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Robert Moss Ayres

1926 - 2018

Robert Moss Ayres obituary, 1926-2018, Austin, TX

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1926

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2018

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Robert Ayres Obituary

September 1, 1926 - June 19, 2018
Robert Moss Ayres, Jr. died peacefully in Austin, Texas on June 19, 2018, surrounded by family and supported by countless friends.

Robert (Bob) Moss Ayres, Jr. was born in San Antonio, Texas on September 1, 1926, the oldest of the four children of Robert Moss Ayres and Florence Collett Ayres, and the grandson of Atlee B. and Olive Ayres of San Antonio. He grew up in San Antonio, where he attended San Antonio Academy and Texas Military Institute (TMI). In 1944, at age seventeen, he graduated from TMI and immediately enlisted in the U.S. Navy. A year later, he was in the South Pacific, serving as radio operator on a ship sailing toward Japan. He was at his station in the radio room when his ship received news of the bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki and the subsequent surrender of Japan.

In 1947, Ayres enrolled in the University of the South in Sewanee, Tennessee. An economics major, he graduated from Sewanee in 1949, and pursued graduate studies in England at the University of Oxford. From Oxford, he moved to Philadelphia, where he earned an MBA from the Wharton School of Finance at the University of Pennsylvania in 1952. Ayres began his investment banking career in Philadelphia and New York with Kidder Peabody & Co., one of the oldest firms in the country. During these years, he received a commission in the Naval Reserve, and served during the Korean War.

Ayres returned to San Antonio in 1953. On September 10, 1955 he married Patricia

Shield, also of San Antonio. Soon after, they had two children, Robert Atlee Ayres and Vera Patricia Ayres. In 1960, after the unexpected death of his sister Ann and her husband Raymond Clarke, he became legal guardian to their three young daughters, Patricia, Margaret, and Florence; and he assumed a special and important role in their lives.

Ayres worked in the municipal bond department at Russ and Company, a local investment banking firm, and later served as its president. As an investment banker, Ayres had the opportunity to finance a number of successful Texas companies. He was one of the founders of Southwest Airlines, and raised the initial capital for its beginning. He also served on the board of directors of James Avery and Howell Corporation and enjoyed decades-long friendships with their founders. During these years, Ayres was a member of the Young President's Organization. He served as President of the German Club, and was a member of the Order of the Alamo and the Texas Cavaliers.

Ayres became an effective leader in education, religion, and philanthropy. A lifelong Episcopalian, he served on the Vestry and as Senior Warden of Christ Episcopal Church. He was active in Diocesan affairs, and served as a member of the Executive Board of the Diocese of West Texas. Later, he served on the Executive Council of the Episcopal Church and as a member of the board of Episcopal Relief and Development. He traveled to Africa, Latin America, and Asia to see firsthand the suffering caused by natural and manmade disasters, and to support the Church's relief and development efforts. He was inducted into the American Society of the Most Venerable Order of the Hospital of St. John of Jerusalem.

Ayres held an abiding devotion to the schools that had nurtured him in his formative years, especially TMI and Sewanee. He served as president of the Board of Trustees at TMI. At Sewanee, he served as a trustee, as president of the Alumni Association, and two terms as chair of the Board of Regents. For his service, he received the Distinguished Alumnus Award from TMI and in 1974, Sewanee recognized his service with an honorary Doctor of Civil Law.


In 1977, Ayres received a call from the University of the South to serve as its interim Vice-Chancellor and President. He led Sewanee out of a serious fiscal crisis, and the following year he became the 13th Vice-Chancellor and President of the University. He served in this role until his retirement in 1988. Through careful management and success in fundraising, the University's endowment more than tripled during his tenure. Pat, too, shared her many gifts with the community, and together they made an indelible mark on the history of the University of the South and in the lives of generations of Sewanee students, faculty, staff and community members. In 2016, a new dormitory, Ayres Hall, was named in their honor.
During his time as Vice-Chancellor, Ayres became close friends with the Sisters of St. Mary, an Episcopal monastic order which arrived in Sewanee in 1888 to establish a school for mountain children, and eventually a retreat center. When the Sisters decided to sell their land, Ayres bought the property personally and created a non-profit corporation for the continuation of their ministry of spiritual formation. Long after he had stepped down from other boards and involvements, and until his death, Bob continued to serve on St. Mary's board and to raise funds for their capital campaign. In honor of his role as founder, benefactor, and fundraiser, the center was named St. Mary's Sewanee: The Ayres Center for Spiritual Development. In 2011, in recognition of a lifetime of generous service, the Episcopal Seminary of the Southwest awarded Ayres his second honorary degree.

Upon his retirement from Sewanee, Bob and Pat moved to Austin to live closer to their children and grandchildren. Ayres enjoyed spending time at the family's ranches in Travis, Real, and Jeff Davis Counties. He participated in the operation and management of the ranches, and supported the next generations of the family as they developed the Shield Ranch Foundation and El Ranchito Summer Camp at their Travis County ranch. He also continued his service as treasurer of the Shield-Ayres Foundation, which Bob and Pat created in the 1970's as a way for future generations of their family to participate in their engaged philanthropy.



Robert Moss Ayres, Jr. is preceded in death by his sister Ann Clarke, his brother-in-law Raymond Clarke, and his sister-in-law Nanette Wright Ayres. He is survived by his wife of sixty-three years Patricia Shield Ayres; his brother George C. Ayres, and his sister Florence (Bitsy) Rubsamen and her husband Rollins; his son Robert A. Ayres and his wife Margaret; his daughter Vera Ayres Bowen; his grandchildren Kathleen P. Ayres, Elizabeth Ayres Domenech and her husband Chema, Marshall A. Bowen and his wife Madison, Gentry S. Bowen and his fiancée Margaret, Sophie Bowen Rupp and her husband Johann, and Mallory Ann Bowen; seven nieces and nephews, and eighteen great-nieces and great-nephews.

Robert M. Ayres, Jr. will be buried at Shield Ranch in Travis County at a private family service. A memorial service will be held at Christ Episcopal Church in San Antonio on June 28th at 11:00 a.m. with a reception following in the parish hall.

Bob's family extends special thanks to J. Trice Boswell, the staff at Querencia, and the caregivers from Halcyon Home Health who cared for him so beautifully toward the end of his life.

In lieu of flowers, gifts in Bob's honor may be made to the Robert M. Ayres Jr. Scholarship Fund at the University of the South, St. Mary's Sewanee: The Ayres Center for Spiritual Development, or the charity of your choice.

We learn in the Retreating
How vast an one
Was recently among us-
A Perished Sun

Endear in the departure
How doubly more
Than all the Golden Presence
It was-before-

Emily Dickinson

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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Jun. 24, 2018.

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Lynda Baker

August 13, 2018

Dear Pat - I always knew of you and your husband's generosity, wisdom and compassion - and yet readng his obituary today just took my breath away to learn of his incredible devotion, dedication and amazing accomplishments - incuding marrying you. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Lynda Baker

Lynn Gilbert

July 21, 2018

A most distinguished life of service to others.

Suzy McLaughlin

July 16, 2018

Pat, remembering you and your family in the days past and the days to come. I so enjoyed getting to know you both through FBC Austin and appreciate Bob's words of wisdom and encouragement on many occasions. Praying for you. Suzy McLaughlin, Frisco, Texas

Robert Steinbomer

July 8, 2018

By the good fortune of getting to know Robert A, I was invited to sit next to Robert during the course of a luncheon honoring their great gifts to the natural world and the Texas environment. In the course of that conversation I saw a glimpse of all the many gifts so many have commented upon, and I came away with a profound sense that he treated me, as all people, as a friend. I considered myself fortunate that day and think of it often. Not many people can touch others so gracefully and openly. The world's loss is Heaven's gain, but he may truly have been there all along--making earth his heaven--and sharing it with the rest of us.

Liz Stewart

July 7, 2018

Bob has left a generous and beautiful legacy and will live on in the lives of thousands. I have been so inspired by the Ayers family over the years and after reading Bob's obituary my admiration grows even greater. You will all be in my prayers as you grieve the earthly presence of your beloved patriarch. xoxoliz stewart

Jeri Muhich

July 7, 2018

Pat and Vera, what a wonderful husband and father you were blessed to have! Bob and I served together on a couple of committees relating to Laity Lodge and the HEB Foundation. When he found out I knew Vera, his whole face lit up! What a kind and sweet person, and for a man who had every reason to be "puffed up" with all his many accomplishments, he was always so humble and approachable. So sorry I was out of town for the memorial service or I surely would have gone.

Jeanne Guy

July 5, 2018

I didn't have the pleasure of meeting Bob Ayres. I wish I had. Sending love and our condolences to his family.

Susan Folwell

July 1, 2018

A significant part of my Sewanee experience was the mentorship, friendship and wise guidance I received from Bob Ayres. He shall have a long and valued legacy in my life, and the lives of many. Sending much love to the entire Ayres family. Susan Folwell, C'81 (Washington DC)

Nell Trimble

June 28, 2018

Bob has been most like a father to me, the closest to a father that I never had. He was so kind and encou-raging...any little thing I did he thought was just wonderful! We always ended our conversations with prayer.

I always called him on Father's Day and his birthday September 1st. When I played and sang my birthday arrangement for him he said, "I've never been serenaded like that before!"

The greatest gift he ever gave me was conducting the memorial service in August, 2013 for my little Presto Magnifico, my bichon frise, just about the best friend I've ever had. Pat came too.

In 2011 I attended the service at the Episcopal Seminary of the Southwest awarding Bob his second honorary degree for helping our church so very much. I even got to take pictures of him and the bishop of our diocese he was serving under.

May our lives continue his kindness, encouragement and joy!

Holly Decherd

June 28, 2018

What an amazing life Bob had! It was my good fortune to get to know Bob at church, and later Pat and their fine family. He was generous beyond measure, thoughtful, kind, considerate, and devoted to so many special things. I feel fortunate to have known them even for a short few years. I can't even begin to imagine the vacuum his passing will leave. May good memories sustain your family at this sorrowful time.

Doug Watson

June 28, 2018

On behalf of the Healy-Murphy Center I would like to offer our sincere condolences and prayers on the passing of Bob Ayers. The Shield-Ayers family is in our hearts and thoughts. Throughout the years we have been blessed by the generosity and love of this family. Through your kindness the lives of many young people have been enriched. What a tremendous legacy! Doug Watson, Executive Director

Janice Brake

June 27, 2018

Pat, with deep sympathy to you and all the family. Bob was a special person with such a big heart; as I especially saw this in love for animals, just one area of that kindness. With love, Janice Brake

James and Tammy King

June 27, 2018

Our sincere condolences from the King family in Ft Davis. What a great kind man and we are keeping the entire Ayres family in our prayers.

Rick Triplett

June 27, 2018

Bob ( like Patricia and their two children, Vera and Bob ) was truly the most outstanding , wonderful , caring and lovely friend I have ever had the unbelievable good fortune to have in my life. I will be remembering Bob's strong inspirational and positive influence on me always.

Mary Ellen Isaacs

June 26, 2018

I send my condolences to the Ayres family. While I didn't know Bob Ayres, Sr., I deeply respect and appreciate the generosity of the Shield-Ayres family, the Foundation, and El Ranchito nature camp. What a beautiful legacy Bob Ayres has left in this world.

Molly Marshall

June 26, 2018

It has been a great joy to experience the deep spiritual presence of Bob Ayres in this final years of his life. I give thanks for his faithful witness and generative life. He has offered grace upon grace to so many of us. Molly T. Marshall, President of Central Seminary, Shawnee, KS

June 25, 2018

Sending my condolences to Mrs. Ayres and the rest of the family. I really enjoyed my visits with Mr. Ayres and will always remember his kind, gentle spirit.
With love,
Alice Foster

Richard Kew

June 24, 2018

There are many lessons Bob taught me for which I will always be profoundly grateful. Bob was a faithful man with a large heart and a deep love for his Lord, constant in prayer and an example of generosity.

June 24, 2018

I'm thinking of you all with love and gratitude.

Jane Louis

Howard and Carol Hovde

June 24, 2018

Bob was so graceful, thoughtful, kind, wise, joyful, servant and follower of Jesus. He will be deeply missed.

Maggie Hefley

June 23, 2018

Rest in peace dear Robert.YOU made a difference. Maggie Hefley, San Antonio

David Jockusch, C 66

June 23, 2018

A truly good man and a great servant to Sewanee. I was fortunate to be on first name basis with him in San Antonio in the 70" EQG!

Marie McShane

June 22, 2018

Prayers and thoughts to Pat & all the Ayers Family. My late husband grew up in SA across the street from the Ayers Family on Laurel Heights Place, SA. He had many memories of growing up "adventures" there. In later years I met both Bob & Pat when he was at Sewanee and we both had great memories of Bob.
Marie McShane (Mrs. Joe B. McShane, Jr.) Austin, TX

Molly Stevens

June 22, 2018

Bob was a wonderful example of one who left this world far better than he found it. I am grateful to have known him. My heart-felt sympathy Pat, Bob, Vera and to all if his grandchildren and friends.

Charles & Janet Kiblinger

June 22, 2018

In Bob's first years as Vice Chancellor, I was the University Chaplain. He was a great support and an inspiration to me. His passing is a great loss to the Sewanee family. May he Rest In Peace.

kathleen kuper

June 22, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Bob was such an amazing and fine person. I will truly miss him.

Matthew Bradley

June 22, 2018

Hannah and I send our condolences and love. Uncle Bobby was a shining example of service to God, family, and the world. We'll be praying for the repose of his soul and all of the family.

Nick Babson, C '68

June 22, 2018

Mary and I send our love and condolences to you, Pat, and the entire Ayres family. Bob's service to the University, St. Mary's and the entire Sewanee community has left an indelible mark on our past while providing inspiration for our future success. God Bless you all.

Lisa McDonough Howick, C'81

June 22, 2018

As students, we felt so welcomed at Fulford, the Ayres' home; as a young adult I felt understood and valued by Mr. Ayres; as an alumnus leader, I was supported and listened to; and as a mature adult I tried to follow the quiet example he provided, to demonstrate action where needed, financially and in presence. His and Pat's legacy are also his fine family, whom I admire, and who follow in their footsteps.

Kathryn Cureton Burke

June 22, 2018

My love to all of you, especially to Margie and Bob, who were my Sewanee classmates. I have such fond memories of seeing your father's warm smile during my years on the mountain. And I was blessed to be singing in the University Choir on the day of his installation as Vice Chancellor. Well done, thou good and faithful servant.

Beth Marchman C'79

June 22, 2018

Thank you Mr. Ayers for being such a blessing to Sewanee and its community. My love to Bob and Margy! I love you, two. I pray this time will be one of many great remembrances and stories.

Robin Friend

June 21, 2018

Vera, my heart feels the pain for your family's loss. So many of us from the class of 1982 were blessed to have known your father and mother. Robin Friend

David Landon

June 21, 2018

Bob Ayres interviewed me when I was a candidate for a position at Sewanee. I remember the occasion vividly and thinking, I want to work for this man and teach in this place. I have and have never regretted being a part of an institution he believed in and represented so well.

Marian Hopkins

June 21, 2018

Pat. Sumner and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. All our love, Marian Weary Hopkins

Andrea Miller

June 21, 2018

Pat, I just heard about Bobs death and wanted to send you my condolences along with some love and prayers. He was an amazing and generous man and I am so glad I got to know him and you a little better after Keiths death.

The Rev. Susan B. Haynes, C'81

June 21, 2018

I absolutely loved the tradition he started when he told students that if they ever saw his porch light on at night, they were welcome to come visit. His willingness to be accessible to us was refreshing and is part of what makes my mountain experience so memorable! (Class of 1981)

A true Spirit filled Sewanee gentleman and disciple of Jesus Christ called to serve as VC during a kairos moment for the University of the South with resounding successes and blessings, and whose great kindness, wisdom, friendship and hospitality during m

Thomas Whitaker Jr

June 21, 2018

A true Spirit filled Sewanee gentleman and disciple of Jesus Christ called to serve as VC during a kairos moment for the University of the South with resounding successes and blessings, and whose great kindness, wisdom, friendship and hospitality during my campus visits before, during, and after my short "stint" as John Bratton's successor served as my Balm of Gilead and tangible grace of God sufficient for me. We are praying for all of Bob's family and friends confident that God's peace will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus and be a constant affirmation that we will see him again!

Peggy Arenas Bonds

June 21, 2018

Bob was the one person who saved The University of the South from its financial troubles in evidence when I arrived in 1980. His dedication over so many years to this institution has helped to make it the amazing place that it is. I extend, with fond memories, my sympathies to Vera (my former student), Robert (highly spoken of by my Spanish colleagues), and, of course, Pat.

thomas williams

June 21, 2018

I was student member of the search committee led by Bishop Girault Jones for a new Vice-Chancellor. The meetings and prayers led us to Bob Ayres . The right man at the right time for Sewanee. Thank you Mr. Ayres for helping to preserve and grow our alma mater. Thomas Williams MD C'78. Sarasota

Bitsy Rogers Sloan

June 21, 2018

Words fail me as I seek to convey my abiding gratitude and love for you who loved me when I needed it most. Loving others as Christ loves you is second nature to you all. I am but one of many whom you have blessed. As you grieve Mr. Ayres' loss and celebrate his life, I am with you. May he Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory.

William (with Elisabeth) McKeachie

June 21, 2018

A winsome, transformative exemplar and mentor in the things of Sewanee and of the Spirit of Christ. My fond memories of Bob are ever vivid and of enduring thankfulness. Condolences to Pat and the family, both immediate and immeasurably extensive as that family truly is. May Bob Rest In Peace and Rise in Glory.

Robin Gottfried

June 21, 2018

Yolande and I send our love to Pat, Vera, Bob, and all the family. Know you are are in our thoughts and prayers. Bob was, and is, such a special person. He was a loving and compassionate friend, always hospitable and welcoming. He also gave all of us a model of a true Christian leader. We will be with you in spirit at the memorial service. Wish we could be there.

John Lawrence

June 21, 2018

The Rev John Arthur and Waynoka Lawrence give thanks for Bob and Pat and their dedication to Sewanee: The university of the South and to our whole Episcopal family.

Gilbert and Maggie Amine

June 21, 2018

To Pat, Vera, and Robert A: Thinking of you in these difficult times and sending you love.

James Bradford

June 21, 2018

Lyn and I send our sympathy and love. We will always remember Bob's great service to the University and his many kindnesses to us over the years. God bless and keep you all, Lyn and James Bradford

Richard Tillinghast

June 21, 2018

As a visiting professor at Sewanee while he was Vice-Chancellor, I found Bob an inspiration, a true leader. I believe we are all aware of how much he did for his alma mater over the years. Sincere condolences to his family.

(Dr.) Richard Tillinghast, Sewanee, Tennessee,C'62, H'08

Molly Pennington Myers

June 21, 2018

I send love to Mrs. Ayres, to Bob and Margy, and to all your family. I have great memories of Mr. and Mrs. Ayres' kindness to me when I was a student at Sewanee.

Molly Pennington Myers C'80

William Pinson

June 21, 2018

Bob was always a joy and inspiration to around. He and Pat have blessed a multitude by their commitment to Christ and ministry in His name. What a wonderful life he graced us with. Bill Pinson, Dallas, Texas Jun 21, 2018

Mary Steele Lawler

June 21, 2018

My love to Vera, with thanksgiving for Mr. Ayres' example of how we should all live, Mary Steele F. Lawler

Suzanne Mott Dansby

June 21, 2018

To the Ayres family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. While a student at Sewanee, I thought of Vice-Chancellor Ayres as a fine leader of the university, who was also a mentor for many of the students. And, as time passed, he never stopped his ministry of service. He was a true believer, with the great gift of leadership. May the sorrow of your loss, which you feel in your heart be lightened by the love that surrounds you. In God's grace,

Saleh Haskouri

June 21, 2018

My deepest sympathy to the widow son and daughter for a loss we all share.

Art and Shirley Simon

June 21, 2018

Dear Pat, I'm deeply saddened by news of Bob's death, but deeply grateful for his life and for the remarkable legacy that he (along with you, always) has carved out. What astonishing accomplishments that live on in the countless people who are beneficiaries, most of them unaware. My heart goes out to you and your family as you grieve this loss, deep but transitory, because the Lord is risen! God's peace and strength be with you. Love, from Art & Shirley Simon

Michael Smith

June 21, 2018

Pat and all in the circle of love around Bob, know that our love, appreciation and sense of loss joins with yours in the celebration of Bob's life and your journey together. Michael Smith

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