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Ray Toney
August 16, 2025
Sad his life was cut short.Was just talking about him last week.
Rest easy Robbie,you are missed.Soar with the angels.Love
You,Uncle Ray.
Julia
August 24, 2024
Loved you then, Love you still
wish you were here
Ray Toney
August 17, 2022
Been a few years since you left,but your memory
Will never leave our hearts.Love you much
Uncle Ray
Rachel Lee
March 16, 2021
It's been too long since anyone wrote to you here, though I know we all think of you often. I wonder what you would think of the world today. Just missing you a lot, staring off into the sunset. I love you. -Rachel Lee
Jane Toney
August 21, 2016
Nine years today. It seems an eternity, but the hurt is just as real today as then. I miss you so.
August 21, 2016
nine years ago today and the hurt is just as real as then. I miss you so!
October 17, 2014
Missing you today, but why should this day be any different from all the others that find me missing you? This day would find you celebrating your birthday.....indeed a day to celebrate!
August 20, 2014
Seven years today. I keep thinking it will get easier. I love and miss you just as much every day.
October 17, 2013
Happy birthday, dear Robby!
August 20, 2013
I miss you today.....but no more than yesterday or the day before. I love you and you'll always live in my heart - just as we promised each other.
August 20, 2012
I thought we had said everything we needed to say. Every day I think of something I wish I had said, or would like to say to you. Time passes so fast.
Mary
June 4, 2012
Sometimes it hits me that I'll never hear your voice again and I can't breathe. I miss you.
October 19, 2011
32 years ago you walked in and told me I was going to have my child on your birthday. And I did. As always I thought of you on your birthday...and remembered...
Where is a heart that does not keep within it's utmost core..fond memories hidden deep of days that are no more.
Missing you...happy birthday..love ya
October 17, 2011
My hope is to live long enough to celebrate your life as much as I mourn your death....
October 17, 2010
I wait in vain for you to call...beside a phone that never rings...unless i go somewhere and call myself......then the room alone recieves the call...I've been missing your calls...no matter where you travel you always have a place in my heart. happy birthday... you always shine for me...
October 17, 2010
Your Birthday! What an exciting day that was!
October 14, 2010
I miss you so........
Rachel Toney
October 22, 2009
Daddy,
It's been awhile since I've written. I feel you watching over me. I'm trying to make good decisions and be a good person. The pain does not descend with time...in fact, quite the opposite. I wish you were here so badly...to see how we've all grown. I know you'd be proud. I'm doing my best to make something grand of myself in honor of you and Mommy. I love you more everyday.
Your little girl,
Rachel Lee
Greg Bradley
October 19, 2009
Will never forget your friendship. Not everyone gets to ride along with such a friend, in a Gulfstream 4, I feel fortunate to have done so. Many memories with you stand out, but none as impressive as that day. Your still in my thoughts and are thought of often. I love you all.................
Mary Jane Bucy
August 20, 2009
It's been 2 years. Seems like forever since I last saw you and just yesterday that you left.
Dewayne Lyle
May 28, 2009
Dear Holly,
I was deeply sadend to hear of Robbie passing. I am so sorry for your loss.I heard just this morning even so I strain to hold back the tears. You know that you married a good man and Im happy to have known him as that and a friend. To yours and Robbie's children, Mr and Mrs Toney, Wayne, Richard, Judy, Mary Jane, the MaCoy and Toney families and all grieving relatives my most heartfelt condolences. I havent seen him for years and now I miss him for sure.
Ray Toney
August 21, 2008
We never know what hour of the day we will leave this earth.Robbie, your time came too soon.You left a huge void in our hearts and as your mom said, it still hurts deeply.Soar with the angels,rest in peace,You were a joy to know and love. Ray
Jane Toney
August 19, 2008
It's been a year since you left us. I was told the pain would lessen. They were wrong. I miss you...Mom
rachel toney
May 6, 2008
daddy,
it's really tough tonight...
something in the air, i suppose...maybe it's these crazy changing times, 2008 has been such an interesting time thus far...i believe the good will out way the bad...at least, i hope.
i'm so stuck. i feel so much pressure, it weighs heavy on my chest. and i miss you so much. i want you to know that i pick up on your earthly signs. i am privy to the magic around me...and i know you help create it.
many moons have passed...it's going on one year...and i find more and more strength everyday...i always find a reason to keep going, to keep experiencing this world (while i still have a beating heart and legs that work). you taught me that my body is a temple, and as long as i want my soul to survive on this planet, i must take care of myself, my vessel...physically and mentally. thank you for teaching me.
this is very therapeutic...thanks for listening to me...it's 2:29 AM and i'm still cranking away at my portfolio. i think you'll like it.
i love you.
rachel lee. <3
Tony Bradley
October 10, 2007
I too was fortunate to have Robby as a friend. I think back to those wonderful carefree years growing up and all my best memories include Robby and Wayne, The many attempts to climb suicide hill without stopping, the scramble track, the journeys to the quarry, the hours spent at stoner field (when our parents thought we were in bed asleep), the trip to the falls (sorry about the ticket holly),the hunting trips, and the memories go on and on and will always be a reminder of what a great friend you are. My thoughts and prayers are with you Holly, and the rest of the Toney family.
Holly Toney
September 21, 2007
Robert Len, Robby, Rob
Determined, agreeable, devoted , intelligent
Father of Rachel, Robby and Steven
Lover of family, nature, doing the right thing
Who felt hope, grief, gratitude
Who needed achievement, affiliation, flight
Who gave support, kindness, love
Who feared giving up, being unable, leaving his loved ones
Who would like to let his kids know he IS proud of them
Who lives on in all of us
Toney
Jane Toney
September 20, 2007
Love. It's the only thing that really matters in the end.
Mama/Nana/Jane
Susan Berger
September 19, 2007
Dear Holly, Rachel, Robby, & Steven,
I missed Rob long before he left this earth. Like many others, I held out hope for another trip with him. He was truly a flight attendant's dream - a skilled pilot, a wonderful companion on 'the road', and always a gentleman.
Please know that so many others share in your sorrow. I will treasure my memories of him forever.
With deepest sympathy,
Sue B.
seth cheatham
August 31, 2007
Big Robby,
I am going to miss you. You where a great Uncle and friend to me. I will never forget all the times you and Holly came and stayed with us in Alabama or that time you took me flying around Huntsville in that little airplane. I am so sorry I could not be there for you. It's hard being so far away from family at a time like this. I will all ways remember you and never forget what a great man you where. I know you are at peace now and watching over us.
Janice Cheatham
August 29, 2007
August 29, 2007
Holly,Rachel,Robby & Steven,
I was so sorry to hear of Robby's passing. I have been keeping up with him thru Julia and praying every day. I didn't know you all except thru Julia, but because I love her so much I feel your pain and hers. I will continue to pray for all of you.
Donna Sauers (Clarke)
August 29, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I remember Robby from spending time at the house with Mary Jane. I am sure that he is in a special place in heaven.
Vicki Marshall Erwin
August 29, 2007
Holly,
I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I had to share this story with you.
Several years ago, I was sitting in the Atlanta airport at the Huntsville gate waiting for the flight. Finishing up my book, I heard someone call my name. I looked up and there was this familiar face (with salt & pepper hair) smiling at me. It was Robert. He told me that every time he went through Atlanta, he would come by the Huntsville gate to see if there was anyone there from home. Once a Southerner always a Southerner. My condolences to you and your family.
Mary Lazar Brooks
August 28, 2007
Dearest Holly, I am so sorry for your lost, I never met your kids, but am sure they are wonderful people. I have thought of you guys often, and what you must be going thru.. I am so sorry, it can only get better now, no more suffering, and u all will see robbie with fond memories in your everyday lives. Its the little things that are cherished the most..
Beverly Conrad-Porter
August 28, 2007
The Toney family was such a large part my childhood. I don't remember a time at the Toney house that Robby wasn't picking at Mary Jane and I. The pictures in the guest book from the 70's are how I remember him and always will. My condolensces to everyone and you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Betty Jackson
August 28, 2007
To The Toney Family : I never meet Robby, But thru Julia I feel as thought I had. From everything I did here what a wonderful man, husband, father, son , brother , brother-in-law and uncle he was. I know he was truly loved by his family.My thoughts are with your family and in my prayers.
Julia Clem
August 28, 2007
Rob,
In you I found a well of things,
like hope and strenth and grace.
You have made my life a brighter, happier place.
My memories hold many
moments
sometimes sweet and sad,
but mostly smiles and sometimes tears,
when dreams just can't be had.
So as I think of you today with joy and pride and pleasure -
I will hold you in my heart with all your memories I treasure.
see ya next time
Holly, Rachel, Robby, and Steven,
anytime anything 24/7. I love you all.
Greg Bradley
August 28, 2007
The Toney Family,
Robby, along with all of the Toney family, is a part of my best childhood memories. The years growing up on Cindy street could not be replaced for anything, except for maybe the obvious. Robby, was the kindest, most honest, gentle, family man I think I've ever known. I feel blessed to have grown up with Rob and honored that he always kept me as a friend. He accomplished so much in his short life and has so much to be proud of. His family was everthing, and know he'll be missed......forever. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.
Bruce McCoy
August 27, 2007
Robby, the childhood memories cannot be forgotten. Soar in the clouds as you loved to do. I will always be proud to call you my brother-in-law, and my friend.
Holly, be strong, Rob is at piece now. You call your brother for any need you might have. I love you.
Rachael, I think you know what a special man your Daddy IS. I look forward to seeing more of your art work. Somehow I believe your Dad will be an inspiration for you in creating masterpiece after masterpiece. I will always remember the words of the Pastor at the service that you created a celebration of life, not death. It was beautiful.
Robby, u thu man. Keep your fathers free spirit. I enjoyed listening to the music. Keep those finger tips hard and stay cool.
Steven, enjoy your High School days with your friends. Time will heal the pain you feel now. It was great to see you smile listening to funny stories about your Dad.
Janet Weidner
August 26, 2007
Dear Holly and Family,
I've never met you,but your beautiful daughter honored my husband and I by being in our wedding almost 2 years ago. I am so saddened of your husbands passing. I hope it comforts you to know what a wonderufl job you and your husband did raising your Rachel. I'm s ure your boys are just as wonderful. I will continue to pray for you all. My love to Rachel.
Robby & Holly 1982
August 26, 2007
Robby's Proud Parents
August 26, 2007
Mid 1970's
August 26, 2007
Hanging out at the Krebs House
August 26, 2007
Rob & Holly mid '70's
Tom Westlake
August 26, 2007
Robby is one of the first friends I had in Alabama; He’s old neighborhood. I met most of my dearest friends during the 1970’s and for 37 years, Rob has always been that! I’ll always remember Robby as a nice guy who’s funny, smart, alot of fun doing all the things we did growing up, good at the sports we played, the motorcycles he road & worked on, the air craft he worked on & flew, and pretty much anything he would do. Whether up at the Park, over at the Falls, somewhere in the neighborhood, or anywhere else, I can easily think of Rob as one of our friends who when he walked up to you it made you happy. I’m proud of Robby and very much to call him my friend!! Our deepest sympathies to all his family & friends.
Keith Wilson
August 26, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of Robby. I did not receive word of his passing until yesterday morning.
THE PETRO FAMILY
August 24, 2007
TONEY FAMILY
WHILE WE HAVE NEVER FORMALLY MET, MY DAUGHTERS HAVE ATTENDED SCHOOL WITH STEVEN FOR MANY YEARS. WE ARE ALL VERY SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
Bob Barnes
August 24, 2007
I am sorry for your loss! Rob was a friend and employee of MSI/Bionetics for many years. I first met Rob when he worked at Redstone Flying Club. He was a fine young man and will be missed by all. May God Bless all of you.
Dave and Nancy George
August 24, 2007
Dear Holly and Family..We are so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I was fortunate to have worked with Rob...such a gentle man and always a pleasure to be in his company. God bless you all.
Marshall England
August 24, 2007
Holly,Mr & Mrs Toney,Mary and Family:
I am very sorry to learn of your loss and wish to convey my most heartfelt condolences.
I'll keep all of you in my prayers during this difficult time.
Candi Barwinski
August 23, 2007
My Toney Boys,
I've thought of you and your family so often this summer. I see so much of your dad in you both and that's what you'll always have with you. Your dad is in your heart and part of your lifesong. God bless.
Norman & Dell Prather
August 23, 2007
Holly & Family,
Rob's mother told me if I hired her son I would never be sorry. She was right. Rob was the best choice I ever made for the flight department. You will be in our prayers.
Tami, Nana Kuts and Karats
August 23, 2007
Dear,Holly,Robby,jr,Stephen, and Rachael.The horrible loss you are feeling right now will never go away, the one consolation you all will always have is that your father and husband will be your gardian angel all the rest of your lives. He was a kind, gentle thoughtful man and we at Kuts and Karats feel honored that he came here just to meet us one day last spring. May God Bless and Keep All of You!
Linda Young
August 23, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Toney family in the loss of another beloved member of the clan.
Terri Fly
August 23, 2007
Holly and Family,
Jimmy and I are so sorry to hear about Robby. I have been following his illness through talking with Julia. We all had good times growing up and the memories will always be with us. Please take care and you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Jimmy and Terri Fly
John McCoy
August 23, 2007
Holly, Ratchel, Robbie, Stephen, Bob & Jane, We have lost one of our family and he will be sorely missed by all of us. Love to all.
Dad, Grandpa, John
Tami and Nana
August 23, 2007
Holly, Rachel, Robby, and Steven,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. You are an amazing family with lots of love. May God bless all of you and may Rob be at peace in the heavens.
Chris Toney
August 22, 2007
Marcella and I have kept you in our thoughts and prayers since we first heard of Rob's illness.
Please, take care of yourselves - just as you cared for Rob.
We understand how difficult it can be for family and wish you our deepest condolences and prayers for the best.
David & Nancy Mc Coy
August 22, 2007
Dear Holly & Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sadness. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Love, Uncle David and Nancy
Wally Oetjen
August 22, 2007
It was indeed my pleasure to have known and to have flown with Rob. An excellent pilot, and one of the most decent persons I have ever known.
Our sympathy to all of you.
Sincerely Sandy and Wally Oetjen
Patti Arceneaux
August 22, 2007
Even as kids we knew that Robbie would grow up to be a good man. And though life and distance kept us separated in the years past,it could never affect how much we loved him or how often we thought of him. As a family we were all blessed to have Robbie. And though we grieve that he's not here now, we have eternity to look forward to spend with him. Thank God.
Love you all,
Hazel Toney
August 22, 2007
Robbie,
You were a very special young man and I love you very much. We will all miss you. Love, Grandma Toney
Faye and George Foster
August 22, 2007
We will miss this beautiful, gentle young man. Please be comforted in knowing his suffering has ended. May you know the love, and peace that our Lord offers in times as these. What a blessing He was to all who came in contact with
him. Love you Robbie. Aunt Faye
Raymond Toney
August 22, 2007
Holly, Rachel, Robbie Jr., and Steven,
We are truly sorry for your loss. We can't begin to imagine how hard and painful this has been. You deserve peace and rest. We wish it for you.
Raymond and Rina
Linda Lively
August 22, 2007
Dear Holly, Rachel, Rachel, Robbie, Steven, Aunt Janie & Uncle Bobbie,
I know Robbie is in God's hands. It's the best place any of us can ever hope to be. My love, heart and prayers are with you all.
How fortunate we all are to have had Rob in our family and shared this world with him.
Kelly Pessel
August 22, 2007
Holly, Rachel, Robby and Steven,
May God watch over you and give you the comfort in knowing that Rob is no longer suffering. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kelly, AJ, & Kyle Pessel
Janet and Lyle Weidner
August 22, 2007
Rachel,
Lyle and I were so saddened to hear about your Dad.Please know that we are thinking of you and your family at this time.
Keith Lively
August 22, 2007
I remember Rob and I riding bikes, catching crabs, playing miniature golf, finding indian arrowheads and pottery, chasing down creeks and through the woods, throwing balls, wrestling in the yard, jumping on the bed. I remember an agreeable childhood friend who happened to be a first cousin. I see he went on to be a fine man, loving and much loved; no surprise there. We’ll catch up on the other side where Rob now no doubt radiates with the glow of that love. Rest in peace my blood.
Susie Toney Rodick
August 22, 2007
Holly & Kids, please know that my thoughts and prayers have been with you and Rob since the beginning of this ordeal. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Ricky McCoy
August 22, 2007
Dear Holly, Rachel, Robby, & Steven; We are all very sad to hear about Robby. We all remember when he flew into Provo Utah several years ago while working. He and his co-pilot spent some time with us and showed us his jet at the Provo Air port. The kids all thought it was very cool to be on the private jet with their uncle. He was so kind and friendly and we enjoyed the all too brief visit. We are all better people for knowing him for the short time we did. The kids spoke of it often for years later. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you.
Ricky, Sue, Art, James, Teresa, & David McCoy
David Young
August 22, 2007
Ourprayers are with family and friends. We will all miss this special gentle man that made everything brighter with his smile and quiet loving personality. There are things about him that each of us will be better people if we put them to practice in our lives. God Bless
Betty and David Young
Maria McDonnell
August 22, 2007
Holly, Rachel, Robby & Steven,
You are such a beautiful family. Rob's bright, gentle light is still with you.
All our love,
Maria, Tom, Ethan, Owen & Aidan
Rachel Toney
August 22, 2007
Daddy,
You are everywhere now. I see you in the stars and feel you in the wind. You are the best man I've ever known. I am so proud of you and everything you've done. I will follow you around the world...and I will miss your pretty face everyday.
Love,
Your little girl.
Jewell & Peggy Toney
August 22, 2007
Robby will always be remembered for his friendly smile and the warmth he had for others. He was a kind and gentle person and will be sorely missed by all he touched.
Barnett Family
August 22, 2007
Dear Holly and Family: We're so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. We will miss seeing him in the neighborhood. He was always smiling and had a friendly hello for everyone he encountered. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jim, Deb & Caitlin Barnett
Ray Toney
August 22, 2007
God bless you.You have been a joy to know and love.Soar with the angels, rest in peace.we love you Ray & Brenda
Roseanne Ranney
August 22, 2007
Rob was one of the kindest and gentlest people I've ever known, and so patient - he was never in a hurry. Rob was always such a pleasure to fly with and I'll miss hearing that Alabama twang!
Sherry Grim
August 22, 2007
Dear Holly,Rachel,Robby,&Steven,
We were so sorry to hear about Rob. We'll always remember him as a kind, gentle man who always had a smile on his face. It was so obvious how much he loved all of you.
All our love,
Mark, Sherry, Jordan, Ty & Ky
Kate Jackette
August 22, 2007
I would like to express my condolences to all of Rob's family. He was a gaurdian angel many times for me-quietly watching over me and helping in those subtle ways that only a dear friend would. He will continue doing so as his spirit is an inspiration for how we can care for others. You always knew that you had a good trip if Rob was on it. I'm blessed that he touched my life; he will be missed and remembered. I am sorry I will not be able to attend the service. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jane Toney
August 22, 2007
You've been one of the greatest joys of our lives. We'll miss you. Mom and Dad
Kathryn Callowhill
August 22, 2007
Rachel and Familly,
I am SO sorry for you loss, may god be with you in this hard time. Rachel, we all love you hun.
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