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Aleka DiLauro Obituary
1960 ~ 2013
Bellevue, Washington-Aleka P. DiLauro, peacefully departed this world on August 29th, 2013 while vacationing in Bellevue, WA. She was born March 11, 1960 in Xania, Crete, Greece to Michael and Anna Patmides (Kaltsas).
She is survived by her daughters Mandi (Eric) DiLauro-Winn and Shannon (Jason) DiLauro-Wormsley. Her three beautiful grandsons and lights of her life, Frankie and Luke Wormsley and Dylan Winn. Her mother Anna (Dino) Kaltsas, her siblings Pete (Daneen) Patmides, Jenny Vakapuna and Ely(Anthony) Patmides-Wesley. 23 nieces and nephews and many more great nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her father, Michael Patmides, and her husband, Frank J. DiLauro.
Aleka was a beloved member of the Greek Orthodox community of Salt Lake and an integral part of the Greek Festival for 22 years. Aleka had a zest for life and a smile that could not be duplicated. All who knew her, loved her and was drawn to her unique spirit. Her smile would light up any room. Although she was blessed with many gifts, her voice was truly one of a kind. She was never happier than when she was expressing herself through song. Whether it was with the Holy Trinity Choir, her bands Mosaic and Crazy Talk, or performing traditional music for the Greek Festival.
Memorial services with be held on Monday September 9th, 2013 from 6:00-8:00 PM with prayer service at 7 at Deseret Memorial Mortuary (36 E 700 S Salt Lake City). Funeral services will be held Tuesday at 11:00 AM Holy Trinity Cathedral, followed by interment at Mt Olivet Cemetery and Makaria at Holy Trinity. In lieu flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Holy Trinity Philoptochos Society.
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Memories and Condolences
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Heather Lawrence
September 16, 2013
Soo sorry for your loss Mandi and Shannon!! Your mom was an amazing woman!She will forever be in your hearts. Her light will never dim for it lives on in u both!(((((HUGS)))))
September 10, 2013
I was so sad to see that this beautiful lady had passed away. I will always remember her beautiful smile and her awesome voice...Aleka was truly genuine and so kind. May her memory be eternal! The Papadakis Family
Michael and Jackie Pananos
September 10, 2013
We are so saddened by the loss of Aleka. This came as a complete shock to my wife and I. We'll miss Aleka's wonderful smile, easy friendship and beautiful voice.
Chuck Karpakis
September 10, 2013
To Aleka's dear family,
I always enjoyed working with Aleka in my capacity as a treasurer and finance committee member at our Church. She was very bright and multi-talented. Besides being a good accountant, she was an excellent singer. I enjoyed visiting a few of her band performances and hearing her voice at the Greek Festival. Speaking of the Festival, she was instrumental in its success for so many years. It was my honor to cook for her Makaria memorial meal today as a tribute to her. Rest in Peace Aleka where all pain, sorrow and suffering have fled away. May your memory be eternal!
Laurie Parsons
September 10, 2013
Aleka, your light can only be dampened here on earth, but it shines bright eternally. The ones you leave here to remember the love that was shared & the good times that were had will miss you with each passing day. I will root for the Chicago Bears for you, dance the electric slide too & anything Greek will bing memories of you back with a warm smile on my face & in my heart. You were a Terrific daughter, the best sister anyone could ask for & a true friend. God speed Aleka
September 9, 2013
Mandi and Shannon, I was so shocked and saddened to hear of your mom's death. I worked with her for 3 years in the church office. May God grant you comfort at this difficult time in your lives.
Carole Wolf
September 9, 2013
Mandi, Shannon,Ely,Pete & Mama Anna, I was so saddened to know that one of My good friends(Ely)sister has gone home to be with her Savior, Aleka is now with GOD singing in the Angel Choir,and watching over her precious girls. I Love You All & Aleka will be sorely missed Sincerly Greta Brown
Charissa Kapsimalis
September 9, 2013
I have been thinking about you a great deal and wish you were still here with us. I will always remember you for the beautiful soul that you are. Mandi and Shannon stay strong! Love you guys!
Bill Rekouniotis
September 9, 2013
Mandi & Shannon, I'm so sorry about your loss. Your mom was a special person, we had some great times at work throughout the years. She will be missed, may her memory be eternal.
Cindi Keane
September 8, 2013
Aleka: I was so saddened by the news of your unexpected passing. You were such an inspiration to so many of us. I will always remember you. Go now and put on your Angel wings. God now has another Angel to sing praises to Him. I will miss you and your incredible strength. God bless your soul and May Your Memory be Eternal.
Lynette Cheney McAllister
September 8, 2013
Pete and entire family...I am so sorry to learn of Aleka's passing. She had the best smile and warm heart while walking the halls of South High. May God's love shine on your family at this time of grief.
Gary & Susan Winget
September 8, 2013
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We knew Aleka and Frank from earlier years. Aleka will be missed.
God Bless
rita Suma
September 8, 2013
Mandi and Shannon,I am so sorry for your lose,I will keep her in my prayers.
September 8, 2013
Aleka you are and always will be in my heart. Aunt Elissa
Mary Kontgis
September 8, 2013
Rest in peace beautiful songbird. May your memory be eternal.
Bob Marcooles
September 8, 2013
I have so many wonderful memories of Aleka, I wouldn't know where to begin. Her laughter and smile were one of a kind, we would laugh together till my stomach ached. There are just 3 or 4 people in my life that could make me laugh that way. She had a beautiful smile. But most of all she was a very loving and forgiving woman. My memories of us are countless, especially when she started singing at the Grecian Gardens. She loved to sing in Greek and she was very good at it. She was a one of a kind person, not only did we share a relationship together, but we were coworkers also. We had many many conversations about our Greek Heritage and how much we loved it and it was a part of her life that she was very very proud. She will definitely be missed by many many people that knew her and loved her. Especially me, I will always remember her in my heart, I close my eyes and hear her laughter, hear her singing, which I will never ever forget. God grant you rest of soul Aleka in a place where there is no sorrow or pain, God sent his Angels to call you home, because he saw how tired your body had become and He didn't want you to suffer anymore. I will always love you, my mother loved you very much. I am sure she is happy to see you again. Goodbye for now Aleka, we will see each other again, May your Memory be Eternal. When I will hear certain Greek songs that you sang and loved I will be thinking about you. Yiassou Aleka mou.
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