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February 20, 2020
Gail you are in our thoughts and prayers after the loss of your Sweet Trevor.
Your Amos Cottage Family
Melissa McClure
February 5, 2020
Dear Cousins:
How sad we all are to learn of Uncle Trevor's passing. I have so many cherished memories, but probably the fondest is the way he loved my mother's sister, Jean. It was through his eyes, more than anyone else's, that I grew to understand and appreciate Aunt Jean's brilliant wit. I loved watching his face light up when she would get going on tales of White Pine. I always felt Uncle Trevor and my father had a special connection, as well. They compared musical chops over Welsh hymns and seemed to genuinely care for each other. So many great memories of reunions with the cousins at Douglas Lake and NC.
But even with all these shared memories, I still had much to learn from his obituary. I was so moved to learn that Granddaddy helped him get his first practice started. I also loved reading about his second wife, a doctor, and the love and companionship he re-discovered late in life. So wonderful.
It hurts to lose another human who factored so largely in my childhood. Your father's joy at being around my Aunt Jean helped me understand her special humor and special place in our family's dynamicthe only person who could make my mother laugh and cry at the same time. Uncle Trevor appreciated and embraced her many gifts, and I absolutely loved witnessing that as a child.
Love to you all at this difficult time. You are in my thoughts.
Melissa
Tom Byers
February 3, 2020
All the Williams family were a big and well-loved part of the growing-up years of all the Byers family. News of Trevor's death brings back a flood of memories. Your dad was a great and memorable person.
Kathy and David Pulliam
February 2, 2020
To Trevor's family,
Please know you have been in our thoughts and prayers upon learning of Trevor's passing. We were in small group with him at First Presbyterian and really enjoyed his discussions about the books we were reading. He was most interesting and added so much to our meetings. We hold you in the light for God to provide peace and comfort to you.
Susan McBrayer
February 2, 2020
When I heard the news about Dr. Williams this morning I could hardly take it in. I am so sad to know he is gone and my heart goes out to all of you.
Adults rarely realize the effect they have on children, but I am SO grateful for the positive and steadying influence Dr. Williams had in my life, especially in the early years. Next to my own father, I have admired Dr. Williams more than any other man I have ever known.
My childhood memories are filled with times spent with Jean and Dr. Williams and the kids at the house, at church, at the beach, at the lake in White Pine and in Tryon (that curvy road!). Sometimes Mama would tell us we were going to Trevor's office for a chat, but we always ending up getting a shot! He was a good boss when I worked for him at the mental health center one summer, and he even drove me to Raleigh for one of my first job interviews after college.
Daddy thought Dr. Williams was the smartest person he had ever known and I, too, admired his powerful intelligence, his integrity and his quick smile. His very intense and unwavering gaze could be a bit scary sometimes, but he usually had a twinkle in his eye.
Through the years, I went to Dr. Williams for advice and he taught me to take things as they come and to see the humor in situations. He never talked down to me or dismissed me and that meant a great deal when I was young. During the last few years, I have also enjoyed keeping in touch with him via the occasional old-fashioned letter.
Despite the fact that he and Jean left Forest City many years ago, they have never left the hearts of the McBrayer family. Dr. Williams has been a constant benevolent presence for us all for more than 60 years and we will truly miss him.
Lindsay Wineka
February 2, 2020
Dear Deborah, my deepest sympathy on losing your incredible father. I have many memories of Trevor imparting his wisdom to three women that sure could use it. Usually tempered with some good Jean reflection. His dry wit was only embellished with Jean's spin. I loved my time with them. Love to you and your family. Lindsay xox
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