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Robert Schmidt Obituary

Charles Robert Schmidt
April 9, 1957 - August 26, 2024
Robert Schmidt was born on April 9, 1957 in Amarillo, TX to proud parents Mary Winsett Schmidt (on her birthday!) and Charles Schmidt and sister Ewing Schmidt McCulloch. He grew up riding horses and fishing at the Palo Duro Canyon with Ewing and cousin Owen Winsett, played tennis and began his lifelong journey of faith through Young Life at Tascosa High School, then went on to graduate from The University of Texas at Austin. At UT, Robert met the men who would become his best friends, loved life as a Fiji brother and followed his father and grandfather's footsteps into a degree in Civil Engineering. Not long after college, Robert met the love of his life, Jenni McCaleb, forging a rich marriage that spanned over four decades of commitment, growth and laughter.

Robert and Jenni poured their lives into their six children, Hanna Schmidt Balemi, Sarah Carraway Maag, Emma Catherine Schmidt, Charles McCaleb Schmidt, Abigail Schmidt Keairnes and Joanna Nell Schmidt. The Schmidt world has since grown to include sons-in-law Ryan Balemi, Michael Paul Maag, and Peter Keairnes, and daughter-in-law Carlie Davis Schmidt, each of whom Robert loved deeply. Grandchildren Sadie and Jack Balemi; Warner, Lucy and Eden Maag; and Lennox and Murphy Schmidt will forever know Robert as their beloved "Hap" (short for either Haphazard or Happy Birthday, depending on the day).

Above all else, Robert valued friendship. More than just an accessory to life, he believed in the power of relationships to shape and guide the people we become. In the 1980s, Robert co-founded Overland Partners, alongside his three best friends as an experiment in living life together in the context of business, and served as partner and principal there for more than 20 years. In the years that followed, Robert was passionate about sharing the tools he gathered through life, relationships and business, offering mentorship and leadership coaching to a wide range of people across the country, from young entrepreneurs, to faith leaders and CEOs.

By the many people Robert loved and was loved by, he will be remembered as a laughing storyteller, an honest mentor, a curious seeker, and above all, a loyal friend to the end.

Robert's life lives on through his wife Jenni, sister Ewing, uncle, aunt, cousins, children, grandchildren, in-laws, nieces, nephews and all who have been touched by his generosity of spirit.

All are invited to join Robert's family and friends for an outdoor celebration of life at Live Oak Ranch (26 Dierks Rd, Spring Branch, TX ) on Thursday, September 5th at 10:30am. Please carpool where possible to ease parking and feel free to wear ranch attire.


In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Robert's honor to support either his passion for reading or his love of nature.


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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Sep. 1, 2024.

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Andrew McCulloch

August 26, 2025

Robert was an amazing Uncle who I loved very much! I value everything he taught me growing up and I miss him dearly! He was an amazing Father, husband, Uncle and friend! Sending love to Aunt Jenni and all of the kids and grandkids! Love you all!

Anne Troutman Kelly

August 26, 2025

To Ewing:
I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. I can remember going to Palo Duro Canyon with you, Robert, and your parents MANY years ago.
I'm your old college roommate from St. Mary's College. Let me hear from you!
Anne Troutman Kelly -- living now in Baton Rouge

Dick Sanger

August 26, 2025

I was Robert's Vistage Launch Chair. He always asked great questions and helped his members dig deeper. I did not know much of his religious side until I went to his remembrance. I thought I knew him! Wow.

ANNE TROUTMAN (former St. Mary's roommate of Ewing Schmidt)

December 6, 2024

Ewing, I am so sorry to have learned of your brother's passing. I googled your name today as I have been wanting to connect with you, and I was so sad to know Robert had passed away. I have some fond memories of long ago of visiting you and your family in Texas and traveling to the Santa Fe area. I remember Robert with a big smile on his face and a great sense of humor. So long ago, but seems like "yesterday."
Your old roommate from St. Mary's,
Anne Troutman Kelly -- now living in Baton Rouge, LA

Aron

November 8, 2024

I met Robert and Jenni at a conference in Texas. The amazing warmth, kindness, and generosity they showed to all those at the gathering was amazing. Over a year since then, I have often thought back upon my time with them, as they have served as an inspiration to me in the kindness we can show strangers. Sending all my prayers and best wishes to the family during this time.

Don Maranca

September 15, 2024

A great man who has impacted so many, heaven has welcomed home another beloved!

Debbie Cessac

September 9, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss.

The pastor at my daddy`s funeral said something that brought a lot of comfort to my broken heart. I share it with you all now, as I hope that it will do the same for you. He said,"As long as you have memories of someone, they never really die."

May you all rejoice in the beautiful memories of your beloved Robert.

Colleague

September 7, 2024

A cup must be emptied before it can be filled - Robert gave much good to our world, and he is now receiving countless blessings.

Anon

September 7, 2024

Well done done, good and faithful servant.

Aimee Wheeler

September 6, 2024

I loved helping the Schmidt family when I babysat, I remember him being such a great and fun dad. Aimee Wheeler

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Dan Ryan

September 6, 2024

I am so sorry to hear of Robert´s passing and I wish I had known him better. I trust he is now in a better place with our Lord and savior.

Ed Stillman

September 6, 2024

My sincere condolences to Jenni, their children and the many friends and loved ones that attended Thursdays celebration at Live Oak Ranch in Spring Branch, Texas. Thank you Rev. Brit Carpenter, family and friends for sharing how Robert impacted your lives. Robert was in his 4th year with Vistage Worldwide as a San Antonio Group Chair assisting SMB owners, CEOs and senior executives in becoming better leaders, making better decisions. As many of you know, Robert was the master questioner and had a special gift in enabling us to share some of our deepest feelings. By being vulnerable himself and at times going first, Robert enabled each of us to do the same. RIP

Peggy and Scott Oliphint

September 5, 2024

We haven't seen them in years but will always remember our friendship with this family. Jenni and the family will be in our prayers.

Dick Sanger

September 5, 2024

I was Robert's Vistage Group Launch Chair. What a Great Voice and Fine Presence. His group loved him. He listened and gave from the heart. We will have to go a very long way to find another Robert.

Jenny Marshall

September 4, 2024

I am so saddened to hear this. Robert was such a wonderful person, a guiding light and deeply caring soul. I have so many fond memories of him and the Schmidt family. His influence at Riverside Community Church was immense. My prayers are with Jenni and the entire Schmidt family during this most difficult journey.

Sterling M. "Kinny" Morris

September 4, 2024

So sorry to hear about Robert's passing. His family and mine great Texas friends in Amarillo..Like Bourdon mentioned, Robert is in the Kingdom, albeit too soon. May the Lord surround his family, friends and those lucky to have known him in His loving grace! Sterling "Kinny" Morris/Wharton, Tx

Travis Holland

September 4, 2024

So many good memories of the short amount of time I was blessed to know Robert. He treated everyone he met as a friend and genuinely cared for the people he met. There are many great things that could be said about him, they can all be summed up with this...when you were with Robert you wanted to be a better person. You will be missed but you left a big mark.

Susan Quidley

September 4, 2024

Robert was a friend and mentor to me while working together at StratMedical (GreenLight) - His encouragement as a board member over the years as we continued to work though our challenges meant more to me than he ever knew. Those of us that are still with GreenLight are grateful for his contribution as a board member!

My greatest admiration was he also showed the love of Jesus to each and every one he met. I will miss him greatly but know that I will see him again in Heaven! Praying for Peace and Comfort for Jenni and the family during this time!

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Mary Lou Herrick Ryan

September 3, 2024

From all the Herrick family- we send love and many prayers to you Jenni and family! We shared wonderful years of growing up together, growing in the Lord as teenagers and enjoying the treasure trove of many experiences in Amarillo. What a treasured friend Robert was!
Xoxo Mary Lou Herrick Ryan

Bourdon Barfield

September 3, 2024

Robert was a man of deep faith who loved Jesus, his family and his friends.
I will always treasure our friendship of over 50 years. Robert delegated to someone else in his company a meeting with his largest client who was coming to see him from a foreign country, and left SanAntonio to come be with me when our youngest daughter as in infant was in the hospital in ICU. I will never forget it, and that is a prime example of what friendships meant to him . The good news is that we all know where Robert is now.

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Kelloggs

September 1, 2024

We will forever remember Robert´s smile, laugh and warm hugs
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Angie White

September 1, 2024

So much love and prayers to you all. Robert was a kind loving human I pray you find comfort in your memories of a lovely man.
Angie - EBR xxx

Jim Simmons

September 1, 2024

It was wonderful to know Robert. We shared time talking about family and faith when we were at EBR and as we designed the second traveling classroom for more opportunities to grow children's literacy. Many prayers with you continually.

Robyn Tresnak

September 1, 2024

Connecting through EBR extended right away into chats about family joys and children's literacy. So many prayers with you Jenni, with the kids, grandkids and many more. I was blessed to know Robert. This morning he is praising in Heaven as we give thanks for him here.

John Knotts and Lori Seitz

September 1, 2024

Your extended facility at Executive Book Review will sincerely miss Robert. Our prayers to his family in this trying time.

John and Elise Maynard

September 1, 2024

Jenni and family-our prayers are with you deeply at this time. May God uphold each of you in His hands. Love, Elise and John Maynard

Catol Soucek King

August 31, 2024

How my family has admired and adored Charles Robert Schmidt! Romus and Anne Merrill Soucek, my brother CMDR Philip Merrill Soucek, my husband Richard King, and myself Carol Soucek King. Our lives have been immeasurably uplifted by knowing him and his wife Jenni and awesome children. Though they have all passed onward, I know they are aware of this happening in Robert´s eternal life and are sending him love and gratitude every moment now and always. - with Love and Faith, Carol Soucek King

Cliff Dugosh

August 31, 2024

What a blessing Robert was to so many! So blessed by his wisdom and friendship. So blessed to have been with him on 8/18 and to get a big hug and an "I love you." His quality time with folks made such an impact on so many guys. His friendship with Madison, Rick, and Tim is such a model for living life together!
Blessings, peace, comfort, and strength to Jenni, to the kids, and to all who loved him.

Frances Burger

August 31, 2024

My family and I send our thoughts and prayers for all of Charles Schmidt´s family. Beginning with the Sullenberger, Owen, Monning, Winsett and Schmidt families of Amarillo, Texas my family and I have been dear friends with these families for six generations.

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