapeccia
June 30, 2012
This has made me so sad for all of the lives, Steve touched! He was a wonderful person! He will be missed however he will never be forgotten! To the McGirr family I am so very sorry for your loss! You have my prayers and love!
Stacey Baxter
June 30, 2012
Strength and the love sent to you and the girls. You have beautiful memories to last a lifetime. Steve will surely be providing a little help and guidance from up above to his McGirr girls. If you need anything Cindy, please don't hesitate to contact me. With love....
June 30, 2012
McGirr Family,
We are praying for comfort for you. We are so sorry for your loss of Steve.
Matt & Pam Smith
John evansJohnEvans
June 29, 2012
Steve was truly a friend. Played alot of ball with Steve and spent many nights in the Howarth Park booth scoring games. So sad to hear this news. I will remember his smile, god bless you Steve and may you rest in peace.
Steve Dennison
June 29, 2012
Steve was a good childhood friend. I remember all the years of soccer. Although we had lost touch over the years, Firbir McGirr will be missed. He was a good friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
June 29, 2012
Cindy,
You and the girls are in my prayers. Look to the hills for your strength.
Love you,
Connie Jumper
June 29, 2012
Cindy - my heart goes out to you and your girls in this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless all of you, Joan Kirtlan
June 29, 2012
Cindy,Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Christina and Tony D'Arcangelo
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