Diane Joan Bennack—who, for years of her life, entertained public audiences including servicemen and women with her beautiful soprano voice and for the remainder of her life thrilled family and friends, singing at weddings, funerals and celebrations—died April 13 at her San Antonio home. Her husband, her son and three of her sisters were at her side. Other family members, including her father, stepmother and youngest sister, were unable to be there because of the COVID-19 travel ban that precluded their traveling to Texas from a coronavirus-impacted area. The entire family has kept a daily vigil, as sessions brought them together via Zoom.
The cause of death was complications of glioblastoma, a deadly brain cancer with which she was first diagnosed in late 2016. She would have celebrated her 60th birthday on July 12 of this year.
Diane was born in San Antonio, the middle sister of five Bennack girls. She attended local schools where her mother, Luella, was a regular participant and often officer of the schools' parent teacher associations. In 1975, at age 15, Diane moved with her family to New Canaan, Connecticut. It was there that her interest in music and the discovery of her singing talent emerged. During her years at New Canaan High School, her natural beauty and exceptional soprano voice caused her to be cast in leading roles in a series of plays and musicals. She sang her first opera at 16 in the title role of Henry Purcell's Dido and Aeneas.
Her love of music led her to seek and complete a degree in music from the University of Connecticut. While there, she and college friends formed a rock band known as "Fire & Ice" and performed professionally, including at military bases internationally.
Following graduation from college, she added administrative jobs to her continued involvement in music. She worked briefly at USA Today and at Chemical Bank in New York. After a few years working in New York, she decided to return to San Antonio,
where she married John Sacchetti, whom she had met and dated in New York. A son, Benjamin Eliot, was born to the Sacchettis in 1999. Diane and John were divorced in 2012.
In the years that followed, Diane periodically continued her singing and pursued a career as an aesthetician in her own practice, as well as worked with her sister Dr. Laura Bennack at Laura's Radiance Medspa in San Antonio. In 2015, Diane married Richard Johnson.
Much loved by family and all who passed her way, Diane is survived by her husband, Richard, her son Benjamin, her father Frank A. Bennack, Jr. and stepmother Dr. Mary Lake Polan, sisters Shelley Ann McCullough (Robert), Dr. Laura Jean Bennack (Ron Peterson), Cindi Leigh Hinson (Eric) and Julie Bennack. She was pre-deceased by her mother, Luella Mae Smith Bennack, and by a brother who passed away at birth, Arthur Jeffrey Bennack. Other survivors include two aunts, Annabelle Leyendecker and Linda Smith; an uncle, Gary Smith; two stepbrothers, Joshua McGuire and Scott McGuire; a stepsister, Lindsay McGuire; two stepdaughters, Sheena Johnson and Seslie Johnson; five nieces, Danielle Valentine, Lacey Wulfe, Connally McCullough, Beverly McCullough and Mae Hinson; two nephews, Brian Wulfe and Adam Hinson; two grandnieces, numerous stepnieces, stepnephews and cousins.
A memorial service is planned for later in the year when the family can safely come together.
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Cindy Wudel
November 5, 2022
My condolences to the family of Diane we were childhood friends in San Antonio living just 4 houses apart I often thought of her and her smiling personality may God wrap his arms around you and bring you peace
crystal perales
October 31, 2020
DIANE you are very missed, I was your caretaker for the ending stage of this process, It was a pleasure to meet you, you have left a beloved memory in my heart. You had visit me in my dreams as well. Seeing you happy & young spirited was another experience you had endured me with, I will never forget your smiles> I love you Diane > 6 months later here I am in October sighing your guest book.Thinking of you . From your beloved Friend/caretaker Crystal
Jim Coppersmith
July 9, 2020
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Lacey Wulfe
April 20, 2020
Diane, I love and miss you so much. The past few years have been bad to you but I know you are in a good place now. You will always be remembered in my heart and through your name sake.
Jerry Zigmont
April 17, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the entire family for your loss.
I knew Dianne while she attended the University Of Connecticut. Her voice and spirit were magical. The moment you heard her sing, it moved you and took you to another place. I remember her singing "Falling Star" by Karla Bonoff at a coffee house in her dorm. It was one of the most beautiful interpretations I have ever heard. It has stayed with me for over 40 years.
I will never forget her incredible personality and talent. Rest in Peace, Dianne.
April 17, 2020
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, sister, mother. Sending prayers.
Mark and Paula Lady
Joseph Macri Jr
April 16, 2020
So sorry to hear , I was the Bennacks family landscaper on Logan Rd for years till they moved to Texas , great family, God Bless the Bennack family especially her husband and son
April 16, 2020
Diane was a friend and fellow choir member at New Canaan High School and the University of CT. We traveled and performed with choirs throughout Europe twice and some special times together. Her voice was absolutely beautiful and her spirit was so positive. I am sincerely saddened to learn of her passing and wish your entire family peace and consolation at this time.
She will be remembered fondly,
Chris Allegro
Margie Alford
April 15, 2020
Sadness and thankful her sister were with her. Her
Father was there in spirit.
Alamo Barter Corp. Family & Friends, Liz Barrera
April 15, 2020
Dr.Laura,Ron,Radiance Med-family & the many lives touched by Diane. Sorry to hear of her passing. May she rest in peace and In her new journey, May she Sing with the Angels.
April 15, 2020
With sincere sympathy to the family especially Ben who is going to miss her the most. Love, Mr. and Mrs. Nina Sacchetti
April 15, 2020
Our sincere condolences to all the Bennack family and especially to Ben who will miss her the most. May she rest in peace! With love, Mr. and Mrs. Nina Sacchetti
Morris Pleasure
April 15, 2020
My love to Diane's family and friends. I consider her a close friend and soul sister of 40 years. This is a huge loss for me. I will always smile when i remember Dee and I was so proud of her the last time I saw her at my own concert in Connecticut in 2016. She hadn't sung in many years and still put on an incredible performance. Thank you Dee... you'll always live in my heart. Morris Pleasure
Fire and Ice - Band in Connecticut circa 1982-1985
Morris Pleasure
April 15, 2020
Alexia- Band in Connecticut circa 1980-1982
Morris Pleasure
April 15, 2020
Laura
April 15, 2020
My dear dear sister ..I will think about your every day for the rest of my life. Comfort is knowing you are finally free of your pain and restrictions you hated. You can now dance sing and read. Until we meet again.
Becky Brem
April 15, 2020
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I knew her grandparents Lou and Frank, Sr. They lived on Pamela and we lived on Bonnell. Lou and my mother (Madaline Henkel) were in the Discussion Club from St. Margaret Mary's. May God bless and comfort you during this time.
April 15, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I knew and loved her grandparents Lou and Frank, Sr. They lived on Pamela. I also remember the giant poodles and the violets Lou grew. We were all members of St. Margaret Mary's. My deepest condolences.
R E Henkel Brem
April 15, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Debbie Smith
April 14, 2020
Shes singing with the Angels. My sweet high school friend. Rest In Peace.
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