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Ralph Ketner

1920 - 2016

Ralph Ketner obituary, 1920-2016, Salisbury, NC

BORN

1920

DIED

2016

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Summersett Funeral Home

1315 W. Innes St.

Salisbury, North Carolina

Ralph Ketner Obituary

Ralph W. Ketner, whose generous spirit created, inspired and encouraged generations of philanthropy in Salisbury; and, whose business acumen created employment, wealth and security in our region and across the nation, went Home to God on Sunday, May 29, 2016. Although a business icon, it was his kind, loving essence that made him so special and beloved by those who called him father, brother, hero, mentor or friend. Mr. Ketner's wit and heart sparkled through his eyes and smile, and he exuded something special that always sought the good in those he met. Mr. Ketner was President, and the last of a trio of men who founded Food Town (later Food Lion) in 1957. He, his brother Brown and their friend Wilson Smith, wanted to start a grocery store in Salisbury, but they had no money. They called friends and strangers from the phone book, to invest $10 a share, and ended up with 125 original investors. An original share of Food Town stock eventually split 19,440 for 1. Each $28 of original investment created a million-dollar return during Mr. Ketner's tenure. Not only did the Ketners and Smith succeed, they made millionaires of their friends and neighbors. This extraordinary success didn't happen overnight. In 1967, deciding that “you can't buy people's business – you've got to earn it,” Mr. Ketner, a mathematics whiz, locked himself in a Charlotte hotel room for days, determined to figure out a way to lower prices on grocery items. His book, “Five Fast Pennies,” describes his process of drastically reducing prices and profits and counting on dramatic increases in volume, or “five fast pennies instead of one slow nickel,” to be successful. Food Town had to increase sales by 50 percent to break even, so Mr. Ketner “bet the company” and convinced his board to take the risk. In combination with exceptionally skillful buying and operations, that risk paid off and Food Town/Food Lion became the fastest growing supermarket in the nation, with the stock outperforming Microsoft, Walmart, and even Warren Buffet's company, Berkshire Hathaway. In the 1970s, the grocery chain grew by 35 percent a year. It expanded across North Carolina and the nation. The Belgian company Delhaize purchased stock in Food Lion during this time period. That relationship continues today. Always looking for cost savings, when it became necessary for Food Town to change its name as it grew, Mr. Ketner came up with the name Food Lion — because he'd only need to buy two new letters for store signs. Mr. Ketner's philosophy was customers first, employees second, stockholders third and management last. Food Town/Food Lion had a profit sharing program for employees from day one. Twenty percent of pre-tax profits went into the plan and enabled many hourly workers to send their children to college and enjoy a comfortable retirement. True to his philosophy of “management last,” and unlike almost all CEO's, Mr. Ketner never gave himself a stock option which would have made him a billionaire. Mr. Ketner knew firsthand what he called, “the privilege of being underprivileged.” Born September 20, 1920 to the late George Robert Ketner - also a grocer - and Effie Yost Ketner, he lost his mother at age 5 and his father at age 11. His stepmother, Allene Ketner did the best she could during the depression, but young Ralph worked from an early age. Mr. Ketner sold newspapers, learned how to pluck chickens from his grandfather, split logs with a wedge and mallet, worked in brother Glenn's “Ketner's” supermarkets and “hopped curb” at Dan Nicholas Ice Cream Parlor. As recently as this May, he still delighted in easily reeling off the 14 flavors of ice cream he sold as a youngster. Having honed the skills in arithmetic he'd use the rest of his life, Mr. Ketner graduated from Boyden in 1937 and enrolled in Tri-State College in Angola, Indiana — the college farthest from Salisbury that had sent him a catalog. He later served as its commencement speaker in 1982 where he was awarded an honorary doctorate. Mr. Ketner, by then well known for his colorful language, presented a speech entitled: “Four-Letter Words, the Keys to Success: Home Work, Hard Work, Team Work, Good Luck, Good Lord, and a Good Idea.” Out of money in 1939, he dropped out of college and returned home to work in his brother Glenn's store in Kannapolis, and later worked for Cannon Mills as an auditor. He volunteered for the Army after the attack on Pearl Harbor, serving in North Africa and Italy from 1942 to 1945. Upon his return from the war, Mr. Ketner did everything possible to stay out of the grocery business, working nine jobs he didn't like before ultimately returning to work for Glenn. When Glenn sold his chain of 25 stores to Winn-Dixie in 1956, Ralph and brother Brown worked briefly for that chain before starting Food Town with former co-worker, Wilson Smith in 1957. Upon his retirement from Food Lion, Mr. Ketner embarked on a second career of philanthropy that has been nearly unparalleled in this community, both in his personal contribution and in his engendering that spirit in others. Catawba College became a frequent recipient of Mr. Ketner's giving. The Ketner School of Business opened at Catawba in 1989 and Mr. Ketner, Executive in Residence, established a third-floor office there where he provided services as “LPCINC” (the Lowest Paid Consultant in North Carolina), providing free consultation to anyone seeking his counsel. He especially loved talking with students about their ideas, and never missed an opportunity to meet with classes. In the early ‘90s, Mr. Ketner offered the North Carolina County Association a deal that they couldn't refuse: each year, he would give a $10,000 cash award to the employee who came up with the best idea of how to improve efficiency of operations in state government. Twenty-five years later, the NC County Association estimated that Mr. Ketner's $250,000 investment had saved taxpayers more than $38,000,000. Other entities which Mr. Ketner faithfully supported include, but are by no means limited to: Rowan Helping Ministries, Livingstone College, the City of Salisbury, Nazareth Children's Home, Trident Community Foundation, Charleston Interfaith Crisis Ministries, Queens University, New Horizons, 4-H, Happy's Farm Inc. and Duke University. His list of awards and honors includes: National CEO Award (Wall Street Journal), USA Entrepreneur of the Year (Price Waterhouse), Who's Who in Supermarketing, Who's Who in Finance and Industry, Top Entrepreneurs in U.S. (Venture Magazine), Top Visionaries in the Supermarket Industry (Supermarket News), Lifetime Achievement and Entrepreneur of the Year (Ernst & Young and Merrill Lynch). He was the subject of numerous national magazine articles, among which were: “What's an LFPINC?” (Forbes, Feb. 16, 1981); “Making Them Rich Down Home,” (Fortune, Aug. 15, 1988) and “You Can Make A Million (Readers Digest, July 1996). A lifelong member of the First Presbyterian Church of Salisbury, he served as both Deacon and Elder over his 83-year membership. In 1989, he built 14 homes for low-income families, and did the same in 2002 for 10 families in Rowan County. He was N.C. Grocer of the Year in 1972-73; N.C. Retailer of the Year in 1977; received an honorary degree from Catawba in 1981; was Salisbury's Man of the Year in 1985; received the Adrian L. Shuford Award from Catawba in 1987; bought and renovated Salisbury's seven-story downtown anchor building, then graciously donated it to the City. Mr. Ketner was an original inductee of the National 4-H Hall of Fame in 2002; and was an original inductee of the Entrepreneurs' Hall of Fame at Queen's University in 2011. That same year, he was inducted into the Supermarket News Hall of Fame. In 2015, Catawba and Food Lion produced the documentary “Lessons in Leadership: The Story of Food Lion Co-Founder Ralph W. Ketner.” That same year, he received The State of North Carolina's top honor, “Order of the Long Leaf Pine,” for extraordinary service to the state. In the forward to his book, “Five Fast Pennies,” Mr. Ketner wrote: “Throughout my life, I faced an uncommon number of obstacles – orphan, child of the depression, no money. But I was blessed with an ‘attitude,' a point of view. I saw ‘problems' as ‘opportunities in disguise.' I saw a ‘lemon' and made ‘lemonade.” I started ‘thinking' before ‘starting to work.' I have never had ambitious goals for myself, but have always done my very best on every job.” To this, a grateful family and community say, “Well done, thou good and faithful servant.” Survivors include: a daughter, Linda Ketner, of Charleston; a son, Robert (Leslie) Ketner of Greensboro; grandchildren Robert (Rebecca) Ketner Jr. of Winston-Salem, Andrew Ketner of New York City, Margaux Ketner of Philadelphia, and Madeline Ketner of Greensboro; sisters Virginia Petty of Greensboro and Dorothy Swing of Salisbury; his former wives, Ruth Hope (mother of his children) of Georgetown, S.C. and Anne Ketner of Salisbury; multiple nieces and nephews; and in-laws Wayne and Claudette Jones, and, Gary and Cathy Boggs all of Faith, NC. Along with his parents, he was preceded in death by his brothers, Glenn, Ray and Brown Ketner. The funeral will be held at 2:30 p.m., Sunday, June 5, 2016, at Keppel Auditorium, Catawba College, Salisbury, NC, Reverend James Dunkin of First Presbyterian officiating. A reception in the adjacent Crystal Lounge will follow. A private burial service will be held with immediate family. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to: Rowan Helping Ministries, 226 N. Long St., Salisbury, NC 28144; Hospice of Rowan County, 720 Grove St., Salisbury, NC 28144; Glenn A. Kiser Hospice House, 1229 Statesville Blvd., Salisbury, NC 28144. Summersett Funeral Home is serving the Ketner family. Online condolences may be made at www.summersettfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Salisbury Post on May 31, 2016.

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May 25, 2019

I still miss my friend and business associate, Mr. K. But the memories I have of the many occasions we spent together playing cards and golf in Scotland, Bermuda, Las Vegas ,Florida and especially our weekly games in Salisbury will last a lifetime. He was an inspiration to me and I think and speak of him quite often. Hopefully...Linda, Robert, Anne , Ruth and their families are doing well.

Fred Collins

Karen Quillman Fesperman

June 5, 2016

Sorry to hear about Ralph, may God bless each of his family members, condolences to you and your families.RIP MR.Ketner.

Roderick Robinson

June 4, 2016

God Bless! Thank you Mr. Ketner for taking time to speak with a young man looking for ways to develop my business ideas and my community. I sincerely appreciate it. God bless the Ketner family.

patty loeblein cress

June 3, 2016

will always remember this wonderful and inspiring man. will be missed dearly. prayers to your family

Bea Love

June 3, 2016

Linda, I was sorry to learn of your father's passing. May your faith and friends support you at this time of sorrow.

John Buford

June 3, 2016

RIP Mr. Ketner. Such a fine man!

Nekki Shutt

June 3, 2016

What an exceptional man. His is an example of a life well lived. I can see now why his daughter, Linda, is such an incredible person who given so much of herself to the community.

Pat and Fred Collins

June 2, 2016

As a sales manager for WSOC-TV..in 1975..I met Mr. Ketner for the first time at his Food Town office on Julian Road. He told me about LFPINC and his goals for Food Town and I told him about the FRED principle(frequency,reach,efficiency and delivery. He seemed to be impressed,but did not buy a schedule. We kept working and in 1979 he reluctantly agreed to be the spokesman for Food Town in a television commercial.He later said many times that a woman told him"that anyone who looked that bad on television had to be believable."The commercial with Mr. Ketner was one of the most effective ever aired in behalf of Food Town(Food Lion).In 1980, I started my own company, being assisted and inspired by Mr. Ketner. My contract with Food Town(Food Lion) to purchase all television schedules was negotiated with Mr. Ketner, who was more than fair. While working with Food Town(Food Lion)for the next 16 years, Mr. Ketner a nd I became good friends. We spent many hours together playing cards, golf and discussing business, pleasure and family. He was like a second father to me.

I know that Mr. Ketner loved his family very much, but he had a special bond with his children..Linda and Robert.

He was and always will be a special man, whom we all were very fortunate to share for 95 years.He was a true southern gentleman.

Our best thoughts are with the Ketnetr family..especially Linda and Robert.. during these trying times.

Jim Carver

June 2, 2016

I'll always remember your kindness and open heart for the short time we were acquainted.

Christopher Gilliard

June 2, 2016

I'd like to send both my personal condolences and those of the Safe Zone program at the CofC to the Ketner family in their time of grief. May he R.I.P.

Zachary FORD

June 2, 2016

THANK GOD FOR MR.RALPH..HE FED MANY OF US FROM HIS SOUL WITHOUT FAIL.BLESS THE FAMILY AND THANK YOU ALL..

Ray Coble

June 1, 2016

Dear Robert and family, Even though I never personally met your father- my uncle Howard spoke of what hard work and using your "noggin" can do for your family and community- he was referencing your dad. We all appreciate his contributions to your community our state and country. We hope to get to know you better in the future. Sincerely-- Ray and Chris Coble

Dolly (Byrd) Urdanick

June 1, 2016

What a wonderful man... he always having smile on his face and a friendly hello to everyone. I knew Ralph and his wife,Ruth, since the time they lived in Faith, NC. He never forgot my name in the many years that followed. The world will greatly miss this wonderful man... and Heaven has gained an angel. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

June 1, 2016

I am very sad about Ralph's death. Linda Gayle and Robert p;lease accept my sincere sympathy in your loss. I think of you often. I live in Richmond, Virginia. Erna Gale White...I remember when Linda was born....your parents were so very happy...I hope you know that they name you after.....Take care. Let me hear from you!. Gale....

Gardenia Sligh

June 1, 2016

"Precious in the sight of the Lord Is the death of His saints." (Psalm 116:15)

Roger Stegall

June 1, 2016

Godspeed

Margaret Alsobrooks

May 31, 2016

You are the most remarkable person I have ever known, your love, generosity, and ability to help other people succeed will never be forgotten.God bless you.

Michael Gilb

May 31, 2016

Thank you so much Mr Ralph for your kindness and willingness to share with your employees and may god welcome you with open arms.

RUBYE BLACK MCLAUGHLIN

May 31, 2016

MY DEEPEST THOUGHTS AND PRAYES ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULTS TIME. I AM SO SORRY FOR GREAT LOSS. MY MOTHEY LATE JUANITA BLACK WHO WORK FOR FAMILY FOR 20 YEARS FROM HER CHILDRENS EDNA ROBERT ANNIE CHARLIE AND ANITA BLACK FAMILY

RUBY E BLACK MCLAUGHLIN

May 31, 2016

MY DEEPEST THOUGHTS AND PRAYES ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULTS TIME.I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS, MY MOTHER LATE JUANITA BLACK WHO WORK FOR THE FAMILY FOR 20 YEARS,FROM HER CHILDREN EDNA,ROBERT,ANNIE,CHARLIE,ANITA THE BLACK FAMILY.

Diane Carpenter

May 31, 2016

I, unfortunately, never met Mr. Ketner, but he entered my home through his commercials for Food Lion. The story of his life, his obituary, touched me so deeply. What an amazing man! What a generous man! A good and faithful servant, indeed. Mr. Ketner's positive influence on our world can never be measured. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you grieve his absence. May we all stand a little straighter and look to make a difference in this world in his memory.

Jimmy,Lisa and Brandon Fortson

May 31, 2016

We were so blessed to have gotten to know Mr. Ketner. He was such a wonderful man. He will be missed so many. Keeping the family in our thoughts and prayers.

Laurie Shuping

May 31, 2016

I was blessed to be Mr. Ketner's travel planner for over 25 years. During that time he became a friend also. He supported my husband, Rusty, and I on our missions trips to Africa, Peru and Ecuador. I met with him several times at his office asking his advice. He was very willing to help. I have a few pictures of us together in the past two years. I'll treasure those. He will be greatly missed.

Dar Venable

May 31, 2016

Linda,
I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
God Bless!
Dar Venable

Debra Styers

May 31, 2016

It was a pleasure to work at Food Town for such a great man...Prayers for they family.

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