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Marjorie Greeves Obituary

GREEVES, MARJORIE SUE 1953 to 2003 Marge Greeves, quietly and peacefully passed away December 26, 2003 at Scripps Green Hospital in La Jolla. The cause of death was various complications created from Melanoma cancer which she gallantly fought for several years. Her devoted husband of 12 years, Ray Greeves, family members, and close friends were by her side. Marge was born November 24, 1953 in Latrobe, Pa., to Lorretta and Allen Bennett. She grew up at Berkey Acres, outside of Greensberg, where the foundation of her values and caring personality were rooted. She was deeply devoted to the care and well being of her family until her death. In 1989, Marge moved to San Diego to begin a new chapter in her life with Ray; it is said they went together like "Peas and Carrots". Their wedding and honeymoon on Catalina Island in 1991 attended by family and friends are cherished memories by all who were there. Throughout her life, Marge and her charismatic personality made their way in many people ' s hearts and lives. Her lovely face, radiant smile and gorgeous blue eyes seemed to touch everyone with whom she came in contact with. Marge ' s kind, welcoming behavior embraced friends and strangers alike with a warm and genuine respect for everyone. Her tranquil disposition and her joy for laughter remained unwavering as she encouraged us all with her strength. Besides her husband Ray, Marge is survived by her three brothers Boyd and Keith Bennett of San Diego, and Don Bennett of Greensburg, Pa.; two nieces Selleca Bennett of Jeannette, Pa., and Jessica Bennett of San Diego; three stepchildren Dustin and Jodi Greeves of San Diego, and Heather Harden and her husband Denny of Moberly, Mo.; and three grandchildren Bendon Greeves of San Diego, and Zoie and Coleman Harden of Moberly. Marge would have wanted all her family and friends to join together in a celebration of her life. One of her sayings during her times of personal loss was,, "you must now build a bridge to get over this". A memorial celebration of her life will be held on January 24, in San Diego, please contact family or friends for details. Please sign the guest book at obituaries.uniontrib.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from Jan. 3 to Jan. 7, 2004.

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Ray Greeves

February 3, 2005

Marge,



Word's cannot express the love I have for you, I will always cherish our time that we had together.

Your time her was short but you impacted so many lives in a positive way, mine most of all. I will hold you dear in my heart for all my life.

I have done as you would have wanted, I have built a bridge to get over my pain and sadness, I am moving on. All my love forever, Ray.

Cyndi Buser

January 26, 2004

Dear Ray,

Martin and I feel honored to have known your Marge. Although it had been a few years since we had seen the two of you, Marge leaves us with great memories of our friendship with her during the Scripps Hospital years. Marge was a perfect and rare combination of being a class act and a lot of fun. She was absolutely precious. You sure "sparkled" her life, Ray. What a gift you were to each other. The sunset ceremony for Marge was incredible, touching, and full. We will never again see the color purple without thinking of Marge. What a tribute. We should all be so loved and rich with friendships. As we hurt for you, we also lift you up in love and prayer.



Blessings to you, your family, and your friends.



Cyndi & Martin Buser

Shaun & Christina Macatee

January 24, 2004

Ray and Family,

Christina and I feel blessed to have been able to get to know Marge. She truly was a wonderful and kind person. We will never forget her happy smile. Take strength from all the wondeful memories.

nancy bennett

January 23, 2004

Marge,

I remember when you and Ray first got together and I remember thinking that you & Ray where a match made in heaven. I always knew that you and he would get married. I was glad you asked me to be your maid of honor. The wedding was a fairytale. May you rest in peace & forever be a guiding angel in everyone's lives you touched.



Love you

Nancy

Denny and Heather Harden

January 22, 2004

Marge was a wonderful person and made a great impact on our lives. Despite the many miles between us, when we got together it was as though we had only seen each other yesterday. She always had a good outlook on things in life and was of high spirits. She will always be in our hearts.



We will greatly miss you,

Denny, Heather, Zoie, and Coleman

Sherill Marciano

January 20, 2004

While I was working at Children's in "Marge's" hallway, the morning didn't start for me until I had peeked in and said "good morning" to Marge. Her instant smile set the tone for the day. A good person, a gentle soul, a definite asset to our lives will be missed.

Linda Coppa

January 19, 2004

Ray,

Marge was truly one of the nicest people I've ever met and I'm blessed that I counted her as one of my friends. I'll miss her warmth and happy smile.

Linda

Marj Peck

January 13, 2004

Dear Ray,

Marge was such a gentle, competent and supportive presence at Children's. I miss her. My prayers are with you and your family

Jo & Lya Thijssen

January 13, 2004

Dear Ray and family,

We are saddened with your message that Marge had passed away. I will remember her as a warm person who enjoyed live. I will never forget the nice evenings we had and Marge will always be in my memory.

Please accept our deepest condolancies

Judi Penolio

January 13, 2004

Ray & Family,

Thank you for introducing Marge into all of our lives. She was one of the bravest people I have ever met. Always upbeat and optimistic, she was an inspriation to anyone who had the pleasure of knowing her. She will be missed, but always remembered.

Judi

Maida Ewert

January 13, 2004

"Margie" - "My good friend" - I miss hearing your wonderful voice, and sharing a bit of "good humor" with you as we often times would!! You always had a way of ending our conversations with a "good laugh!!"



Whenever I think of you, it's with a smile and a happy heart!! Your cheerful love will remain with all of us always!! Thank you!!



May God Bless your family, and grant to you the peace you so deserve!!

Tom Chiusano

January 13, 2004

We don't always win the battles we fight. The mark of a person and the legacy they leave behind is how they face adversity. Marge has left Ray with a legacy of grace under the most extreme fire anyone could ever deal with.

John & Amanda Stumph

January 12, 2004

Dear Marge,



Though we had not known you for very long, it did not take long to know you. You are such a wonderful person with light that will shine forever and it is always a joy to be around you. Know that you will be irreplaceably missed and the love you leave behind is unforgettable.

May you always have "Sand in your shoes" (Dido) to remember us by -

John & Marcie Winfrey

January 7, 2004

Dearest Margie will always be in our heart and in our thoughts. She was an inspiration to all who knew her...we'll never forget all the good times we shared with her and Ray. What a better place the world would be if we all had Margie's outlook on life! We love you Ray, you and Margies family are in our prayers.

Love,

John & Marcie

Judi Snyder

January 7, 2004

To Ray and family - My heart goes out to you all with the loss of Marge to a killer that she faced so bravely. A light has gone out in the world and here at Children's where I was privileged to work with her for many years. I shall especially continue to miss her radiant smile and golden laughter.

Sincerely, Judi

David Coppa

January 6, 2004

Ray,

I was deeply saddened when I heard that Marge had passed away. The upbeat way the two of you faced her illness is something for all of us to admire. I will always smile when I think about the great way your personalities complemented each other. We will truly miss her.



My thoughts are with you.

David

Tom King

January 6, 2004

Ray, you and Marge have been such warm and wonderful friends through the years. Anna and I so deeply feel her loss, yet we know her spirit endures, urging us all to celebrate the fullness of life. Our deepest sympathy to you Ray, and Marge, we thank you for the richness of your caring heart that has touched us all.

Donna Buttner

January 6, 2004

I worked with Marge at Children's for several years. I got to know her best when she joined Weight Watchers. When asked she told the group she joined the program because she had had an illness. When she felt better she had eaten more and gained some weight which she, now, wanted to lose. What a humble understatement. There was no mention of her illness.

She was a positive, courageous and gracious person. She made an impact on my life. I'll never forget her. I share your sorrow and pain. I hope you find comfort and peace knowing Marge was well-loved and that she has a special place in the thoughts and prayers of many people.

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Kamal Muilenburg

January 6, 2004

To Marge's family: I was one of hundreds who knew Marge as a coworker at Children's Hospital. She was such a lovely, kind and personable woman. I was so impressed with her courage and grace in her battle with her illness. My deepest condolences to all of you.

Denise Ellard

January 6, 2004

Dear Greeves Family,

I was compelled to write and express my sympathy at the loss of your beautiful wife, mother and grandmother. I lost my husband to melanoma 3 years ago on Thanksgiving Day, only 3 months after he had turned 50. What an insidious and baffling disease it is. I hope your dear Marge did not suffer too much and that she was comforted by her loving family and friends. My family, friends, fond memories of my husband, and, of course time, do bring comfort--however, it's so very hard the first few months. I lift you all in prayer and I honor what you have endured. God bless you.

Paul Powell

January 6, 2004

Ray, Kathy and I are very saddened at the passing of Margie. The last time I talked to her she was (as usual) her upbeat self and was ready to battle whatever came her way.

I had hoped for you & Marge that you could have had more time together in this life and am at the same time thankful for the time you two did have with one another as your happiness rubbed off on us all!

Ray, I know she was the love of your life and I hurt for you during this time.

I will, along with many others I'm sure, think of her often and with a smile. The same smile she gave each one of us every time we met.



Thinking of you and yours at this time,

Paul & Kathy Powell

Terry and Ed Zell

January 5, 2004

Dear Ray,

We are very saddened to hear of the loss of your precious wife, Marge, and know of your special, loving relationship with her. Our heartfelt condolences and prayers are with you.

Angela Vieira

January 5, 2004

My sincere condolences to Marge's family and friends. Although I knew Marge briefly for only 15 months, when I relocated to San Diego and started working at Children's, she assisted me in so many ways. She was always so sweet and good-natured even with the most stupid of questions. She was smart, practical, organized and extremely capable even in the face of illness. She has been and will be greatly missed at Children's.

Angela.

Laura Oliver

January 5, 2004

Ray, I had the privilege of working with your wonderful wife for many years at Children's. She was my confidant and best friend here. She was also someone I respected and admired professionally. I loved her sense of humor. I admired to unwavering devotion to her family and am in awe of the wonderful marriage that you both enjoyed for many years. I miss her terribly.



With deepest sympathy,



Laura

Larry + Tammy Perrone

January 4, 2004

Ray



The loss of your soulmate is a very hard thing to deal with, Know that your friends are there for you to help you through these tough times. Marge will be missed by all who's life she touched.

Ron Caudillo

January 4, 2004

Ray, I am profoundly saddened by loss of your beloved wife. Although I never had the honor of meeting her, the snapshots that you kept in your cubicle gave me an insight into her sparkling personality. My prayers are with you and your family.

Jessica Bennett

January 4, 2004

My Aunt Marge was a wonderful person.She had the most beautiful laught that kept her going. I remember going over to her house and she would be there (most of the time)and would sit down with me and listen to what happened at school,soccer and all sorts of other stuff that appealed to her eyes and mine.Aunt Marge was a great person.I'll never forget her,but I will never forget the memories that will last a lifetime.

Thomas & Ellecia Messina

January 4, 2004

Ray, our codolences go out to you and your family for your sudden lost. Hope our prayers help ease the pain and add some joy to you and your family.



Regards,



Thomas & Ellecia Messina

Bijan Bijan

January 3, 2004

Marj was a loving, free spirited, kind person. She and Ray made such a cute and fun couple. My wife Megan and I feel so blessed that she celebrated our wedding with us in Aug of 2002 and we treasure the time we got to spend with her on the boat just a couple of months ago. We will truly miss her dearly, but we take comfort in that fact that we know her spirit will always be with us.



Love, Megan & Bijan

Harlan and Mary Ann Price

January 3, 2004

Ray, It was always a great joy to visit with you and Marge. There was never a time that she wasn't "up", even when she was going through chemo. She was an inspiration to all who knew her. We're sorry that we can't be at her memorial but you two will be in our hearts.

Michael Kosty

January 3, 2004

I will always think of Marge as a woman full of life and energy who lived each day to the fullest. It was my privilege to have known her. I will miss her.



Ray, I hope you can take comfort in knowing that you stood by Marge and supported her throughout her illness. This is one of the greatest gifts a person can receive from their spouse.



My prayers go out to Marge, Ray and the entire family.

Jim Nixon

January 3, 2004

Ray and Marge were always a welcome sight at the marina, there was a mutual admeration and Love that radiated from them. Marge will be missed by all that encountered her.

Jim & Deb G-22

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