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KEVIN GULLY Obituary

Kevin J. Gully 12/17/1951~2/16/2010 Respected Utah psychologist and beloved husband, father, brother and son Kevin Jungers Gully, PhD, ABPP, died on February 16, 2010. He was 58.Born Dec. 17, 1951 in Salt Lake City, Kevin was the fifth child of Walter James Gully and Helen Harriet Mondloch. He married Pamella Spence on June 25, 1975, and they were blessed with two sons, Adam Spence and Eric John. Kevin always strove for excellence. He was student body president and played football for Judge Memorial High School. He did his undergraduate work at the University of Utah, pursued his master's degree in psychology at UTEP and earned his PhD in clinical psychology at Washington State University. He was an associate professor at the University of Utah. At the University of Utah he was a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity and his two sons proudly followed the tradition. His passions were skiing, hiking and spending time with his family- especially at the cabin. He loved team sports, playing card games, and was also a member of the Wasatch Mountain Club. Kevin's sense of humor was cherished by his family and friends. Kevin dedicated his life to helping traumatized adults and children as a forensic psychologist for the Safe and Healthy Families program at Primary Children's Medical Center. He evaluated and treated abused adults and children, including those who were homeless and in custody of adult and juvenile corrections. He was revered by his colleagues for his expertise, professionalism, breadth of knowledge and enthusiasm. He was sought after as a presenter, mentor, researcher and teacher. He wanted to be all things to all people, and he most often was. Colleagues said it was "a joy to watch him work with very young patients, as he was able to find his 'inner child' in a heartbeat. He could work with the toughest kids and parents and find their strengths." Kevin's emphasis on the research model has continued to improve the therapeutic method, and his dedication to publishing has disseminated that knowledge base far beyond Primary Children's program. He developed two important psychological evaluation tests, the "Social Behavior Inventory" and the "Expectations Test." Kevin was a Diplomate in Forensic Psychology with the American Board of Professional Psychology (ABPP), and he made significant contributions to Utah's judicial system. In 2007 he was recipient of the annual Amicus Curiae Award, presented by Chief Justice of the Utah Supreme Court for outstanding contributions to the improvement of the Utah judicial system. He was appointed by Gov. Jon Huntsman to the board of the State Division of Child and Family Services, and the Chief Justice appointed him to the Guardian ad Litem Oversight Committee. Kevin is survived by Pamella Spence Gully, his wife of 34 years, sons Adam and Eric, sister Nana Penrose, twin brothers Monty and William (Tina), sister-in-law Janice, and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother James. A celebration honoring his life will be held Tuesday, February 23, from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Larkin Sunset Lawn Mortuary, 2350 East 1300 South, Salt Lake City. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Primary Children's Medical Center, Dept. of Safe and Healthy Families. Online condolances at Larkin cares.com

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Feb. 21 to Feb. 23, 2010.

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Pat and Roger Hulse

February 28, 2010

To Nana and family,
Rog and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We see the love and respect from everyone. We hope it gives you some comfort at this most difficult time.

Les Standiford

February 27, 2010

I am so sorry to hear this news, Pam. I heard from Kevin from time to time over the years. Kimberly and I have had a blow of our own--we lost our youngest son Alexander at age 18, right before Christmas. So I have something of the sense of what you must be going through and I am very, very sorry. I can only wish you strength and hope that you will eventually find some small measure of peace. From far across the years and the miles between us, Les Standiford (Miami, FL)

R. Brent Gray

February 24, 2010

I was so sadden to hear of Kevin, my prayers go out to all of you.

I had worked with Kevin in beginning the offender progam at Bonneville Correctins Center and through POST with him. If it hadn't been for Kevin's sense of humor and friendship, I don't think I would of made it. He was a true professional and certainly brought a much need voice of moderation and reason. I also admired his love and emotion regarding the difficult period folloing the boys birth. He was certainly a fine example of a father, husband, and and a man I have ever known, dedicated to his family.

I find a warm feeling when I remember his big smile, and chuckle a little with his practical jokes. I'm sorry to have not kept in touch. I hope in your grief you too can smile in his remberance. Kevin was truly such a gentle soul, I have to believe he is still out there smiling down on you guys.

I'm very sorry for your loss;

Brent

February 24, 2010

My office was just around the corner from Safe and Healthy Families at PCMC. I always enjoyed running into Kevin in the hallway. He was so friendly and a truly genuinely nice person. I was shocked to learn of his passing. I lost my father when he was 57 and my thoughts are with you at what I know is such a sad sad time.
Patty Mavor

Shannon D Rasmussen

February 24, 2010

To the family and friends of Kevin- my deepest sympathy. I knew Kevin during his high school years- his parents were friends of our famiy. He was an exceptional person. I am sadden by the loss especially for the children and adults who will not benefit from his practice. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Azy Farhang

February 24, 2010

Pam, Eric & Adam

I am so sorry to hear about Kevin's Passing and your loss. I was so shoked when my father broke the news to me on monday and to be honest still can't believe it. I send you all my love through these tough times.

Bob Tucker

February 24, 2010

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of Kevin. He loved life and people and always had this no holds barred zest for each day. His greatest treasure was Pam, the love of his life. Kevin was always his best when Pam was with him. Pam, my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your sons.

Susan Hoepfner

February 24, 2010

Pam, Adam and Eric, We are so sorry for your loss. I pray that last night was helpful to you. Showing you that there are so many people that are here for you. Please call on us. We all hope we can be there for you. Never forget, you are not alone. We will always remember Kevin as a great friend, nature and soccer lover.
Susan, Greg, Danial, Michael, and Amanda Hoepfner

Matthew Watson

February 23, 2010

I am deeply saddened by Kevin's passing. He was my mentor, boss and friend for 5 years when I worked at Primary Children's. I trusted him implicitly because of his integrity, work ethic and compassion. He was a blast to work with and teased me relentlessly at times. He was equally compassionate towards me during periods of loss in my life. He opened doors for me that I didn't know existed. Over seven years later, I still find myself referencing his influence on a consistent basis, wondering how Kevin would handle a specific situation. My thoughts and prayers are with Pam, Adam, and Eric.

Schleidt

February 23, 2010

Kevin was a good neighbor and valued friend.
We are deeply saddened...

Schleidt

February 23, 2010

Kevin was a good neighbor and valued friend.
We are deeply saddened...

sonja wallace

February 23, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Kevin- quite shocked. Kevina and I were members of the same gym (Studio cove) and also worked in the same building but for different entities. Kevin will be missed. He was such a great person and I hope that his family can gather strength from knowing how respected he was and the impact he has made on so many people.

Brenda Puchalski

February 23, 2010

To Kevin's Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I was a nurse that worked with Kevin at Safe and Healthy Families. I have much empathy for your family having lost my own sister recently.
I know there are not many comforting words at this time, but please you are not alone in your time of sorrow.
Concentrate on the wonderful memories. They help a lot!

Trina Seefeldt

February 23, 2010

I was very sorry to hear about Kevin's passing. I was an intern at Safe and Health Families about eight years ago while I was in graduate school, and I remember that Kevin was very kind and very energetic! I know he will be missed greatly.

Quincey Atkin

February 23, 2010

I worked with Kevin for over 8 years, he was my mentor and boss. Besides being incredibly bright, witty, and high achieving, Kevin displayed a quality I so admired- kindness. He particularly seemed to care for those that society had discarded, forgotten about, and perhaps didn't protect as well as it could. I was often struck by the tenderness and genuine concern he would display when working with young children and their parents. I would see Kevin's eyes light up in a similar manner when he would talk about his sons and wife - he always spoke about them with such pride and love. I am so very saddened to hear of his passing, and will keep fond memories of him in my heart.

Christian&Tony Glazier

February 22, 2010

Eric;Christian and I want you to know how much we love you. We are here anytime if you need comfort. We have had our share of losses. You supported us and we want to support you. Love Tony & Christian.

Greg and Teresa Coon

February 22, 2010

Dear Pam,
Both Teresa and I remember well the days spent skiing at snowbird and hiking with Kevin in the Wasatch Mountains. Kevin’s laugh will always ring in the hills for us. In hoc Kevin. Pam, our love will always be with you.

Kathryn Kair

February 22, 2010

I was on the Central Trauma Treatment Network with Kevin, I was honored that he remembered me when we crossed paths. I was very impessed with his professionalism and respect for our clients when we worked together. I am sadden by the loss to his family and the community.

February 22, 2010

Adam and Eric,

I am saddened to hear of the loss of your father. I remember you from Wasatch Junior High and wish you well.

Sincerely,

Kathleen R. Kerby
English and History teacher

Russ Van Vleet

February 22, 2010

I worked with Kevin when he first entered public service with the division of youth corrections. One of the best and the brightest. Very shocked to hear of his passing and my sincere condolences to his family.

Judy Allred

February 22, 2010

As a co-worker and manager, Kevin always displayed professionalism and a desire for excellence. He cared greatly for the families we serve and was well-respected throughout the community. My condolences to the family and friends of Kevin Gully. He will be greatly missed!

Denzil Grimshaw

February 22, 2010

Kevin was one of my mentors. As a colleague at The Center for Safe and Healthy Families for 14 years I learned a great deal from him regarding research and forensic work. He had a keen intellect and was so dedicated to the treatment of children. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chandra Ghosh Ippen

February 22, 2010

Kevin was a wonderful colleague. He inspired many of us with his desire to create systems that better serve children exposed to trauma. At the same time, he was a great friend; always ready to talk about skiing and food. We will miss him, and we will remember and honor his work and his spirit.

Judith Cohen

February 22, 2010

Kevin was deeply dedicated to improving the lives of traumatized children. He made a huge difference to so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy Cohen
Pittsburgh

Ben Saunders

February 21, 2010

Kevin was incredibly well-respected, nationally known professional who dedicated is life to children who had experienced serious trauma. He was also a wonderful person and colleague. We will miss him greatly.

Michelle Mason

February 21, 2010

I also went to the same gym as Kevin and I am very sorry for your loss. He was always so friendly and he will be missed.

Joe Hutchings

February 21, 2010

Kevin was a childhood friend and neighbor, from Bishop Glass grade school through Judge Memorial. Though I haven't been in touch with him since high school, I was aware of his accomplishments and the tremendous good he did for people in need. I am proud to have known him, and deeply saddened by his loss. --Joe Hutchings

February 21, 2010

Kevin went to the same gym as I do -- he was always very friendly and personable. It's hard to see "his" elliptical machine without him on it, reading an article or chatting with people going by. A sad day indeed. Janet Balbierz

Gary and Karen Weaver

February 21, 2010

We have many good memories of Kevin. Most of them were on the soccer field. He loved to watch Adam play soccer. We will miss him and always hold our memories of him close to our hearts!

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