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Joseph Ramirez Cruz

Joseph Cruz Obituary

CRUZ, JOSEPH RAMIREZ
Joseph Ramirez Cruz, 44, of Hemet, entered Heaven on Christmas Day after a sudden heart attack. Joe was the loving husband of Michelle and the devoted father of Benjamin and Sidney. He was the prized son of Raymond and Pacita Cruz and beloved brother to Maria Roser (Mark), Lorna Fadden (Paul), Raymond Cruz Jr., Vincent Cruz, David Cruz and Patricia Cruz. Joe was the adored uncle of Mark Untalan, Adrian Macias, Jackie Ayo, Brianna Davenport, Braden Cruz, and Kevin Orth, great- uncle to Leo Macias, son-in-law of Axel and Karen Christiansen and brother-in-law of Jeff Christiansen (Mary). He was preceded in death by his father Raymond Cruz, Sr. and nephew Anthony Macias. A proud native San Diegan, Joe was born at Balboa Naval Hospital on September 13, 1963, and grew up in Chula Vista, the middle child of seven. He graduated from Bonita High School and Mesa College. His trade was as a physical therapist's assistant which he practiced with professionalism and compassion, but Joe's first love was cooking. He graduated from California Culinary Academy in San Francisco in 1998 and thereafter set a new and never to be surpassed standard for family barbeques. Joe was an avid sports participant and fervent Chargers and Padres fan. Joe was a gifted musician who brought joy to many an occasion with his ability to elicit pleasing tones from any acoustic guitar. He moved many others to begin to play and was passionate in praise and worship. Joe's life and faith were inspirational as a servant to Jesus and as a brother in Christ. In San Diego he served as a Fellowship Leader at Horizon Christian Fellowship and later as a worship leader and messenger of the Gospel, and attended College Avenue Baptist Church. After moving to Hemet in 2004, Joe and his family worshipped at Community Christian Church and later attended Calvary Chapel in San Jacinto. He facilitated and supported the salvation of many and also had the honor of officiating over the wedding ceremonies of his nephew, Adrian, and wife Raquel, and of his niece, Jaclyn, and husband Jared. Joe will be remembered most for his encouraging words, his easy conversation, his sense of humor and his way of turning strangers into friends. He is truly loved and will be greatly missed. Through his life of Christian love and spiritual leadership, he quietly made this a better world one person at a time. A Memorial Service will be held on January 5th at 10 a.m. at College Avenue Baptist Church located at 4747 College Ave., SD, CA 92115. A celebration of Joe's life will immediately follow. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Joe Cruz Memorial Fund, Wells Fargo Bank, Attn: Darren Edwards, 1403 Simi Town Center Way, Simi Valley, CA 93065.Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Jan. 1, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Cruz

78 Entries

Nancy and Robert Reyes

December 26, 2023

You will never be forgotten, your memory is a blessing... till we meet again dear friend!

rayne and Caroline mayo

January 31, 2008

Chelu...
Brother Joe you are really my uncle and my dads first cousin, However, since mom (auntie Pacing and dad are so close in age all of us called each other cousins.In any event, I was hoping to attend your ccoking class Raynard and Nette told me so much about it. All I head was, the Pizzas were the pizzas were the BOMB! I'm going to wait until I get to Heaven. I know the Lord, has you preparing a banquet and feast with all the saints, angels and the choirs of Heaven singing, Holy..Holy Holy is the Lord.

Sister Michele and Family (Ben and Sydney) I know you guys are in good hands with all the family and friends God has around. I know by faith Bradda Joe has left his inheritance and his legacy not only to his biological children but also to his childrens childrens(spiritual). I have read the countless entries in this memorial, and the lives he touched by walking in submission to Gods will.
Stay connected to the VINE and continue to build your house on the Rock. Don't ever lose hope, let Christ be the chief cornerstone in all that you do.

Love Rayne and Caroline Mayo

Paul Fadden

January 30, 2008

Michelle, Ben and Sidney,
Though Joe is gone, his spirit will be with us forever. He'll be there when cooking at the grill, when someone plays a guitar, when a impersonation is done and when the word is shared. He will send us signs to make us laugh and let us know he's watching over us. Joe was a very good man and that is why I know he will be watching over us. God Bless you Brother Joe. You're a "classic"

Anthony Fujikawa

January 30, 2008

Hafa Adai Cuz Joe,

I will always cherish the Great memories we shared together.

Love You Bro
Si Primon Anthony

Nancy Rubio Reyes

January 30, 2008

A friend loves at all times,even when the sun does not seem to shine.
In quietness and strength you walked besides, a discouraged heart, an anguished mind. With gentle words and the warmest smile, you helped restore my faith to the faith of a child. I thank God that in this life you were my friend and that in the one to come you will remain the same.

Lorna Fadden

January 29, 2008

Dear Michelle,

Your beautiful note to Joe fills my eyes with tears and my heart with so much inspiration. Both you and Joe are true role models to us all -- so dedicated to the Lord, to each other and as parents to Ben and Sid.

Joe was a wonderful person and became more so when you came into his life. He waited patiently on the Lord to bless him with a special woman and you came along :)

We miss Joe terribly, but as I shared with you, all we need to do is look into the eyes of Ben and Sid, and Joe is here with us. What a comfort that is!

God promised us - "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." He is with you each and every moment!

Love,

Lorna

Michelle Cruz

January 28, 2008

My True Love
I have sat and cried and smiled at all the wonderful notes friends and family have written about you. You were loved by many and you have touched so many peoples lives, You were a true man of God and a real friend, loving husband and father, I want you to know Ben and Sidney look up to you and honor you, they know what you stood for and are proud to be your children, I love you honey, Thank you for the best 14 years of my life, I know you are celebrating with God now and you fill my heart and mind everyday, I miss you more than words can say, but know we will be together again, until then...I LOVE YOU!
your wife Michelle

Stephen McCauley

January 18, 2008

My sincerest condolences to the Cruz family.

I went to high school with Joe and was saddened to hear of his passing.

Mark Untalan

January 12, 2008

Uncle Joe,

I didn't get a chance to express my feelings at the memorial service but I wanted to take this time to let you know how much of an inspiration you have became to me. Even though we hardly got to see each other as much you were truly a very special uncle. I admired your calmness and your ways of communicating with people. I am really sad and shocked that your not here on this earth anymore but I do know that you are up there with Tata and Anthony enjoying the eternal weather. :-) I love you and you will definitely be missed Uncle Joe. I will make an effort this 2008 to go visit Ben,Sydney, and Auntie Michelle.

-your nephewMark

Peter & Donna Cruz

January 11, 2008

Michelle, Benjamin and Sydney and the families of Joe cruz and in-laws, Peter and I have known Joe since 1988 and immediately the common bond was there. Because God loves us and has a plan for our lives, we have always kept in touch through the years and we were very much accountable for each other - like brothers and sisters in Christ. Joe is where we will be one day and until then you all are family to us. Please keep in touch and know that we love you always. Love Peter, Donna, Micah, Justin and Kaialani Cruz

Fran, JR, Malia & Kiani Lacangan

January 10, 2008

Dearest Michelle, Ben, Sidney and the rest of the Cruz family:

We have truly lost a dear friend and brother in Christ. We met Joe at Home Fellowship (of course) back in 1988! What we remember most of Joe was his love of music, playing the guitar and worshiping the Lord through his wonderful gift. I remember taught Joe how to play Hawaiian slack key guitar and within a few months, he was composing his own songs in slack key and far surpassed my skills! Just amazing! His warmth, his genuine heart, his caring and compassionate spirit indeed touched many lives . . . especially ours. And we will always remember when he dedicated our first child, Malia, to the Lord at Horizon, back in 1991. We have many cherished memories and look forward to jamming some Hawaiian tunes again with him up in heaven!

Michelle - I know we've only met on your wedding day and my only regret is that we didn't stay in touch with you folks over the years. I know mere words could never replace the emptiness that you feel in your heart, but I pray that the knowledge of knowing that Joe is sitting face-to-face with our Abba Daddy will bring you peace.

Aloha oe' my brother Joe . . . A HUI HO!!

Me ke aloha ke Akua,

Julie and Tony Andrews

January 8, 2008

Michelle, Ben and Sydney,
It is hard to find the right words to express our sadness for you. Our God is a good god and we trust he will take care of you all and bring you healing and comfort. Many people's lives are better because they have known Joe. He will never be forgotten.

Marlo

January 8, 2008

To Michelle & kids and the Cruz family,
I have known Joe since 1989. One of my most memorable years during the time we both lead worship for about three years at homefellowships mainly in Spring Valley area and Tierra Santa. What a great fellowship that was then. He is a man strong in the faith and loves to worship the Lord. I enjoyed playing the guitar with him and singing songs with joyful noise to the Lord.

I was shocked when I heard the news that he went to be with the Lord. I thought of all the people he has touched their lives and the things he shared with a smile bigger than his face. Everyone will missed his barbecue and his sense of humor. Although I did not see much of Joe after he got married but I know his care for others and his friendship is something that will always be remembered.

Our prayers will always be with you and the Cruz family. May the love of God comfort you and your family. May His peace give you strength and encouragement from this day forward.

Psalm 31:24 – Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart, All you who hope in the Lord.

Our deepest sympathy,
The Castillo’s – Marlo, Debbie, Marie, & Nicolas

Jaclyn Ayo

January 7, 2008

I am so grateful to have had "Unca Joe" in my life. He truly has been the rock of the family and I will cherish the memories that I have. From the tickle chair, to the paper routes in La Mesa, his cooking, humor. I will miss hearing your voice and imitation in person and over the phone and calling me "Jack-O" or "Babushka".

I am so thankful to have been able to have you marry Jared and I Unca Joe. I couldn't imagine anyone else to have had that role on our most special day. I remember you said that it was an honor officiating our marriage, but to me, it was an honor and a blessing having you perform the ceremony and to have you as an uncle. I love you so much and I will miss you immensely. I look forward to the day that I see your smiling face. Until then save me a spot by the BBQ and I will see you later.

I love you Unca Joe!!

P.S. Jared and I will do everything we can to take care of Auntie Michelle, Ben and Sidney.

John & Bennett Flores

January 7, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Graig And Tiffany Guillotte

January 6, 2008

Michelle, Ben and Sidney,

Our prayers are with you. We all miss you guys and wish we could be there for you. We know you have a great family and a lot of support. If Sidney ever wants to just talk, Giovanna is always available and would love to do whatever she can for her best friend. We are here for you.

Guillotte Family

Tara Eldridge

January 5, 2008

Michelle,children and family,
We are very sorry to hear about Joe.We were unable to attend the memorial as we had to go out of town our thoughts an prayers are with you all at this time.

Our Deepest Sympathy,
Robert,Tara and Tyler Eldridge

Ray Untalan

January 5, 2008

Our family's have known each other for over 30 years but I have come to know Joe more through a church fellowship that started 20 years ago. If there is one word I can choose about Joe it would be admire. I've told him several times how I admired his faith and because of his faith I watched through the years God bless him in bigger, greater things. Two days before he passed I was leaving the parking lot after church service and I don't know why but Joe came to my mind. I thought about how gifted he was, and although we all have a talent I told the Lord right there he has a great talent, he has faith and he is sure comedic and I really admire that about him and that is all I said. Two days later I heard the news he had gone home to be with the Lord. He impacted a lot of people while he was here and though he is gone he will never be forgotten.

Jeanne Orth

January 5, 2008

To Michelle, Ben & Sidney, and to the Cruz and Christiansen families - Our hearts were truly saddened to hear of Joe's passing. Our prayers have been with you all daily and we are sorry for this deep loss. We do rejoice and take comfort in knowing that Joe is home in Glory. Joe was truly a kind and lovely person with such a hospitable spirit - such a great recipe for deeply impacting the lives of others. Reading this wonderful tribute and the many guest entries is evidence of that -of a life lived for Christ and for family - Joe had a way of making everyone feel like family. Michelle - if we can be of help in any way, please let us know. Kevin will deeply miss his Uncle Joe. Our love and prayers to you all from the Orth family.

Jessica , Todd, and Paige Peterson

January 5, 2008

Michelle, Sydney and Ben,
I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Please know that your friends in San Diego are here for you and praying for all of you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. We are a phone call away.

John & Leticia Untalan

January 4, 2008

To Michele and your children and All the Cruz family,

We are deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved husband, father, son, and brother. We have been praying for God's comfort and strength for all of you throughout this time. It was a true pleasure to have known Joe during his time here. We look forward when we are all united with those that have went on before us. We apologize for not being able to attend the service being that we are out of town, but our thoughts and prayers will be with you. We love you guys and may God cover you with his love and compassion during this time of deep loss.

With our deepest sympathy,

John, Lety, and kids.

Frank Pangelinan

January 4, 2008

To the Cruz Family,

I am very sorry to read of Joseph's passing. I pray for the Lord to give you the strength to bear the pain and sorrow during this very difficult time of your lives.

May God bless you all.

Bobbie Lizama

January 4, 2008

To the Cruz' Family,
I pray that God will give the strength to get through this sad time, with God, ALL things are possible.

Jeanette Adams

January 4, 2008

To Joe’s wife, children and the rest of his family,

We have only had the pleasure of meeting Joe on one occasion but felt like we had known him for years. He had a way of making you feel special.

Please know our loving thoughts embrace you all and may the peace which comes from the memories that you shared comfort you now and in the days ahead.

Love, Jeanette and Gil Adams

Sharron Lane

January 3, 2008

Dear Michelle and family,
I am sorry for your loss and pray for mercy and grace for you and your whole family. I only just met Joe but was immediatley in one spirit with him. He was a very genuine person and you could tell he loved the Lord. I know that God put you and your family in our lives for a purpose and I am glad he did. My grandkids love your kids and my daughter and son-in-law really enjoy your family. I know that there will be ups and downs over the next few months and should you need us we are just a phone call away. May God richly bless you and the family with a peace that passes all understanding in such a time as this. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Melissa & Martin Ambriz

January 3, 2008

Michelle, Ben and Sidney,
We have been so blessed to meet your family and become friends with you all. I feel grateful that it was in time to meet Joe and to taste his wounderful cooking. Michelle, you have always inspired me with your sweet spirit, your strength, and your genuine love and concern for others, charicteristics I know God gave you for a reason. Please know that we are just a phone call away and will do anything for you guys. My life will forever be touched by your family's friendship not only to Martin and I but to our children as well. We love you all and our prayers are with you.
Martin, Melissa, Josh, Mikayla, Isaiah, and Andrew

Robert and Nancy Reyes

January 3, 2008

"...and those that lead many to righteousness will shine like the stars in the heavens". Daniel 12:3.
We know Joe is shining bright, his example of God's amazing grace has touched our hearts and lives in so many ways. Joe was a faithful and loving friend who entered our lives at a critical time.His compassion and love for his fellow man helped restore our trust. You will be missed our dear friend, but we will see you again!

Kate Chavez

January 3, 2008

Michelle, Ben, & Sydney-
Michelle you are a special "sister" of mine and I know that you will have the loving strength to make it through this difficult time. I know Joe was a beautiful person. What wonderful things he has done in this life. He will always be with you and the kids. You are such a great mom and your kids are just as speical as you are. I hope you know that I am here for you and I love you. You are all in my prayers every day.

Summer Andrus

January 3, 2008

I had the pleasure of meeting Joe in August of 2007 when I entered into a new job position working very close with him. He made me immediately feel so comfortable and at home. In the short time of knowing Joe I found that he would truly do anything to help out another. Every morning when I came in to work he always had a smile, when I was grumpy he would always make me laugh and when I was having issues with my dog he would always give great advice and tell me not to give up. I'am going to truly miss him. On behalf of many of Joe's patients he will be deeply missed. Michelle I will always be here for you. May God Bless You Ben, Sidney and all Family.

Rika Smith

January 3, 2008

Dear Cruz Family;
My prayer is with you. Although I had never met Joseph, I had a wonderful opportunity to work with his brother Dave and he always talked very highey of Joseph. May I pray that God will comfort the ones Joseph had left behind and guide them through this time of loss.

Karen Zastrow

January 3, 2008

It is with a heavy heart that we say good-bye to our friend and brother Joe. He touched our lives with his humor, friendship and devotion to the Lord. Glen is sure that Joe is chuckling because his beloved Chargers are in the playoffs and Glens Broncos are couch potatoes. Michelle, Ben, Sydney and all of the Cruz family, you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here for whatever you need. We Love You. Glen and Karen

Linda & David Avery

January 3, 2008

Our sincere condolences to Joe's wife, children, Nina Pacita Cruz and all sisters and brothers! Sincerely, Linda Santos Avery, David Avery and Christopher Santos Avery

JAMES AND BOBBIE ANN IBANEZ

January 3, 2008

OUR CONDOLENCES TO AUNTIE PACING, AND FAMILY. WE DON'T KNOW JOE, BUT READING THE COMMENTS MADE BY OTHERS, HE IS SURELY LOVED, AND WILL BE MISSED. WE LOVE AUNTIE PACING, AND WE WOULD HAVE LOVED JOE EVEN MORE, HAD WE KNOWN HIM. HE IS IN A SAFE AND BEAUTIFUL PLACE, REST IN PEACE.

Romillie Dato

January 2, 2008

I had the pleasure of working with Joe in a physical therapy clinic. Even though I only knew him for a short time, I will always remember him. He was very outgoing and always had a way with people. Everyone liked him. He always made people laugh with his immitations and had great stories to tell. Aside from being my co-worker, he was also a big brother to me. Whenever I needed advice, he would lend his ear. Whether it was career, love or just about anything he was there. He even pushed me to succeed in everything that I did. He helped me study when I took my board exam and gave me encouragement when I felt like giving up. I can't believe he's gone, I'm still in shock. He will be greatly missed....

Amy (Clarke) Corrigan

January 2, 2008

What a beautiful tribute to Joe. I can't come up with words how saddened Chris and I are by this huge loss of such an incredible man. Joe was a tremendous, true example of Godly character and leadership, as well as sincere hospitality and friendship. I met Joe years ago while I was rooming with my special friend Michelle at college. I remember their first date. I remember all the times he was over at our apartment, guitar in hand, and how we made him sit through silly, homemade videos at every visit. I was warmly invited to many a barbeque at his place. I knew He and Michelle were meant for each other back then. I saw the beautiful relationship that quickly developed between Michelle and Joe and got to witness their love for each other blossom. Joe was so genuine and caring. My husband and I are praying daily for Michelle, Ben, Sidney, and The Cruz and Christiansen families. We have so many we know who are also praying. Joe is now in paradise with the Lord. One day we will see each other again and have a HUGE barbeque in heaven!

Hector Campos

January 2, 2008

Joe was not only a friend, he was like a brother. We shared so many wonderful times together. We started our friendship in second grade at Valley Lindo. After I moved, I didn't think I would ever re-connect with him. Little did I know that 5 years later as I walked on that school bus for the start of seventh grade, that Joe would be the one to offer me a seat beside him when no other would. His kindness and smile said it all and our friendship was renewed once again. A friendship that would span another 32 years. We did so many things together, football, basketball, Chargers, weight-lifting, listening to music, trying to sing, munchies, the list is endless and the memories are plentiful. Joe's generosity, kindness, and spirit will be carried on by his beautiful wife Michelle and his adorable children Benjamin and Sydney. As I mourn for the loss of Joe, I'm reminded that this is not the end but the beginning of a journey that will lead us to the gates of our "Father". I will see you again Joe, my Friend, my Brother.

Kate Hardwick

January 2, 2008

I was shocked to hear today of Joe's passing, I would think that a heart as big as his could never stop. I enjoyed his company throughout the classroom years of PTA school, and for awhile thereafter. I will miss his gentle spirit.

Sherri Tong

January 2, 2008

I had the pleasure of meeting Joe at Community of La Mesa. He really came through and help me out when I was in a really bind. He was always kind and compassionate to others and could make everyone laugh. Even though he moved to Hemet with his family, I thought of him & Michelle fondly. We will all miss him but are comforted knowing that he is with our Lord and Savior.

Cruz Brothers: Ray, David, Joe and Vince - August 2007

January 2, 2008

Mom and Joe - Thanksgiving Day

January 2, 2008

Ray, Lorna, Maria, Tricia and Joe - Thanksgiving 2007

January 2, 2008

Ben, Michelle, Sidney, and Joe, 8-10-07

January 2, 2008

Paul and Irma Pereira and kids

January 2, 2008

We are very saddened to hear of Joe's passing. The Cruz family has been part of my life since being very young, growing up around them with Guam Club gatherings and other family events. Although, it had been a long time since seeing Joe until recently at Jaclyn's wedding. I was glad to see him again and in very good spirits that night! It is comforting to know he is with God. Our prayers go out to the Cruz family.

Holly Treat

January 2, 2008

We were fornuate enough to become friends with Joe before his passing. Joe,Michelle,Ben, and Sydney are like part of our family. Michelle you know we are always here for you and we love you all.You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love Always,
Joe,Holly, And The Kids

John and Trina Adams

January 2, 2008

Joe was a wonderful man of God and we know he is now enjoying being in the presence of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. We pray that the peace of God which passes all understanding will keep the hearts and minds of the Cruz family.

With love and prayers,

Mary Theresa Spennicchia

January 2, 2008

I am deeply saddened to hear of Joe's untimely passing. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Cruz family but especially with his wife, children and mother. God bless you all.
Eternal rest grant unto him, Oh Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon him.

Diana Geisler

January 2, 2008

Dear Michelle,
Words are so inadequate ... I have had such a hard time coming to terms with our loss of our friend,Joe. My memory of Joe is his great smile and the way he always welcomed me when we saw each other. He was a dreamer and he was living his dream as he worked towards establishing his gardens and cooking center, and that is the very special thing I will always remember about him. And what an example to his children and to the rest of us. Live our dreams - time is short, and we should be found using our gifts until we are called to Heaven. I hope the love and prayers of your friends and family bring you much comfort as you walk through this new year.

Warm good wishes for you and the children,
Diana Geisler
(Andrea's mom)

Jeanie Cantero

January 2, 2008

Michelle and family,

Our sincere condolences to you and your family at this time. It was very disturbing news when Auntie Pacing called us and told us about Joe. It was difficult to imagine his passing since we just saw you all at Maria's (50th) birthday celebration. He will greatly be missed. I will miss his BBQ chicken. He was going to give me the recipe when he had a chance. He had a great personality and happy smile all the time. Now he is with the Lord and other family members and is at peace now. The only consolation is that he did not suffer very much but even so, we will all miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and forever in our hearts. Love Auntie Nita Aguon and family.

Megan Decker-Gundlach

January 2, 2008

Growing up I remember Joe as the sweet guy always on the verge of a smile. The kindness in his heart was evident in his nature. Although I am greatly saddened by his loss I take comfort in knowing that he will be watching over us all. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family.

Mark Cooper

January 2, 2008

As a cousin of Michelle, we were shocked by the news about Joe on Christmas day. Although we live in Nebraska, our hearts and prayers are with our family in California during this very difficult time.

Love, Mark and Janet Cooper

Nancy Ovenden

January 2, 2008

Michelle, Ben & Sidney ~ Please know how much you are all in our our thoughts and hearts. We will continue to keep you in our prayers. ~ Shawn, Nancy, Adam & Eric Ovenden

Christina Fadden

January 2, 2008

Lorna and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Joe will be dearly missed. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help during this time. Love, Christina, Kristin, Amanda, Ben & Cameron

Hector Vasquez

January 2, 2008

Joe and I met for the first time a few weeks ago when a relative was kind enough to permit me to attend a family gathering. For the first time since coming to San Diego, on the day we met he generated within me a real sense of family, warmth, and belonging. And on that day we ate awesome 'kine grinds', laughed, talked, and played music for a very long time: I simply did not want that day to end; I was probably one of the last ones to leave the gathering for I felt that being around Joe was like I was among family, and I could feel the human connection and love emanating all around... I actually did not want that day to end. But as we were departing and (in keeping with his kind nature) he was helping me carry my instruments to the car, I felt blessed when he asked for my phone number. I remember thinking, "Right On! ... finally ....Thank God! Here's someone I can connect with who is genuine, real, and who has a bright piece of sunshine within!" I feel honored to have met him 'cause he touched my spirit with his music and his truly caring way. And on that day, he shared his aloha, laughter, smile, and heart in such a way that for the first time in over 8 yrs., he made me feel 'at home' and for that one day, I was not homesick for 'the islands' 'cause it was as if he had a piece of the islands within him. Joe was the first (and only) person I have ever met locally who knew the local Hawaiian music/songs/artists, seemed to "live and embody aloha" and my only regret is not having met him much sooner. My condolences and sympathy go out the Cruz family for Joe Cruz was truly not only a man of God, to me he was a gentle soul ... a blessing for having passed through this world, even if for only too brief a period.

Estus & Lita (Cerezo) Pittman

January 1, 2008

Your parents and my mother are very close friends from childhood, and we have mutual friends and relatives. But my strongest impression I remember is Joe's staunch belief in our Lord, Jesus Christ. I know he is with Him now. My husband, who is a pastor, and I rejoice that Joe was a good and faithful servant, who shared boldly in the salvation through Jesus only!... not in rosaries, statues or masses, but in the saving blood of our Lord alone. Hallelujah!

Carol (Pereira) Campbell

January 1, 2008

I have been very saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I have known Joe from our early teen years and was fortunate to see him at Jaclyn's wedding in August, after many years passed since seeing him. It was wonderful to see him so happy with his beautiful wife and children. I will remember Joe's kind, friendly nature and great smile. He was a good man. To his wife and children, and also to all of the Cruz family, please know that my family's prayers and hearts are with you during this loss.

Linda Ellis

January 1, 2008

I was saddened by Joe's death. He was always so kind and friendly and I love working with Michelle. He will be greatly missed.
Love, Dan and Linda

Mike Ruane

January 1, 2008

I was blessed to work with Joe at Community Convalescent, where we quickly became fast friends. His family became very dear to ours, and stayed that way even after I moved to Washington State. I can hardly imagine not being able to hear Joe's voice on the phone. His family, and Our Lord Jesus Christ were truly his passions. Though my heart aches that he is gone from our touch, I look forward to the day we are all re-united in heaven. I am honored and blessed to call him my friend, and my life is richer for knowing him.

Joe Ryan

January 1, 2008

I have had the oppotunity not only to meet Joe but play music with Joe. Though I did not know Joe well pesonally it was evident that he was a man of good nature who cared for others. I know two of his sisters personally (Lorna and Patricia) and my condolences go out to them as well as the whole family. God Bless.

Archie Palencia

January 1, 2008

To The Cruz Family - my sincere condolences on your loss. I have fond memories of Jo growing up especially when he drove David, Christine and I to and from piano lessons. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Raynard Mayo

January 1, 2008

Joe- you are a brother in Christ, a man of God and the best of friends!

Joe and I have shared similar paths since our early days of childhood through our families.

Through the years, Joe has always been filled with spirit to serve the Lord and blessed with the Gifts of the Spirit.

During our visits with Joe, Michelle & the kids, the fellowship & sharing a meal together was always a time filled with laughter and joy. Joe’s incredible culinary skills were the best whether at the grill or in the kitchen. Joe’s home-style grill pizzeria is the best.

Joe's life as a fellow brother and an incredible father to Ben & Sidney and loving husband to Michelle exemplifies his life in Service to the Lord.

Joe you have touched my life immeasurably. Through the years, your time to share God's word and the Gospel has always served as an inspiration for me.

Your character, compassion and love for life was always visible with Michelle and the kids- Ben & Sidney :)

Joe, you are a man of God, brother in the Lord and Soldier for Christ.

You will always remain in our heart. And though you are missed tremendously by all of the family and friends, to know that God has called upon you is comforting and peaceful!

Dear Michelle & kids- Ben and Sidney,

We love you! Know that Joe’s smile, his love for his family and passion to help others carries on! Michelle, your strong spirit touches the clouds, your gentle voice sings praises over Ben and Sidney while your embrace as a mom caresses Benjamin and Sidney in the comfort of God.

We continue to lift you in our prayers during this time.

With love,
The Mayo Family
Your cousin & brother in Christ
Raynard and Lisa
02 January 2008 Hagatna, GUAM

Jerry and Diane Marshall

January 1, 2008

Joe and Michelle were in our Marriage Enrichment group and attended our church, Community Christian Church in Hemet. Joe will surely be missed. We are praying for his entire famiy..in this time of loss. Joe always had a smile on his face and a kind and encouraging word for all he came in contact with. He was a great cook, perfect "grill master".
We will see you again one day.
We love you. Jerry and Diane Marshall

Fran Young

January 1, 2008

To The Cruz Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I was saddened to hear about Joe.I have fond memories of him from years ago.My condolences to all of you.
Sincerely,
Fran Young

Paul & Alesia Buchanan

January 1, 2008

We had the pleasure of spending time with Joe in San Diego and in Hemet. His joy was his cooking and we will remember his smile as he stood at the grill happily preparing food for his guests. We continue to pray that Michelle, Ben and Sydney will feel the comforting arms of Jesus around them as they move forward through this time.

Tiffany Mitchell

January 1, 2008

Michelle, Sydney and Ben,
Our hearts go out to you during this very difficult time of loss. We have been praying for you daily and will continue to pray. Joe was such a wonderful man to know. We will truly miss his presence.
Paul, Tiffany, Cameron, Trevor, and Ethan Mitchell

Matthew & Michele Wallace

January 1, 2008

Joe was great man whose faith in the Lord inspired others. Our family will miss the BBQ's and Fabulous Fish Tacos. Our daughter Kennedy will miss Joe's guitar playing. My Wife and I will miss Joe's excitement in watching our two youngest children (Kendall and Kurt)grow up. Joe was a great Friend and wonderful Father who will be dearly missed by my family.

Shelly Jackson

January 1, 2008

We love Joe, Michelle, Ben and Sidney. We were fortnate that fate made us neighbors and Joe and Michelle's spirit and joy made us friends. Michelle we are here for you always and Joe will forever be in our hearts. Love The Jackson's

Leo Fadden

January 1, 2008

My condolences to the Cruz family on their loss of Joe. He'll be missed greatly. It's truly sad, when such a good person, like Joe, is taken from his family and friends, in the prime of life. I will miss his smiling face, behind the BBQ grill, all the great food he prepared and his guitar playing, at future family get-togethers. What a great person!

Gary and Bette Vinton

January 1, 2008

To The Crus Family

Gary and I were so fortunate to have had the oportunity to know Joe. Joe had a laid-back mannerism and an easy smile. He couldn't have been a better dad to Ben and Sydney. He will be missed by all who knew him, having been the gentle and pleasant person that he was. We are so very saddened by his passing.

Andrea Lefebvre

January 1, 2008

Our family has been touched and blessed by knowing Joe and his family, including all the extended Cruz family members. He was a very special man who will be greatly missed. Our comfort and hope comes from the unquestionable faith he had in our Lord, and he proudly professed it. Thank you Joe for what you have taught us, even in your absence. We love you all. The Lefebvre Family

Kris & Brandon Iselin-Bradley

January 1, 2008

We will always remember Joe as someone who went out of his way to welcome "strangers" and make them feel like they were family. We were fortunate enough to be such "strangers" who then became like sisters and brothers to him. He was a shining star for so many in this life and he will be greatly missed.

Libby & Eric Williams

January 1, 2008

Lorna, Paul & Cruz family,

We met Joe through Lorna and Paul Fadden. He was very welcoming to those he met through his extended family and will be greatly missed at Paul & Lorna’s yearly BBQ. He had a great smile, a sense of humor and was a great cook. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Joe will be greatly missed by all those whose lives he touched. His unexpected passing is a great shock.

Susan Smith (Decker)

January 1, 2008

The Cruz family will be in my prayers, the Decker family lived around the corner from the Cruz house. I went to school with Maria (Susan Decker Smith)

Darlene & Billy Tucker

January 1, 2008

We had the very honor of not only knowing Joe, but being a part of his family. Our hearts are saddened by his most unexpected passing. We pray that all the families find comfort and peace in knowing Joe is home now, his reward for being who he was on this earth. With love, prayer and much respect, the Tucker Family

Mary Rapolla

January 1, 2008

To Lorna,Paul and the Cruz Family,

What a beautiful reflection on Joe's life and how he lived it. When I think of Joe it brings a smile to my face, because that is what he brought to people. Always kind, friendly and had a contagious humor. We will always remember him for this and his love for the Lord and his family. Our prayer for comfort to you Lorna and Paul and the Cruz Family during this time. Love, The Rapolla's, Tony,Mary and Children.

Sandie Foreman

January 1, 2008

Joe will always be in my heart. We worked together for many years where I met his wife and two adorble children. Joe was a constant trooper in his faith and was a inspiration to everyone he came in contact with. My family always looked forward to his BBQ's where he became absorbed in a talent that was truly a gift..his passion for cooking would light up his eyes..I will miss Joe dearly..but I am blessed that a part of Joe is evident in the eyes of Benjamin and Sydney and they are left in the strong arms of their mom to help carry them through their lost. Michele will have the strength of our Lord to rise up each day and carry on. I love you Michelle and pray for your courage and strength in the days to follow.
All my prayers
Sandie Foreman
Jim, Jace and Zak

suzanne gold

January 1, 2008

i will always remember the smiling face and warm greeting joe always would exude. my thoughts are with his family. the world has loss a great man.

Don Martin

January 1, 2008

Joe has always had an impact on my life. Our friendship has spanned over 40 years. He walked the walk of a follower of Jesus Christ. He was an example of how to love others unconditionally and enjoy life to the fullest. He was my Best Man at my wedding, to my beautiful wife Mary. We had enjoyed playing backgammon, guitar, or having fellowship with our wives and children. His laughter and humor will be missed.

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