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GAUNTT, JAMES TEDROW Nov. 8, 1983 to August 9, 2008 James Tedrow Gaunt, 24. F. Scott Fitzgerald once wrote, "For awhile after you read John Keats all other poetry seems to be only whistling or humming." The same can be said for a person having the privilege of being in the presence of James "Jimmy" Tedrow Gauntt. No one else was as bright, as talented, as kind, as genuine, or as loving. Jimmy was music, the rest of us mere explanation of its sound. But rarer still, and perhaps even more remarkable, was what Jimmy achieved in his 24 short years here on earth. Jimmy grew up in Solana Beach and graduated Torrey Pines High School in 2002 with a 4.65 GPA. He was senior class president, played four years of football, three years of track & field, and was voted by his peers to be both Homecoming Prince and recipient of the "Nicest Guy" award. He was an AP scholar, a Boys State finalist, National Honors Society member, recipient of the Dartmouth Book Award, the Golden Falcon Award, and the prestigious Trustee Scholarship to the University of Southern California. Jimmy graduated Phi Beta Kappa from USC in 2006, spending a summer studying in Madrid and his senior year in London at Queens College. He was a member of the SAE Fraternity. While fluent in Spanish, his minor at USC, Jimmy majored in English Literature. He was a prolific reader. Inspired by Shakespeare, D.H. Lawrence and James Joyce, among countless others, Jimmy's ineffable talent as a writer was only outmatched by his intense desire to create. Upon the very day of his tragic death where he was accidentally struck by a motorist while a pedestrian, Jimmy had just completed his fourth screenplay titled, "Now's the Time." As well as screenplays, Jimmy had a passion for the theatre, both as an actor and in penning three plays, two of which were produced and staged. For the play he wrote, that was performed by members of the USC theatre department, Jimmy saw fit that a tenor saxophone play in the orchestra to represent the unconscious of its central character, as Jimmy had more than eight years of saxophone training and experience himself. Despite all of his ability and genius, despite all of his accomplishments and kindness, Jimmy remained an angel because of his laughter, able to fly simply because he took himself so lightly. Jimmy was hilarious. But he listened. He listened with his whole heart. Every friend, acquaintance and family member understood no greater truth than this: Jimmy cared so much, so sincerely. Forever beaming with the greatest smile, forever full of joy, forever ready to help others find and hold fast to happiness, forever young. Jimmy Gauntt was an artist. He will be missed by those who love him in ways forever unsayable. He is survived by his parents Casey and Hilary Gauntt, his sister Brittany Gauntt Kirby and brother-in-law Ryan Kirby, his grandmother Barbara Case Gauntt, grandparents James and Virginia Tedrow, aunts Laura Gauntt Butie, Ainsley Nies and Leslie Tedrow, and his uncle Grover Gauntt III and their families. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations may be made to Torrey Pines High School's TPHS Foundation in Memory of James Tedrow Gauntt at P.O. Box 2489 Del Mar, CA 92014-1789. The purpose of which is to establish the "James Tedrow Gauntt Scholarship Fund." A Memorial Service and Celebration of Jimmy's enriched life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, August 15th, at the Mandeville Auditorium on the campus of UCSD, La Jolla, CA. (http://mandeville.ucsd.edu; http://maps.ucsd.edu)

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Aug. 13, 2008.

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Kyle Sanchez (Foster)

September 2, 2008

Gauntt family,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss, and your whole family is in my prayers.

September 1, 2008

We were deeply saddened today to hear of your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

August 29, 2008

To The Gauntt Family--I was so fortunate to have had Jimmy in my physical education class at Earl Warren Junior High School. He was always a most enthusiastic student and a pleasure to be around. I was so deeply saddened to hear of his passing. Sincerely, Elizabeth Ballinger

Janet Thomas

August 27, 2008

Dear Casey, Hilary and Family,

Love is eternal. Allow time to heal you and your memories to keep you warm until you are united with Jimmy again. He is safe and happy, and loves you so deeply. My prayers are with you always.

Imelda and Angelica Cruz/Von Seyfried

August 27, 2008

To Jimmy's family, We are all so saddened for the lost your son. We are very fortunate to know Jimmy when he rented our guest house. I should say that he is an extra ordinary tenant. He's very kind and always find time to talk to us. We will always remember you Jimmy as the "great tenant" Thank you for the wonderful memories!

Marcelo Garzo

August 25, 2008

Jimmers,
You were a man with love, peace and poetry. I'll never forget the rockafunkaliciousjazzability of you, Adam, Dave and I's Euphony. Peace my friend.

Walker Young

August 25, 2008

My deepest condolences to the Gauntt family. Jimmy was the embodiment of living life to the fullest, and he lives on in the memories of all those who crossed his path.

Coach Ranoa

August 20, 2008

Great kid, Great young man, Great human, I loved coaching him.

Kyle Cech

August 20, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the Gauntt family. Jimmy was special in so many ways. He will live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Veronica Delgado

August 19, 2008

Gauntt Family,

I was very saddened by the news of the untimely passing of Jimmy. I offer my deepest condolences; no parents should ever have to experience such a loss, but for some reason God decided it was time for one of his children to come home. You are in my prayers, that God grant you the strength in this time of need.

Lovingly,
Veronica Delgado

Ashley Bickford

August 18, 2008

To Jimmy’s friends and family,

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Jimmy Gauntt was such an amazing person and he will continue to inspire all those who were blessed enough to know him. His kindness was blatant and genuine, constantly shining through that unforgettable smile of his. In his short 24 years, he left a more prominent mark on this world than most will in a lifetime. The world will miss you Jimmy.

Ashley

Marcia (Vanek) Lewis

August 17, 2008

Dear Casey, Hilary & Brittany,
It's been over 20 years since I was your babysitter on Glencrest and I remember the kids like it was yesterday. I still have pictures of Jimmy in my back yard when he was in diapers. I came across his name and am so, so saddened by this news. I have never forgotten your family. I always loved being around all of you. I am truly sad that I never got to see Jimmy again as an adult. He obviously touched many lives. My prayers are with you and I wish I could hug each of you right now. Love, Marcia (Vanek) Lewis

Doug Gilbert

August 15, 2008

As a teacher at TPHS I worked with Jimmy on senior class council. His true gift was to make you feel like the most important person in the world. The service and fine words by the speakers today showed how many people care so deeply for him.

Andie Case Wilcox

August 15, 2008

Dear Gauntt Family:

I just received the very sad news of Jimmy passing. Having lost my son Andrew at age 23, I know exactly what you are going through. To this day, I can't believe my dear sweet boy is gone.Hard to believe, but the pain does lessen - you never think that you are going to survive - but you do. I remember Jimmy having such a angelic and endearing face & personality - words can not express how I feel - tears flow as I write. Please know that I am here for you - do not hesitate to contact me. Unfortunately - we have experienced the same loss.
With Symapathy Only Parents Can Know.... Andie

Vicki Bennett

August 15, 2008

Dear Gauntt Family
We were so saddened to hear of Jimmy's death and hope that you can take comfort in knowing that the life of your beautiful son is carried in the memories of so many people that he touched. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,
Vicki Bennett and family

Nick Putnam

August 15, 2008

From the moment I first met Jimmy, when he was only a little boy, I knew he was wonderful gift to this world. It was like, "Heaven must be missing an Angel!" He will remain in my memory this way for the rest of my days. My thoughts are with you.

Steve Yi

August 15, 2008

Dear Gauntt Family,

Amongst my friends and peers, Jimmy Gauntt shined above as the ideal example of integrity and human compassion. He taught me what a true man of character was. Though we always like to honor the dearly departed, no amount of words can match the way Jimmy honored us. I will forever cherish each moment I shared with him.

Liz & Geoff Boyes

August 14, 2008

Dear Hilary,Casey, Brittany & Ryan. We send our deepest condolences on the passing of your son Jimmy, and shall keep him in our prayers.

August 14, 2008

"Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart. -E. Roosevelt
Jimmy left a beautiful footprint on the world, for us to follow.
With Love,
The Phelan Family

Robbi Campbell

August 14, 2008

Dearest Casey, Hilary and Brittany,
I cannot express the deep sorrow I feel in the loss of our wonderful Jimmy. I have always felt that he was part of our family since Evan and Jimmy spent so much time together. We loved having him with us always. You are deep in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Jimmy will be forever in my heart.
With love

Sue and Don Instone & Family Instone

August 14, 2008

Dear Gauntt Family,

We are deeply saddened to learn of Jimmy's death. We remember him as a good friend of Adam's with a shared love of music on the drums and sax. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Trish Lester

August 14, 2008

Casey and Hilary,

We had the pleasure of meeting your son on a couple of family occasions ... with Diana and Steve (my brother). What a joy Jimmy was, and how tragic is his loss. We're in shock. There are no words in the dictionary that can provide comfort at a time like this. The world has lost -- and heaven gained -- a great gift.

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy.
-- Trish, Larry, Megan and Ryan

Tami (zane)Jones

August 14, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Ron Gravette

August 14, 2008

Hillary, Casey and Family,
We are so saddened to hear the news of losing Jimmy. We remember him as a young boy so full of life. He lived such a wonderful loved life. He will be deeply missed, the world has lost a gem, but he lives on in our hearts. Carrie remembers him in Switzerland; Bill followed his football career and we watched your family grow to such important and valued community members. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time! Please let us know if we can do anything! Love, Ron, Janet, Bill and Carrie Gravette and Families

Kandi Lee

August 14, 2008

The Gauntt Family,
With deepest sympathy. Jimmy was a true gentleman and an exceptional human being. I remember him volunteering at the Greater San Diego Inner-City Games (After School All Stars). God Bless him and his family.

Tanis Leuthold

August 14, 2008

My deepest condolences for the family and friends of Jimmy. He taught us that joy, passion and kindness know no bounds. Jimmy's effortless compassion touched the lives of everyone that knew him and he will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who was blessed to know Jimmy Gauntt.

Guen Butler

August 14, 2008

Jimmy was one of those kids that a teacher will always remember. I had him in Spanish class...5 or 6 years ago...seems like yesterday. I loved his positive outlook, his passion, his curiosity. I sit at my desk in Rwanda now, far from TPHS, but immediately taken back there by this unbelievably sad news. My heart aches for his family and friends. What an amazing person Jimmy was. The world was a better place while he was in it, and his impact will be felt for so many years to come. Jimmy is a shining star in so many people's memories. We were all so lucky to have known him.

Evan Campbell

August 14, 2008

Jimbo, I love you with all my heart. You mad me who I am today and will continue to be my inspiration.

Aiden Mannion

August 13, 2008

I am very sad to hear about the loss of Jimmy. He was a great guy. He lived behind my girlfriends house and it was an absolute honor and pleasure getting to know him. We had some great chats buddy. From your irish friend. Aiden

The Noonan Family

August 13, 2008

Dear Casey and Hilary,
No words can express our sorrow and disbelief in the tragic loss of Jimmy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and with Jimmy as he enters a new life.
He was, and is an Angel.

Don and Carolyn Jorgensen

August 13, 2008

How saddened we are at this tragic event in your lives. Jimmy is a brilliant star that continues to shine. Our heartfelt condolences and prayers for your comfort and strength join those of many others.
Love,

Jack and Sue Ann Singer

August 13, 2008

Casey and Hilary - We are with you in spirit, and we share your grief. Your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Brooke Ferandell

August 13, 2008

Brittany & The Gauntt Family,

I can remember when Brittany and I were good friends in elementary school and junior high, growing up with many memories of Jimmy as a little boy, playing in the large tree in the front yard or singing and dancing in the living room. He was such an amazing young boy and grew up to be an amazing young man. The world wont be the same!!! My heart is saddened and I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know no matter what, if there is anything myself or family can do. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love

Adrianna Bonilla

August 13, 2008

I am deeply saddened that we have lost such a fantastic and creative man. Jimmy had an honesty unlike any other I've known. I will miss him dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with the Gauntt family.

Mike Gonzalez Jr

August 13, 2008

Dear Hillary and Casey,

There are no words to express my shock and grief upon learning of your son's passing.

Having lost my own beautiful daughter, Sara, many years ago I can only say that time is, indeed, a great healer. The memories will never fade. Jimmy will always be in your hearts and in your lives. Nothing can ever change that. Love and caring are eternal.

You are incredible parents who nurtured and raised an amazing young man.

I know that Sara is up there, even now, welcoming Jimmy to his new home.

All my love, thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brenda Ray

August 13, 2008

Casey and Hillary, I was deeply saddened to learn of your son's passing.

Deborah Dash

August 13, 2008

You were only a toddler when I worked with your dad, but I still remember a picture he had of you in his office. It was so obvious that you had so much of him in you -- you had the same stance, you tilted your head the same way. What a shame that your promising life was cut so tragically short. Rest in peace, Jimmy.

Jill Randall

August 13, 2008

My deepest condolences go out to Jimmy's family and friends. I met him once and knew right away what a talented, kind, special, and unique person he was. His presence, creativity, and spirit will live on.

Kira Rubel

August 13, 2008

Dear Brittany, Ryan and the Gauntt family,
I am so very sad to hear of your loss. My most sincere prayers and thoughts are with you now and will continue to be with you. Please let me know if I can be of any help, no matter how small.

Allison Campbell

August 13, 2008

Words can't express the heaviness I have in my heart. This world lost the most incredible young man - a loyal friend, talented artist, and loving son and brother. Jimmy accomplished more in his 24 years than most of us will accomplish in a lifetime. I have known Jimmy since he was in kindergarten and enjoyed watching him grow up. I loved Jimmy like my second little brother and will forever miss his bright smile and kind eyes.

Jimmy, my family and I thank you for the love, joy, and laughter you brought into our lives. We love you and miss you! You will be forever in our hearts.

John Baumgartner

August 13, 2008

My heart and prayers go out to you. What an amazing life James led and such an example is his legacy. James was and always will be a True Gentleman, indeed.

Tedi, Herb, Phil and Erik Kostka

August 13, 2008

We remember Jimmy fondly. We are so sorry for your loss.

Barbara Ryan

August 13, 2008

Brittany,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your brother sounds like an exceptional person. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. In the meantime you and your family are in my thoughts.

Stephanie Dixon

August 13, 2008

Dear Gauntt Family,
We are all thinking of you and feeling such a heavy heart from this painful news. I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss.
With love,

Megan McDannold Padilla

August 13, 2008

Jimmy touched so many hearts and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with the family.

John Agle

August 13, 2008

Jimmy's beautifully written obituary refers to things unsayable. All your friends, family and associates share in your grief in ways that are unsayable. May you be granted the strength and wisdom to sustain in this difficult time.

Joel & Betty Zane

August 13, 2008

Sending our love and prayers in your time of sorrow.

Marci Hill

August 13, 2008

I want to send my thoughts and prayers to your family. I went to school with Jimmy starting in elementary school and to this day his smile is unforgettable.

Tom Struble

August 13, 2008

Hillary, it's been a long time since Bank of America. I was very saddened to read this; there is nothing worse

Anna Garcia

August 13, 2008

My heart was deeply sadden when I heard about the loss of your beautiful, wonderful son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Board Member After-School All-Stars and Friend

Kay Dillon

August 13, 2008

Our deepest condolensces for your loss; you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Nolen

August 13, 2008

You've left a lasting memory with each and every one of us, Jimmy.

Godspeed!

John McCauley

August 13, 2008

My sincere heartfelt condolences on your loss. Mere words are not enough.

Lucienne McCauley

August 13, 2008

My heart broke when I read about the loss of your precious and talented son. I am so very sorry.

Todd Anson

August 13, 2008

Our heartfelt condolences to the entire Gauntt family and to all of James' friends. Our prayers are with you.

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