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Richard Scharfenberg Obituary

Scharfenberg, Richard G. TEMECULA -- Richard Gordon Scharfenberg, 75, beloved husband and best friend of Judy Crisler Scharfenberg for 42 years, slipped into the arms of Jesus, surrounded by his wife and children, the ones he loved, laughed with and prayed for, on May 19, 2013. He was predeceased by his parents, Gordon and Margaret Scharfenberg. Richard is survived by his wife, Judy; two sons, David and Andrew Scharfenberg; four daughters, Melissa Vanderburg, Jennifer Brees, Sarah Tolson and Amy Scharfenberg; fourteen grandchildren; two sisters, Carol Moore and Judy Jones; and one brother, David Scharfenberg; along with many nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, June 1st, 2013, at 10:30 a.m., at Rancho Baptist Church, 29975 Santiago Road, Temecula, CA. "On Christ the Solid Rock I stand, all other ground is sinking sand."

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune from May 30 to Jun. 5, 2013.

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Judy and Corky Palmer, Mesa AZ

June 1, 2021

Dear Judy and Family - You only have to meet Richard once to know his love for God and family and others. May you find the peace he so much would want you to have during this time of loss. Keep your eyes on Jesus and He will lead you.

Amy Scharfenberg

June 24, 2013

Dad, it's been a little more than a month since you left to be with Jesus. I miss you so much but I'm so happy you're whole. Something reminds me of you everyday. I wish you could be here with us forever, but I'll just have to wait and dream of the day when we're all reunited. Love you Papa Scharf.

Corky and Judy Palmer

June 8, 2013

Dearest Judy-Extending our sincere sympathy and friendship to you and your family.

Janet Crisler

June 4, 2013

My deepest sympathy goes to your family for the loss of Richard. I know it is hard to bear, but he is at peace, and more than likely, chatting with Dave and maybe playing cards!! We still have the beautiful covered bridge picture he made after going to see the bridges here in the parks of Cleveland. All our love to you all! Janet, Michelle and Danielle

June 3, 2013

We send our love, prayers, and gratitude for your love and testimony in our lives.You both are such an example of what the love of Christ is
all about.
Remembering your precious family today.

Love in Him,
Manning and Darlene

Stephen Sammons

June 3, 2013

Dear Judy and family,
Thank you for the testimony of your lives together as a couple and for your children. What a blessing to know they are following Jesus, as they follow your example. May God continue to show His lovingkindness to thousands (through each generation), to those who love God and keep His commandments (Deut. 5:9). I thank God for Richard's commitment to follow after God to the very end (my Dad, too). "How blessed is the man whose strength is in You, who set their heart on pilrimage to Zion." Psalm 84:5 God bless you all. Love, Steve & Monica Sammons

June 1, 2013

Judy, I didn't really know Richard however, all those years ago he welcomed me in your home when I was a lost young girl, no questions, no judgement, which I guess was what I needed at the time. Now all these years later I see all the wonderful heartfelt sentiments from your family and extended family and am sorry that we weren't closer and able to see each other more. You are truly the strongest woman I know to have so lovingly cared for him and accomplished what you have. God Be With You. Love, Cheryl

Kat Dunkle

June 1, 2013

"There will be no more death, no more sorrow, no more tears, for all things from the past shall become new" (Revelations). Richard has the peace of knowing you and his wonderful family will be comforted by Jesus Christ. It just takes time.
Loving you
Kat

Debra Biswell

June 1, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Richard at Ketema and found him to be a very kind and soft spoken man.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. God's Blessings..

Terry Garrett

June 1, 2013

Dear Judy,
We have fond memories of you, Richard and family at Shadow Mountain Church and our friendship at Cajon Valley School District. You are both such a testimony of God's love & grace that fills your lives. Richard will be missed.
Praying for you, Judy.

Love, Terry & Allen Garrett

June 1, 2013

Dear Judy and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have been such a wonderful example of a loving wife -- you and Richard are a beautiful example of what marriage is all about. Our love to you,
Bob and Jennie Gillespie

Polly Hubbell

June 1, 2013

Richard was a kind and gentle man. I will always think of him as a special nephew. Love, Aunt Polly

I LOVE YOU MY SISTER AND ARE THE ROCK THAT KEEPS US GOING

JERRY & JESSI PROSS

June 1, 2013

A LOVE LIKE HIS WILL BE FOREVER

May 31, 2013

Judy, Melissa and family, your family radiates the joy of the Lord despite adversity. Thank you for your testimony of God's faithfulness in your lives. Ive only known your family since coming to RBC but it has been a pleasure and joy to consider you all friends. Blessings, Debbie Monroe & family

Tom and Grace Manning

May 31, 2013

Dear Judy,

We are so sorry for your loss. Even as we are, seeing the picture of you and Richard brought back so MANY wonderful memories that we broke out is thankful praise to our gracious Lord! We're praying for you and your family. I His love, Tom and Grace

Sharon Jonews

May 31, 2013

Judy I want you to know that I have a heavy heart for you and the family. Please excuse me that I will not he able to attend the service. My heart and prayers surround you all. May our Lord Jesus Christ continue to bring you comfort and the knowledge that you will be together again. God be with you at this time and forever. Sharon J.

Randi Wise

May 31, 2013

Thank you, Judy & Richard, for being a beautiful, godly example to me of what Husband and Wife should look like.

Ann Bishop

May 31, 2013

Train up a child in the way he should go and he will not depart from it.
I met Richards daughter, Melissa, in 8th grade. She was a reflection of her parents and the Lord. She invited me into her home, church, and Bible study group. As a result of this family, and their sincere love, I accepted Christ as my personal savior.
I will never forget Melissa and her family. May they take comfort in knowing that they are a wonderful example of the Lord Jesus. Richard, well done thou good and faithful servant.

May 31, 2013

What a dear godly man and such a loving smile would come to his face! Those are our memories of Richard. Looking forward to our heavenly greeting with our Savior! Love, In the LAMB, Steve and Sharon Phillips, El Cajon, Ca.

Jack Turok

May 31, 2013

I remember Richard through his participation in Prayer Partners at SMCC a number of years ago. He was a wonderful brother in the LORD.

John and Janet Yates

May 31, 2013

Dear Judy, What a wonderful legacy Richard has left. A person who loved the Lord and his family. He will be greatly missed.

John Bradley

May 31, 2013

See you on the other side. john &Liz

William and Jill Gentry and family

May 31, 2013

Your family has been such a Blessing to us, your love and light for Christ just shines from all of you. I am confident we will all see each other again one day - and what a glorious day that will be! Love and prayers for all of you during this time.

Dawn Wilson

May 30, 2013

So many thoughts come to mind - sweet memories of a man who loved God and family and was faithful to the end. And now we all know where he is - home in heaven, waiting for us. We know we will see him again. Bob and I send our love and prayers for all the family - for God's rich grace and wonderful peace.

Jeanne and Tom Karras

May 30, 2013

Dear Judy and Family
Richard was such an inspiration when we first met both of you in Bible study in Alpine. I remember being impressed with his knowledge of scripture. May he rest in Jesus.
Our love and sympathy to you.

Jim & Danyce Gustafson

May 30, 2013

What a blessing to have a father like that. You will miss him, but will see him one day in glory. Blessings from above.

Steven Fay

May 30, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. We were co-workers for several years at Ketema and found Richard to be an inspiration in his Christian walk. He is truly in the arms of our Savior.

Virginia Jones

May 30, 2013

Richard, we will miss you, you blessed our lives, I love thinking of you enjoying being in the presence of your Lord worshiping in Spirit and in Truth, in no more pain or sorrow. You know your family and church family will look after your wonderful wife, until we meet again!!!!

Howie Klein

May 30, 2013

Dear Scharfenberg family,

I had the privilege of knowing your dad, grandpa, husband over the last few years and enjoyed the opportunities we had to talk. He and I would laugh about whether or not I should help him hide around church to see if Judy could find him. Most of all, he was a kind and loving man who asked for little and wanted to do whatever he could. I am grateful for the opportunity to call him a friend.

sue yeager nee morrison

May 30, 2013

dear Carol, sad to hear about your brother and his family. god bless

sue yeager(nee morrison) class of 57

Robert and Marion Rothenbuhler

May 30, 2013

Our sympathy is with you in this your time of grieving.

Ron & Lois Edilson

May 30, 2013

Richard made the world a better place because of his unwavering love for his
Savior, Jesus Christ.

Rachel's Wedding Dec. 2012.

Helen Aardsma

May 30, 2013

Dear Friends, We have such wonderful memories of Richard. He was a humble and kind man with a sweet love for children. We so enjoyed him being a part of our Family Home Fellowship in Lakeside, CA! Judy, you have been a wonderful helper to Richard all these years and you will receive your reward in heaven someday. It is wonderful to know we will all meet together around the throne of Jesus, and what fellowship we will have together there! You have a wonderful family, Judy! Til me meet, Dr. and Mrs. Gerald Aardsma and family.

Kathie Perdue

May 30, 2013

Richard was a wonderful, and dedicated Christian,loving father and husband. I remember how quiet he was until you got to know him. He will be truly missed.

Judy

May 30, 2013

I will meet you on that beautiful shore, my darling.

Dave & Barbara Rochester

May 30, 2013

Be assured of our prayers for God's comfort for your family, Judy.

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