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for Benny Garcia-Valverde
Jane Hernandez
August 30, 2008
We are sorry for lose of your little one. Just know that god has her in his hands rocking her close to his heart. Though you can't see her know that whenever you feel the wind on your face, it is her hand brushing your cheek saying, I LOVE YOU MOMMY. You will meet again and she will greet you with the biggest huge hug and kiss. She will be missed by many. You have my deepest condolences....
Sandi O'Neal
August 29, 2008
Lindsey, Tammy, Barbara and Jocelyn, may you take comfort in knowing you have your own very special Angel looking over you. We are here for you and yours.
Johnny Cuellar
August 29, 2008
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
Jennifer Sandoval
August 29, 2008
Lindsey, Tammy and Jocelyn, you don't know me but I'm a good friend of Christine's. I'm very sorry for your loss and my deepest condolences go out to all of you. I have BJ and your family in my prayers. Please stay positive, I know she will be looking over all of you.
Sheri & Damon Alexander
August 29, 2008
Lindsay, I have not met you, but hear a lot about you from my son, Trey. We are profoundly sorry for your loss. Our hearts & prayers go out to you & your family. If there is anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask. May God bless all of you & know he is with your precious child forever.
Memaw & Paw Kling
August 29, 2008
Tammy,Lindsey,Jocelyn & Extended family
Our thoughts and prays are with at this difficult time. BJ was a beatiful baby and will be greatly missed
Nicole Diaz
August 29, 2008
HEY LINDESY IM SO SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN BUT YOU KNOW SHE IS IN GOOD HANDS WITH YOUR DADDY AND WITH MY BROTHER DAVID AND THEY WILL TAKE REAL GOOD CARE OF HER OK WELL I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAKE CARE MOMMA ILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FOR BABY BJ OK BYE
GOD BLESS
LOVE, NICOLE MONIQUE DIAZ AND BABY JADE
Ruby Kling-Roden
August 29, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
MARY ACEVEDO & FAMILY RECEPTION-HNW
August 29, 2008
TAMMY & LINDSEY MY CONDOLENCES TO ALL THAT ARE HURTING, FROM MY EXPERIENCE JUST BE STRONG FOR EACH OTHER. AND REMEMBER SHE IS NOT ALONE, AND WILL BE WATCHING YOU FROM UP ABOVE......
Dorcas Hatcher
August 29, 2008
Tammy - I will pray for your family. I am Shelia's friend from Bunco. The loss of a child/grandchild is hard but with God's love you will find comfort knowing she is happy in heaven. God Bless you and your family.
Kim Gardner
August 29, 2008
Lindsey, my sincerest condolences on your loss. I am Christine's co-worker and have heard nothing but great things about you and your mother. Please know you're both in my prayers!
Christine Rosin
August 29, 2008
We will miss you lil BJ. Your time here was too short, but you will always be your mommies Guardian Angel. You and your Grandpa Bennie will shine down on Lindsey, and Tammy and Jocelyn forever. During your time here you touched so many lives and you will be forever in our hearts and thoughts! Love- Christine
Angie Jakubowski
August 29, 2008
Dear Lindsey,
I don't know if you remember me. My name is Angie and I am a friend of your mothers. I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I pray for strength for you and your family during this difficult time.
Charlie (Larry) Valverde (Viscanio)
August 29, 2008
Lindsey I'm so sorry for your loss, but we know she's with your dad her grandpa my uncle Bennie, he will take good care of her.
Jessica Puebla
August 29, 2008
You will be missed, BJ
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