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for Christopher Pompa
Olivia Hoyt (Powell)
November 30, 2009
Chris and I were buddies in junior high at Washington Middle School. We had such a great time together in band. I could always count on Chris to make me laugh. We both attended RBV high together but like so many, drifted our separate ways. Sadly, as a current 911 dispatcher for the Northern San Diego County, I was not only working the night the terrible accident occured but also handled the call. It was only days later that I discovered that accident involved Chris. My heart goes out to the family during the difficult time. Chris, you will be missed.
Jason Weisker
November 30, 2009
Chris was the best Surfer I have ever had the pleasure of meeting, knowing and becoming friends with during the Motion of the Ocean Surf Shop days. I still remember him pulling up in his Toyota Tacoma at the 1021 beach house like it was yesterday and asking if any of us were going out to surf. He will be truly missed, My thoughts and prayers go out to his Family.
Lydia Garza
November 27, 2009
Dear Tish and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know if you still remember me I used to be one of you students even before Chris was born. God Bless all your family. Lydia Garza
Ashley Ingersoll
November 24, 2009
I'll always remember all of the laughter and joy that Chris brought whenever he was around. He made my bestie Natalie happy which in turn made me happy. Everytime our bdays roll around on March 21st I'll make sure to celebrate for the both of us. Chris' spirit is still very much alive and he will be missed by many. My heart goes out to the Pompa family, as well as to Natalie & Lola! Love ya girl
November 24, 2009
Dear Tish and family,
We are so very sad for you. We carry all of you in our hearts.
Rancho Carlsbad Aerobics Class
November 24, 2009
Tish, Feeling your pain...
Bette Chrisitan, Alice Flores, Mary Gabriel, Connie Gentili, Maria Grant, Leasel Herrin, Penny Huber, Sally Leavitt, Courtnae Magee, Sandy Meador, Ellen Provost, Marie Roberts and Lorna Wilson
Your Monday/Wednesday Balance Mobility Class
Suzanne Coughran
November 24, 2009
My heart has been heavy all week for you,as this has been the most diffcult task we have to do as a parent. My prayer for you and familiy is for comfort and peace that can only come from your Heavenly Father,rest in His Strength..Suzanne Coughran (artho swim class)
Rod/Erika Johnston
November 23, 2009
Dear Steve,Tish,Natalie and Goody,
It is so difficult to find the right words to express our sorrow for your loss of Chris. Such an exceptional human being and from such an exceptional family. Rod (coach Rod), spoke often about Chris back in the days when he was Chris's coach. Chris was definitely one of the kids that really made Rods job fun and rewarding. Chris always had a smile and great attitude! Chris came from one heck of a great family and our hearts and our thoughts & prayers are with all of the Pompa family. We keep sitting here in disbelief. We will cherish our memories of Chris and smile whenever we think of him. We will never forget the wonderful, funny, charming, handsome and kind person he was and we are grateful to have known him and your family!! All our love,
The Johnston gang....
Rod, Erika,Karli, Ryan, Kellie, Kami,Kendra, Shane, Chad and baby Nathan
Natalie Frazier
November 22, 2009
I Love you Chris and u will always be my soul mate. I miss you and I know that you would want me and Lola to be happy. I love you my little fishy!
Ashley Macawile
November 22, 2009
To the Pompa family,
Your son was an inspiration to us all. He made us all better by just knowing him. When in his presence all you could do is smile. I show his picture to my family and friends and they look at him, not even knowing him and see he was beautiful. I talk about how he was a great friend, brother, son, and boyfriend. He never stopped living for a second. He touched so many people’s lives that it just shows credit to what great parents he has. Chris and your family will forever be in my heart and prayers.
Ashley Macawile
Carl Ladda
November 21, 2009
Tish, Natalie and Family. We are sadden and devastated by your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Love Carl and Gale Ladda
November 21, 2009
CHRIS you will always be the one! Your Friend Cliff D.
Cliff Downing
November 21, 2009
CHRIS you will always be the one!
November 20, 2009
Dear Tish & Family, We are very saddened by the loss of your son. When I saw the obituary, I told my husband could that be Tish's son? We are sharing your sadness & loss,
Lovingly, Linda & Jim Kent
SCOTT MC TAGGART
November 20, 2009
CHRIS WE WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS.
SCOTT MC TAGGART
November 20, 2009
CHRIS I WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS.
Sam Oliver
November 20, 2009
To Tish and family,
we at the YMCA Oceanside water aerobics Class were so sorry to hear of your loss.
It sounds like he was a wonderful son and brother.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sam and Shirley Oliver
and your water aerobics class
November 20, 2009
Tish - I am so very sorry for your loss. Elaina Blankinship
Arlene Fogel
November 20, 2009
Dear Tish, My deepest condolences go to you and the entire Pompa/ Toraason family at this time of great sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
jimmy cauley
November 20, 2009
to my fallen friend soo many good times i spent with you, haveing fun shouting movie lines till we had nothing left... chris you were a great person and i will never forget the times we shared may the road rise to meet your feet and the wind be always be at your back brother rest in peace chris......
Sandra Wolfe
November 20, 2009
I know you only through my pilates class and when I saw the name I was so heartbroken for you. Many people, even not knowing your son, are sharing your sadness and loss. Sandra Wolfe
November 20, 2009
To Our Dear Friends Tish, Steve and family. We are so sorry and want you to know our prayers are with your family at this time. We send you love to surround yourself with.
Gary and Zell Dwelley
November 20, 2009
Dear Tish and family, words are inadequate to express my shock, sadness and sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you cope with this terrible tragic loss. May your precious Christoper skate and surf in peace above us... love, Naomi (water student and former Olive teacher)
Doug Tran
November 19, 2009
Sleep with the angels my fallen brother, i will see you in time .
Gale Gibbons
November 19, 2009
Dear Tish, Steve, Natalie, and Goodwin,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Blessings to you,
Gale Gibbons
November 19, 2009
Our prayers and sympathy goes out to the Pompa Family. Chris was such a nice guy with a smile that lit up an entire room. He always made you feel special. May God bring you peace during this difficult time. The Vanderveen Family
autumn goebel
November 19, 2009
chrs was a free spirit an love to have fun with friends. didnt know him that well but have have had drinks with him at the beach club my heart goes out to his close guy friends family and is girl friend my prayers are with you
Lynda Lee
November 19, 2009
Dear Tish and Family,
I cannot begin to imagine your pain nor tell you how sad I am for your loss. I know that you are surrounded by family and friends who love and support you. May that sustain you in the days to come. You are in my thoughts. With deepest sympathy,
Mike Stidham
November 19, 2009
Chris was a stylish person in and out of the water.A true spirit that will not go forgoten. Aloha Chris!
Mike
Bonnie MacGregor
November 19, 2009
Christopher was a brilliant light in my life. I will truly miss him. My deepest sympathies go out to the Pompa Family. You will be in my prayers.
All my love,
Bonnie
Chris in heaven
November 19, 2009
I remember Chris spending the night at my Cherry Street apartment in Carlsbad with Jackson and my daughter Solana when they were all in high school. We laughed so hard tellilng jokes, one in particular singing out impressions of Fabio's "It's got to be butter" commercials ("butter me...I'm only 17"). That night, he was really excited to sleep so close to the beach to surf the next morning just feet away. I so greatly regret losing yet another young man (the other being Troy B. at 20) who was in my son's life with so much living ahead of him. My heart goes out to his parents and family. I know what it means to raise kids through those scary tough times as well as the good. We as parents just want them to grow up and live a successful long life. Chris,. please keep an eye on Jackson for me.
November 19, 2009
Christopher was a outstanding young man and I am truly sorry for your loss. I had the privilge of coaching Chris in soccer in 2002 for the Vista Storm. My prayers will be to your family to bring you peace at this time. I will always remember that smile he always had and the love of life that he shared with us all.
Coach Jeff
Dolores Rincon
November 19, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Carolyn Krammer
November 19, 2009
My heartfelt condolences go out to the Pompa Family. I will miss Chris's smiling face at the beach and especially at Surf for the Sea. It was always a pleasure to see Chris and Natalie surfing for their high school on the surf team at RBV. You will be missed by all of us. May you be surfing that eternal perfect wave. Carolyn Krammer
Laguna Vista
November 19, 2009
You and your family are in our prayers at this time of great sorrow. God bless you all. The Laguna Vista water aerobics group. - Mary, Moe, Kurt, Karen, Della, Barbara, Pearl, Annabelle and Jane
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