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OWENS, THOMAS WARREN Sept. 12, 1961 to April 25, 2008 It is with great sorrow that his family announces Thom's passing. He spent his final days surrounded by family and friends from all over the country. Thom grew up in Pacific Beach and spent summers in Denmark with his sister. Thom was very proud of his Danish and Dutch heritage. He wore lederhosen to his first day of kindergarten at Kate Sessions Elementary but survived that experience to become a quintessential California surfer and a baseball player at Mission Bay High School. Thom's personality was a one-of-a-kind blend of laid-back surfer dude, career-driven filmmaker, and dedicated family man all tied together with old world graciousness and warmth. Thom attended San Francisco State, pursuing his passion for filmmaking and attended USC film school. He became a cinematographer and enjoyed a long career with NFL films. He worked on many movies, among them The Replacements, Traffic, The Scorpion King, Dodgeball, The Longest Yard, Fun with Dick and Jane, Friday Night Lights, Transformers, and Death Sentence. His exuberance for his work was a hallmark of Thom's personality. He especially enjoyed the camaraderie and mentoring relationships he found on film sets. Thom met the love of his life, Christie Dotson, in 1979. They were married in 1987 and have two beautiful daughters, Annelise, 18, and Carolyn, 13. The Owens family lives in Scripps Ranch, and Thom was involved in all the activities in which his daughters participated. He was a presence on the softball field whenever his filming schedule permitted and was quick to help all the players on the team, not just his daughters, making him a favorite among parents and players alike. Carrie followed in her Dad's footsteps to become an all-star catcher, a source of much pride and father-daughter bonding time. Thom and Carrie were a familiar sight at The Batter's Box. Thom also delighted in watching Annie play volleyball and, in recent months, helping Annie choose and get accepted by the perfect college was a major source of joy for both of them. Thom and Christie worked as a wonderful team all these years, with Christie holding down the home front while Thom worked on movie sets all over the country. They treasured the extended time they got to spend as a couple during filming breaks. They made the most of the time they had after Thom became ill, supporting and loving each other in a way that many people never get to experience even if they are privileged to have more time together than Thom and Christie were permitted. Thom's parents, John H. Owens, Colonel USAF Retired, and Agnete Owens predeceased him. Survivors include his wife, Christie, and daughters, Annelise, and Carolyn Owens; siblings Susse Hughes and Carsten Owens; nephew Tony Owens; and in-laws Leroy Dotson, Carol Dotson, Wendy Dotson, and Darryl, Karen, Seth and Chancel Dotson. Family and friends too numerous to list will miss Thom and support his family in his absence. The family would like to express their appreciation to the Dr. Pushpundu Banerjee and his professional staff, especially the wonderful nurses who provided excellent and loving care, and to San Diego Hospice (www.sdhospice.org). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the hospice program or to the Annelise and Carrie Owens education fund (account number 3403112662). Checks may be mailed directly to Washington Mutual bank at 9994 Scripps Ranch Blvd., San Diego, CA 92131 or in care of D. Ouellette at 11175 Negley Ave. San Diego, CA 92131. A celebration of Thom's life will be held on Monday, May 5, 2008, from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., beginning with a memorial service and followed by a reception, at The Admiral Kidd Club at NTC, Harbor Drive and Laning Road, San Diego, CA 92133.

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on May 2, 2008.

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Dora Hopkins

December 13, 2016

Dear Owens family. I can't begin to tell you how inspiring Thom has been to my career and my life. He came in at the last minute to teach at San Diego City College for one semester. I was lucky enough to spend that semester learning from him. Unexpectedly, I got a call from his company at Four Square Productions offering me an internship when the semester ended and I was thriller to get the chance to work with him in the field. He encouraged me to become the filmmaker I am today. He talked about his family so often. I remember the day he told me he was taking his daughter to her first concert to see Hootie and the Blowfish. He was so proud of all of you. I wanted to find him to thank him for believing in me, so I will extend my thanks to you for sharing him. He was a great teacher, a true friend and a loving person.

Mark Satuloff

May 31, 2008

I met Tom in '87 and from the first moment I knew we would always be friends. I had the opportunity to work and travel with him many times over the years. He was as much fun after the gig as he was on the set. A truly talented guy who loved life, dreamt big and always challenged himself to be better everyday. I never met anyone who had a bad word to say about him and I know I speak for anyone who knew him when I say he will be missed more than he ever would have imagined.

Jim Teiper

May 27, 2008

Dear Owens Family:

To leave behind the legacy of love that Thom did is all one could hope for.
You are each special and blessed as am I to have known him.

I know he's smiling where he's at now.

That's a wrap Thom- until we see you there...

Marcy Madden

May 27, 2008

I add my love and blessings here to the family.

Thom had a very special ability to be a friend and brother, while never losing his seat of authority as a director and mentor. His love for and pride in his family was worn on his sleeve. His humor and laughter were always his calling card. Thom, we will remember you always and hold you dear. You made such a contribution to this earth, and I have no doubt your great soul will continue to do so!

Sarah Archer

May 23, 2008

I really only spent time with Thom once--Christie had given him a gift certificate for a massage from me. He was such a friendly, energetic guy, but I remember thinking "shoot--this guy has such a big, solid build I feel like I'm really not able to get in there and work out any of the knots". He was very nice about the massage, but I had that sinking feeling that I hadn't really helped him. Afterwards he sat in my living room and talked with my husband and I, and the whole time I was thinking "What an absolutely fun person! We have got to get together with he and Christie sometime for dinner", because Christie was someone I had always enjoyed so much at work, and she has one of those smiles and warm ways that just make you feel better.
And of course that never happened...Christie and I talked about it at work, but Thom's schedule was always busy, my husband travels a bit also, and time just goes on. I saw Thom on MRE campus a couple of times after that, enough for a quick wave or hello, and he was always bringing Christie a warm drink during a chilly day of noon duty, which made all the rest of us go "Ahh...what a sweet husband!". My joke to my husband after that has been "But THOM brings Christie mochas, don't you want to stop by and bring me one??"
I always enjoyed hearing from Christie about Thom's recent adventures and the locations and people he was working with. I was so saddened when she told me of his illness when school started last fall, but of course still was hopeful he would be okay.
Attending his service really made me realize what a truly incredible man he was to so many countless people throughout his entire life. None of that makes up for losing him, but he has certainly been an inspiration to so many, and has left such a legacy of love for his family. My heart and thoughts are with Christie and their girls daily.

Suzie Honeycutt

May 16, 2008

I just heard the news last night and was so deeply saddened. Our families entire hearts and prayers are with all of you right now. Tom was an incredible man with a giant heart....he will be missed by many

Jim Hancock

May 14, 2008

I first met Thom when I was building the first edit bay at FourSquare in National City. Later, after the move to Kearny Mesa, Thom decided to go freelance and I had fun joking with him about all the "lean" times. We had some great talks about it and I was sure he would do really great as a freelancer in the film/TV business. I remember him as a hard working, but fun loving guy. You could always trust that any project would go well with him working on it. I'm so sorry to see Thom's career and life cut short because of his illness. He will always be remembered in the San Diego film/television community!!!

Michael Miller

May 10, 2008

Only having met Thom one time- I could see a very determined, warm, friendly, and loving person that couldn't wait to get "out in the field again" to start filming. By reading the other messages, it sounds like Thom was a very dedicated husband and Dad. My condolences go out to the Owens family.

Jordan Cushing

May 9, 2008

I had the pleasure of working for Thom on a film in Toronto and am very sad to hear the news of his passing. He made a wonderful impression on me with his warmth, calm demeanour and remarkable ability. In a short time, I learned how big a heart Thom had. His kindness to all those around him created an instant atmosphere of trust and respect. Reading these messages I am reminded of how he often spoke of home and family with pride and affection. The world of movie making is certainly a poorer place for this loss. My sincerest condolences to his family and close friends.

John DeBello

May 7, 2008

I had the pleasure to know Thom for more than 20 years. His integrity, work ethic, and pure passion for life was ever present and always inspiring. The man will be missed; the memories will remain.

Michael Finn

May 6, 2008

Thom was one of the most genuine human beings I ever knew. Kind, funny, talented and caring. His love for life and the imprint this big hearted man made on me will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my friend.

Cat Sautter

May 6, 2008

Sorry to hear of the loss of such a genuine nice man. Although it's been years since we worked together in San Diego I will always have very fond memories of Thom.

Jake Tison

May 5, 2008

What little time I got to spend with Thom was more than enough to remember him forever. Thanks for being so kind.

Tracy Wilson

May 5, 2008

I cannot even to begin to imagine your pain and sorrow over losing Thom. He was such a wonderful man. Wonderful husband, father, coach and neighbor. I am so terribly sad for you all.

Nancy Cheshire Willsie

May 5, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Scott Madden

May 5, 2008

There was never a man like Thom... to pick my fondest memory would be tough, but the one that defines his passion, wit, skill and uniqueness is one where he was on the studio floor directing one project while I was up stairs editing another for him. I was at a place where I couldn't go any further without his input, and knowing that he was up to his eyeballs on the floor with a project at warp speed, I wandered into the mayhem. He was, as expected, shouting a zillion directions at once as the crew struck from one shot and prepared for another, including (seemingly) ignoring the producer's hand wringing and pleading that they were already two hours behind, while fielding another million questions to keep the production moving. As a fellow director, I knew that this critical time is not the the time to add another question onto the camel's back. I decided to come back later rather than be a part of his problem - but he saw me and asked me "what's up, Scooter?" Caught I knew that my question should've been the furthest thing from his mind, I reluctantly answered "Well, are you ready for a non-sequitur?" and without missing a beat he answered, "How did those dwarves get in here?" And went right on with his directing... It took me about 2 hours to stop laughing. And that was the way we would great each other for then on. Thom. Maybe know you know. Miss you Brother.

Bob Sly

May 5, 2008

Every moment spent with Thom Owens was a grand part of life. He was truly one-of-a-kind - a uniquely driven and passionate person, a tremendous family man, a genuine friend. This powerful energy will live on forever, in all of us.

Thom captures a classic scene at the end of FNL

May 4, 2008

Thom w/ Bill McConnell Sr, Bob Scott & Mark Santoni

May 4, 2008

Thom at Ready on Friday Night Lights

May 4, 2008

Sean Blodgett

May 4, 2008

I met Thom when I worked with him on a series of Hewlett Packard Industrial films. I remember I showed up on the set and I was rather sick and I knew we had a lot of work to get through. From the moment I met Thom, I knew I was in good hands and he was going to help us get through. Every time we did a project together he always had such a gentle, creative, fun, spirit, and he knew how to get the work done while creating a relaxed and free environment in which to work. He is one of the greatest directors I have ever had the privilege to work with and I consider myself lucky to have known him. He was a bright shining light in this world and in this business and his spirit will be missed. I pray God's blessings and comfort for his family.

Thom on FNL with Billy McConnell Jr & Bob Scott

Bob Scott

May 4, 2008

I knew Thom Owens in many ways. One way was as a Cinematographer.
He was part of a very small and elite group of men who could shoot sports and action better than anyone else on the planet. We all know his stats. From decades with NFL Films to major motion pictures. He had an uncanny ability to not only keep any moving object in his frame - regardless of speed or cadence - but he could also put it exactly where you wanted it in the frame. You want to follow a rocket fired off the top of a building in a close-up as it hits a car and explodes and then whip around and land on a extreme close-up of the lead actor - all in one shot? - OK! - 1st take Thom nails it - perfect - moving on!! I've been in many video villages where Thom's shot would come up and we'd watch this balletic slow motion master piece where he'd capture 5 vital story points all in a six second football play. Veteran Hollywood operators and directors would just shake their heads and say 'Wow - how do you do that?" Thom's abilities were only overshadowed by is leadership and passion for his camera team. If you were lucky enough to be apart of his crew - you became a brother and apart of his life. Thom was a 'Navy Seal' of Cinematographers - he wasn't just good - or great - he was uniquely God gifted.

I also knew Thom as a friend. I can't tell you the number of times on some movie, in some city that we sat in a restaurant and had a steak and a beer together.
The routine was always the same. The first ten minutes we'd talk about work. Then the next hour and a half we'd talk about our families. We had so much in common. We both have incredibly courageous and loving wives who understand us and this business and we wonder why we're so blessed. We both have two incredible kids - and dogs! When Thom would talk about his family he'd get this signature T.O. look on his face - it could only be arbitrated to incredible amounts of pride. He'd talk about Annie doing this at school or Carrie doing that behind the plate. All the time you could tell all he wanted to do was jump on a plane and fly home to give his family huge hugs. It is through the memories of those special conversations that Thom and I had over the past fifteen years that I discovered I will always and forever remember Thom, as one thing - a Dad! Not a father - but a fun and loving Dad. If you are someone who is lucky enough to have that same title - you know that on any day - at any time - that name can be shouted out in your home. Sometimes 20-25 times a day. It can be anything form a 'hey dad!' to a 'Dad, can I talk to you' or even a 'I love you dad' I know with all my heart that every time Thom heard that word from Carrie & Annie he felt loved and blessed. We too feel blessed to call Christie and the girls our friends. I know that none of us can imagine their loss but I also know they will continue to use the word Dad often and fondly in their home. And may it forever bring them peace and comfort. For Thom had many talents and gifts but none greater than being a friend, husband - and DAD!

I love you Bro -
Bob

Chris Dahl

May 4, 2008

Thom and I became friends in 6th grade at Kate Sessions Elementary School. Over the years we were also class mates, team mates, band mates, co-workers and surfing buddies. I loved him like a brother and I'm a better person for having known him. My heart goes out to his family. Thom was a unique individual and he will be missed by all who knew him.

Larry Cecil

May 4, 2008

The fall of 1975 we met at PB Jr. High and we remained great friends ever since. I could fill 10 of these guest books with memories of Thom. And I've been blessed to know his wife and daughters as well. Thom was like the brother I never had and our friendship never diminished. My life will not be the same without him. Aloha, bro - I love you.

Glenn Morgan

May 4, 2008

I only knew Thom for a year or two, but I will always treasure our conversations out in the water at 11th Street. He clearly loved his family and spoke proudly of Annelise and Carrie, especially about his hopes and dreams for them to be happy. I remember his determination, when he got the bad news, to fight the cancer. I guess it's appropriate to say it was so unfair that he was taken from us, but I, for one, am grateful that I had the opportunity to know him, if only for a short while. I've been surfing 11th Street for twenty years, and since a little kid I always tried to remember to say a short prayer before I get in the water--not for my own safety, but for the health and well-being of those in the water around me. In the months leading up to his death, Thom put a name and face to that prayer, and he also taught me the meaning of truly unconditional love. Now I feel like whenever I go out in the water, I'll have him with me, but I'll miss his laugh and his smile. Or, as Hamlet said it more eloquently, "He was a man, take him for all in all, I shall not look upon his like again."

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Doug Coffland

May 3, 2008

Thom was one of the best students and friends anyone can have. He made me laugh too many times to remember. Always full of joy, never to busy to help, that is Thom's legacy. He will be missed by all. Tears, prayers and thoughts to Christy and the kids.

Joe Phelps

May 3, 2008

I only briefly got to know Thom (when he was nice enough to film our wedding in 1996), but I wish I could have known him better. Thom's outstanding personal qualities were many and obvious.

Judy Ring-Gregorich

May 2, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Owens family. I remember Tom from Jr and Sr high school and that he was such a nice guy. He was far too young and taken much too early.

Patty Bevil

May 2, 2008

My love goes out to Christie and her two beautiful daughters at this time of great sorrow. Thom was a wonderful friend, husband and father. We will miss his unique sense of humor.

Mary Pat Saffel

May 2, 2008

Thom was a wonderful man. He will truly be missed by family and friends.

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