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JACKSON MD, JOSEPH B. Dec. 23, 1946 to Nov. 3, 2010 Joseph B. Jackson MD died unexpectedly on November 3, 2010. He was 63. He will lovingly be remembered by family and friends whose lives he touched for his love, his wit, his scientific approach to life and his love of animals. He never knew how much he gave to others. Born December 23, 1946 in Brunswick, Georgia, he was the firstborn son of Joseph Argonne and Maxine (Ross) Jackson, both from Minnesota. In 1956 the family moved to the La Mesa area of San Diego, as Joe's father was transferred while serving in the the U.S. Navy. The family grew with the arrival of brothers Steve and Mark and little sister Sarah. Joe attended and graduated from Grossmont High School, was a Merit Scholar and was on the track team. He went on to U.C.Berkley for a year before returning to SDSU where he excelled in his academic achievements and, track in particular, the high jump. He earned a B.S. degree in Chemistry. His analytical mind was put to work when he was hired as a criminalist for the San Bernadino Sherrif's Department. He started medical school because of what he called "serendipidious circumstances" at Loma Linda University where he graduated in 1973. He married Cathleen Goddard while in medical school and they were blessed with the birth of daughter Tracy and son Brian. Joe completed his internship in Santa Clara, California before returning to San Diego. As a Family Practice physician, he had a private practice near Doctor's Hospital (Sharp Cabrillo). Later he was the Director of Emergency Room Services at that location. He worked for a time in Ramona and East County Community Clinic but he has spent the past nearly 20 years with Family Health Center (FHC) clinics of San Diego. He was the Chief of Adult Medicine at the Logan Heights Clinic where he built relationships with patients and staff over many years and life events. At the Ciaccio Memorial Clinic in North Park he felt especially enriched. His work with HIV patients brought him challenge and a a renewed yearning for knowledge. His work brought him joy. He was compassionate to those most in need of support and care. He married his second wife Nancy Scott in 2004. With that marriage he shared the responsability of raising her grandson Corey with whom he shared a special relationship. In this marriage they all gained an extended family. Together they started a new life in Point Loma where they regularly gathered with family and friends to recognize and celebrate life's gains and losses and the Superbowl. Joe was sought out by many for companionship and counsel although he would say,"well I can offer you two bits of advice; do what you will and never ask me for advice". He was embraced by the new Irish family he married into though he spoke of himself as a Nordic. He would announce at family gatherings in a tall commanding stance,"well I'm a Viking and you know, we conquered the Irish, didn't we". He gained two daughters and a son when he married this time. In the 14 years since meeting Nancy, Joe was brought into the fold. Her family loved him and immediately recognized his humor, wit and brilliance. He was the smart, quiet guy who loved to cook, read and answer the obscure questions on Jeopardy. Joe was a patron of the arts. He enjoyed the company of a local group of artists and authors where he watched, listened and relaxed with this eclectic band of artisans. There was a special bond and a sacred love shared. Joe liked to travel having been to many places including Tahiti, Austrailia, Hawaii, Mexico and Canada. He was a gourmet cook who would say, "it's just chemistry, combine this and that and add heat". He enjoyed fine dining and local faire, then he'd replicate the recipe by experimentation. He was pleased when he had success. His favorite pastime was going to "the Church of Costco; a place you visit every week and tithe 10% of your income". They will miss his abundant generosity. A tall ruggedly, handsome man with a great grin, he was more of an observer than a participant. He never saw an iPad he didn't like. He had friends who loved to hug him in spite of his towering frame. He will be missed. In addition to his wife Nancy, he is survived by his two children, Tracy (Forrest) Clark of El Cajon, son Brian (Mea) of Temecula and children by marriage, Sarah Kohmescher, Rebecca Kohmescher and Travis (Tabitha) Kohmescher of San Diego; six grandchildren; sister Sarah (Steven) King of Cheyenne, Wyoming; brothers Steven Jackson of Driggs, Idaho and Mark Jackson of Murietta, CA. Former wife Cathy Danielson of Spring Valley. A celebration of his life will be held on Sunday, December 19, 2010 at 10:00 a.m. at The Abbey, 2825 Fifth Avenue San Diego, CA.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Nov. 14, 2010.

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Nancy Jackson

November 12, 2024

Joseph B. Jackson MD
12-23-1946
11-03-2010
BELOVED HUSBAND, FATHER, GRANDFATHER AND FRIEND.
Your presence we miss. Your memories we treasure.
Loving you always. Forgetting you never.

Now rests at Glen Abbey Memorial Park in Bonita, California.

Dorothy Gleason Ozanne

December 20, 2010

“When the time of our particular sunset comes,
our things, our accomplishments,
won’t really matter a great deal.
But the clarity and care
with which we have loved others
will speak with vitality of the great
gift of life
we have been for each other.”
(“Wherever You Go,” Gregory Norbet, The Monks of Weston Priory, Vermont)

December 20, 2010

Taken from a letter from Joe's sister Sarah King:
"My earliest memories of Joe were when he was 14 or 15. DoDo as she referred to him at that time was her protector from the teasing of the other brothers. This created a bond that lasted until busy lives and distance got in the way. During this time, she visited Joe and his family while he was in Med school in Loma Linda and during an internship in San Jose. She also, on occasion, house sat and babysat for Tracy and Brian. Joe was always a bit of a loner, the bookish one. He never really was out in the neighborhood riding bikes or playing baseball but could often be found reading. This led to being recognized as a National Merit Scholar when he graduated from high school. He started college at UC Berkeley but transferred to San Diego State after a year due to the tumultuousness that was Berkeley in 1965 interfering with his studies. His time at Berkeley was not totally without fun. I remember one story where he took part in disassembling a Volkswagen bug and reassembling it in a professor’s office.
She also experienced Joe as an ER doctor first hand. When visiting San Diego she had an issue with her appendix. Joe was trying to get an IV set after other’s were not successful. When he found a vein and it sprayed him, his dry sense of humor kicked in with the comment “ now look what you did- you bled all over me”. Don’t know if that was his bedside manner was like that with everyone, but it made me laugh when I really did not feel like laughing.
Submitted by Nancy Jackson

Kathleen and Tom Kane-Murrell

December 9, 2010

Dear Nancy and Family, Our hearts are filled with sadness over the loss of your Joe. We are so sorry. Know you are never far from our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy

December 2, 2010

4 weeks and I miss him so much.

Susan Hillgren

November 22, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. I will miss Joe and his quiet presence. We love you. Susie and Kevin

Lynn Rice

November 21, 2010

My deepest condolences to Joe's entire extended family.He was truly a unique and special man and an extraordiary physician.
Some of my fondest memories of my years
as the Pediatric Nurse Practitioner at the El Cajon Community Clinic incude Joe.He was a mentor,educator, collegue
and friend.
God Bless and keep you in his care. The world will be a sadder place without your presence.

November 20, 2010

Dr. Jackson, may you rest in peace thanks for the early morning laughs at work. Maritza Gomez - Medical Records Dept LHFHC

November 20, 2010

Joe was a very quiet presence-whom you immediately trusted. I am glad to have met him a very brief time, and also glad that I did not know him more-in being spared the loss of a dear heart and soul. My love goes out to his family, and to Joe, who was indeed, a very precious soul.
My love to dear Nancy-who shares with Joe such a great heart and compassion. There can never be enough people in this world who share this commodity. So the world is diminished a bit from a constant light. But the light will shine on......in those he touched.

Rose Almanza

November 20, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to the Jackson family. I will miss not hearing how the turkey was going to be prepared this year. I will always think of him when I read a "John Grisham" or "James Patterson" book and wonder if he enjoying that great library in the sky. Rest in peace my joke buddy and may eternal light shine on you.

Deb Beyer

November 17, 2010

I trained with Dr Jackson at Family Health Centers in 2003,& we worked together several days a week for a few years. It will be with great fondness & joy that I remember those days.I will deeply miss him and send my thoughts to his family,

Art Friends

November 17, 2010

Joe was a dear friend, a patron, a connoisseur. He showed kindness to all of us. His acceptance of us as artists was appreciated. We will miss him.
John Abel, Wade Cline, Glen Crooks, Malcolm Nichols, Pat Sullivan

Doug Krupinski

November 17, 2010

"My sympathies to Nancy on the loss of her gentle giant. I remember at family gatherings that someone had to be the listener amongst all those gregarious Irish schmoozers."

Jenn Schleier

November 16, 2010

Tracy, Brian, Nancy & Cathy, My deepest sympathies for the loss of Joe. I have so many fond memories of him being thrown in the pool. And many other childhood memories that will remain in my heart forever ..... Him being gone is a great loss to this world. My prayers are with all of you. Jenny Schleier ( Mullanney ) Las Vegas, NV

Bee

November 16, 2010

Today I celebrate Joe's life. I also pay tribute to our mother's eleventh anniversary...

Thank you, Joe, for bringing so much joy in our lives and many more lives that you have touched through your work. Your light has shined further than the naked eye could ever see. I know you will continue to take care of Nancy...I love you and will miss you and remember you forever, my Gentle Giant.
Love,
Me

November 16, 2010

Dear Nancy,

You don't know me well but we've often spoken after Mass @ St. Charles. I happened to see this beautiful tribute in the paper & then realized that this was your husband. What an amazing individual he must have been. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you be comforted in knowing that others' thought and praryers are with all of you.

Chris, John & Mark Patskan

Michelle Strange

November 15, 2010

I worked with Dr. Jackson at East County Community Clinic for many years. He was a great Doctor. My prayers go out to his family. Michelle Strange

Nancy Jackson

November 15, 2010

I will miss my loving husband.
I believed in him.

Nancy "Hamm" Jackson

November 15, 2010

I will miss my loving husband.
I believed in him.
I think I had the best years with
him and will smile...remembering the
good times.

charlotte steppe

November 15, 2010

i met ur dad at the logan office. very kind gerous man God bless u all. Dr. Jackson was a priceless treasure. sincerly charlotte steppe

November 15, 2010

dear nancy and family, a wonderful tribute to dr jackson.our hope is that you and family will find peace.love from kathleen and robert kerrigan sr. our son robert jr will be helping him

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