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Thomas Wharton Obituary

Thomas Michael Wharton

1950 - 2025

Thomas Michael Wharton was born on November 9, 1950 to Violet Ruga Wharton and John Rapson Wharton. He passed away peacefully on May 8, 2025, surrounded by his family. He lived a life with integrtiy, heart, humor, and headline-worthy spirit.

Tom grew up in the Salt Lake City area, living his entire life in Utah. He graduated from Granite High School and later from the University of Utah, where he honed both his curiosity and his sharp wit. He served proudly in the National Guard, adding service to his long list of quiet virtues.

In 1972, he married his high school sweetheart, Gayen Lee Bennett. She introduced him to camping and the great outdoors. What began with strong resistance, was quickly embraced with gusto. Together, they raised four children. They spent many unforgettable adventures in their legendary orange van, as well as epic trips throughout the world. Gayen passed away from cancer in 2004, but the legacy of their love never faded.

Tom remarried in 2007 to Nancy Arlene Gines. Her companionship, the love of her wonderful family and their doodle dogs filled many days with joy and laughter. Tom was a kind and loyal husband and father to all his children and stepchildren.

Tom devoted 46 years to The Salt Lake Tribune, where he covered high school sports from 1967 until 2020. He never missed a state basketball championship and once frantically filed a story lead while Gayen was in labor with their first child-a true deadline hero. Known for his relentless work ethic and a pun-charmed personality, Tom always had the "write" stuff.

Later, as the Tribune's outdoor writer, he confessed he "couldn't tell a trout from a bluegill" but he didn't flounder for long. Through stories shared by hunters, anglers, and small-town locals, he became a thoughtful voice for Utah's outdoors and its unsung communities.

A devout Catholic, Tom made time for Mass wherever he went, from living rooms to cathedrals. He gave countless outdoor lectures, authored several books, and earned a Pulitzer Prize nomination for his reporting on the Great Salt Lake. In 2023, he was inducted into the Utah Sports Hall of Fame-proof that even off the field, he was always a first-round pick.

Tom loved books, snacks, gadgets, malts, cheese, cousins' dinners, traditions, sports, live music, and any Chevy Chase movie. He never met a soda he didn't love! But, even more, he treasured quiet moments alone, rich conversations, and scenic drives through the Utah landscapes he chronicled so well. Whether on the sidelines or around a campfire, he always had a pen in his pocket and a story waiting to share.

Tom is survived by his children Emma (Dennis), Jacob (Hollie), Rawl (Tiffany), and Bryer; nine grandchildren; his wife Nancy; her daughters Amber (Shane) and Candace (Derek); three grandchildren; his brother John Derk Wharton (Alicia); and his sister Lori Wharton Nickerson (Nate).

His memory lives on through family, friends, colleagues, and a community that cherished both his stories and his signature brand of "dad humor." Tom may have written his final piece, but his legacy is still making headlines.

A Celebration of Life will be held on the evening of Wednesday, May 14 from 6:00-8:00 at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East. Guests are encourage to park and enter on the north side of the building. A funeral mass will be celebrated on Thursday, May 15 at 11:00 AM at St. Ann Catholic Church, 450 East 2100 South. Interment to follow at Salt Lake City Cemetery, 4th Ave. & "N" St. In lieu of flowers please consider contributing to the University of Utah's Wharton Family Scholarship or to the Outdoor Writers Association of America where Tom was a proud member. A special thank you to his team from Aspire Hospice for their gentle guidance in his final months. Share your photos and memories with his family at www.starksfuneral.com

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune, The Salt Lake Tribune from May 12 to May 14, 2025.

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Curtis Warrick

May 29, 2025

As a wildlife biologist with the Bureau of Land Management in Utah through the 1970's, i listened to Tom at several wildlife functions where he had been invited to address wildlife interactions with public expansion. It was always a pleasure!

Elizabeth Giraud

May 29, 2025

I met Tom when he wrote a story about my work as the architectural historian for UDOT. My email signature caught his eye when I responded to one of his articles about local hamburger joints and I told him about the best piece of pie I ever had (Dell's Calf-A in Dell, Montana--pop. 35). Our interview was the most wonderful conversation, during which we not only talked about my work at UDOT but also discussed growing up in SLC, our Catholic faith, and his first wife Gayen's involvement on the Sugar House Community Council. When the article was published, UDOT's director sent me a nice message thanking me for giving the agency a personal image, but this was due to Tom's ability to draw the best from his subjects and his stellar writing.

Long before we met, however, I enjoyed and looked forward to his feature articles. He stood up for state parks when they were on the budgetary chopping block, pointing out that even those that didn't enjoy much attendance were often the only recreational opportunities rural communities had. I loved his article about working at the Iceberg in high school and how the owner allowed him to leave his shift early to cover a sports event. The article that really sticks in my mind was his tribute to Gayen and their marriage after she passed away -- it was so heartfelt and moving.

To his family I want to express my deepest condolences. Your father and husband was a treasure and had a gracious soul. I wish you the best.

Audrey Rowland Graham

May 16, 2025

Oh Tom, I spent many many weekends babysitting Emma and the twins, and loved every minute of my time with you, Gaylen, and the kids. Then you took me under your wing and got me hired by the Tribune as the second girl to be a copy clerk, or "BOY!" (as the editors would yell out when they needed new copy to edit). You boosted my self-esteem and let me know I had the capacity to anything I wanted, from photojournalism to park ranger, and to live where ever I lived. Moab won our long before most folks knew where it was, and here I remain, so grateful for your attention and care. May you rest in peace

David Cooper

May 14, 2025

Tom was a great journalist and an even better soul. Loved his work at the Trib for all his years there, and had wonderful discussions with him online afterward.
He will be greatly missed. Condolences and peaceful wishes to his family.

Stan Stilwell

May 14, 2025

Tom was a talented writer, a great conversationalist, but most of all a genuinely nice guy. I always will remember playing basketball, golf and tennis with Tom in our teens and our lunches in our 20's . Condolences to his family and many friends that will miss him. Congratulations to him on a life well lived. RIP Tom.

Gordon Kener

May 13, 2025

Tom was one of the best sports journalists to work with! I admired his dedication to high school sports. He was easy to talk with after games and wrote a lot of great articles. My condolences to his family. What a legend!

Wade Jardine

May 13, 2025

Always tough to hear of another member of the class of 69 graduating to eternity. He definitely honored the Grand ol G

Vicki Fujii Matsumori

May 13, 2025

Tom ventured into broadcast journalism when we were assigned to interview people as they arrived to watch the musical at Granite High School. As always he was articulate, eloquent and funny. He will be missed by all. Condolences to his family and friends.

Jay Smith

May 13, 2025

I spent a lot of time with Tom during our childhood and our teens. I remember playing basketball at the Catholic church with Tom. He was a great friend and I treasure those memories. I was so sorry to hear of his passing. My wife and I send our sincere sympathies to his family. Jay and Vickie Smith

Julie (Cooke) Ladely

May 13, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Rob Hughes

May 13, 2025

In knew Tom well from Granite High as well as the years after. My wife taught with Gaylyn for several years and we socialized at their home several times.
God Bless RIP Tom

Marion Donnelly

May 13, 2025

I remember Tom from high school. He was extraordinary then and I knew he would be exemplary for the rest of his life. My sincerest condolences to his family and friends.

Steven Pocock

May 12, 2025

Dear Nancy and family, Derk and all,
We are surely missing this dear friend! I lover playing basketball and hunting with Tom! I visited him a few times at the Trib, and was blessed to visit him a couple of weeks ago on Easter. Our prayers and condolences to you all!
Sincerely,
Steve and Janet Pocock
Brigham City, Utah

Terry McClure

May 12, 2025

Love and condolences to sweet Nancy, her precious daughters and to Tom´s family.
I only knew Tom a few short years, but loved his story telling, his infectious laugh and his love for Nancy. They were a great couple and very devoted to each other. I admired Nancy so much as she took such good care of Tom, meeting his physical, mental and emotional needs as his health declined.
Hugs and cheers to both of you and hoping you can both find peace.
Love you both!

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