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Phyllis Duncan Obituary

1912 - 2012
Phyllis Richmond Duncan, our loving mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and dear friend passed away peacefully of natural causes on Thursday, December 6, 2012.
She was born on September 9, 1912 in Salt Lake City, Utah to Charles B. and Blanche Kimball Richmond, the fourth of seven children. She graduated from East High School, where she lettered in track and attended the University of Utah where she was Sophomore Class Vice President and Engineering Royalty. She married LaMar "Bill" Duncan in the Salt Lake Temple on November 13, 1936 and together they had five children. She was a lifetime member of the LDS Church serving as President of the Relief Society, Young Women and Primary, as well as many other ward and stake callings. She was also active in PTA and numerous charities. In her eighties, her contribution to her ward and neighborhood was driving "The Elderly," to various appointments and activities.
The theme of her life was service. She logged 100 years of "lifting up the hands that hang down" with casseroles, rides, ironing, a listening ear and encouragement. It mattered not whether the object of her love was adults, children or animals. She was ever the advocate of the less fortunate. She was also a lot of fun and was blessed to the end with a great sense of humor as well as an athletic, physically fit body. To celebrate her 90th birthday, she went down the Alpine Slide in Park City-twice and then went bowling with her teenage grandsons. When grandma tended the grandkids, (or any other kids), it was always a party-taking them to feed the ducks, hiking to the U on the mountain or playing hide and seek. Known as the neighborhood "cookie lady," several children regularly stopped by her home after school for treats. She made friends wherever she went and kept them for life. She leaves a legacy of faith, humility and charity to her numerous posterity.
Phyllis is survived by four daughters: Dorothy Brockbank (Gary), Connie Cannon (Jim), Lori Boyer (Richard), all of Salt Lake City, and Mareen Fisher (Kimball), Portland, Oregon; her daughter-in-law, Donnetta Duncan of Arlington, Virginia; 23 grandchildren and 36 great-grandchildren, and her sister, Mary Nielsen. Preceded in death by her husband, her son, Wallace L. Duncan, one grandson, Richmond Lindsay Duncan, four brothers, Lawrence, Harold, Grant and Kimball and one sister, Virginia McDowell. Our family expresses appreciation to the wonderful people at Canyon Creek Care Center and Hospice of Utah, who cared for her.
Funeral services will be Saturday, December 15th at 11:00 A.M. at Edgehill Ward, 1730 South 15th East. Friends may call prior to the services from 9:30 A.M. - 10:30 A.M. or Friday evening at Larkin Sunset Lawn 2350 East 13th South from 6:00 - 8:00 P.M. Online condolences at larkinmortuary.com.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Dec. 12 to Dec. 20, 2012.

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Alida Ruth Martin

January 4, 2013

I wanted you to know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I so much appreciated the times I spent with Phyllis many years ago. She was a wonderful lady. Sorry, I could not make the funeral because of some health issues. May knowing others care help in some small way.

January 3, 2013

Phyllis was the best "cookie lady" and friend that my family has had! I love you Phyllis. You will always remember the time you and I spent together for my Young Womens project. Getting to know you was such an honor. May you, Marlene, and my Grandma, Florence Wrathall, rest in peace. Love, Jessie Simister-Hakala

December 14, 2012

Our mother's were together at Canyon Creek. We so enjoyed knowing your sweet, sweet mother. We send our condolences to the family.
The family of Marian Smart

Charles McDowell

December 14, 2012

My aunt Phyllis was a marvelous lady with an incredible intellect and sense of humor. We all loved her as my mothers older sister.

She will be missed!

Rodger & Smma Lou Kasteler

December 14, 2012

Dear Lori and Pres. Boyer,


Lori the passing of your mother brought a flood of old memories to me. Our mothers were in the leadership of the young women many years ago but the relationship didn't end there. They all got together each month aa the "AG" club. (Dad used to call it the "Old Gals" club.) I remember Dottie reciting the Beatitudes in church several times as and little girl. The Boyers lived four doors west of us on Bryan Ave. and 14th East until you moved up to the Mounument Park area by Emma Lou. So we feel a connection to you both. Please accept our deeply felt love and sympathy. We know how hard it is to be orphans when we have relied so heavely on our parents. May the coming weeks and months be times of wonderful memories. And know that your are always in our thought and prayers.

Much love,

Emma Lou and Rodger

Sheri Slaughter

December 14, 2012

Dear Lori & Pres Boyer, We are sad to hear of the passing of your mother, but I am actually thrilled that she made it to one hundred! What a wonderful example she was. Sheri and Bill Slaughter

December 14, 2012

Surely the end of an era. She was my mother's dearest friend and I am sure they are having a great reunion. I grew up listening to stories about the childhood days of mother and Phyllis. What an amazing time. What an amazing woman.
Love to all,
Kathy Hinckley Walker
England MTC

Andra Betteridge

December 13, 2012

Dear Connie & Lori,
I am sorry for your loss here, but I can't help but picture the wonderful reunion that took place above. I loved caring for your Mother. She was a wonderful lady and I loved here. She was so sweet and made us laugh often. Canyon Creek will miss her. May you find Peace and Love this Holiday season.

December 13, 2012

Mareen and Kim Your mom was obviously a great mother. She turned out wonderful children. She is now with her savior, God bless her. Raejean

Phyllis Hansen

December 13, 2012

Phyllis was a great example to me of service. When I first came to the neighborhood and was waiting for the bus to go to work, she stopped by and offered to take me to work downtown while getting to know me. She was always so loving and gracious. Her friendliness put everyone to ease. What an amazing woman that was strong mentally, emotionally, physically, socially and spiritually. I don't often meet people that well balanced and accomplished.

December 12, 2012

Dear Connie and Jim, Bonnie emailed all of us about your mom's death. I am happy for her to have now joined family in the eternities. I know you will miss her, but I hope joy for her will override any pain that you may feel.

We will not be able to attend the services for your mom. I am in Oklahoma tending my sister who has just had surgery for colon cancer. I will get in touch with you when I return hope next week.
May Heavenly Father's spirit encompass you and your family members as you go through this holy experience.

Love, Kathy and Dean Hughes

Phyllis at Care Center 2 years ago.

Pamela Cannon

December 12, 2012

Pamela and David Lodefink

December 12, 2012

Dear Dotti, Gary, your dear sisters, brothers-in-law and all the grandchildren,

We were saddened to read of Phyllis,s passing. I have many wonderful memories of times during my High School and College years, being welcomed into her home, her fun stories, her laughter and her enthusiasm for life. And yes, her cookies were the best.

We imagine that she will waste no time organizing the reunions with those who have gone before.

She loved all of you and was always so proud of her family. Our thoughts are with you all during this sad time

Pamela and David Lodefink

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