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1938
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2017
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Clark Nash
November 16, 2017
My you rest in peace patrick. You were a good friend to have.
Darrel Laird, Viola (Gutierrez) Laird
November 8, 2017
Learning of your loss reminds us of all the good times we spent at the Muni Pool,and Swim team, mutual friends from North Park, and Mission Hills. My old friend Dennis and not to mention the laughs I had with the Patriarch of the family, Jerome O'Connor while working construction on his Hotel in downtown San Diego. Thanks for all the special memories you left all of us Pat. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Peggy Stanton
November 8, 2017
I was very saddened to learn about Patrick's passing. He was a smart, funny, caring, and generous person who will be dearly missed. My heart goes out to the O'Connor family.
Jamie Bliss
November 8, 2017
Patricia, my heart goes out to you, as you must be truly heart broken to lose the love of your life. You experienced so many beautiful times together building your lives into one that i know that Pat will always be with you.
Anthony & Leo Casias
November 7, 2017
Pat, it has been an honor to have known you. You treated all of your friends with respect and a caring/warmth that made everyone feel special. You were never judgmental, always greeting us with your great smile! Patricia, condolences to you and your family. We have know you two for over 40 years and will cherish the memories. Pat R.I.P., you were one class act!
Rosemary Greene
November 7, 2017
Patrick was one of those men that I thought would be around forever. He had a big presence and a strong voice. I was shocked to read of his passing and am very sorry to the family for their loss. Its a sad time. Take care
John Nygaard
November 7, 2017
I had the privelege of meeting Pat O'Conner in Julian thru Kirby,and ended up getting to work for him at his place in Julian,and then also in San Diego after that. I actually looked forward to going to work. He would buy us breakfast,and then many times he would buy us a health drink at the juice bar. Over the years he was not just a guy I worked for but a dear friend,and I know my work buddies felt the same. I feel priveleged and blessed to have known him,I will miss him greatly. Best wishes and condolonces to his family
John Doih
November 7, 2017
Pat, from Old Mission to the O'kona and on and on .Its been a great ride. You will be sorely missed. See you on the other side.
Al Hass
November 7, 2017
"OC" my friend Rest in peace.
Rebecca Heyl
November 7, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Steve Aldridge
November 7, 2017
Sorry to hear of Pat's passing......He was just an all around good guy, and always good for a laugh.
Augie Becker
November 7, 2017
Condolences to you Patricia and all the O'Connor family. May the memories bring you some comfort at this trying time. We love you, stay strong.
Betsy Bogle
November 6, 2017
Deepest sympathies or heart felt condolences just doesn't do it. Prayers for comfort and peace for all the family. Pat was always so good to me whenever our paths crossed and always generous. Sleep in Heavenly Peace friend.
Ronald Landweer
November 6, 2017
Rest In Peace.
November 6, 2017
I am sorry to hear about your loss.
Susan Lehman
dickie mansfield
November 6, 2017
Rest in peace old friend
Candy Elson
November 5, 2017
Pat, I'm so sorry to hear about Patrick's passing. I did not know him but am moved by reading the obituary and tributes from friends and family. I am thinking of you. Candy
Steven Quinn
November 5, 2017
Wether working for Patrick or playing, it was always an uplifting experience! I loved that guy!
Steve Quinn - OTMC 1977-1988
Denny Berg
November 5, 2017
A real MAN!! With much respect.
Denny Berg
Denny Berg
November 5, 2017
A true MAN! Much respect
Denny Berg
Frank Baker
November 5, 2017
PJ, I was privileged to know you and even prouder to be considered your friend. Lifeguarding with you made that job even more special. Your humor and upbeat personality was always on. I like so many others will keep your memory alive.
Tom Kelly
November 5, 2017
I will always remember Whispers and the good times we had together on the lifeguard service, playing college football and attending USD. You will always be fondly remembered as a good friend and buddy. Rest In Peace.
Tom Kelly
November 5, 2017
Weather working for Patrick or playing, it was always an uplifting experience. I loved that guy!
Steve Quinn, OTMC 1977-1988
November 5, 2017
PAT:
YOU HAVE BEEN A GOOD FRIEND FOR YEARS AS A FELLOW SAINTSMAN, YOU WERE A GOOD INSPIRATION TO ALL OF US AROUND YOU, YOU WILL BE MISSED , WITH YOUR JOVIAL PERSONALITY, BEEN MY PLEASURE KNOWING YOU
HARVEY OSINSKI
Bob Mulrooney
November 5, 2017
Rest in peace, P.J.
Molly Eckenrod
November 5, 2017
My prayers today are for Pat and his family.
Bob Mulrooney
November 5, 2017
Rest in peace, P.J.
November 5, 2017
Pat was a great and everyone who knew him had a great time when he was around. He will be missed by everyone. God Bless Pat and everyone in his family.
Andy Asaro
John Greenwell
November 5, 2017
Rest in Peace old friend.
Jennifer
November 5, 2017
Patrick had a magnetic personality that will be truly missed. I was blessed to have been his daughter-in-law and my kids will always have fond memories of their Poppy. God bless you Pat. We love you.
mike schaefer
November 5, 2017
Met Pat at Kelly's pub in Old town, everyone in his family starting with pop and mom, gave their all to making us a better community with public service. Maureen's service on the Council, and as Mayor, served us well; she at 25, beating me at 27. Legacy we cherish.
November 5, 2017
A strong man in the ocean, and a strong man in life. Glad to have known you. R.I.P.
Don Mellon
Charlie Glazener
November 5, 2017
I have fond memories of Pat Lifeguarding at San Juan St. in Mission Beach. My mother always knew we were safe and we did too.
Elmer Walker
November 5, 2017
You will be missed by all your Linda Vista friends.
Terry Fox
November 5, 2017
Pat had a larger than life personality. It was a pleasure to have known him. He will be greatly missed. Condolences to Patricia and all the O'Connor family.
Nancy Gagliardo Balestreri
November 4, 2017
I was saddened to hear of Pat's passing. He was always kind and generous. He was never short on laughter, and always had a fun story to share.
My thoughts and prayers to the O'Connor family. May you find strength in your faith, and peace as you grieve.
GOD Bless
November 4, 2017
I will never forget Patrick. I met him at the Lamplighter many years ago and will always remember his storytelling, his generosity and him calling me Ms Juli. I was shocked to hear about his passing as I saw him recently at Triple A- You will always be a reminder of those special days Patrick with Neil, Robbie, Bobby Trash and Phil. God Bless the family.
Donnis Eninger Stugart
November 4, 2017
My heart breaks to hear of Pat's passing. He was a very generous man and so fun to be with . . . I always enjoyed hearing him tell a story. He will be missed. My prayers are with the family.
Thomas Corona
November 4, 2017
I got to know Pat in the late 70's. I loved being around him.He always had great stories and was alot of fun to be around. He treated his friends great and you could see how much he cared about them.He'll be missed by many, God Bless and Rest In Peace Mr.Pat O'Connor.
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