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Luther May Obituary
Luther May, Jr. was born on October 31, 1962 and died on February 17, 2010. He passed away at the age of 47 surrounded by his loving family after a two year vigorous battle with cancer. He was a beloved son, father, husband, brother, uncle, nephew , cousin and friend. He is preceded in death by his father Luther May, Sr. and his maternal grandmother Berta M. Sanchez. He is survived by his wife Melissa Ann Diaz-May, his sons Brandon L. May and Rene May and his daughter Kristen Alyssa May. His mother Raquel S. Campos and step-father Feliciano Campos. His sisters Glenda C. Ortega & husband Ernest, Jo Ann May and Bertie M. Pimm & husband Don and his brother Paul Gonzales and all his nephews and nieces. He was a graduate of Harlandale High School - class of 1981. His family and friends will remember his love of family, friends, small children who brought him joy & laughter, his love of Texas Hold'em and Las Vegas. He will be remembered and deeply missed by so many whose lives he touched. His family would like to extend their gratitude and appreciation for the loving care he received by: Dr. Jayasree Rao and her staff, Christus Santa Rosa-Babcock and it's 4th floor staff and Christus VNA Hospice & their wonderful staff. We would also like to express a very heartfelt thank you to Jason Hotchkiss and Lee & Kathy Hotchkiss & their families and Little Caesars of San Antonio and its employees. A memorial mass will be held on Tuesday February 23, 2010 @ 6:00pm at Saint Bonaventure Church 1918 Palo Alto San Antonio Tx 78211. To offer condolences and share memories please log on to www.legacy.com for his memorial website.
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Memories and Condolences
for Luther May
Miss U Cuz
May 7, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Cindy Marin
May 7, 2011
Luther you a greatly missed you are in my heart and mind ever day it is so hard to accept that you are gone even though I know you are in a better place and you are with momo.I luv and miss you so much.
Teresa Sanchez
May 6, 2011
Time heals all wounds,but it's also the hardest medicine to take,time passes,people change,but the loving memories never fade.Loss has been part of my life but it has taught me what was precious...our greatest treasure isnt money or gold,but our precious memories that can never be taken away.We say goodbye to our loved ones without wanting to...it does'nt mean that we've stopped loving them.Although they are gone from our daily lives,Luther,Rori,Ralph,G-ma Berta they live forever in our hearts...Yes,and it's ok to cry....I do!!
Adela Sanchez
March 4, 2010
Luther I love you so much. You will be in my heart and thoughts always.I will miss your phone calls,your laughter and that beautiful smile most of all your loving kindness. Melissa my love and prayers are with you and the children. Love your aunt Adela
March 1, 2010
My heart goes out to the May & Sanchez family. I will keep you guys in my prayers.May God bless the family. Please be strong for one another. Claudia Guerrero
yolanda molina
February 27, 2010
Meli im sorry i couldnt be there but my heart and my love are always with you, i feel so much saddness and happiness at the same time because god knows what best,and hes happy now,you and i have always been close,though we havent talked lately we're still close ,whenever you need me im here ,all my heart and love is with you.you always have been and are special to me, youll be ok. take time to grieve and know luther will always be with you.our smypathies, form ciny too all our love yole and cindy
Melissa Melo
February 27, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Roger Sanchez
February 24, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
February 24, 2010
Brandon, Im so sorry for your loss. Hugs, Saff
RICK N BEATRICE TREVINO
February 24, 2010
OUR CONDOLENCES TO LUTHER N FAMILY I WISH I HAD MORE TIME TO TELL U EVERYTHING I HAD TO SAY TO U BRO BUT TIME WASENT ON OUR SIDE BUT NOW ALL I CAN SAY THAT U CHANGED MY LIFE I SEE LIFE IN A DIFFRENT WAY N THANK U FOR OPENING MY EYES BRO ME N MY WIFE LOVE U N WE WILL ALWAYS MISS U LOVE U BRO R.I.P LUTHER MAY 2-17-10 WE"LL ALWAYS REMEMBER THANKS FOR BEING SUCH A GREAT BUD THANK U...
February 23, 2010
TO MY BIGGINGS I LUV YA SOO MUCH I WILL FOREVER KEEP U IN MY HEART.. SAVE ME A JOB UP THERE....
Kerwin & Kathy McClain
February 23, 2010
Our thougts and prayers are with you all in this time of your grief. May god bless you all.
Anna Ibarra
February 23, 2010
My deepest condolences to the family of Luther May Jr. I cannot imagine the lost you all must be enduring. I knew Luther from middle school and were friends. God Bless the family.
Class of Harlandale H. S. 1981
Sonia C
February 23, 2010
May God bless your family in this time of need. I met Luther about 30 years ago in a high school competition. My heart and prayers go out to his family.
Sincerly,
Sonia C.
Kerri Wilson
February 23, 2010
My heartfelt condolences go out to the family of Luther May.. I had the pleasure of knowing and treating him as a patient.. He was a wonderful and funny man! It took a few visits for him to warm up to me, but after I got him to crack his first smile, the humor never ended with him and I. He is missed by all.. To Jo Ann... You are an Amazing sister and I wish I had one just like you! Deepest sympathy... Kerri Wilson and Family
Roxanne Rodriguez
February 23, 2010
My condolences to Luther May's family. He was a wonderful man I had the pleasure of meeting while working with him.His family will all be in my prayers.May God bless and comfort you all in this time of grief.He will always be remembered.
Melody Gutierrez
February 23, 2010
My heart goes out to you and your family in this time of grief. I was heart broken to hear of luther's passing. I had the great pleasure of working with him and getting to know him. He was a great man and will forever stay in my prayers. May god bless you and your family and may precious memories fill your hearts and ease your pain.
Nelda Melo-Martinez
February 23, 2010
Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you, his children, his family, and his friends, during this difficult time. May the memories he has left you with, carry you through the hard times. May he rest in peace.
sheryl & Tommie Vaughan
February 23, 2010
Melissa iam so sorry for you loss Luther was a great guy i remember when we met yall through Bar Poker , he was quiet but always had a smile on his face , my nick name for him was Big Daddy , because of a shirt he wore. Tommie and i always thought yall were great people and he will be missed dearly.You are in our prayers and thoughts. Love Sheryl & Tommie
February 23, 2010
My condolences to the May family even though i never hung out or talk with him i knew who he was may god bless him and his family Joe Hernandez class of 81
anchez Fmily
February 23, 2010
Experiencing the sorrow that accompanies the death of a loved one is always difficult.As we journey through our grief,Luther will be in our hearts and minds.His lifes journey ends...but the LOVE he shared with all of his family and friends continues to live,and beyond this tragic day.....that LOVE prevails! Our sincerest condolences to all of our family,the Mays,Campos,Gonzalez,Ortegas,Bertie,The Sanchez's May GOD be with us all! Love The Ramon Sanchez Family!!
Cindy Marin
February 22, 2010
May you rest in peace my dear cousin.We will miss you so very much but we know you are in a better place .You are now with our grandmother.You will be greatly missed but will always be in our hearts never forgotten .Our condolences to your wife and children,brother,sisters and mom. Love you always your cousin Cindy and family.
Vanessa Sanchez
February 22, 2010
Luther, we love you and will miss you so much! I know your in a better place now and you will always be in our hearts. My deepest condolences go out to Melissa and the kids, we will be there if you all need anything. He will be watching over us!!
Jesse Patlan
February 22, 2010
My condolences to Luther's family and all who knew him. I first met him in elementary and we kept in touch till high school. God bless you and your family.
monica molina
February 22, 2010
Meli, im so sorry for ur loss, i just found out and sorry for not being there with u and for u and the kids. i know we havent really talked in a while but we still love ya and will see u soon, hes in a better place now where theres no more hurt. ya now have an angel watching over ya. if u ever need anything u know u can call me or my mom, shes been worried about u, we havent forgot ya....may god bless u and the kids...
Love Ur Cousin,
Monica Molina
Rachel Acebedo Garza
February 22, 2010
My deepest condolences to Luther's wife and children, sisters and Mother. May he rest and peace, and his memories be everlasting.
February 22, 2010
Melissa, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. I miss working with you and all the staff at La Casa De Ninos. You are so special to all of us. Thank-you for all your help. Please let me know if you need anything... Ms. Maria Diaz
February 22, 2010
My condolences to Luther May and his family,I went to elem.with him and he made me laugh and always made fun of me and I don't why.I even met his sister Birdie ,I lost contact of both once we went to High School.Jo Ann Delgado Aguillon,class of 1981..
February 22, 2010
My condolences to All his Family,I have known Luther since Elem.He always made me laugh and Always made fun of me
don't ask me why.Jo Ann Delgado Aguillon,Class of 1981
Lori - Winston Adcock
February 22, 2010
Melissa, our condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing his friendship with all of us, he will always have a special place in our hearts for being the wonderful, funny, loving man that is was. Even though we have not seen ya'll in awhile, you are still part of our Texas Hold'em family, and Luther will be missed dearly. If there is anything was can do, please let us know.
February 22, 2010
My condolences to the May Family and Friends. I know it was a long battle but Luther is at peace and no more pain May Our Lord hold you close and carry you at this time, to give you peace and show you the love that he is giving to Luther right now. God Bless
Diana DeLuna HHS Class of 81
Lori & Winston Adcock
February 22, 2010
Melissa, you and your family are in our prayers during this sad time. Thank you for sharing his friendship with all of us, he will truley be missed. We will remember all the times that he whooped us in Texas Holdem. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Luther will always have a specail place in so many hearts.
February 22, 2010
My condolences to Luther's family. He was a great guy. God bless you Luther and your family.
Leticia Ramirez Garcia, Class of 1981
Sandra Martinez, Class of 1981
February 22, 2010
My condolences to Luther May's Family and friends. May his memory bring comfort and everlasting thoughts. Luther was a nice, funny classmate at Harlandale Middle and High School. May God Bless you. Rest in Peace.
February 22, 2010
my condolences to all your family, you will be miss and god bless you and your family.
Ismael Robles
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